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freakynit 11 hours ago

Indian here (~15+ years in tech). I've seen this behavior a lot, and unfortunately, I did some of this myself earlier in my career.

Based on my own experience, here are a few reasons (could be a lot more):

1. Unlike most developed countries, in India (and many other develping countries), people in authority are expected to be respected unconditinally(almost). Questioning a manager, teacher, or senior is often seen as disrespect or incompetence. So, instead of asking for clarification, many people just "do something" and hope it is acceptable. You can think of this as a lighter version of Japanese office culture, but not limited to office... it's kind of everywhere in society.

2. Our education system mainly rewards results, not how good or well-thought-out the results are. Sure, better answers get more marks, but the gap between "okay" and "excellent" is usually not emphasized much. This comes from scale problems (huge number of students), very low median income (~$2400/year), and poorly trained teachers, especially outside big cities. Many teachers themselves memorize answers and expect matching output from students. This is slowly improving, but the damage is already there.

3. Pay in India is still severely (serioualy low, with 12-14+ hour work days, even more than 996 culture of China) low for most people, and the job market is extremely competitive. For many students and juniors, having a long list of "projects", PRs, or known names on their resume most often the only way to stand out. Quantity often wins over quality. With LLMs, this problem just got amplified.

Advice: If you want better results from Indian engineers(or designers or anyone else really), especially juniors (speaking as of now, things might change in near future), try to reduce the "authority" gap early on. Make it clear you are approachable and that asking questions is expected. For the first few weeks, work closely with them in the style you want them to follow.. they usually adapt very fast once they feel safe to do so.

palmotea 9 hours ago | parent | next [-]

> 1. Unlike most developed countries, in India (and many other develping countries), people in authority are expected to be respected unconditinally(almost). Questioning a manager, teacher, or senior is often seen as disrespect or incompetence. So, instead of asking for clarification, many people just "do something" and hope it is acceptable. You can think of this as a lighter version of Japanese office culture, but not limited to office... it's kind of everywhere in society.

Way back, when I first started working with Indian offshore teams, the contracting company at the time had a kind of intercultural training that addressed that issue.

> Advice: If you want better results from Indian engineers(or designers or anyone else really), especially juniors (speaking as of now, things might change in near future), try to reduce the "authority" gap early on. Make it clear you are approachable and that asking questions is expected. For the first few weeks, work closely with them in the style you want them to follow.. they usually adapt very fast once they feel safe to do so.

That's exactly the advice they gave. They advised was to try to make your relationships and interactions as peer-like as possible. The more "authority" is present in the relationship, the more communication breaks down in the way you describe.

unsupp0rted 8 hours ago | parent [-]

To what degree did this change the results?

koliber 10 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I've seen an interesting behavior in India. If I ask someone on the street for directions, they will always give me an answer, even if they don't know. If they don't know, they'll make something up.

This was strange. I asked a lot of Indian people about it and they said that it has to do with "saving face". Saying "I don't know" is a disgraceful thing. So if someone does not know the answer, they make something up instead.

Have you seen this?

This behavior appears in software projects as well. It's difficult to work like this.

wolvoleo 9 hours ago | parent | next [-]

No, but I have noticed that somehow it's hard for them to say "no". This is impolite apparently. So you ask: "Can you do this before friday" and they say yes and then don't do it at all. Which of course is a lot less polite and causes a lot of friction.

However this was a thing 10-15 years ago. Lately I've not seen that.

overfeed 8 hours ago | parent | next [-]

> Which of course is a lot less polite and causes a lot of friction.

Most cultures have this, but it goes mostly unnoticed from the inside because one can read between the lines. "How are you?" can be asked just to be polite, and can cause friction when answered truthfully (rather than just politely, as the cultural dance requires). An Eastern European may not appreciate the insincerity of such a question.

lostlogin 8 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Great example.

I work in a radiology practice and greet patients regularly.

99% of them say the are good/great etc.

It’s quite a striking response when they are limping, bandaged and on crutches.

lokar 7 hours ago | parent | next [-]

I sometimes answer “each day better then the next”, no one seems to notice.

PaulDavisThe1st 5 hours ago | parent [-]

I use "about the same", thanks to a friend. I love the reactions (from Americans, where everyone is expected is to say "Great" or "Good" or something similarly positive).

lokar 3 hours ago | parent [-]

That's good as well.

I think I actually gave my line in a 1:1 to my manager at a job, they did not pick up on it. I was gone not long after.

aendruk 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I’ve always interpreted that question to mean emotionally. Yes, clearly I’m physically injured, but I still have a positive outlook.

When I do hear people respond in the negative it tends to be an opening up about stress.

0cf8612b2e1e 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Is that just a reflex response though? I would expect people to be more deliberate in their interactions with medical professionals, but I can easily imagine hearing “How are you?” and my brain goes on autopilot.

saghm 6 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Yeah, this is something I had to learn over my teenage/early 20s years. "How are you?" Is often not a question but just a generic greeting like "Hello" or "Nice to meet you". Sometimes it is though, but that's just one of the many examples of unwritten rules about how to tell whether someone literally means what they're saying or if there's a better way to interpret it.

Having only lived in the US, I don't have nearly enough firsthand experience with other cultures for me to be the one to comment on them, but I suspect that every culture has some things like this where the actual intent of the communication isn't direct. I suspect that if people in tech were asked to identify which cultures they considered to be the most direct in their communication, American culture probably wouldn't be ranked first. Generally the stereotypes of other cultures that are perceived as more direct get described in more pejorative terms like "blunt" though.

lostlogin 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

The greeting is generally in the waiting room. I’d do exactly the same if I was them.

anonzzzies 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

At the yearly colonoscopy I say "you can tell me after how I am".

theSuda 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

These days I do a 'eh' and shrug when someone asks a random 'how are you'?

unsupp0rted 7 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

That’s not really an example of cultural lying- that’s an example of a fixed answer to a fixed question.

When somebody sneezes and you say “bless you” you’re not expressing your belief in god, and you’re not lying about one either.

overfeed 6 hours ago | parent | next [-]

> that’s an example of a fixed answer to a fixed question.

That's my whole point! The expected answer seems pretty obvious to you, given the context, doesn't it? Why then are you surprised that a different culture has an equally obvious (to them) fixed answer ("Yes") to any question asked by someone with power/authority to their lesser? Both depend on mutual learned cultural awareness, and can fail spectacularly in cross-cultural contexts.

Edit: my regional favorite is "We should meet for lunch some time" which just means "I'm heading out now", but you have to decode the meaning from the nature of the relationship, passive voice usage, and the lack of temporal specificity.

sowbug 7 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

They're called phatic expressions.

exe34 8 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

similarly, in the west, when your boss takes you to HR for an honest and open discussion, it's not really an honest and open discussion. normies know this instinctively. I didn't.

unsupp0rted 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

No, most cultures don’t have this, unless you measure by biomass.

Some cultures are better than others, where “better” might mean better at doing stuff (no comment on morally/socially)

nout 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

A fairly common conversation starter for eastern europeans is "how are you doing?", "it sucks", "yeah it does, doesn't it?". The American style of being all flowers and butterflies can indeed be perceived as lying.

twodave 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

To be fair we Americans also poke fun at this. Here in the South I usually say, “Can’t complain,” and most people will finish the adage, “and it wouldn’t do any good if you did.”

anonzzzies 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

It is fine if it is not lying but so often you ask how are you and get the flowers and butterflies response but when you sit 10 min more they start explaining how miserable they are: as a Dutchman, I do tend to ask why they said how great and excellent they were just minutes ago. And no, it is not just something you do out of politeness: if you just canned response to one thing, how do I know you don't have canned responses to many more things which are in fact lies at this point in time? I don't want to talk with Zendesk, I want to chat with someone I just met in the pub.

twodave 3 hours ago | parent [-]

It isn’t lying, it is what we consider an appropriate level of sharing. We don’t tend to want to put our burdens on people who may not be interested in hearing it.

mikkupikku 8 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

My experience is the same, to put it charitable a lot of people from that culture are often eager to please. I think about this a lot when I hear about billionaires like Elon Musk wanting more immigration from India specifically. I think this cultural trait often serves them well in western corporate contexts, despite the frustration it causes their coworkers.

flakeoil 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

It's the same in the UK (when it comes to giving directions). Maybe for completely different reasons. I guess they just want to be nice and helpful.

And always with a cheerful: "...you can't miss it."

Yeah, sure.

AndrewKemendo 10 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> I've seen an interesting behavior in India. If I ask someone on the street for directions, they will always give me an answer, even if they don't know. If they don't know, they'll make something up.

Isn’t this the precise failure pattern that everybody shits on LLMs for?

chrisjj 6 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Only on surface. The difference is the LLM doesn't know it doesn't know. An LLM provides the best solition it has regardless of whether that solution is in any way fit for purpose.

DominikPeters 5 hours ago | parent [-]

If you inspect the Chain of Thought summaries, the LLM often knows full well what it is doing.

chrisjj 5 hours ago | parent [-]

That's not knowing. That's just parotting in smaller chunks.

koliber 9 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Yes.

fakedang 8 hours ago | parent [-]

Hence proved

AGI = A Guy/Gal in India

soco 8 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Ah so that's what Anthropic's Amodei meant when saying AGI was attained - they actually reached that guy/gal.

direwolf20 8 hours ago | parent [-]

Perhaps they meant detained.

Nevermark 6 hours ago | parent [-]

Hopefully, retained. But, a tained for sure.

bicepjai 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

This is really funny.

melvinmelih 8 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

--

AndrewKemendo 8 hours ago | parent [-]

Almost like…technology embeds the latent behaviors of the data that produced it!

Imagine that

Someone should really write a paper on that (hint: it’s the entire basis of information theory)

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to11mtm 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> This behavior appears in software projects as well. It's difficult to work like this.

I have seen that across just about every culture in the software engineering world.

And not just in the 'business' itself. I still remember the argument I had with an Infosec guy where he absolutely insisted that every Jeep had AWD or 4WD from the factory, Even naming ones that didn't did nothing until I more or less passively aggressively sent him wikipedia links to a few vehicles.

At which point he proceeded to claim "No I said it was always a standard option" ... To be clear this whole argument started because someone asked why I swore by Subarus and mentioned 'Every US Model but the BRZ has AWD standard' but Heep owners gotta have false pride, idk.

People do weird shit with imposter syndrome sometimes, IDK.

metanonsense 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I’ve seen this with some of my Indian colleagues, though definitely not all. In fact, most are more than eager to disagree with me :D (even though I’m their superior)

mandeepj 6 hours ago | parent [-]

> In fact, most are more than eager to disagree with me :D (even though I’m their superior)

They must have spent a lot of time out of India or they are in senior roles.

Izikiel43 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

So it's like an LLM?

bakugo 9 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> This was strange. I asked a lot of Indian people about it and they said that it has to do with "saving face". Saying "I don't know" is a disgraceful thing.

I've recently learned that this particular type of "saving face" has a name: "izzat". Look that up if you want to know more.

AlanYx 8 hours ago | parent | next [-]

A lot of the stuff written on "izzat" is questionable or wrong, but it is true that India has a collective concept of saving face. This can be an adjustment even if you're used to the East Asian concept of saving face.

0xdeadbeefbabe 7 hours ago | parent [-]

Oh I wonder how dating works.

kylehotchkiss 6 hours ago | parent [-]

... normally? they don't have the same "30% of adults will never marry because of arbitrary bullshit" that modern/western countries have.

bluGill 9 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

First I've heard of izzat...

I'm not sure how to write that better, but the way you worded that made me suspect it was NSFW and I hesitated, but eventually decided I'd risk it. At least everything I found was work safe, and I learned a lot. I encourage everyone else who hasn't heard the word to look it up.

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ilogik 10 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

sounds like an LLM :)

buckle8017 10 hours ago | parent [-]

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ValentineC 9 hours ago | parent [-]

I moderate an airline subreddit, and it's interesting that many of the lazy or entitled-sounding questions (e.g. "can I get compensation for this?") come from people flying to/from Indian cities.

fakedang 8 hours ago | parent [-]

Honestly that's just the massive population talking. There really isn't a "Hindi web" for India unlike for the Chinese, so we all come to roost in the WWW. Hence you'll get bad questions like these but you'll also get YouTube videos on obscure engineering and science topics, which I think is a fair deal.

The Chinese web is on similar lines, although there is a lot more country bashing, especially against Indians and Americans. But nevertheless just the same.

At least none of these come nowhere near to the brainrot that is the Arabic web.

buckle8017 5 hours ago | parent [-]

India is maybe 10% of the English speakers on earth.

It's not the population size that's talking.

projektfu 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

According to Hal Roach, the Irish do this too, because they don't want to disappoint you. I haven't asked for a lot of directions in Ireland, but I can imagine this is true, or that they will just keep you chatting and see if you forget about your question.

eklavya 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Every time I hear any Indian trope, I find it interesting that it's only people in online forum who experience it.

Somehow none of my non/Indian colleagues over the course of more than a decade have faced these ridiculous situations. They must be unlucky.

SauntSolaire 7 hours ago | parent [-]

Many wouldn't be comfortable discussing this with coworkers.

leephillips 9 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I got this so often in every part of the United States that some decades ago I just stopped asking anyone for directions.

koliber 9 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Strange. Never had it happen regularly in the US.

virgil_disgr4ce 9 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

I've never once experienced this nor literally ever heard anyone say someone gave them made-up directions in the US.

The only time I've ever experienced made-up directions were trying to get out of the souk in Marrakech.

lostlogin 8 hours ago | parent | next [-]

> I've never once experienced this nor literally ever heard anyone say someone gave them made-up directions in the US.

Wouldn’t know. After the first two instructions I can never remember what came next.

leephillips 8 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

I was unclear. I’m pretty sure the wrong directions I routinely got in the US (I was born and raised in NYC) were not made up, just wrong.

grugagag 8 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

This reminds me of the time when I got lost when visiting LA about 20 year ago. Asked some guy on the street for help. He gave me directions as he was smirking at me. Turns out he pointed me in the opposite direction from where I was going to and most likely he was just being a dick.

to11mtm 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> Advice: If you want better results from Indian engineers(or designers or anyone else really), especially juniors (speaking as of now, things might change in near future), try to reduce the "authority" gap early on. Make it clear you are approachable and that asking questions is expected. For the first few weeks, work closely with them in the style you want them to follow.. they usually adapt very fast once they feel safe to do so.

Semi related to this, one of the biggest 'breakthroughs' in building the right trust/rapport with an offshore team was sending an email to their leadership making it clear and on the record that "Comments against pull requests should not be used against the employee in reviews, if there is a recurring issue I will discuss it via other channels."

That one email changed PR back-and-forth entirely, cause yeah I guess sometimes they'd get dinged for too many PR comments on some metric. At first their management wasn't thrilled, thankfully there was a good enough improvement in quality and defect rate that in a couple months they were won over.

jgwil2 an hour ago | parent | next [-]

Do you mean that they were dinged if a PR they opened received too many comments? Can you elaborate on how the communication style changed after this? Like they were more willing to seek clarification/discussion?

freakynit 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

I missed adding this to the advice section. But glad you pointed it out and shared your positive experience with it. Thanks..

sersi 9 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> 1. You can think of this as a lighter version of Japanese office culture, but not limited to office... it's kind of everywhere in society.

Having worked in Japan, while there is a strong respect for authority, there's also much less hesitation about asking for clarification. I worked with an Indian offshore team and in a Japanese company and, while there's a lot to dislike in Japanese office culture, this kind of pattern of behaviour doesn't happen.

2 & 3 do make sense though.

I've had mixed result with your advice at the end. I'd say that it worked for about 30% of the offshore engineers I've worked with and indeed I had more success with juniors than with more senior developers.

cdman 5 hours ago | parent | next [-]

I also worked with japanese, including on site in Tokyo and quickly learned that asking "did you understand it?" is useless. I always had to keep in mind to ask "what did you understand?".

vpribish 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

I worked with a lot of Israelis and Eastern Europeans - They's say no and argue even when they agreed :) it was fine.

cebert 11 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> Pay in India is still severely (seriously low, with 12-14+ hour workdays, even more than the 996 culture of China) low for most people.

My employer outsources some work to Indian contractors. I know how much we are paying the contracting firm, which is low. Knowing the firm takes a cut before the contractors are paid, I feel terrible for how little they are compensated. I frequently wonder if we’d get better output if we paid more.

freakynit 11 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Avoid middlemen in India.. sorry for the word, but they are the biggest leechers. We hate them too here.

India is filled with small one-room service-based companies(the middlemens') that hire interns, for ZERO pay, make them work 12-14 hour days under extremely "humiliating" conditions and then when it comes to giving them internship completion certificate, they demand huge sums of money just to release them... think about it.

As for how you are gonna do without the middlemen, I dont have the anwer yet... ideas are welcome.

bluGill 10 hours ago | parent | next [-]

The good engineers in india know their value and get it. My company has offices in india because you have to manage them yourself not use middlemen. You can train the locals to be great managers (at least some).

wages for good people in india are worse similar people in the us, but often high than in europe. But there are other problems with europe and so it can be the better deal.

taude 10 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Responding to you in this thread, because this is the way: the only success I've seen to offshoing to india, is to actually run the office yourself, have an exec over there, manage and control hiring, pay above market rates, etc...

I've been with two companies that have been aquired, and the first thing the PE/New Companies do is aggressive offshoring for cutting costs.

1) worked, because the aquiring company had an established office in Hyderabad, and we flew the tech leads over to the US to spend six weeks embeddeed with the team, etc.

2) the second one failed miserably becasue we had an Exec VP who told our engineers that he was replacing them in India for half the price, and his strategy was to hire a contracting company.... after several months of "contractors" coming and going, someone else in the company realized what needed to happen....

yesb 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> The good engineers in india know their value and get it.

The job market is not that efficient anywhere, especially India. Lots of people work their way up from crappy jobs to good ones, just like in the US.

>My company has offices in india because you have to manage them yourself not use middlemen. You can train the locals to be great managers (at least some).

"some members of this primitive tribe can be taught our sophisticated ways"

The issue with middlemen is they are basically labor arbitrageurs and have an incentive to hire the cheapest people possible and inflate their credentials/abilities. Same thing happens with onshore consulting firms.

>wages for good people in india are worse similar people in the us, but often high than in europe.

"Often higher than Europe" is a stretch. Typical big co with an India office pays maybe 20-30k USD per year for an engineer. And that is a good job relatively speaking. Top tech companies pay more but they also pay more in Europe

com 10 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Could you expand on the other problems with Europe other than hiring and firing laws?

bluGill 9 hours ago | parent [-]

Senior/staff type engineers are not a union position so great people refuse promotions and responsibility because they don't want to leave the union. Thus they won't mentor juniors, and other things that you need great engineers for. (At least that is how the union people I work with in Europe are, there are other unions with different rules)

There is probably more.

forty 2 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Like siblings comments, I would be really interested to know to which country and union you are referring to. In France it's certainly not true (I have a very senior engineering role and I am in a union and it never was an issue, and anyway, the percentage of unionized engineers here is so low that even if that was true, it would hardly be noticeable)

direwolf20 8 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Which country is that in? Can you not offer them better conditions than the union? Are they forced to leave the union or just no longer required to be in it?

com 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Never heard of that, and I've worked in about 7 EU countries...

angra_mainyu 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Never heard of that, nor of a union in tech. What part of Europe?

ragall 8 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

What union ? In which country ?

otikik 8 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Don't apologize for saying "leech", man. That's part of the problem.

__s 10 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Yes, you would (speaking from experience)

kevin_thibedeau 8 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

I worked for a company that created an Indian subsidiary to cut out the middlemen. The results were the same.

conductr 9 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> Make it clear you are approachable and that asking questions is expected. For the first few weeks, work closely with them in the style you want them to follow.. they usually adapt very fast once they feel safe to do so.

Very true. I’ve hired (super cheap) engineering talent and this is the key to getting a project to run the way a westerner expects; where everyone is constantly open to challenging each other, where everyone can bring ideas to the table, and where there’s no such thing as a stupid question. I’ve done this during a big phase of time others locally shunning this huge talent pool as the results were crappy/unpredictable. Even to the point they’ll hire local for 100x the cost. It’s just a management problem though and a pretty simple one at that. The other thing is if you train them in your style, keep using them on the next project if you can. It compounds if you have the ability to work with them over a longer time. You have to be very insistent that you’re not proposing the best solution at expect them as engineers to point out any opportunities for improvement. If something later has to be rebuilt or isn’t working well, sometimes it’s good (if it makes sense, case by case) to do a post mortem and understand why the version 2 wasn’t built during the version 1. I think that helps them really understand it in a concrete way if they’re struggling with it.

In any case, I’d much rather take a budget for 1 local dev and spend it on a whole team of Indians and take on the management burden if it means retaining more equity or profits or building something I otherwise wouldn’t do myself due to scale.

oaiey 10 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Particular topic (1) is also trained in cross cultural trainings.

Another topic is: do not expect a remote dev to pickup ambient knowledge, particular if they are juniors with no life experience. And since outsourcing to India is trying to get the resources for the lowest possible price, the result is: you get them as junior / fake senior / bad senior as you think. Pay better in India, get better people.

htrp 9 hours ago | parent [-]

How do you stop the better people from moving out of India (and/or to another firm) once they have your work exp on their resume?

triceratops 7 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Q: How do you stop anyone from moving to a better company or better-paying role?

A: You don't. Unless there isn't a better company or better-paying role.

If a person is motivated to move out of the country altogether it's got nothing to do with you and there's nothing you can do.

oaiey 8 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

With higher salaries (is happening) and better quality of life (I do not know, do not life there). Within company obviously quality of the culture matters there.

However considering how things are worldwide right now, I think that trend stops soonish.

thtmnisamnstr 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> 1. Unlike most developed countries, in India (and many other develping countries), people in authority are expected to be respected unconditinally(almost). Questioning a manager, teacher, or senior is often seen as disrespect or incompetence. So, instead of asking for clarification, many people just "do something" and hope it is acceptable. You can think of this as a lighter version of Japanese office culture, but not limited to office... it's kind of everywhere in society.

I was a manager at Deloitte in their tech consulting practice. I led fairly large teams of devs based in India. This is very true, and it takes a lot of time and trust-building to overcome. Making Indian devs, especially early-career ones, comfortable enough to oppose something or offer feedback is non-trivial, and often Indian engineering managers make it more difficult. Overcoming cultural hierarchy is hard.

jcims 9 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

As a gent with some years under his belt, I have to humbly admit that it was quite late in my career before I realized how much culture influences how people operate. Two separate incidents with two different cultural contexts brought it to the fore about ten years ago. I sought some advice from a senior exec that I was close with and he just laid it out in very unflinching way. It was just one conversation but it has helped me tremendously in the years since.

lostlogin 8 hours ago | parent [-]

Any chance you could expand that story?

machomaster 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

If you are interested in this cultural topic and how to practically modify your communication, check The Culture Map book.

jcims 7 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

I thought about it when I posted but it felt like an invitation to dunk on the cultures involved. In one case it was a communication pattern that I found to be very unprofessional by an entire team, the other was nearly instant and *intense* conflict between a former direct of mine and their new manager that I got sucked into the middle of.

tribaal 11 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

This is extremely valuable insight for me, a non-Indian manager.

Thanks a lot!

freakynit 11 hours ago | parent [-]

Glad it was of help :)

figassis 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

This is one reason, the other is just fraud. Being from a developing country, I am well aware of the stigma of saying I don't know, which I had to strip out of me as I became an engineer to the point of me being immediately suspicious when someone tells me they know about some moldy complex topic, even if it's in their profession.

The fraud part is that I developing countries, almost all activities that require some skill have lots of people claiming to be experts. 99% of them are lying. You take your car to a shop and they tell you they will solve your problem. With skepticism, (because they asked no clarifying questions) you try to give them some context and they tell you not to worry.

1 day later they tell you parts X, Y and Z need to be replaced, it will just cost $$$. You ask if there is no way the current parts can just be repaired, and they tell you no, they must be replaced.

You ask what was the actual issue, and they tell you the parts are completely damaged, or worn out, need to replace.

Sure, you pay, and they give you the car, works for a few days, maybe week, then breaks down. You plug in a portable OBD scanner and it tells you the exact component they just put in is failing (likely not even compatible with the car).

You give them back the car, tell them since you paid $$$, you will only take the car back once it works perfectly, and you won't pay a cent more.

They then spend the next few days looking for an actual expert, that comes in and repairs the original parts, for $, and they take the "new" ones back to the store and give you your money back.

They don't know anything about cars, they experiment on yours, with your money, by swapping parts. This was easier when cars were less strict with parts.

This is fraud, not face saving, and it's in every developing country.

mindentropy 2 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Perfectly put. Scamming is a cottage industry. No ethics whatsoever.

What I do is I go to the top guy, tell him I need an expert and nothing else. No experimentation whatsoever on my vehicle etc. I pay slightly extra for the troubles. Before I go for repairs I try to learn as much as possible to know what they will screw up next. If you go in as a layman, then it is fraud and incompetence central all the way.

unsupp0rted 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

You’re not allowed to admit it’s fraud. It’s just a cultural difference. You explained it wrong. You didn’t pay enough. You were supposed to try to become their best friend first. Anything not to say “well some cultures just have no problem committing fraud at any opportunity”

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bluecheese452 10 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Alternatively you could hire people from cultures where this crap doesn’t fly.

anonymars 6 hours ago | parent [-]

But that might cost more money! Trust me they'll be able to continue the work while you sleep!

banannaise 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> Advice: If you want better results from Indian engineers(or designers or anyone else really), especially juniors (speaking as of now, things might change in near future), try to reduce the "authority" gap early on. Make it clear you are approachable and that asking questions is expected. For the first few weeks, work closely with them in the style you want them to follow.. they usually adapt very fast once they feel safe to do so.

I've found that this is also true of American engineers, particularly those fresh out of college. So many people have internalized that open curiosity will yield no result at best and direct punishment at worst.

lostlogin 8 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> 996 culture.

I hadn’t heard of this, thanks.

Working 9am to 9pm, 6 days a week.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/996_working_hour_system

freakynit 5 hours ago | parent [-]

Work cultures are brutal in SEA and South Asia countries. And there is no job security, no social security, no labour laws(on paper they are, but, are not applied) and no liveable pay(this is changing though).

blindstitch 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Thanks for all this, what you wrote and the discussion that followed has been genuinely helpful, and I think it might help bridge some cultural divides that I've experienced when working with Indian people.

Another question I'd like to ask of you is, do you see any aspects of the western style of cooperation that are the inverse? i.e. which create divides in which the westerner's ways of working can be the source of conflict?

freakynit 5 hours ago | parent [-]

1. Same here. I too learnt a lot more from the following discussions.

2. None. We absolutely adore the ways westerners work. Your ethics, discipline, hardwork, attention to detail, inventive and creative nature, the support structures, and fair pay (and many more).

Aloha 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Thank you for this cultural explanation - I've experienced the same thing with Japanese co-workers - there is often a "no" but to American ears its so subtle that it often goes in one ear and out the other.

freakynit 5 hours ago | parent [-]

Both the cultures suffer from "a senior is always right" mentality. Therefore, with my juniors, I used to intentionally (sometimes, and mostly during early days of their joinings) make stupid little mistakes (harmless) and used to let those folks figure that out and then appreciate them on catching it. Worked like wonder. Never ever anyone hesitated to discuss anything with me anytime.. even personal issues many times :)

You just have to make it easy for others to do their jobs. Removing barriers, of any kind, helps. This is even more true with juniors.

ponector 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

In my experience working with developers from India, there are two ways:

1. You have no authority and they ignore you. 2. You have authority and they become yes-men.

Real dialogue: - Is it done? - Yes! But not yet.

freakynit 5 hours ago | parent [-]

The sweet spot is being authoritative without being overbearing. When leadership feels supportive rather than controlling, people engage honestly... and that balance comes from experience.

ASalazarMX 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Could this cultural difference explain why they're set up LLMs to do work for them, though? No authority asked them to, but I guess it would look nice in their resume if successful.

freakynit 5 hours ago | parent [-]

Two broad reasons (as far as I can think of):

1. A lot more can be done in a given amount of time. Looks good on resume. Recall that India is still extremely poor (dont get influenced by the GDP numbers.. ) and getting a job as fast as you can after college can make a real difference to your living standards here.

2. Our education system is shit. And so are our teachers(mostly). Meaning, when folks are out of college, they generally are not as competitive as maybe their counterparts from western regions are(not in terms of hardwork, but, knowledge and hands-on tasks). LLM's makes it possible to do complete much more complex work than otherwise was possible at current experience.

Indians are extremely hard-working. The problem is people are extremely poor (~2400 median income... that's per YEAR). Even after adjusting for PPP. this translates to less than 10K USD/YEAR. Now think about living on 10K/year and supporting 5 family members (partner with 4 kids, or parents with 2 siblings).

code_for_monkey 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

my managers are indian, and honestly Im struggling. Do you have any advice? I feel like im not allowed to ask questions, a lot of our processes dont make sense to me.

freakynit 5 hours ago | parent [-]

Not the advice Im proud to give (or anyone should give), but the one that will work: Create dependency on yourself, company-wide, and make sure the boss knows about it. Avoid direct confrontation with your manager.

ErroneousBosh 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> 1. Unlike most developed countries, in India (and many other develping countries), people in authority are expected to be respected unconditinally(almost). Questioning a manager, teacher, or senior is often seen as disrespect or incompetence. So, instead of asking for clarification, many people just "do something" and hope it is acceptable. You can think of this as a lighter version of Japanese office culture, but not limited to office... it's kind of everywhere in society.

Damn me, Scotland is going to be quite the culture shock for you.

moralestapia 10 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Since we are talking about LLMs, what I've noticed about the Indian/Pakistani "LLM" is they follow this way of structuring thoughts:

1. They

2. Always

3. List

4. Things

... and end up with a conclusion/punchline/takeaway.

I always wanted to ask, is that due to training?

I could imagine all schools around there have a specific style, like all their assignments need to follow this general form, and then they just get used to it and it permeates to their everyday life.

robofanatic 10 hours ago | parent | next [-]

I bet you haven't seriously communicated with others in a language that is not native to you. You'll probably end up doing similar things if you have to.

moralestapia 8 hours ago | parent [-]

I am doing that right now.

ragall 8 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

It's due to training (I suspect both OpenAI/Microsoft and Google have been training on their entire corpus of internal comms and technical docs). After almost 10 years in a FAANG I also tend to write like that.

regenschutz 10 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

That's how all LLMs structure content, not just Indian/Pakistani LLMs.

otikik 7 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Well, imagine that you noticed 3 things instead of only one.

1. The first thing

2. The second thing

3. The last thing

Makes perfect sense in that case.

gdilla 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

An Indian person basically is used to not making any decisions for themselves until maybe they're married off (and even then, probably not until age 40). /s