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| 420 points by peykar 7 hours ago | 226 comments |
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| ▲ | projektfu 2 hours ago | parent | next [-] |
| Hallowell and Ratey, who write about ADHD, suggested a new entity for the current world: VAST, the variable attention stimulus trait. It is like ADHD but it is culturally induced and not presumed to be due to an innate deficiency in executive function. "Beyond the sources of biologically based ADHD, there are a lot of people who act as if they have ADHD but on close inspection turn out not to have the diagnosable condition. These are the people who have ADHD-like symptoms caused by the conditions of modern life. Their “ADHD” is a response to the massive increase in stimuli that now bombard our brains and our world.... "Modern life has trained our brains to go faster and faster, to do more and more, to receive and transmit 24/7, and to require constant stimulation—be it from movies, TV, conversation, even news, as well as the minute-to-minute living of our lives. Most of us can go no more than a few seconds without looking for a screen." It is likely to me that different people have different breaking points, and so one person may recognize the introduction of the smartphone or debut of TikTok as the point where they lost the ability to focus, and another may date it to the rise of LLMs. Hallowell, E. M., & Ratey, J. J. (2021). ADHD 2.0: New science and essential strategies for thriving with distraction—from childhood through adulthood. |
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| ▲ | mordae 21 minutes ago | parent | next [-] | | Please also note that ADHD-like symptoms can present from sleep Apnea/UARS-induced sleep deprivation and the probability of having Apnea/UARS rises with age. Smoothly for men and a with a sudden jump after menopause for women. So if you feel like you are getting more ADHD-like issues, do consider a sleep study. Early tells are easy: you often feel like shit in the morning. | | |
| ▲ | Der_Einzige 2 minutes ago | parent [-] | | One of the many reasons why we should air drop GLP-1 over the entire country, like condoms in Bangladesh! |
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| ▲ | rubyfan an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | The VAST thing speaks to me. I am capable of deep focus work but often am subject to constant interruption and multiple concurrent urgent demands. During a work week I get a lot done but often feel pulled in a lot of directions like I imagine ADHD might feel like. During the weekends when I am not occupied with a task I often fall asleep. This happens on the first day or two of vacation also. After a few days my brain acclimates to the pace. | |
| ▲ | amelius an hour ago | parent | prev [-] | | If somebody told me 25 years ago that in the future we all would have a TV on our office desk with 100 channels I would not have believed them. Yet ... the current situation is worse! Thinking of it in terms of mental disorders, I don't think that is going to help much. | | |
| ▲ | stevenwoo 26 minutes ago | parent | next [-] | | We are “Amusing Ourselves to Death”. | | | |
| ▲ | stronglikedan an hour ago | parent | prev [-] | | The current situation was foretold 20 years ago in the prescient documentary named Idiocracy. | | |
| ▲ | afavour an hour ago | parent | next [-] | | I’d argue Idiocracy is actually quite the opposite of what the OP was talking about. It has a mildly eugenics-y vibe where the world is bad because poor, stupid people have poor, stupid kids that outnumber the smart ones. OP is talking about something environmental that can affect anyone. | | |
| ▲ | skinfaxi 3 minutes ago | parent | next [-] | | Isn't is well-known that higher education correlates with lower birthrates? At the very least college years are prime child-rearing years. > Educated women delay the onset of childbearing and have fewer children overall compared with less-educated women https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3449224/ | |
| ▲ | jahnu 40 minutes ago | parent | prev [-] | | Honestly, as fun as the film is I’ve noticed people very rarely mention that disturbing premise. | | |
| ▲ | svachalek 9 minutes ago | parent | next [-] | | It would be interesting to remake it, replacing the premise that people are genetically stupid with just the idea that they're habitually stupid from generations of reliance on AI and social media. | |
| ▲ | afavour 31 minutes ago | parent | prev [-] | | Yeah I don't hate the movie by any means I just think it isn't as deep as people often credit it as being. …and if you do credit it with incisive societal commentary you kind of have to engage with the weird implications of what it's saying rather than just come away feeling superior about not being one of the dumb underclass. |
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| ▲ | mindslight 20 minutes ago | parent | prev [-] | | Idiocracy is downright optimistic compared to our current society. Citizens have one single piece of identification, and it's not even electronic. Their location is only tracked when discrete scanners manage to see that identification. Medical care is provided promptly. Joe Bowers's court case wasn't decided by political meddling, and the two minute hates were only focused on him after he was found guilty. There are security holes in the implementation of the prison that allow intelligent individuals to escape the machine. The president has leadership, speaking ability, policy planning, honesty, work ethic, intelligence, humility, and outright patriotism. Starbucks seems like respectable open employment rather than being trafficked to some island in secret. Joe Bower's intelligence was eventually recognized and appreciated - the society wants to get better. Like all sci-fi, Idiocracy was largely a reflection of the society it was written in. A society that had values we've long since given up on. |
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| ▲ | lardosaurusrex 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| People often question me how I manage to focus for more than a few minutes and I'm always confused because back in the day I was constantly informed I didn't have any focus and needed to be treated (adhd). I'm not convinced attention spans themselves have changed; I think it has more to do with the fact that people's brains aren't defaulting to daydreaming anymore when bored. I think it's still an issue with people being addicted to phones because I'm sure the lack of daydreaming -- which studies have proven as beneficial and arguibly even a form of microsleep -- is likely causing a lot of the fatigue and inattention people feel; as in their brains are literally being deprived of a natural thing and so are exhausted because of it. (as an aside: whew what a run-on sentence i have no intention of fixing) My personal supposition with 0 proof is that the "gen-z stare" is the end-stage of this phenomenon where after being deprived of daydreaming for so long they are essentially "sleeping while standing up" as it were. |
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| ▲ | ssl-3 4 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | There's only one important thing that I miss about smoking: A smoke break was an excuse that was tolerated by others, wherein I could go outside and just let my mind wander (daydream) with no particular goal for a short period of time. Daydreaming should be perfectly acceptable either way, but people seem to think it's weird (concerning, even) when someone spends a bit of time to stand (or sit) around while appearing to be doing nothing at all. But having a smoke is an activity, and the smoker's participation in this very passive activity assuages the concerns of others. | | |
| ▲ | Spooky23 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | I don’t smoke but when I would consult in large companies especially I’d always find the smokers and pop by on my way back from a walk. They are always a good group of people, with a roguish edge as smoking became less acceptable. Usually they are really kind people who represented every part of the the org, and loved some juicy gossip, and I’d learn alot about the informal networks in the company, who the admins were, etc. They would be entertained by my tales of idiocy from a dozen companies. I miss those days! | | |
| ▲ | zer00eyz an hour ago | parent [-] | | > informal networks in the company Not just smokers. The little groups who would go and leave for a walk and coffee. The people who ate lunch together either going out, or together in the kitchen. These were opportunities to cross the boundaries of your department and role, it was a great excuse to make friends in other groups, and gain insights. For me the first ones I tried to align with were always in CS and Accounting. The former often had great insight into emerging issues (next weeks "bug", next months "project"). The latter had insight into how the business was really doing, hearing from the people who looked at your "raw" numbers could tell you more than any company meeting where "everything is great". Working from home killed these, and "zoom" or "slack" are not the same - people are far more guarded when they understand that the company owns that communication channel, that it is recorded/monitored. |
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| ▲ | enobrev 15 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I also appreciate the social break my brain seems to need in order to keep socializing. I'm an introvert but also social, so I love to talk to friends and hang out - but I still need that 5 minutes to just stare off into space and recharge before I jump back into the fray. I quit smoking about 15 years ago, but still vape - and I remain a huge fan of the easy excuse to step away for 3-5 minutes and just zone out, or change from a large group to a smaller 2-person conversation outside. Even back when we could smoke in bars, I would still sneak outside from time to time to settle and recharge. | |
| ▲ | JKCalhoun 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | People will tolerate a "daily run" (or walk). I noticed other co-workers going to the gym during the day and realized I could take a break as well. That's when I started to take walking breaks. No one ever said anything. (I quit smoking when my first daughter was born.) | | |
| ▲ | godshatter 32 minutes ago | parent [-] | | I see a lot of concern about whether or not people will tolerate some behavior of mine that isn't harmful to anyone. I'm Gen X, so maybe it's how I grew up, but I just dgaf about whether or not my coworkers are okay with my taking a break and going for a walk. I'm not doing it to be mean to them or anything and I don't do it when I'm in the middle of something big and it's definitely nothing personal (I like my coworkers), it just helps me clear my head which is a win when someone works in a job where they need to keep lots of details in their head and switch contexts a lot. This attitude does lead to some people being miffed because I wasn't available on Teams for 10 minutes, but anything I can do to push back against the idea of my being available to everyone at any time is a win in my book. | | |
| ▲ | sailfast 20 minutes ago | parent [-] | | I’m aspiring to the gen-X level of DGAF (elder millennial - prone to giving many Fs). |
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| ▲ | taude 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Funny enough. I never smoked, but I often went and hung out in smoking sections outside our work office. I really enjoyed how open smokers were to just random conversations, and the quick 10 minutes of not looking at the screen were typically energizing. Almost like a natural pomodoro work schedule that forced up out of our desks, and then out of our offices. | |
| ▲ | scottmcdot an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I've started to go stand in my front yard and just watch the world go by for 15 minutes or so and if I do it around dinner time then I can get away without looking weird as it's perfectly normal to wait uber eats this way. | |
| ▲ | tetha 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Some of my deepest architectural work honestly happened... in a hammock on the balcony, while alternating between staring at a cloud, the sun, and two magpies building a nest in the birch tree while yelling at me occasionally. Then I came back to my desk, saw that I had missed a call or two from my boss and he had a concerned message of where I was. I ignored that and sent him an architecture document an hour later. After years, it is still the backbone of our hosting infrastructure and will go into certification audits later this year. | | |
| ▲ | maccard 2 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | One of my earlier startups, I was a junior/mid level software engineer. I took a skive day to WFH, but was actually travelling to a gig on the train. I sketched out something to pretend I was working that day, and sent him a photo of it. We ended up shipping that design and I only really made one major mistake that we fixed in v2. It’s amazing how much value there is in idleness. | |
| ▲ | rapnie 28 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Rich Hickey, creator of clojure, literally calls this "Hammock driven development" and has a great talk on the matter (multiple actually): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f84n5oFoZBc (oops, cross-posted with a similar comment.. well, shows the vid is watchworthy) | |
| ▲ | datadrivenangel 32 minutes ago | parent | prev [-] | | Rich Hickey gave a great talk on Hammock Driven Development |
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| ▲ | hgomersall 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | You can get the same effect by going for a walk. | | |
| ▲ | hnlmorg 4 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | It’s an option, but it’s worth noting that you’re not always idling your brain in quite the same way unless you happen to work somewhere were there are no roads to cross, cars and cyclists to dodge, nor other pedestrians to navigate around. I sometimes find toilet breaks or coffee breaks (waiting for kettle to boil) fill the “daydream debugging” requirement. But that depends on having a clean bathroom with enough stalls, or an empty kitchen without other people making drinks. Working from home definitely helps here. Though significantly less so during the holidays when kids are off. Edit: just in case there’s any misunderstanding, I’m not suggesting having the kids around is a bad thing. I love my kids. Just that they have an obvious impact to my concentration. | | |
| ▲ | dundercoder 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | Kids are like management that way. Tough to get work done efficiently when they’re around. But unlike management, you get to tuck them in and “I love you” for no reason is a standard bonus with a free hug. |
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| ▲ | mysterydip 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I think they’re saying that you could say “I’m going for a smoke break” at work and it was at least tolerated. I don’t think you can say “I’m going for a walk” the same way. | | |
| ▲ | amon_spek 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | We still use the same phrase today "Smoke break?" "Yep" though none of us smoke any more, and some never did. | |
| ▲ | fireflash38 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Why not? Ive been doing it for years, when I worked in office. Get someone to go with you. Or walk to get food/coffee/whatever. | | |
| ▲ | genghisjahn 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | We had 3pm coffee club at a previous job. It was great. Had our own slack channel(public). As the minutes counted down people would post gifs counting down (/giphy 4, /giphy 3). Most of the dev team would go. We’d go a heavy coffee shop. The talks there and back were great. | |
| ▲ | ssl-3 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | That doesn't sound so bad. I like chatting with people I know. I like coffee. Food is nice. Except: My involvement in these activities doesn't leave much, if any, room for the kind of detachment that daydreaming requires. | | |
| ▲ | maccard 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | The group needs to be big enough (6+ people) that you’re not just chatting with someone; you’re part of a group and can drift in and out . |
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| ▲ | threetonesun 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I've worked a number of places where smoking on site wasn't allowed, and it was well accepted that if you wanted to just disappear for 30 minutes once or twice a day no one would care. | |
| ▲ | ssl-3 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Indeed. It has varied a bit depending on the timeline, but: Going out for a walk (or to just change environments and very passively stare at nothing) has been less socially-acceptable than going out for a smoke, in my experience. One of these things is weird, or perhaps inducing of ire ("How dare he just go outside when he feels like it! What is he even doing?"). The other is, at worst, both understandable and disgusting ("Of course he's out there again with that filthy habit!"). | |
| ▲ | micromacrofoot 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | "i'm going to go get a coffee" works fine in my experience |
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| ▲ | lanstin an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I have been doing this new practice I heard on some podcast or something - taking a short brisk walk like every thirty minutes. It was promoted for cardiovascular health, trying to compensate for sitting too much, but I also find it is incredibly good at letting me concentrate hard through more hours of work than without. I sometimes check the news or whatever but often just walk and listen to music or chat. I walk strictly five minutes, almost to the end of my block and back, and continue on. The timing ties in with my meditation training, Maezumi lineage, where we sit for 25 minutes then walk (first slowly and then quickly) for five minutes. In meditation it really allows one to sit with energy and focus all day long; also for software development, it turns out. I also take a longer, 5 km, walk most days, as a way to control type 2 diabetes. This short regular walk is quite different. Honestly the biggest issue is that the increased focus means I can get into a zone and two hours go by without pause, so every thirty minutes is not always met. | |
| ▲ | stronglikedan an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Almost. Nicotine does a lot of work in a short smoke break. Gotta walk for a lot longer to get close. | |
| ▲ | dm319 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | A cigarette to doing nothing, is like a dog to walking pointlessly. |
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| ▲ | stronglikedan an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I've never had a 10 minute walk around the building not be tolerated, and that takes longer than my 5 minute smoke breaks used to. That said, nicotine could get more done in my brain in those 5 minutes, but the toll on my body wasn't worth it. | |
| ▲ | snarfy 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I quit smoking years ago but I still go for walks with the same regularity I would smoke. | |
| ▲ | jjgreen 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | That's where I solve most of the problems which have been nagging me | |
| ▲ | themythfable 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | RIP smoke breaks |
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| ▲ | mettamage 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | > I'm not convinced attention spans themselves have changed; I think it has more to do with the fact that people's brains aren't defaulting to daydreaming anymore when bored. Yea sometimes stuff has to sink in or marinate. If you don't give that to yourself then you'll never realize it's gone. I realized I was missing this because I sometimes sit in my chair and tell myself "this is your life now, you sit in this chair" and I do that for as long as possible. I do this in part because a part of me just doesn't want to do anything: I don't want to work, I don't want to do fun things, I just want to do nothing. So I have an inclination towards being lazy. But when I'm on that chair and give myself full freedom to do so, then I get agitated and want to do something. I plead with myself really hard. But my lazy part is like "fuck no... we're finally on this chair, I'll die this way, we're never getting off this chair." And then at some point my mind says something like "FINE, I'LL EVEN DO THE TAX FORM THINGY I HAVE BEEN PUTTING OFF. I'LL DO ANYTHING!" When I judge the activity to be productive enough, I get off the chair. The real challenge is that I forget that I have this exercise because it actually works for me and it makes me realize that when you're doing "nothing" your brain is doing a whole lot. | |
| ▲ | al_borland 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | If you haven’t read it, Cal Newport’s book Digital Minimalism is mostly about this topic. The value of giving your brain time to simply exist without any outside input, with many examples from history of people who carved out time explicitly for this, especially when needing to make big decisions or figure out answers to problems. | | |
| ▲ | Anthony-G 31 minutes ago | parent | next [-] | | I haven’t read the book but I like this idea and intend to check out the book. I’m not on social media but I find Hacker News – and even Wikipedia – to be addictive enough. When I was younger, I found it very hard to just sit there without some form of external stimulation, e.g. I couldn’t sit down to eat by or have a coffee by myself without reading a magazine or newspaper at the same time – or listening to the radio. I still find it hard to do this. Hacker News has been useful in that I’ve come across a few inspirational ideas on consuming less input (and producing more output): https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44702212 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39674619 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=20781463 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=24582837 I’ve made some changes to my life in that listening to music is more intentional – not just a distraction to have in the background. It probably helps that I’ve also started to learn a musical instrument. I can also go for a walk without needing to have music or a podcast to listen to. | | |
| ▲ | Barbing 6 minutes ago | parent [-] | | Consume less, create more: “These are not the only two options. There's a third activity most of us seem to have forgotten - to simply be. For me, the very act of everyday living has become very enjoyable and fulfilling in recent years. Doing the dishes, cooking, gardening, sweeping the floor, putting out the trash. Those are not "chores", that's what life's made of. Some of it creative, some not, but the difference is you're simply present in the moment and in the world.” Next time I do the dishes, I will appreciate being alive, and be thankful to be doing something healthy for my brain. Thanks! |
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| ▲ | austy69 an hour ago | parent | prev [-] | | That's probably a great read based on what I've heard from Cal, but I don't think you need an entire book to know how to scale back on your social media use. Just hand your phone to your friend and have them put a lock on the addictive features. | | |
| ▲ | al_borland 44 minutes ago | parent | next [-] | | It’s not just social media. Most people have their thing… the news, podcasts, music, books, games, etc. In the modern era we can always have something that allows us to distract our brain or provides external ideas to direct it. Being alone with our own thoughts, devoid of outside influence, is something that seems to take an intentional choice these days. | |
| ▲ | __MatrixMan__ an hour ago | parent | prev [-] | | I find that just setting it to grayscale is enough. Its not that colors are actually an important part of my mostly text based social media experience, but when I use them without colors I get distracted with: > What am I doing? This dumb. And then I remember that it is dumb and I go back to leaving it alone. |
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| ▲ | graemep 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I agree. I am not sure it is as similar to sleep as you claim, but its definitely good for your brain. I say something similar in the context of parenting, that a reasonable amount of boredom is good. I think it likely that being constantly entertained makes people more prone to seek constant stimulation. This did not start with phones either. I am Gen X and it happened in my childhood with kids being dumped in front of TVs. One difference was a lot of adults resisted this and limited hours in front of a TV, whereas now a lot of adults are addicted to phones too. | | |
| ▲ | roncesvalles 4 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | I remember when cable TV used to be "addictive". Now I can't watch even 10 minutes of it without getting bored and pulling out my phone. Also something I learned recently: checking your phone at the movies is no longer the faux pas that it used to be. There's definitely some hedonic treadmill type thing going on with attention and stimuli. | | |
| ▲ | 6031769 4 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Using your phone in a cinema was, is and ever will be a massive faux pas. I have no idea at all why you think it might be otherwise. | | |
| ▲ | Melonai 4 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Think the difference is between "using your phone", meaning calling someone and audibly talking to someone, thus disrupting the movie for others, and "checking your phone", which is just looking at it, though inaudibly, though there might be some amount of light pollution depending on the screen brightness. First one has and will continue to be taboo, second one however, in my experience, used to be viewed with distaste, but is pretty common nowadays. | | |
| ▲ | Anthony-G 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | I’ve asked people sitting nearby to stop checking their phone as the glare can be very distracting. I might be immersed in the film but keep getting pulled out of the story by the distractingly bright light. I also try to patronise cinemas that remind viewers at the start of the screening not to use their phone at all. I stopped going to the Cineworld near me because there was too much phone use (both calls and checking alerts) – and Cineworld had stopped the reminders at the start of the film for people to switch off their phone. | |
| ▲ | ryandrake 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | As someone who miraculously doesn’t feel this urge to constantly “check” his phone, I have to ask: what are you people “checking” for, exactly? It’s still there—it hasn’t gone anywhere. Is it the notifications? Why not just turn them off? I can assure you that there’s nothing on your phone that can’t wait an hour or so until the movie is done. Out of 10,000 people “checking” their phones, probably around 1 of them is actually waiting for something urgent and important. The rest are doing it out of pure addiction. | | |
| ▲ | duskdozer 29 minutes ago | parent | next [-] | | Everything wants to hijack your attention via your phone now, whether it's apps spamming notifications or companies spamming SMS. And arguably every once in a while there is something you would like to know quickly, but any channel that comes on just gets abused by cruft. If it's addiction, it's addiction through exploitation. | |
| ▲ | graemep 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | I think checking your phone unless you are actually expecting an important notification is a symptom of the problem we are discussing here. |
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| ▲ | robertlagrant 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Faux pas or not, it now happens much more than it used to. | |
| ▲ | Brian_K_White 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | I have no idea at all what lost Xanadu theater you found where people don't check their phones. They weren't saying they like it or that it's actually ok. The word "apparently" tells you that this is something they have observed happening and were surprised to observe. |
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| ▲ | CamelCaseName 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Please never check your phone while the film is playing. Major faux pas. |
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| ▲ | JKCalhoun 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I highly recommend road-tripping to those that can. At least once a year I end up driving out from the Mid-Waste to the Bay Area or SoCal. A few years ago the wife and I traded duties to drive to various parts of Alaska and back. We've spent a week or so exploring just one state at a time… There's nothing so mentally refreshing as a long, boring drive. | |
| ▲ | lardosaurusrex 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Well I made no claim of it being related to sleep; just that I've read a lot of claims that it's related to microsleep and used "sleeping while standing up" for the last bit as an analogy. I am not a sleep doctor/therapist nor am I any sort of expert on the subject. |
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| ▲ | larodi 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Sleeping while standing up is the state one finds oneself endlessly scrolling somebody else's dreams. Avoid at all costs. | |
| ▲ | oggreen 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | That's a very interesting perspective but now that you mention it, I can't even think of the last time I daydreamed, even when I'm not on a device. Curious if phone usage or whatever doom-scrolling we do exhausts the same part of the brain that we use to daydream. | | |
| ▲ | noir_lord 4 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | > I can't even think of the last time I daydreamed About 5 minutes ago for me, my missus says that I live with my head in the clouds (which is a nicer way of saying if I'm not actively doing something I just zone out and retreat into my own head), I've always been that way all the way back to school (with the inevitable consequences from teachers). I've mentioned on here before though that I never got addicted to my phone, I don't even know where it is ~80% of the time. My relationship with technology is (nearly) always intentional, I still access the internet 95% of the time on a desktop PC (which reduces doom scrolling since that just feels wrong on a desktop) so when I walk out my office I'm just "offline" in a very distinct way, if I go for a walk my phone stays at home, everyone who knows me knows I'll answer a text at some point but it could be a day or two. To sum it up, I resent the passive intrusion of technology into my life. | | |
| ▲ | ingvay7 an hour ago | parent | next [-] | | This cracked me up. I have the same malady. The worst thing used to be a few close friends who recognized the pattern after being with me long enough and called me out in it when they knew I was zoning out while they were talking. Ive desperately tried to keep this daydreaming trait lately despite trying to get rid of it when I was younger when I used to think it was a disadvantage. | |
| ▲ | aktau 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Respect. I hope to find the strength to be more like that. Also to give a better example to others. I notice making the screen go grayscale (can configure volume up+down to do this in android) already makes doom-anything much less long-lived. The next step, since apparently I can't go cold turkey, is to try one of these alternative minimalist launchers to see if it helps. And to teach people that if they want something from me urgently, they need to call. On the topic of watches, I used a smartwatch the company gifted me for a while. Went back to an analog watch. Much better. | | |
| ▲ | noir_lord 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | > And to teach people that if they want something from me urgently, they need to call. There is a half way step (on Android at least, I assume Apple has similar) you can set "Do Not Disturb" and then white list the people who can message/call through the "Do Not Disturb" so you are reachable but only by people you trust/want to be able to reach you. > On the topic of watches, I used a smartwatch the company gifted me for a while. I just didn't use one, I have a rough rule that introducing new technology into my life has to be a complete and obvious unalloyed win or I just don't, it's a very high bar for a new technology to clear but it also means I don't spend money on things that end up in drawers because they either turned out not to meet the hype or just annoyed the living hell out of me after the initial "oooh shiny" wore off. | | |
| ▲ | jorisw 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | I do the Do Not Disturb + whitelist thing on my iPhone. I also disable any and all notifications of apps other than direct messaging apps. No group message notifications. | | |
| ▲ | ryandrake 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | I’ve been 24/7 do-not-disturb mode with all notifications disabled, for the past 10 years. It’s been wonderful for “intentionality” and agency over my time. I use my phone when I want to do something on it, not when the phone beeps and buzzes telling me to use it. I don’t even whitelist anyone anymore. If it’s important they will leave a message and I’ll get back to them. | | |
| ▲ | aktau 5 minutes ago | parent [-] | | > If it’s important they will leave a message and I’ll get back to them. I can't really do that. For some things (urgent and important), loved ones need to be able to reach me. But yes, a lot of this advice would work. |
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| ▲ | lanstin an hour ago | parent | prev [-] | | Grey scale is amazingly less compelling experience. I have it on for a while but then give in an turn color back on just for the thrill. |
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| ▲ | kuerbel 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | I'm not sure I have the willpower to follow your example but at least I managed to turn of notifications on my watch after reading your post. | | |
| ▲ | robertlagrant 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | My big discovery a few years ago was uninstalling apps, especially social media apps. I don't mind the platforms, but removing their ability to ping notifications up was massive. I watch some people just get their phone out to dismiss a load of notifications for 20-30 seconds. It's a chore now. I think limiting notifications is the best thing you can do, on your phone and your watch. | |
| ▲ | safety1st 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Willpower's not the solution. When we isolated cocaine from the coca leaf for the first time, the world pretty much went insane. In those first years people were injecting it into their eyeballs and spines. The most popular beverage on earth in 2026 STILL contains extract of the coca leaf as a holdover from the days when it was laced with its namesake, Coke. People were smoking cocaine, ingesting cocaine, giving it to their kids for a toothache, pretty much anything you could stick it in, they did. The solution to this wasn't willpower, it was to get rid of all that fucking cocaine. There's a reason you don't have the stuff lying around your house today, if you did you'd probably get hooked. In 2026 we're basically speedrunning the coke boom with infotech. So once again the solution is: get rid of it. Any time you're in a low stimulus environment, remove the tech so that you don't HAVE to exercise willpower. That means turning off the phone and the watch and maybe stuffing them in a drawer in another room or something. That's all it takes. I can't say how society will look back at this moment in history 150 years from now. But I do know I'm way happier and more relaxed when I just shut off the devices and put them away. When I'm at home or in the office, my phone's on mute, in a drawer/bag/other room, and I don't think about it unless I take it out for a few minutes to order a delivery or do a 2fa or something. At night it's simply turned off. I'll never own a smart watch. I still keep the phone on me when I go out and haven't found that to be a huge concern because if I'm at a bar or something it's competing with a lot of other stimuli for attention. We were never 100% available to anyone for all of human history until the last 10-20 years. I am not opting into this current Cocaine Moment. | | |
| ▲ | imp0cat 4 hours ago | parent [-] | | Not even a smartwatch? What's your opinion on fitness trackers (the passive ones, without display)? | | |
| ▲ | threetonesun an hour ago | parent | next [-] | | I was a fan of the Apple Watch initially because I felt like it kept me from having to take out my increasingly large iPhone to check things like the time and if I was going to get rained on, but they've managed to make WatchOS some weird nightmare of distractions and things I need to actively shut off on my phone, and I've grown very tired of it. | |
| ▲ | blurredabstract 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | To stick with the analogy: to me, your question reads as "What's your opinion on Speed?". |
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| ▲ | noir_lord 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | I honestly don't think it is willpower, it is simply that I never had to break the "addiction" because I never had it in the first place. I always found the form factor extremely limiting compared to a desktop (it's the same reason my laptop ended up running a TV upstairs, the idea of programming on the sofa sounded great but in practice I'd get frustrated and immediately retreat to my quiet downstairs office with multiple screens when I had to do something tricky/requiring concentration). Where I do use something that optimises for distractions, I look for how to minimize the distractions (e.g YouTube - I use the excellent Unhook (with Ublock Origin) which turns the YT home page into a search box and little else, hides mixes, shorts and other distractions) and make it work for me. |
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| ▲ | TheLML 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I sometimes pause shows or YT videos I'm watching just to daydream for a little bit about something that just crossed my mind. Additionally I go outside at least once a day to walk or ride my bicycle, which also helps with this. | |
| ▲ | embedding-shape 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | That's interesting. What happens if you just sit there doing nothing, looking around and what not? Does your brain start to wander by itself? Personally I struggle to remember any day I haven't had at least 10-15 minutes of idle time doing nothing, just thinking idly, but I still have similar struggles as the author. Although I barely use my phone for things neither. | | |
| ▲ | lesostep an hour ago | parent [-] | | >> What happens if you just sit there doing nothing, looking around and what not? Does your brain start to wander by itself? For me it's one of the three layers. First layer, it starts to wonder to the direction offered by real world. Wonder about song lyrics I'm listening too, or the colors of buildings, or something like that. Second layer happens if you purposefully stray your thoughts away from a real world. Brain starts trying to remember whatever you wanted it to remember. For example, if I tell myself three times "don't forget to call mom", if I just sit idly, chances are my brain would surface "call mom". Sometimes it surfaces "remember you wanted to try arch 2 years ago".
Also this is the layer that works badly if you tried or depressed, because it can start surfacing bad thoughts. Third layer I call time skipper because it's just a basic time fast forwarding. I have no idea whether it's true meditation or controlled dissociation or something else, but thoughts slide of your brain, so there's nothing to remember afterwards. My friend said that maybe meditation is a controlled dissociation. I prefer to say that I'm so dumb, I can just switch my brain off. |
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| ▲ | AaronAPU 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I think its unfortunate people wear headphones while walking/running/biking. If you don’t, that’s however many minutes or hours of nothing but daydreaming (and hearing nature). | | |
| ▲ | duskdozer 15 minutes ago | parent | next [-] | | I've needed to take anc earbuds with me while out now, not to listen to music but just to tone down the noise pollution a bit. You can barely hear nature anyway over all the cars, trucks, lawnmowers, leafblowers, airplanes, and what I think are warehouses. It's been getting worse in recent years and the only way to have a chance at daydreaming is to lower it a bit. | |
| ▲ | radlad 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I find it impossible to daydream while focused on traffic. | | |
| ▲ | lanstin an hour ago | parent [-] | | I read my black on white eink reader on walks and occasionally run into poles and things in the sidewalk. Mostly I look up when crossing a street. When I was a kid I would walk slowly around with a Sci Fi book and read it. Never been hit by a car but every now and then get scared by one I didn’t notice. But I can’t read intense books too much - I alternate hard books and pulpy fun reads. |
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| ▲ | jorisw 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I often just wear noise cancelling headphones without any music on | |
| ▲ | ABoltzmannMush 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Sadly around here it takes quite a lot of driving to get to anywhere that nature sounds predominate. Between the highways/airports/lawncare it is mostly noise pollution, and I generally find that doesn't work as well for daydreaming. |
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| ▲ | plastic-enjoyer 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | > That's a very interesting perspective but now that you mention it, I can't even think of the last time I daydreamed, even when I'm not on a device. Sometimes I just turn my phone off and stare at a white wall for 15 minutes. People made fun of me when I told them how relaxing I find white walls, but it seems it turns out, that I'm not the only one doing this? | | |
| ▲ | lanstin an hour ago | parent | next [-] | | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bodhidharma#Wall-gazing | |
| ▲ | ssl-3 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | I found that people would make fun of me for that, too, if they were made aware of it. Back when I was still stuck to a desk in school (up hill both ways and without a pocket computer), I learned that folks would tend to leave me alone if I had a book open. It didn't really matter what book it was. I could just gaze at it with my eyes relaxed and unfocused, with the printing appearing as some kind of indistinct phoric blur. And as long as I turned the page occasionally, that was good enough to keep the would-be tyrants at bay. (And then I'd ace the test on Friday, repeat for dozens of weeks, and do it again next year.) | | |
| ▲ | ryandrake 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | When my wife and I started dating, she constantly was asking me what I’m thinking about (as people who care about you sometimes do). She was amazed that I could just sit down in a sofa and zone out, thinking about absolutely nothing. At first she would ask “come on, you meat be thinking about something” and later admitted she couldn’t do that and didn’t think people actually could! |
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| ▲ | roysting 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | How would one daydream, i.e., imagine, when you have everything presented to you in 4k and you can even interact with it through games? You have to imagine to daydream. When you’ve been raised on YouTube since birth (referring to U.S. primarily “GenZ”) or you’ve formed your identity around things on TV (like most Americans) you didn’t have to imagine, daydream you just took it in, like everyone else that took on the same thing. That’s another aspect that’s not really being called out, TV also has contributed to the homogenization and destruction of distinct and unique cultures, i.e., actual, real diversity; because everyone is programmed and trained by TV on the same material, as the famous water cooler discussion about a TV show episode everyone was watching tells us. Now imagine you’re “Gen Alpha” or maybe even “GenZ” where you have not even had anyone read you books that required you to imagine, i.e., daydream, what was being told to you? These are all compounding factors that are going to even cause massive problems for this sham, fake facade, con job American society. Talk to teachers in elementary schools and middle schools, even universities now; they’ll tell you things that should make and discerning person be alarmed. And that’s without even talking about the impending impacts of AI. | | |
| ▲ | JumpinJack_Cash 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | > > How would one daydream, i.e., imagine, when you have everything presented to you in 4k and you can even interact with it through games? You can daydream about being the protagonist of such actions which is not the same as watching other people doing it | | |
| ▲ | lanstin 44 minutes ago | parent [-] | | I used to spend a lot of time imagining myself as the captain of a Federation starship :) but I did also read a lot of books. But also, the availability of YouTube changes the utility of descriptive writing. Moby Dick can have pages of text about whales or whatever, but now I can spend hours watching whale videos on YouTube. The importance of the interior life of the characters is more, or of diffusive world building stories with too much intricacy for a movie or video presentation. |
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| ▲ | al_borland 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | As much as I’d like to leave my phone in another room while working, 2FA has made that impossible. I’m now required to keep my phone nearby and pick it up periodically throughout the day, all in the same of security. | | |
| ▲ | Bootvis 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Excellent reason to stand up and take a short walk. | |
| ▲ | timacles 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Just make your phone boring. Delete instagram, log out and don’t go on YouTube. Delete games. It’s really not that hard to make your phone a device for communication and not entertainment | | |
| ▲ | al_borland 40 minutes ago | parent [-] | | My phone is already like that. There are still emails, texts, the browser still exists, the weather, etc. And even ignoring all of that, taking hands off the keyboard/mouse, picking up a different device, waiting for the notification, opening it up, typing in the code, putting the phone back down, moving back to the keyboard/mouse/monitor… it’s very disruptive to any flow I might hope to have. |
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| ▲ | dwedge 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I worked around this by just storing the 2FA in Bitwarden. Yeah, same place as the passwords but I don't care I don't want the forced context switch. | | |
| ▲ | al_borland 2 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | A coworker tried to use Authy a couple years ago and it wouldn't work. It seemed like we were forced to use Microsoft Authenticator. I just tried setting it up with Apple Passwords and it wouldn’t accept the QR code. It seems to be specifically made for Microsoft. | |
| ▲ | gexla an hour ago | parent | prev [-] | | KeePassXC also has one. |
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| ▲ | vaylian an hour ago | parent | prev [-] | | Consider getting a hardware key (typical example: YubiKey) |
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| ▲ | duplessitous an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Sometimes I worry that this whole gen-z stare thing is just millennial avocado toast under new management. I work with a ton of gen-z'ers, I think they're great and have never once experienced this gen-z stare thing you hear about so much online. They're hard workers, attentive, and less phone addicted than my latchkey parents. | | |
| ▲ | anthonypasq an hour ago | parent [-] | | gen z and even more so gen alpha is a complete bimodal distribution. The top kids are genuinely incredible. | | |
| ▲ | duplessitous 33 minutes ago | parent [-] | | It goes beyond my job but that is my fault for narrowing it down. Even day to day shopping at random stores, I have never seen this gen-z stare or any of the other terms we assign to them. If they are bimodal, which they very well could be, the competent mode is clearly dominant where I have lived We went through twenty years of millennials being this or that, how none of them work, how they are moochers. Every generation gets called lazy and dumped on by the previous generations; as far as I can tell, it is mostly bull shit. I have yet to experience anything extraordinary about gen-z that I don't see in gen-y, gen-x, latchkey, boomers, greatest generation, etc. Maybe younger gen-z or gen-alpha like you say are truly messed up, I think we have data coming out of schools that support that, but I have yet to interact with them as I don't have kids myself. Everything I have said is inherently anecdotal and no more important than what you've seen |
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| ▲ | IdiotSavage an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Meanwhile in Japan: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z9FsQXYVgUE | |
| ▲ | cpt_sobel 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | > I'm not convinced attention spans themselves have changed; I think it has more to do with the fact that people's brains aren't defaulting to daydreaming anymore when bored. If my mind is not defaulting to daydreaming and rather asking me to find a distraction, doesn't this mean my attention span is worse? | |
| ▲ | Dumblydorr 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | You don’t necessarily want to daydream. If you’re not careful, it becomes Negative rumination and mind wandering and that wouldn’t be as useful as an actual nap or a workout or meditation. | | |
| ▲ | abyssin 3 hours ago | parent [-] | | If meditation and workout look like a protection against ruminating, they might be functioning as avoidance. If a nap helps, maybe fix your sleep first (good sleep is super important for mental health). Daydreaming is healthy. | | |
| ▲ | lanstin 17 minutes ago | parent [-] | | I would say that if the mind stays away from negative ruminations when set free, that is a sign of a balanced and healthy life. Many people lack balance and health, and for them changing the conditions a bit might be helpful. Knowing and practicing that one can focus the attention where it is useful can increase mental health or ability to cope with problems. One doesn’t want to run away from reality but one need not feel trapped by intrusive mental phenomena. |
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| ▲ | gib444 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | The gen z stare is being unable or unwilling to give a verbal response when one is expected mostly as a result of social anxiety and lack of communication skills IMO. | |
| ▲ | shafyy 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Reminds me of this scene from Curb where Jeff just sits in the plane: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zONvxznbUJA | | |
| ▲ | al_borland 3 hours ago | parent [-] | | I often do this on flights under 3 hours. The hardest part is finding a place to land your gaze where it doesn’t look like you’re staring it someone, as that could become awkward. |
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| ▲ | sph 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | > the lack of daydreaming I would also blame the Western commercialization of meditation. I have recently learned that in Buddhism meditation is just one side of the coin, and it’s usually diametrically paired with the opposite technique of contemplation: instead of concentrating into one infinitesimal point, you expand your awareness to encompass the whole of reality. Which is a bit like daydreaming. It’s through these two exercises that one finds the middle path of equanimity. With technology, we spend our time with narrowed focus, we are told that to stay sane we need to cultivate our focus, and never find the time to release the grip on it, to just let the brain be and expand and relax a bit. The Taoists had figured it out all along: to find focus, stop focusing so damn much. | | |
| ▲ | lanstin 9 minutes ago | parent [-] | | As an avid consumer of Western Buddhism, this is pretty standard understanding. Concentration and insight, another complementary aspect of practice, like the dichotomy between sitting alone and sitting in a group, or between a steady daily practice and a deep intense retreat. The linear story is that increased awareness of focus teaches the sitter that there are no real borders in reality, it is a seamless whole, and as the sitting continues, awareness naturally opens up to include the full current moment - seeing thoughts as thoughts, emotions as emotions, sore knees as sore knees, twitchy neighbor as a twitchy neighbor, etc thru the myriad things all showing the way, bright and clear. But they are mutually reinforcing partners that appear as distinct. |
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| ▲ | marginalia_nu 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I think it's just information overload. There's so much information everywhere now clamoring at you for attention. Our brains aren't made for processing this much information. Going on a media diet helps. Going completely offline helps even more. Something I do when I struggle to focus is to add different stripped down user accounts to my computer. I wanted to dabble in rust so I added a user called ~rs that literally only has access to two application hotkeys (via niri). super+enter opens a terminal, F1 opens the offline rust documentation. Yeah I can just log out and scroll HN, but there's a enough friction to that, that it doesn't really happen very often. |
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| ▲ | coffeefirst 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | That's smart. It's also revealing. It was a choice to make technology that absolutely hammers you with information. It was not the right choice. I want to build and use stuff that promotes focus. I only have a vague inkling of what this means, but it's quieter, less instantaneous. And it's going to be an uphill battle because everyone else is doing the opposite. | | |
| ▲ | marginalia_nu 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | A lot of the choices were to be fair quite accidental. Computers didn't use to be like this, but a lot of the reasons they weren't were properties of how the technology worked. A low-DPI 15" CRT monitor simply can't display very much information at any given moment. A slow single core CPU just doesn't permit browsing the web while your code is compiling. As that changed, we simply piled on multitasking capabilities without asking if we should. But yeah, it's an interesting space to experiment in. I feel we could be doing much of this a lot better than we are now. My mise-en-place work accounts is very much a hack, and considerable work to set up. | | |
| ▲ | projektfu 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | Before 1992, we browsed newsgroups, watched TV, or played with swords while compiling. That is, if you weren't using Turbo Pascal, with its near-instantaneous turnaround. https://xkcd.com/303/ |
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| ▲ | wormpilled 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | That's a really cool technique. > Yeah I can just log out and scroll HN, but there's a enough friction to that, that it doesn't really happen very often. You can make sure the friction is high by having your password be something difficult to remember, written down on a note, and keeping that note somewhere "out of reach". | | |
| ▲ | marginalia_nu 4 hours ago | parent [-] | | I don't think it's helpful to increase the friction more than it already is, then it just becomes annoying, which makes it more likely you'll stop working like this. You don't have to become a desert father to fix your attention. My hypothesis is that what's hurting focus and attention is context and task switching. It too easy to open a bunch of tabs and get stuck in the xkcd loop[1] whenever you get stuck or something gets a bit boring, so that becomes a thing you do without thinking about it. Having mise-en-place workspaces where things that aren't necessary for what you are doing are out of reach, and reaching for them means you have to log off and lose your state, is generally more than sufficient to fix the problem. It's not that you can't ever check your socials or scroll HN (that wouldn't work for me as part of running a business is a digital presence), you just can't do it while working on something. Makes everything just a little bit more deliberate. (Also on a practical note, chrome/chromium in app mode is great for this, if you do need to be able to go online, but in a limited sense) [1] https://xkcd.com/1411/ |
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| ▲ | Svennor 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Absolutely. There is no more boredom in today's world. Not a second. But boredom is important for the mind to rest. | |
| ▲ | mettamage 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | > Yeah I can just log out and scroll HN, but there's a enough friction to that, that it doesn't really happen very often. What an awesome tip! | |
| ▲ | plastic-enjoyer 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | > I think it's just information overload. There's so much information everywhere now clamoring at you for attention. Our brains aren't made for processing this much information. Going on a media diet helps. Going completely offline helps even more. I wonder how much is real information, i.e. information that truly is related to your life, interests and within your sphere of influence; and how much is just noise that camouflages as information. |
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| ▲ | ckdarby 11 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| It's really not that hard but people are addicted and don't want to admit it. Buy an Amazfit 6 watch, has alarms, clock, health stats, memos, weather, maps, and GPS workout. Turn off nearly all phone notifications. Do not allow any phone to AmaZfit notifications. Don't have your phone physically attached to you. You need your phone with you? Backpack. Never in pockets. All sudden it is incredibly easy to focus. |
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| ▲ | user2722 6 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Rather ironic: I was in the process of moving all Android apps to a second user to be able to stop all apps (and just not DnD, because I'll know I may have some messages waiting for me after disabling DnD) when I got distracted by HN (just one tiny minute). Another thing I'm testing is having VPN OFF with its kill-switch ON. |
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| ▲ | abhaynayar 31 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| In terms of solutions on an individual-level: after a lot of trial and error I feel like what works for me is an absolutist cold-turkey-approach. I've pretty much banned all consumptive screen-time except some things like Hacker News, LinkedIn, YouTube (only existing subscriptions, no recommendations or shorts etc). Things I know I won't spend more than 15-20 minutes on and are not highly stimulating and made to high-jack your brain. Initially, I used to allow myself some leeway as in screen-time i.e. should be less than X duration, but it never worked. The withdrawal-symptoms of going cold-turkey are intense but you get over them eventually and then once you've powered through a few weeks, and you try and go back and look at any type of "content" you see how much trash it all is. Even the "good ones" or things you tell yourself is "educational". Another important note is to have some replacements in place so that when you start seeing that new void of so much time on your hands, you don't feel empty/hollow but as a reminder to yourself that you had so many cool things to do. |
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| ▲ | eggplantemoji69 10 minutes ago | parent | next [-] | | Yeah I’ve gone through varying degrees of cold turkey too. These social media / infinite scroll platforms are not all ‘bad’, but some are ‘worse’ than others.
Unfortunately heavy platform usage is so widespread + people staying at home as a result, such that it’s harder to obtain ‘proper’ interaction and stimulation when stepping out IRL, so I think some controlled platform usage can be beneficial for filling the void.
My ultimate conclusion / main point is that balance is key, as per usual. I maintain limited Reddit, hacker news, LinkedIn, YouTube usage, and have Facebook because my distant family uses that a lot. That’s all though.
And I’ve tried all sorts of methodologies…making devices grayscale, timer locking my phone in a box, putting devices in faraday bag when not using as like a mental block, etc.
I remain out of the loop on some shared cultural fabric that comes with being chronically online and tapped into the global town square, and that manifests in IRL experiences / feeling excluded at times, but in exchange I get more peace and a greater focus on the present, which has felt ‘better’ and more ‘natural’ anecdotally speaking. | |
| ▲ | jimbokun 22 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I managed to give up Reddit (still have other attention consuming vices) and temporarily checked in to see the reactions to Arsenal finally winning the Premier League...and was repulsed by just how MEAN that site is. Discussing something as innocuous as sporting events instantly devolves into cruel, personal attacks and pulls in every topic under the sun. It's not just Reddit that's like that, but it was especially striking after having been away for a while. | |
| ▲ | agentdev001 20 minutes ago | parent | prev [-] | | There is clear irony in the statement "... an absolutist cold-turkey-approach." ... "except some things like Hacker News, LinkedIn, YouTube." That sounds closer to the opposite end of the extreme. |
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| ▲ | OhMeadhbh 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Living in Seattle saved me. In the winter months I started waking up and sitting in front of a SAD light for half an hour. I almost immediately got bored so I started reading long-form books (with the occasional short story) in front of the light for an hour each morning. I gave up on facebook in 2010 and twitter in 2020ish. I never developed the habit for other social media. I turn off slack and email for the first 45 minutes of each hour. If the server is on fire, call me. That's why I have a phone. Oh, and I have an old-school non-smart phone for phone calls and it often lives in a different room from where I work. I run a TOTP authenticator on a tablet that's not configured to receive any messages. HN and an occasional YouTube video are my only online distractions. In my advanced age I've lost the desire to tell everyone how wrong they are, which seems to be the national sport of online comments sections. (Though, HN, you're much better than most places.) I've been getting into GMRS lately and it's hard to turn off the radio during work days, but I have been able to do it. Maybe I should write a similar article saying "the net doesn't distract me, but dang if I can't go 10 minutes without thinking about people I know via GMRS." The author of this piece makes an observation about bullshit vs. attention that is probably worth looking into. My last several jobs have included less bullshit, but a lot more documentation. Which is to say, the docs I write seem to have actual applicability to a real business problem and it's solution. There's little busy work that only serves to prove that a remote VP has more people working for him. I think what I'm trying to say is a) it is possible to strengthen your attention gland. I'm happy to see the author at least trying. And... b) maybe there's a correlation between perceived bullshit and ability to focus. This needs more research. |
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| ▲ | fredliu an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| LLM: Attention is all you need.
Human: Attention is all we have. We should be careful where we spend our limited attention on. |
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| ▲ | moebrowne 36 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| It seems to me that lots of people consider the ability to focus as some kind of innate ability which we are all born with, it's not. It's a learned skill which requires practice. Stop practising and it atrophies. We all understand this for physical exercise, I think we need to understand the same principles apply to skills. |
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| ▲ | gullywhumper 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| It seems that so many minor parts of the day don't work as expected and my attention is destroyed by a thousand annoyances. My watch only unlocks my computer 1/3 of the time. My car only recognizes my phone 1/2 of the time. 3/4 of the time I go to press/click on a song I want to hear, the data in the UI updates between the time I start to move to the song and I press/click and I end up hearing something I don't want. Annoying feature that I've disabled n times was re-enabled, and I have to disabled it again. Fighting autocorrect on my phone. I was signed out a service unexpectedly and have to re-authenticate. Programs X, Y, and Z are unresponsive. My VM says my network connection is unstable. My new car beeps because it thinks I'm distracted and then I get more annoyed and distracted. |
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| ▲ | jimbokun 9 minutes ago | parent | next [-] | | I like to use my iPhone to read text articles. It's amazing to me how bad it's become at this task. I get various emails with curated links to various stories, and I will click a link to go read that story. First, it often takes me to a browser re-direct that sometimes successfully redirects, sometimes doesn't. Then sometimes the redirect is to an app that I've subscribed to. Which would be great. Except for the times it opens the app but fails to redirect to the specific article. Then if the article is on a web page, it commonly fills the page with more and more ads slowing down my phone and giving me a tiny keyhole opening to read the text through. Then I often want to go back to the email and pick up where I left off. Which works >50% of the time, but fairly often will skip to a different email. I truly believe that for reading news and articles the state of software was much better 10 years ago than today. | |
| ▲ | mritchie712 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | my car has an AI assistant. I don't know what the wake word is, but it will wake up and be useless with no obvious way to turn it off. I'm sure I could search for it, but it happens while I'm driving and I forget about it. It happens just infrequently enough to not remember, but often enough to be really annoying. My wife turned on a meditation feature on our very old Alexa. I guess the app was deleted or something, but every morning Alexa turns on and says "Starting your meditation times ... Sorry, this is no longer available". If I tell Alexa to turn this off, it has no idea what I'm talking about and it shows up nowhere in the iOS app. Instead of meditation, I got a nice dose of minor annoyance every morning. | |
| ▲ | cellu an hour ago | parent | prev [-] | | also when I remember to put by phone away not to get distracted, then the 2FA requires me to go fetch it... |
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| ▲ | pu_pe 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| A lot of people here are focusing on ADHD, but I think the author is commenting on a different phenomenon, because they were able to concentrate before and now it's just much harder. I feel it and many people I talk to feel it as well. It's difficult for me to separate whether this is a result of other changes in my life over time or simply a reflex of ageing in general, though I do think it's a wider societal shift. In the same way that older people find it difficult to watch newer movies (and vice-versa), there is a certain pace associated with culture as well. We have, on average, shifted from books to TikTok in the span of a generation. |
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| ▲ | flogistonical 3 hours ago | parent [-] | | I think it is becoming clear that we now have type-1 and type-2 ADHD prevalent in the population. Dopamine deficiency or insensibility are indistinguishable in terms of symptoms. We are all exposed to so much adversarial noise trying to steer us that people are loosing the ability to focus and to filter. Dieting and exercising helps. Cut down on exposure to noise from apps, streaming services, devices, etc. And exercise your brain, use it. Read long form text, take notes, write intentional arguments, use these arguments to steer yourself and those around you to create things of value. |
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| ▲ | doright 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I regained my focus after many years and it had nothing to do with distractions for me, distractions were only a way of fighting stress that constantly appeared. The stress was the underlying issue. I worked on that in therapy (breaking away from my parents) and I can now work on what I want for hours at a time. It's because now I feel I can become my own person and do what I want while not being chained to the past anymore. |
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| ▲ | ninjahawk1 11 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Sounds like the answer may be simpler than it seems. You could just be tired. You said you’ve been balancing a lot for years and years. Take some time to just focus on yourself. Meditate, go on walks, wake up earlier, always have breakfast, and for the love of all that is good, get enough sleep. |
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| ▲ | Brajeshwar 15 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| One of the best ways I have found not to get distracted while in a task, with other more interesting or something that you do not want to forget, is NOT to use your device to do it or even add to your TODO, or note it down but to use an actual notebook (may be a small memo note) to quickly write out and continue with your current task/more. When you are done, visit and parse your sidenotes. Of course, the are the usual No Notifications, timers, etc. |
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| ▲ | thegabez 8 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Long walks with no phone help me come back with a lot of focus and less stress. |
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| ▲ | mawadev an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Literally turn off your internet, within 30 seconds you will understand why you cannot focus and that you developed a severe psychological addiction |
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| ▲ | Zealotux 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Yes, I feel like my brain is fried by dopamine dispensers, it's very bad and I have no clue how to get control back. At least I have some healthy routines in my days but it really does feel like being addicted to a hard drug. |
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| ▲ | NichoPaolucci an hour ago | parent | next [-] | | To me, it is the same as a "hard drug". I struggle on and off. For me, it's HN and just general fear of AI / career trajectory. I'm constantly reading articles about it. To a lesser degree, videogames and other scrolling take mgood chunks of my time away. I've been making a concerted effort of waking up in the morning, sitting out in my garage gym for an hour with coffee and a book. I'll do 1 workout per day, 6 times a week, and read a few pages of "Meditations" (The stoicism book). It really centers me and feels refreshing to break away from everything and just focus on my body and mind ad the real physical world. I'm not religious, so I consider that my "church" or something. Obviously, carrying that mindset throughout the day is difficult - but having a set "no-screens" time is useful, especially when my previous schedule was this: - Wake up + look at phone - Sit on toilet and look at phone - Drive to work and look at computer for 4 hours - Have lunch and look at phone - Look at computer for 4 more hours - Come home, make dinner, eat food - Look at computer or tv for 3 hours - Go to bed and look at phone for another hour Writing it down like this makes it very clear that this cannot be a healthy lifestyle - so for me, where work is ALL done in front of a screen, I'm increasingly trying to remove screens from the rest of my life. There's no reason for us to be on the internet all day long, there's other cool shit to do that feels way better than burning my eyes and brain receptors all day long. | |
| ▲ | simpaticoder 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | There exist problems which cause years of suffering which can be solved in hours (sometimes minutes). Not every problem is like that, of course, but some are. Procrastination is like that, sometimes posture is like that, and mental effects of social media are like that. At least for now - this may get worse with time. But the solution is not to consume more content - books seem to be a common suggestion. It is to consume no content. Humans evolved to grind most of the time with a little excitement and entertainment now and again, but tech has inverted this. Its "what we want" in the same way a child wants sugar all the time, and its at once addictive and unhealthy. The screen is an insidious habit former and I'm not sure yet if there is any healthy level or use for some people. | | |
| ▲ | tenuousemphasis 3 hours ago | parent [-] | | >There exist problems which cause years of suffering which can be solved in hours (sometimes minutes). Not every problem is like that, of course, but some are. Procrastination is like that, sometimes posture is like that, and mental effects of social media are like that. So simple to solve all those things in mere minutes, yet you can't even say how? Do I have to buy your book or subscribe to your website to find out the solution for poor posture and procrastination! | | |
| ▲ | simpaticoder 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | How long has it been since you've gone a single day without a screen? I don't have a miracle cure, just a suggestion to try going without for a day and see how you feel. Similar to how a pile of work in the corner can make you feel bad until you finally do it. The ratio of suffering time to cure time in both cases is very high. |
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| ▲ | ricardobayes 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Get a kindle and buy some really gripping books. | | |
| ▲ | blue_pants 4 hours ago | parent [-] | | That won't help. I can get engrossed in a book/film/videogame I like. Most day-to-day task are not as interesting though. The problem is being able to concentrate on an activity that doesn't get you instant gratification. | | |
| ▲ | flogistonical 3 hours ago | parent [-] | | Nothing will help if you don't put in the effort. You need to regain dopamine sensitivity and the way to do that is going on a dopamine diet. If you keep gorging on easy dopamine, it can only get worse. |
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| ▲ | randusername 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I have almost the exact opposite problem. My focus is as strong as ever, maybe stronger, but as time goes on I notice that it is harder and harder for me to gracefully respond to interruptions. It's pretty damaging to my relationships. Everyone expects you to drop everything and give people attention and empathy and be the perfect active listener. But I need a cooldown or a change of scenery to leave a task behind. |
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| ▲ | tmoertel 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Here's something that worked for me: put your phone in your pocket and go on a design walk. While walking, design the next step in whatever you're working on. Design walks work great with more than one person, too. Aristotle was on to something when he adopted a peripatetic approach to thinking. |
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| ▲ | torlok 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | I don't think this is a solution. I do this often naturally, I walk around and "plan", and it feels like I'm just avoiding sitting down and doing the actual task. The author talks about it; when facing a difficult problem, they go get a glass of water, and get distracted. That's what this is. Anything but doing the actual task. If you're going to take a break, take an honest break and rest, but then go back to work. That's the real solution, and boy is it hard to do these days. |
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| ▲ | morelandjs 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Unsolicited endorsement, but I bought a “Brick” device recently, and I can’t recommend it enough for cutting back on social media. Infinite scroll really destroys your ability to concentrate. |
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| ▲ | jorisw 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | I wish people could just admit to themselves how irrelevant all this social media content is, lose interest, and keep the apps shut (or uninstall in case there's no DM feature that keeps it installed). I can't imagine needing to switch devices for this. I couldn't give a single shit what friends or acquaintances (much less strangers) are doing in their free time day to day. They can tell me next time I see them. I have Instagram installed, but only because certain people message me there. I never scroll even a pixel. My biggest distraction? Hacker News. | | |
| ▲ | duskdozer 11 minutes ago | parent [-] | | >My biggest distraction? Hacker News. Don't you see it's the same thing? Why can't you just admit to yourself how irrelevant it is and lose interest? I suppose you could use it just to read an article or two, but you're in the comments as well. The apps are just their Hacker News. | | |
| ▲ | jorisw 3 minutes ago | parent [-] | | Respectfully disagree that they're a 1:1. Hacker News pertains to my profession. I'm not following anyone just because I know them personally. I'm not posting photos or videos of activities that I want them to know about. Hacker News is high relevance news with comments from peers. There's no infinite doomscrolling either. Not from me at least (I view the front page a couple of times a day) |
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| ▲ | schaefer 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| My wireless router runs OpenWRT, one day after a particularly embarrassing YouTube binge, I turned on the adblock plugin on my router and configured it to block YouTube as an ad. It’s turned out to be the best thing I’ve done for myself in a long, long time. |
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| ▲ | maguay 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Strangely I think it's why I like roadtrips so much. Sitting doing absolutely nothing for even 15 minutes is difficult for me, but I can drive for hours doing nothing but watching the world go by, even without music or podcasts on, and it's fine. And that feels good. |
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| ▲ | jrmg 4 hours ago | parent [-] | | Plane flights. I hope the ‘free internet all the time’ era that airlines have been threatening us with for a decade now never arrives. |
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| ▲ | returningfory2 an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Consider turning off the internet before you go to bed and not turning it on for at least 1 hour after you wake up. I think I got this idea from Craig Mod (who I believe does no internet until after lunch). I've been doing this for a few months. The initial hour is really good (very easy to e.g. read or work calmly on some software projects without distraction) but I also find it puts me in the right mindset for the rest of the day. |
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| ▲ | ge96 an hour ago | parent [-] | | Kind of hard if you work 9-5 need to know what's gonna happen before you pull up to the office. Do I have a meeting at 9 AM kind of thing. |
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| ▲ | polotics 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
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- Watch the Robert Sapolsky human behavior lectures. - Learn about basic neuropsychology, to at least have a working understand of the triad Default-Mode-Network, Salience-Network, Executive-Network. - Watch your ambient CO2, also at night. - Sleep so that you always wake up with no alarm. |
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| ▲ | beschizza 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| The author doesn’t mention it, so it seems appropriate to suggest asking a doctor for attention deficit disorder screening. The cultural forces in play encouraging us to flit and switch constantly are a perfect distraction from the possibility one’s own brain is complicit. |
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| ▲ | RugnirViking 5 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | I would caution a little against the prevailing wisdom of diagnosis-as-panacea. I've had a diagnosis for most of my life, but never seen stimulants as worth it (admittedly I've not tried them long term, but that's because after reading a whole lot about it I don't want it in my body). I don't think the diagnosis changes anything for me other than that. It's very much a case of "now what". I suppose some people find a great weight lifted from their shoulders at the idea others struggle with the same thing, or that their struggles aren't due to a personal failing. But I can't escape the next step which is that you still have to do go out and do all the same stuff anyway... | |
| ▲ | kuerbel 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | ADHD isn't something you suddenly develop at 30 or 40. You can get diagnosed later, but the signs are meant to have been there since childhood. | | |
| ▲ | dofm an hour ago | parent | next [-] | | ADHD is something you can rapidly develop an inability to manage at that age, though — after trauma or burnout. Or maybe following RTO after a couple of years of a more peaceful WFH environment. You can get through school without failing, you can get through university and early jobs with hyperfocus, you can be known for being the person who gets bored easily but can do incredible things. Maybe you are late paying bills, never get round to doing certain big tasks, rent when you should be looking to buy a house, all that. Maybe you have friendships that never quite develop into romantic relationships, maybe you are untidy, maybe you stay in a lot because you fear you tire people out socially. But you bimble on and you convince yourself it's OK. My ADHD burnout started in my late forties. Before that I had any number of explanations for the unusual, eccentric aspects of my life, for why I was a freelancer rather than in a steady job, all of that. I still managed to get big jobs done with relentless bursts of focus. I had already quit social media, I had already learned to manage some distractions, and it still happened. But it's clearly ADHD. Having read about it, "inattentive" (hilarious name for it) ADHD explains me to a shocking degree; I don't need a diagnosis. I just never failed badly enough that the issue was forced, until now. I burned out to the point that it feels like cognitive decline. I am broken and I struggle with everything. What the writer is talking about is so reminiscent of the early stages of my burnout that I worry for him. | | |
| ▲ | specproc 5 minutes ago | parent [-] | | > What the writer is talking about is so reminiscent of the early stages of my burnout that I worry for him. Except it's everyone everywhere. Hands up in the thread anyone who doesn't recognise some of these symptoms. Our jobs, tech and societies are making us ill. |
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| ▲ | Shoue 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Symptoms become more obvious as you age, which can feel like it came on later. As part of an assessment they do go through your childhood - if you had trouble in school for example that's a classic ADHD symptom, but there's a lot more to consider. It's not always obvious and I've met plenty of people in their 30s, 40s, 50s who only just realized they had it this year and got assessed. Glyphack's experience definitely mirrors my own and I just got diagnosed with ADHD this year and medication absolutely helps my focus. If you're wondering if you have ADHD this is basically the pre-assessment GPs use in the UK (which then continues to triage and then a full assessment): https://adhduk.co.uk/adult-adhd-screening-survey/ |
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| ▲ | specproc 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | FFS. The solution to our machines eating our brains should not be "just take amphetamine, bro". | | |
| ▲ | tsss 4 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Machines aren't going away. I need a solution that is available right now. | |
| ▲ | iammjm 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Except ADHD was there long before the machines, and stimulants have been scientifically proven time and time again to be helpful in treating ADHD at a very minimal sides effects cost. | | |
| ▲ | specproc 24 minutes ago | parent [-] | | TFA links attention on one hand, and social media and LLM use on the other. I'm not making any points about the scientific validity of those conclusions, but that's the context in which this discussion is taking place. Personally, I find a very strong link between my devices and my ability to focus, as they're the space in which I spaff my time. I do not believe myself to have ADHD, I believe that the machines I use offer limitless ways for me to lose track when I'm tired. I'm deeply skeptical of pharmacological solutionism, particularly in the domain of mental health. A variety of drugs can be a boon, life-saving to many, but are over-prescribed and treat symptoms not causes. With regard to amphetamines in particularly (we called it 'whizz' where I'm from, back in the day), we're talking about a class of drug that can cause dependency, problems with sleep and sex, anxiety and plenty more. I would not say they're not without side effects in the slightest. Sure, great if this sort of stuff helps, but I find the "just get a diagnosis" line utterly inadequate and borderline disturbing. |
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| ▲ | rednafi 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Not relatable. "Internet is not real, and strangers' opinions don't mean anything" is an ethos that I have been religiously following for as long as I can remember. Also, I do a lot of things offline. Read physical books, run after work, and tend to stay out of the internet mob altogether. Oh, having no Instagram or Twitter helps a lot. The faster you realize that we have a limited time on this planet the more ruthless you become with your time. My time is expensive and my employer buys it at a premium. So I am extremely judicious about what I am reading, watching and who I am interacting with. Building the muscle takes time but it's not that hard afterwards. |
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| ▲ | eyk19 an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| As much as I love and embrace LLMs, they are clearly eliminating all flow state that was previously inevitable when coding something |
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| ▲ | d4rkp4ttern 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Regarding the urge to “check what’s out there”, one simple rule I follow is: spend around an hour in the morning catching up with HN, a few reddits, a couple newsletters,
and Bluesky. I completely avoid Twitter/X and LinkedIn, trusting that anything significant enough bubbles up to those other places. Most important — do NOT check any of those the rest of the day. |
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| ▲ | iammjm 4 hours ago | parent [-] | | So you start your day passively scrolling and dopamine front-loading which basically sets the tone for the whole day… I think the “right” way is the exact opposite which is to start the day dopamine-starved and context-free and only scroll at the end of the day | | |
| ▲ | cpt_sobel 4 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Agree with this one and can vouch for it, for a while while living closer to nature I would start my day by drinking water and taking a walk in the forest, actively avoiding screens for my first hour awake. I need to find something similar to do now, maybe water the plants... | |
| ▲ | d4rkp4ttern 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Interesting take. I should try that ! |
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| ▲ | swader999 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| This week I've got all the feeds: slack, email, ticketing system, dev story board, prod system health, prod user activity, prod job queues -- all coming to one dashboard. They are distilled by a local LLM, when I get bursts it offloads to Google's low cost Flash lite so I only read the essential text, no threads, no scrolling and scanning to get to the content. It's freaking amazing, I know everything going on. I can look at it every half hour and be caught up in three minutes. I double click about one in ten messages to reply and it takes me right to the source app to reply. |
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| ▲ | jwr 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| This sounds a little bit like ADHD, but the common advice of getting medication isn't always applicable. Yes, it is definitely worth finding out if you have ADHD and diagnosing it, because if you do, it will help you understand yourself much better and might prevent problems further down the road like anxiety and depression. But medication isn't always the answer. ADHD might be entirely manageable for some people if their work is interesting enough. Some things to try: - noise cancelling headphones with white noise background (Iceland White or Naturespace apps provide really good quality natural recordings) - clean desk - clear split between work and non-work environments |
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| ▲ | mistahenry 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I recently deleted social media from my phone. With nothing left, I found myself compulsively checking HN anytime I had a free moment. That’s shifted now after a few weeks. I’m no longer filling those moments. The wins are subtle but nice: - when I watch a movie, I don’t feel the need to start scrolling - I’m reading at night again. This is far more relaxing and gets me to bed at 9 - 10 - less doom / gloom - consumption is more intentional. I consider what I am interested in then find, rather than be sucked down the algorithmic vortex of what’s proven to engage me |
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| ▲ | dzink 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I’ve started evaluating what seem like brain “modes”. 1. Constant flow of information with disjointed context (social media, brain fracking, moving in a crowd) triggers hunter-gatherer instinct that is hard to stop. The dopamine seek in a way. Even if you stop your brain seeks it, so unless you really need this mode for work, it helps to postpone or time box these to the end of the day (kind of like some would do with drinking alcohol). 2. How you start your day after sleep creates framing of the brain and you can start iterating on frames and how you drive them depending on your needs. Maybe set a schedule of things to at need done the night before (a continuity thread) maybe boxing the activities to different types at different times. It’s all sciencing the self but the brain is definitely conditioning to things and you have to mind it. 3. ADHD meds from what i’ve read are caffeine on steroids (blocking adenosine receptors, but not really adding to executive function). From personal observation ADHD also feels like a mode one can be put into by wrong brain framing (at least for people not diagnosed). |
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| ▲ | gehsty 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I’m guess “all you need is attention” is a good reflection of ourselves as well AI. I’m off anything with an algorithmic feed. My brain can’t handle these. I turn off shorts and YouTube auto play using iOS safari extensions. I block the linked in feed. I read a handful of blogs via rss. The most regular feed I check is HN a few times a day. I’m reading books again for the first time in a decade or so. It feels good and certainly not worse than before. |
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| ▲ | redlewel an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Pretty much the reason why I reset my X password, sent that to a friend then used HN for my tech news fix instead. On HN eventually there isn't much interesting stuff on the front page, on X it pulls you in with great effectiveness |
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| ▲ | dzonga 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| one day maybe in 30 years - research is gonna come out - on how much a hit on productivity Slack/teams was. based on my estimate it might be 60%. that's 60% of white collar gdp gone. I have noticed, the more teams use slack/teams - the teams are usually bigger more than necessary. there's more meetings & less work gets done. more 'quick chats' vs teams who are email first (async) - no immediate response required. |
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| ▲ | om8 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| > So how can I regain my ability to focus? Getting diagnosed with ADHD and taking meds did the trick for me. Not sure how relevant this is, since inability to focus was always an issue for me. |
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| ▲ | mark_something 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | I don't think that the author has ADHD, because they used to be more attentive in the past. In the case of ADHD, it was also the case as a child. I also got the diagnosis of ADHD (inattentive type) a few months ago, in the interviews they asked whether I also had these symptoms as a child. Not easy to figure out because as a child things like finishing things on time are not so important yet, and my high IQ compensated for a lack of focus. Only in secondary school it became a problem, and my grades dropped. |
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| ▲ | ChrisMarshallNY 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| In my case, I'm "on the spectrum," so focus isn't a problem. In fact, too much focus can be a problem. One of the things that happens to me, is I get "in the zone," usually, when coding. Sometimes, an hour can pass, and I barely notice. But I am also aware that this is not the way most people are. |
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| ▲ | cryptopian 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Something I really grew to hate over my time at various software firms were complex and flaky stacks with big test loops, and it's exactly this kind of reason why. Ideally, I have a problem, I want to put my head in the problem space and stay focused there until it's done. Every time a test suite takes five minutes to run, or I have to look up some obscure docs in my web browser, or I have to go somewhere else to rebuild a failing service, is an off-ramp to that flow state, and that's where I lose a whole hour to procrastination. |
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| ▲ | flogistonical 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | Traction between intention and result is the most powerful tool in the brain's kit. We are made to spin our wheels often, it's adversarial. Gain and keep traction. Attention is our most valuable resource. If you chose what you attend to, you can achieve at the limit of your physical and mental potential. If you attend to what others wish you attend to, you will be ceding the difference to parasitic systems. |
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| ▲ | franze 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Claude Code has made my computer as - or even more - addicting as social media. I created this for me
https://rainbreak.franzai.com/
to force myself into a break. Into breaking out of the agent loop. 7 minutes for short, 21 for a long break.
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| ▲ | Void_ 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I'm using an app called Focusmate (no affiliation) on a daily basis - scheduling 5-6 hour sessions per day. You talk to a stranger for a few seconds, say what you're working on, and after 50 minutes you say goodbye. They stay on the video throughout the session, but muted. It helps me focus because I always think "it's only 50 minutes". Also, I recently deleted Instagram and it made a huge impact. |
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| ▲ | stephenbez 2 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Yeah I’ve done nearly 3000 sessions on there and it’s been a life saver. | |
| ▲ | tchock23 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Not sure why you got downvoted. This works for a lot of people. Doesn’t work for me because I find the video aspect to be awkward, but the concept of ‘body doubling’ as a way of enabling focus is well established. [Editing to note that perhaps you were downvoted because OP lives in a place with internet issues and couldn’t use Discord to cowork with friends, so the video and bandwidth heavy approach of Focusmate isn’t a viable recommendation] |
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| ▲ | mark_l_watson 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| This is a real problem, a long time in the making. Over fifty years ago advertising started to affect the way people thought: I argue that they trained people to not be content with a classic simple life. Fast forward to the best tech focused on messing with people's attention. I like Center for Humane Technology for discussions of tech that is designed to help people, not control them. |
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| ▲ | konsalexee 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I feel quite the same (struggle basically) as the OP. My “stack” is self-control for blocking social and Gmail access. And now I built QuiteCode to focus on deep coding and learning on a more mindful way. https://gethopp.github.io/quite-code/ |
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| ▲ | doginasuit 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| It seems like I have challenges with both extremes, I can get pulled into my work and not look up again for 10 hours. But with virtually everything else, I have no energy to see it through. It is rare for me to watch a movie from start to finish. I used to be able to shut off my brain. |
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| ▲ | forlorn_mammoth 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| dopamine fracking. https://igerman.cc/blog/dopamine-fracking/ https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=48440792 |
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| ▲ | Otterly99 an hour ago | parent [-] | | I completely disagree with the author. Is the goal of the "dopamine fracking" metaphor is to represent a "pure concentrated dopamine hit", I would argue it is a more apt representation of what hard stimulants do to your brain (i.e. a shortcut to massive amount of dopamine release). The perverse effect of social media addiction is more akin to a slow I.V. drip where you are always in a slightly aroused state, which then becomes your baseline and any cut from it is a net negative in your life. |
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| ▲ | cregy 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| My 10 cents lately, pink noise. Blocks out a lot of distraction and helps focus. |
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| ▲ | ritcgab 20 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| And yet people are still happily driving 10 LLM sessions concurrently. |
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| ▲ | arsome an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| YouTube is really the thing that got me - the thing is it's not bad content, I don't watch slop, I watch quality stuff from interested, passionate individual creators and I could listen to them talk about their interests all day. It doesn't wreck my day or make me feel anxious or anything, no doom scrolling involved, but it sure can turn into a huge time sink very fast. |
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| ▲ | themoose8 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| As it happens I'm currently working on an app to help with this problem, effectively a soft habit tracker designed for daily reflection and mindful progression. It touches on some of the themes in this HN thread - helping create quiet space, time away from stimulation. It's an early stage, fully functional but I'm looking for beta users. If you're interested in helping out or simply trying the app, please complete the form on https://coghance.com ! |
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| ▲ | ed_elliott_asc 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I listened to the dose effect [1] and that has really helped me get my attention back. I’ve deleted TikTok and now get blocks of focused work done and I haven’t been this effective or happy in years. I genuinely believe the next generation will be defined by people who can and who cannot focus their attention and get stuff done. [1] https://open.spotify.com/show/2YCIVADHhUbpTtuCIvV7dG?si=lOiV... |
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| ▲ | cebert 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I can focus at home. I have a terrible time focusing in the open office floor plan at work. I have to wear noise-canceling headphones just to cut down on some of the noise. Even then, people are constantly stopping by to chit-chat or make small talk. I hate it. |
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| ▲ | piterrro 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| This feels so familiar. Since more than a year or so Im witnessing more and more content being produced. One year ago or so it was enough to visit HN main page once a day and be up to day. These day, it needs a visit every few hours, the main page changes constantly.
Not only that but also the amount of content received via newsletters. Worst is with LLMs and coding agents, I give it a task to work on then go browsing the web, the LLM finishes in 2 minutes but I come back after 10… At the end of the day, my mind feels super tired even though its the LLM that did the heavy lifting. I also barely remember what I was browsing 15 minutes ago. At this point I can honestly say - Im in trouble. |
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| ▲ | misiti3780 an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I agree with this article, but I found the easiest ways to work on my focus are the following: - Don't use social media. It's all garbage and counterproductive for your attention. Once you stop using it, you start to forget it exists. - Always carry a Kindle, and when you're bored, read instead of reaching for other apps or games. - Try to read 15 minutes before work, 30 minutes during lunch, and 15 minutes after work. That's an hour of reading a day — enough to get through a lot of books and papers. - If you use an elliptical, read while on it. It takes practice, but it can be done. You will see the biggest gains by saying bye to social media. |
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| ▲ | karlkloss 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| "It feels like my brain finds a way to do something else and avoid painful situations like boredom or hard work." You just described ADHD. |
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| ▲ | epolanski 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I'm in the same boat as OP. I've learned to realize how many times it's boredom or stress triggering the distraction. I see also other people struggle as much or worse than I do. |
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| ▲ | gcanyon 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| The standards we set are off: I recently discovered 75 hard, and it's mind-boggling to me that the mental equivalent of "do two separate workouts, 45 minutes each" is "read 10 pages of a non-fiction book." If it's a physics textbook, sure, that balance makes sense. If it's Atomic Habits (no offense to that book) then 10 pages is just not equivalent. |
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| ▲ | tapcheck 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I got a secure computer room professionally installed. |
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| ▲ | stevefan1999 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Perhaps we should learn from the ADHDs on how to resist the dopamine hacks. Oh wait, I am one and I can't resist it since day 1 on this world. |
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| ▲ | Rodmine 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Check your diet. ADD/ADHD has been linked to histamine intolerance. |
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| ▲ | spacecadet 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| idk discipline? try retraining your brain on non-digital activities. Pick a long running non-digital activity and gitrdone. |
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| ▲ | snitzr 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-] |
| Dude needs a vacation. |