| ▲ | Why use mailing lists?(mailarchive.ietf.org) |
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| ▲ | teddyh 13 hours ago | parent | next [-] |
| Like I recently wrote in response to someone here who was fascinated that mailing lists were “still a thing in 2025”: Please, inform us of an alternative which is: • Non-proprietary • Federated • Archivable • Accessible • Not dependent on a specific company — <https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43972038> |
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| ▲ | thewebguyd 12 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | And those are the exact same reasons I loath the trend of discourse moving into discord groups, or slack groups, hell I've even seen Facebook groups. None of those are reachable without an account and in many cases an invite (private by default), they are not indexed by search engines, they are proprietary, cannot be exported or archived, etc. It's asking for knowledge to be lost. | | |
| ▲ | throw7 12 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Yes, I was hoping to check out ladybird browser project, but they use discord. | |
| ▲ | abnercoimbre 11 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I'm gradually switching our in-person community to Revolt [0] because we want to self-host and own the data. (Discord offers extreme convenience, but it's a black-box for-profit platform.) We don't want casual discourse to be indexed to the public. Instead we'll host a wiki system soon that bubbles up technical chatter into worthy articles. Is that a reasonable compromise? [0] https://revolt.handmadecities.com | | |
| ▲ | thewebguyd 11 hours ago | parent [-] | | It's definitely better than discord in that it solves the data ownership problem. It's not federated, still centralized to your own revolt server - but I think that's OK for private groups anyway, or ephemeral discussions (unless Revolt can be federated, I'm not familiar with it) My concern is more the trend of open groups, even open source projects, centralizing around discord both for dev discussion, community discussion, and technical support. There's incredible value to those discussions to be indexed and searchable on the web, like the good old days of public forums. Actual work took place in public, on mailing lists and forums. It could be indexed and scraped, even just archived to my local machine. | | |
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| ▲ | 62 12 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | > It's asking for knowledge to be lost. You say that like it's not already happening. It's happening. Many technical chats are only happening on discord now. Everything single day the volume of current technical knowledge gets smaller. |
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| ▲ | dfabulich 10 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Mailing lists aren't federated. Everyone has to email one particular address at one particular domain; whoever controls that email address + domain can censor/block emails. (That's a good thing when you're blocking spam!) If you're OK with the fact that mailing lists are somewhat centralized, there are actually got a ton of great alternatives to pure mailing lists. All popular open-source web forums support email notifications, and most of them support posting by email, (I know phpBB and Discourse do,) and all of them have sitemaps with crawlable archives. | | |
| ▲ | dminuoso an hour ago | parent [-] | | You can run your own mail server and name server on top. The network of mail is very much federated. In mail we have so many freedoms. We have become so locked into technology that we have to introduce a term like “federation” to signify the interoperability and freedom of a single component. Mail is federation layered upon federation. The fact that you can just use a mailings list address as a member of another mailing list gives you even more federation possibilities. All with the simplest of all message exchange protocols. | | |
| ▲ | Erwyn an hour ago | parent [-] | | > You can run your own mail server and name server on top. The network of mail is very much federated. While I do completely agree with that in theory (and I also love mail) I think it does not stand the reality test because of email deliveravility which tends to be a nightmare. How do you solve this? Do you use a third party SMTP? | | |
| ▲ | Intermernet 4 minutes ago | parent [-] | | I ran multiple mail servers for years until about 10 years ago (moved out of the industry). The deliverability problem, as far as I know, hasn't really changed that much in the last decade. The key was to configure DKIM, SPF, only use secure protocols and monitor the various black/block-lists to make sure you aren't on them for very long. In my experience, if you end up on a few bad lists, and don't react quickly, the reputation of your domain goes down rapidly and it's harder to get off said lists. You also want some spam filtering, which, these days, is apparently much more powerful with local LLMs. I used to just use various bayesian classification tools, but I've heard that the current state of affairs is better. Having said that, when you've trained the tool, it does a pretty good job. It's not "plug-and-play", but it's not that hard. Once you've got it up and running the maintenance load goes to almost zero. |
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| ▲ | magicalhippo 13 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Newsgroups as in NNTP[1] fits those criteria, no? Granted, federated bit is more tricky now. Back in the days many if not most ISPs ran a NNTP server. But the protocol supports it. [1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Network_News_Transfer_Protocol | | |
| ▲ | mrweasel 13 hours ago | parent [-] | | I loved Usenet back in the day, but I sort of wonder why organisations keep their servers running. I struggle to find any active newsgroups these days. Weirdly enough spam still hits some of the groups. | | |
| ▲ | magicalhippo 10 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Yeah it died off sadly. Had so many good news discussions back then. Still miss the buzz of downloading a new batch of messages. I used Gmane[1] to access mailing lists as newsgroups, which I've always thought was a much better fit. Alas as with all good things that was shut down also. [1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gmane | | |
| ▲ | clircle 5 hours ago | parent [-] | | News.gmane.io is up. I use it daily to track a few projects. | | |
| ▲ | magicalhippo 5 hours ago | parent [-] | | Ah, thanks. I knew there were issues, but somehow missed they'd resolved it. A great service, glad to see it alive and kicking! | | |
| ▲ | pasc1878 an hour ago | parent [-] | | They have not resolved the big issue. news.gmane.io has always worked. The issue is that the owner of that domain made a mistake and gave the control of the web frontend to someone else who just shut it down. |
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| ▲ | WesolyKubeczek 12 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | And conspiracy chain mails still pondering on whether or not 9/11 was an inside job. I joined usenet recently to see how the things were, and it had some serious ghost town vibes. |
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| ▲ | liendolucas 12 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I would probably change "Not dependent on a specific company" to "Not being hostage from ransomware from specific companies". See: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=45283887 | | |
| ▲ | kragen 12 hours ago | parent [-] | | Even without Slack's ransomware-as-a-service business model, being dependent on a specific company is a big problem. If Dropbox decides to ban your country for being running too many AI crawlers, or DejaNews goes out of business, or XOJane decides to pivot to a different market (see http://web.archive.org/web/20171015000000*/http://www.xojane... for example), or LiveJournal gets bought by Russian trolls, it's potentially a big problem. |
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| ▲ | gus_massa 12 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | The sad reality is that for 99.99% or the population: WhatsApp groups, with a solid 1/5 in your requirement list. (Or at least, I hope they get one point, text selection is broken.) People just not care, they just want to send and recive messages and an easy method to add and remove persons. | |
| ▲ | mxchris2121 13 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Please inform me of an opensource way to run one that I can actually get configured properly. | | | |
| ▲ | renegat0x0 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Yesterday I seen someone claiming on Reddit that they stopped using mailing list in favour of using rss | | |
| ▲ | pasc1878 an hour ago | parent [-] | | Yes that works to read them - and I do use that. But if you want to write a message in reply or start a new conversation - RSS does not allow that. (In the cases that I use RSS - I will just copy to my mail app - it is more cumbersome than just replying in mail (or usenet via gmane) but this is not something I do often for those lists. |
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| ▲ | o11c 12 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Literally any open-source forum or wiki meets all the requirements except possibly "federated" (depending on whether people set up a dump->restore to another machine), but is much more welcoming to ad-hoc contributors who don't want to subscribe to 10,000 emails per day just to get replies to their own posts. If mailing-list users actually used CC properly this would not be a problem, but THAT IS NOT THE REALITY WE LIVE IN. Bad technical etiquette on behalf of the habitual mailing-list users is the main reason people hate mailing lists. === Editing to also reject some of the points from the article: "1. Mailing lists require no special software" is utter bullshit. If you accept "must install a mail program", surely you can accept "must install lynx or curl"? The contrast of 3/4 to forums is utter bullshit. What security/privacy risk is there in using a forum? Are they going to leak my email address or something? ... I don't even want to respond in detail to the rest of the nonsense that follows. Are they talking about some particular forum that hasn't been updated since 1999 or something? Yes these are problems which is why people have made solutions to them ... | | |
| ▲ | SoftTalker 12 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | My problem with forums is that I am forced to use a web browser and access them through their provided interface. A lot of them, especially the older ones, are seriously hard to use and even worse on mobile. Mailing lists I access with my preferred mail client and environment. Receiving "10,000 emails per day" would only happen on a very active list. In most cases you're talking about a dozen or at worst a few hundred. Your email client can easily filter those into a virtual folder, and quickly find the messages where you are addressed or threads you're interested in. Once I have the emails, I have them forever. I am not dependent on some forum remaining online five years from now if I want to go find an old message. Web forums and wikis just suck for message-based interactions. Email is designed for that and it works really well. | | |
| ▲ | eschaton 12 hours ago | parent [-] | | I find that people who complain about email volume are not only unfamiliar with setting up rules to file messages into folders, but entirely uninterested in learning how to leverage their tools that way. In fact, it seems many of them resent having to learn anything in order to be more productive, instead insisting the burden belongs on others. “I don’t want to get all that email, so it’s OK for me to make you visit a web page several times a day to participate instead.” And no, Discourse’s “mailing list mode” isn’t sufficient, it’s as garbage as the rest of Discourse, especially when D showed the right way to do this: Mailing list primary, NNTP newsgroup gatewayed (or vice versa), with a web forum for those who insist on one. If only LLVM et al had gone that route. | | |
| ▲ | BeFlatXIII 11 hours ago | parent [-] | | It's replicated work for every person who wants to set up filters and notifications. Discord or whatever has defaults that don't require everyone to create their custom environment. |
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| ▲ | LaGrange 12 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | > Literally any open-source forum or wiki meets all the requirements except possibly "federated" (depending on whether people set up a dump->restore to another machine), but is much more welcoming to ad-hoc contributors who don't want to subscribe to 10,000 emails per day just to get replies to their own posts. I know that mailing clients have gotten worse, but not _that_ worse. > The contrast of 3/4 to forums is utter bullshit. What security/privacy risk is there in using a forum? Are they going to leak my email address or something? Most of them employ a whole bunch of google analytics for reasons unclear. That should be sufficient. --- Though unfortunately I disagree with the OP. Those are arguments as to why it would be nice if email stuck around. But it won't. Just because the problems come from "bad deployments of anti-spam policies" doesn't change the fact that the "bad deployments" are literally _the majority of email_. |
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| ▲ | Karrot_Kream 12 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | ActivityPub? Just because people use it as a Twitter clone doesn't mean you can't run mailing list style content on top of it. It would be nice to not use Mastodon-isms if you're trying to go about doing something like that. However it's easy with Mastodon-isms too. Have a bot listen to mentions, use any sort of moderation/accept queue to accept questions, then Reblog the ones you accept. ATProto would fit most of the bill too here but AP is self-hostable and contained in a way that ATP isn't. AP is also standardized and has gone through standards bodies. | |
| ▲ | maxloh an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Maybe Matrix? | |
| ▲ | kilroy123 11 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | This is why I run a newsletter. I love the simplicity of it. | |
| ▲ | s1110 9 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | IRC | |
| ▲ | johanyc 11 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | RSS? | |
| ▲ | adgjlsfhk1 13 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Discourse seems to fit the bill (although I'm not 100% sure about federation) | | |
| ▲ | micromacrofoot 12 hours ago | parent [-] | | it seems to have a plugin for federation, but I'm not sure how federation works for forums | | |
| ▲ | eschaton 12 hours ago | parent [-] | | It doesn’t, federation makes it not a web forum and its “web forum first” nature makes Discourse fundamentally unsuitable for things like technical work. (As opposed to, say, product support.) If you want federation, set up a mailing list gatewayed to a usenet group you host on your own NNTP server, and slap a web forum interface on top of that for the whiny children who won’t use anything that isn’t inside a browser. | | |
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| ▲ | throwaway270925 11 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | I sometimes wonder why there aren't any chat-based apps/UIs for mailing lists? Think UIs in the style of Discord/Slack/Teams/etc but with email/mailinglist(s) as backend. IIRC there was Delta.chat but no idea how they are doing? (And if they integrate with mailing lists/formatting etc) | | |
| ▲ | rakoo 10 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Deltachat is still alive and well, you can see it evolve on their blog: https://delta.chat/en/blog The thing is, deltachat really focuses on encrypted-first, and if possible encrypted-only communications in tight-knit groups: servers have no authority, they're merely relays. Mailing lists are not built for that, they're the central authority point where all moderation happens, and being forwarders they can't work with e2ee. In the current setting deltachat isn't built for mailing lists but group or 1-1 communication work very well. | |
| ▲ | layer8 10 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Mailing lists are largely a different mode of communication than chat, as alluded to in parts of TFA. I’d go as far as to say that mailing lists are mostly incompatible with chat-like usage patterns. It’s a feature, not a bug. Chat programs and protocols like IRC have existed almost as long as mailing lists, but were never a replacement for them. | |
| ▲ | dfc 10 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | I think one of the reasons is that mailing list usage expects/imposes some level of reflection time and editing between sending a new reply. Imagine if every time someone hit enter in slack/teams/discord a new email showed up in a thread somewhere in someone's mail reader. |
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| ▲ | teeray 12 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I set one up for our HOA as a unified conversation and notification platform. Everyone now has exactly one email address to remember to notify everyone of, say, a graduation party where there might be some extra cars. Nobody needs Facebook, or a Google account for Groups, etc. When people move, their addresses just get updated in the list. The only trouble I had moderating it is people just love searching for whatever email was sent last to the list, necroing the thread and changing topics to whatever is on their mind. I had to set threads to auto-lock after a week or two of inactivity to force people to start new topics for things that are, well, new topics. |
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| ▲ | aidenn0 8 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Fun fact: if you change the subject to a reply in Outlook (the desktop client; not sure about 365) it will automatically start a new thread. This feature was added because MS found that the "reply to last e-mail from intended recipients" was a common way for people to compose new e-mails. | |
| ▲ | IshKebab an hour ago | parent | prev [-] | | Almost like the UX of mailing lists isn't actually that good... |
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| ▲ | cnst 13 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Via http://www.mail-archive.com/nginx@nginx.org/msg25495.html. Sadly, it's been announced yesterday that the nginx.org mailing lists are being shutdown by end of month (Sept 2025). P.S. Probably one more reason to look into into the freenginx fork of nginx — https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39373327 — their mailing lists are at http://freenginx.org/en/support.html. |
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| ▲ | nanolith 8 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I have actually argued for the use of mailing lists for corporate engineering discussions. When that becomes the medium for code review or design discussions, there's a nice streamlined workflow. Further, it's practically trivial to write or customize a mailing list reflector. If you have a decent and secure mail client library, you're a weekend away from it just working. Contrast that with customizing or rolling your own IRC, Slack, Discord, or web forum clone. Mailing lists don't suffer from vendor lock-in, and anyone with a mail client and who can follow basic rules can participate. An invitation-only mailing list with a reflector that verifies PGP encryption and non-repudiation is just fine for most corporate discussions. For mailing lists open to the public, new users can be placed in a moderation queue for a period of time until it's clear that they understand list netiquette and formatting rules. |
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| ▲ | pabs3 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Some resources on mailing lists from ArchiveTeam: https://wiki.archiveteam.org/index.php/Mailing_Lists |
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| ▲ | nickm12 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Agree these are advantages:
Mailing lists are simple
- Mailing lists are bandwidth-friendly
- Mailing lists interoperate
- They're asynchronous
- They're portable
- They can be freely interconverted
- They can be written to media and read from it Disagree these are advantages:
Mailing lists require no special software
- They impose minimal security risk
- They impose minimal privacy risk
- They're push, not pull, so new content just shows up
- They scale beautifully
- they're relatively free of abuse vectors
- They handle threading well I still use mailing lists, both at work and personally, but they are 1970s technology and it feels like it. We could build mailing lists for this century that keep these advantages and fix what's broken, but there's no business model in it. |
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| ▲ | 7bit 40 minutes ago | parent [-] | | Minimal privacy risk is such a BS "advantage". You put your email out there for everybody to read it. So privacy with mailing lists does not exist If I want to remain anonymous, I need to register another email address, which is a massive pain in the ass to register AND then to read or reply to the mailing list. With a forum I register, chose an anonymous nickname and can participate and get updates into my normal inbox anonymously. |
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| ▲ | deknos 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| i am still of the opinion, if they would extend sieve quite a bit and standardize markdown/reST/asciidoc as rendered in emailreaders, we could probably get much more usage of mail again (sieve would need additional features of sending/processing mails and reencrypting imho) but mail is still less broken then mobile phone networks. |
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| ▲ | jcgl 26 minutes ago | parent [-] | | Yes. And we'd also need people to stop demanding non-semantic hard wrapping at 79/80 chars. |
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| ▲ | amo1111 12 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| As someone who has grown up in the era of forums. I have a new found appreciation for mailing lists. I did recently come across some interesting mailing list archives from the 80s https://github.com/MITDDC/cpmarchive-1979-1984/blob/main/cpm... |
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| ▲ | crossroadsguy 9 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I loved and love mailing lists, except for their capacity for ensuring everyone's email addresses are out there in the open for everyone else, including the scammers and spammers. I still use them (very few! and almost none of them are "tech ones"). I have a dedicated email address for them, which is disposable but doesn't look the part. I do wish, though, that many more groups would adopt mailing lists. I had started a small cinema/lit club/group and got some good traction as well. But everyone wanted to bring in the latest group chat toys, online meet toys. I had proposed (the async) mailing list (private; I had hoped I'd find one), and it was shot down immediately, IIRC, by everyone else. |
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| ▲ | aidenn0 9 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Can anyone recommend mailing list hosting for a non-public group of about 20-30 people that costs less than $100 per year? My family plans all of their reunions via e-mail and every year we end up with someone putting an out-of-date e-mail for someone in the list, or forgetting to include someone, or including someone who has asked to not get updates. I offered to host a mailing server, and I may just end up rolling my own on a DO droplet with mailgun or something for reliable delivery because mailing list hosting I could find was rather expensive. |
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| ▲ | vrnvu 13 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Mailing list yes, RSS yes.... Old, boring, simple, works. No ads. |
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| ▲ | tonymet 10 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I digitized HOA records and initially considered using a collaboration tool like Slack partnered with Google Drive to create an online community. Although a corporation and their hierarchy can impose tools easily, HOA communities don't have that luxury. You have broad demographics, skills and no time to support any of them. A bigger issue is credentialing. You don't want the business of helping seniors log into or reset their Slack password. My ultimate "non-engineering" solution was to use email for everything. A mailing list for communications. Records requests are handled via email with some automation. There's tremendous opportunity for more email Saas -- like Sourcehut but for other disciplines. Everyone and everything can do email. It's easy to automate, and authentication is someone else's problem (the recipient only needs access to their inbox). |
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| ▲ | alberth 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| The irony of talking about loving mailing list … while we’re all using a centralized, proprietary web forum (HN) to talk about it. |
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| ▲ | shutton 11 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I’ve been running Gaggle Mail (https://gaggle.email) for over 10 years, and mailing lists are still very popular in certain circles. They’re especially valued for long-form discussions — legal groups, professional associations, HOAs, and similar communities still rely on them because they’re simple, reliable, and easy to archive. |
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| ▲ | philip1209 10 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I was trying to make a modern version of mailing lists with Booklet [1] - it just never got traction. I intend to open-source it soon. [2] Async communications are underrated. [1]: https://booklet.group [2]: I did open-source my other project recently, though - so it's not an entirely hollow intention! |
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| ▲ | kajaktum 11 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| All this is true but mailing lists UI sucks. Please tell me how you navigate a tree of messages? It is not easy to tell who is this responding to and who responds to it. Yes, it can be figured out but why does the tree change as I navigate it? [0] [0] https://lkml.org/lkml/2024/1/7/103 |
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| ▲ | layer8 10 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | This is all a matter of the email client. Useful email clients show email threads in trees like this (the red lines and arrows): https://vigasdeep.com/2012/06/07/mutt-the-ultimate-mailing-c... | | |
| ▲ | arp242 8 hours ago | parent [-] | | What if you're not subscribed? I don't usually care about the day to day of Linux kernel dev, but that one thread might be of interest to me. Actually, I might have something to contribute, but since I'm not subscribed the UX on that sucks too. "Just use mutt" as a reply to "I want to read this one email thread" is rather missing the point. Plus the reality is most people neither use nor want mutt. Many people think the UX on mutt is horrible. Nice if it works for you, but it doesn't for many. So there's that. | | |
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| ▲ | mcdow 10 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I bet it wouldn’t be too hard to build a nice UI over a mailing list. You could make it as nice as Slack. Has this been done? | | |
| ▲ | arp242 8 hours ago | parent [-] | | Spent some time on this a few years back and have a half-finished project for it. The thing that proved to be a huge roadblock was importing existing archives since many don't provide a good interface to it. The https://lore.kernel.org site is actually fairly decent, but limited to Linux kernel stuff and some adjacent projects. Gmane was quite nice too, but now defunct (the web UI anyway). |
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| ▲ | perching_aix 11 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | To be honest, I had a lot more trouble finding the tree there than understanding what it shows per se. |
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| ▲ | melodyogonna 11 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I still don't know how to get started with mailing lists. Is there some server you have to join? |
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| ▲ | layer8 10 hours ago | parent [-] | | You can set up an email list using Google Groups, for instance. As an example for such a list, see https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44767555. People need to subscribe to the mailing list, either by sending a subscribe email to the appropriate email address, or via a web interface that is specific to the mailing list server. Once subscribed, you simply send emails to the list’s email address, and receive emails from that address. It’s useful to set up a filter in your email account or email client so that all messages from a given mailing list are automatically sorted into a separate email folder. |
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| ▲ | eisa01 11 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Mailing lists are horrible for people new to a list, as you have no history to search in your inbox and the UI to browse the archives are beyond atrocious. People that have been on the list for decades tend to forget this, and wonder why it dies down |
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| ▲ | layer8 9 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Usually an email archive of the list is available for download, which you can incorporate into your local archive. In case none is available, what I have sometimes done is to ask a resident member (privately) if they can send me their archive. | | |
| ▲ | eisa01 an hour ago | parent [-] | | The mailing lists relevant for me do not have that. Good that you can get the archive, it still has a quite high setup cost for people not used to mailing lists compared to visiting a Discourse forum |
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| ▲ | skydhash 10 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Wait, what? I regularly use marc-info (for OpenBSD) and emacs-devel, and it’s quite easy to find information. And you can always get the mbox and use something like mairix if you want local tools. |
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| ▲ | perching_aix 10 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| The only thing keeping me away from mailing lists is them being built on top of email. |
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| ▲ | layer8 10 hours ago | parent [-] | | You need a good email client (and email editor) that provides some affordances for mailing lists, for sure. Apart from that, the fact that mailing lists use email provides at least half of their benefits, and of the reasons they endure. |
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| ▲ | a-dub 13 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| how hard is it to run your own smtp gateway in 2025? are you good if you just set up dkim and such? |
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| ▲ | SoftTalker 12 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | You also need a server with a good IP address reputation located in a non-sketchy country and a domain that isn't brand-new. And probably more. | | |
| ▲ | eikenberry 11 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | You can also host your own MX servers but use a provider for SMTP. Almost any mail provider that supports custom domains will work at their lowest price point. | |
| ▲ | cnst 12 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | I'm pretty sure the reputation thing is overstated, else, how would all those providers be able to scale up their SMTP services themselves? | | |
| ▲ | msm_ 8 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | From experience, it's not overstated. Running your own email server is pain, and even if you do everything right you may get delivery problems. And if you want to improve your chances, you have to do whatever big tech wants you to. And if you ever get onto the bad side (for example, your site is hacked and distributes malware for a few days) you may never recover. It's not impossible, but it's not something you run once and forget. | |
| ▲ | SoftTalker 12 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Gmail or Apple scaling up is going to be treated differently from some random new domain suddenly appearing on a Digital Ocean or Hetzner or AWS cloud instance. | | |
| ▲ | cnst 12 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | But how would anyone know it's Gmail or Apple if the IP address is new? That's exactly my point, that the reputation need is overstated by all those services that claim to solve a known problem that everyone has heard of, but noone has actually experienced, because, guess what, it might not actually exist. I've seen plenty of cases where the emails sent out through Sendgrid et al, end up in the Spam folder, or these "professional" services don't even attempt to retry, thus, never getting through the greylisting, or other bugs which cause deliverability issues, which would never happen if you were to run your own real mail-server on your own hardware yourself. | | |
| ▲ | SoftTalker 12 hours ago | parent [-] | | Sendgrid, Mailchimp, et. al. ends up in the spam folder because most of what they send is spam. | | |
| ▲ | cnst 12 hours ago | parent [-] | | I'm not disputing that assertion, yet it does go against the marketing materials we're all presented by all of these services, as for reasons to not run our own mailservers. In other words, if all you want to do is run a personal mailserver, or even a corporate one, you'll probably not have to deal with this supposed IP reputation issue, unless the IP addresses you use, have already been added to the blacklists even before you start at it. | | |
| ▲ | Bender 9 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Running your own mail servers to do the volume emitted by Sendgrid would indeed be on the level of starting your own medium sized business. Getting IP allocation, swip'ing them out to divisions of your company or your customers and paying into whitelists for all the "free" email providers like Google et al would be a massive up front cost. Running your own mail server for personal email is an afternoon of setup DKIM, DMARC, SPF, FCrDNS and such, setup of your MTA/IMAP/WEB preferences, tuning some filters, setting up aliases, accounts for family and with time the tuning work eventually slows down and then it's just maintaining accounts, aliases and the occasional rules to block problem networks and domains. With time you may find some servers that require lowering security or filters but that is also very easy. | |
| ▲ | SoftTalker 11 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Yes if you are using a domain that's been around for a while and has a reasonably stable IP address history and is not on any blacklists, that is the defintion of a "good" reputation. Or at least it's not a bad one. |
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| ▲ | layer8 9 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | There are a lot of small email hosting providers that don’t seem to have much trouble. |
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| ▲ | micromacrofoot 12 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | it's very easy to get blackholed by major providers like gmail though, and very difficult to get out |
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| ▲ | bruce343434 11 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Hard. You need reverse DNS, which means you need to have a machine with a stable ip, and convince the network operator to set up a PTR reverse DNS record for you. This part is fairly easy if you are renting a VPS with a fixed ipv4 address, just ask the rental company. You also need to set up mx, dkim, dmarc, spf, and a bunch of other stupid DNS records related to dane/tlsa/mta-sts that aim to put bandaids on top of bandaids on top of what is the shitty unsecured and unencrypted email protocol. Then you need to fight with a bunch of arcane 90s Unix programs to actually not be gaping security holes that will allow people to relay off of your MTA and get you blacklisted worldwide. You need to fight with a milter and acme client to finally get the TLS stuff right too. Then there's the need to set up a spam filter for your inbox (probably). | | |
| ▲ | floren 5 hours ago | parent [-] | | > Then you need to fight with a bunch of arcane 90s Unix programs to actually not be gaping security holes that will allow people to relay off of your MTA how many decades has it been since this was actually the default config? |
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| ▲ | imiric 11 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| The value of the federated/decentralized nature of email is hard to overstate. So many of the problems of modern technology are caused by centralization. It concentrates power and wealth into a handful of companies that now control the internet. It introduces extraordinary problems from managing data and services at global scales, which is the biggest technical challenge these companies face. It makes government surveillance easier (PRISM, etc.), and is a prime target of corruption by advertising, propaganda, etc. It robs people of control over their data. All of these things are either non-issues, or far less of an issue, with decentralized technology invented half a century ago. It is bewildering that we had email, Usenet, DNS, and the internet itself, yet we ended up with strong centralization with the web, which is built on decentralized protocols. I partly blame the early implementation of the WWW for this. I've written at length about this before[1][2], so I won't repeat it here. [1]: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43296810 [2]: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44327508 |
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| ▲ | perching_aix 11 hours ago | parent [-] | | > federated/decentralized I'd be really quite hesitant to blur these concepts so casually. | | |
| ▲ | imiric an hour ago | parent [-] | | I'm not blurring them. Email is both. Besides, this distinction has been discussed ad nauseam, and is not interesting. Especially since when contrasted with centralization, which was my main point, both concepts avoid its issues. |
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| ▲ | self_awareness 12 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Is format=flowed too bleeding edge for those people? |
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| ▲ | perching_aix 12 hours ago | parent [-] | | It'd be a bit too readable without the hard wraps at 80 chars. They just gotta spice up that plain text ever so little. |
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| ▲ | pron 12 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Also: notification and sorting are highly configurable through rules. |
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| ▲ | tolerance 12 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I was over reading that (very well-written) explanation of the AT Protocol: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=45388021 And I felt conflicted. Because it sounds great. It makes sense. But I don’t want it and now I’m wondering about what’s appealing about distributing bits of content across platforms. This is something I can get behind. Fenced gardens. |
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| ▲ | 2OEH8eoCRo0 12 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Protocols not platforms. Email is something anyone can use without a megacorp giving permission! |
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| ▲ | aidenn0 9 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | The federated nature of e-mail is degrading. Most recent example: My kid just registered with CCCApply (the central website for California Community and City colleges). It took a while. Finally after calling support I found out that the e-mail you get your confirmation code to doesn't work with most e-mail providers (they said custom e-mail domains hardly ever work, Yahoo e-mails never work, Outlook is iffy) so please register with a gmail address (and they offered to help me sign up for gmail if I didn't have it). An older example: According to a Macy's CS rep, Macy's won't deliver their e-mails to domains registered with godaddy (the actual e-mail provider apparently doesn't matter, but in this case it was Microsoft). My mom has an account with them that she can't access, because she needs to receive an e-mail to login, and she needs to login to change which e-mail address is associated with it. | |
| ▲ | landgenoot 11 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Think twice | | |
| ▲ | eikenberry 11 hours ago | parent [-] | | How so? Just because many people use mega-corp for email doesn't mean you need to. There are tons of alternative, small company providers or you can host your own. None of these require big-corp's support. | | |
| ▲ | perching_aix 10 hours ago | parent [-] | | Because according to popular judgement, independent email hosting in the modern day is a very difficult ordeal. Is that true? Is that false? How would one tell? One's own experience will be trivially handwaved away as an anecdote, people's experiences will be handwaved away as hearsay, and a claim of general consensus will be handwaved away by other claims that the person pointing it out is just living in a bubble. Principled thinking? Could be false, could be true, really - both would make sense. Doesn't sound very productive to discuss to me. If nothing else, surely you can agree that despite what might be, what is is that email is incredibly centralized, right? |
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| ▲ | charcircuit 11 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
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they're still heavily used This person is in a serious bubble. Mailing lists are not used by billions of people. >Mailing lists require no special software Even ignoring that most social media are accessible via a web browser instead of their dedicated app, this is just adding more complexity than having a single app for people to use. Everyday people want a single way to do things. >Mailing lists are simple No, you have to figure out how to configure a mail client and how to properly respond to things and is no where as user friendly as typical social media apps. >They impose minimal security risk Using an external service lets you outsource security to dedicated security teams as opposed to no security team or a volunteer security guy. >They impose minimal privacy risk. I trust the privacy of social media than some mailing list where the admin could secretly grep the contents of it with no over site. >Mailing lists are bandwidth-friendly The average internet user is scrolling through tiktok, streaming videos. Bandwidth is not a big deal anymore. >Mailing lists interoperate. Social media have features for reposting between different groups. There is also copy and paste and links. >They're asynchronous There are social media like facebook which are also asynchronous. >They work reasonably well even in the presence
of multiple outages and severe congestion Social media is also resistant to outages and have dedicated teams towards keeping it online. >They're push, not pull, so new content just shows up. Have you not been on social media for decades? Pushing content to the user is the norm. >They scale beautifully. Social media scales to billions of people using them. >they're relatively free of abuse vectors. You can't pretend that spam does not exist. Mailing lists are not mainstream and they never will be. That way of operating did not resonate with people at the scale that is needed to reach even tens of millions of people. Social media works. Chat apps work. Forums can work. |
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| ▲ | xigoi an hour ago | parent [-] | | > I trust the privacy of social media than some mailing list where the admin could secretly grep the contents of it with no over site. This will only allow them to find the text of the messages, which is public anyway, so what exactly are you worried about? | | |
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| ▲ | zaptheimpaler 11 hours ago | parent | prev [-] |
| I hate mailing lists, even if I recognize some of their benefits. A forum like Discourse is infinitely better in usability - to view, browse, search, follow specific threads or forums and mute the rest, do DMs, do real nested replies, embed rich media and code with proper formatting and just have a nice interface to work with. It looks like they even support ActivityPub federation recently. Although its GPL not MIT. I'm sure someone will come and tell me how all of this is doable with some janky interface or hacks on mailing lists. It's just unfortunate we have to choose. The people on mailing lists often argue vigorously for them, the rest of us are on discord/slack and have no idea they even exist and are repulsed by the usability problems. You can't convince me pasting diffs in an email thread is on par with Github/Gitlab code reviews with no downsides whatsoever. |
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| ▲ | pluto_modadic 2 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | the UI/UX of discord is definitely nice, but the /ethics/ of discord isn't. | |
| ▲ | pabs3 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I hate Discourse because I can't read it with a local email client. | |
| ▲ | NooneAtAll3 11 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | I hate the look of Discourse, it looks like the worst case of a phone app and ""modern"" web design I think it's primarily due to absence of margins on the sides and thin borders |
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