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▲ keithnz a day ago

do we really care that much about affairs? It's highly likely you are interacting with a bunch of people who are having affairs, its likely quite a few CEOs are, only difference is you don't know about it. As far as I can tell there is no terrible times happening other than the current news cycle having found a sensational news piece.

▲mmorriso a day ago | parent | next [-]

These weren't only affairs.

Some were allegedly with direct reports. One was allegeldy with an individual who posed a security risk. In each instance, there significant risk to the board, the company and shareholders.

He's obviously been very succesful in many elements of his role but this is very poor decision making. He could have just had affairs outside of work and been fine.

▲CMay a day ago | parent | next [-]

These weren't vulnerable people who had no capacity to make their own mature decisions and financial insecurity that trapped them into a situation. People who make it into these positions at a place like Nvidia are not idiots. I do think there are situations and approaches to getting into a relationship with someone who works for you that can be legitimately wrong, but it's highly unlikely that this is one of them outside of the fact he was married.

▲estearum a day ago | parent | next [-]

Tip: if you bring this perspective to a CEO role in a publicly traded company, you too will be fired.

▲CMay an hour ago | parent [-]

That is false and unlikely. Presumably if you're a CEO, part of it is that you've got more common sense than some other alternative. Use your common sense, not someone else's braindead ideological power structures oppression narrative to decide whether two people should get into a relationship. Companies are filters in a way, as are higher up positions, so there's just a higher chance that some of the factors at play for relationship forming are being amplified. If the nature of the relationship is such that it's relevant to the company, then inform the board and so on especially if it can have a PR angle.

There seems to be some kind of failed activist attempt in social media to make it sound like so many relationships are evil, bad, abusive and wrong, but in most cases this is not an issue. Trying to generalize them that way is a cynical approach to society. Of course you can find examples, because there are billions of people on the planet. I don't think it's inherently wrong to make people more aware that there can be issues where leverage is abused to establish a relationship, but at some point people go too far and generalize beyond what they understand.

▲dominotw a day ago | parent | prev [-]

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▲brailsafe a day ago | parent | next [-]

It's certainly a false equivalence to suggest that someone rich and smart, probably with alternative options and something to gain, is in a similarly vulnerable space as someone for whom losing their job means they're on the street by the end of the month.

▲totallymike a day ago | parent [-]

I disagree with your argument as stated, as offering promotions in exchange for sexual isn’t uncommon, and many times isn’t really a choice.

But I also think this perspective isn’t really the point. Regardless of the abusive nature, it’s still a tremendous conflict of interest for an affair of this nature to occur. The direct report would have a huge amount of leverage over Huang to keep the affair secret for one thing.

I don’t know the nature of these particular affairs, but regardless of who is or isn’t vulnerable, it’s still wildly inappropriate, and shouldn’t be tolerated

▲cunnymcface a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

How do you think executives that do work at this level meet people outside work?

The only people who understand this kind of job and what it takes are people in the same sort of area. And you’re prolly only meeting them in your own workplace.

At least if you’re boning someone from work you don’t have to watch everything you say the same way.

▲dominotw 16 hours ago | parent [-]

yes they have no option but to fuck ppl that work for them.

▲cunnymcface 10 hours ago | parent [-]

Turns out people who end up in your social circle tend to be compatible with your lifestyle.

Even more so if you’re also setting their schedule, never need to worry about their boss not giving them a free afternoon to fuck if you’re the boss.

▲devin-2030 a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

If they make over half a million total comp, all good right?

▲CamperBob2 a day ago | parent | prev [-]

I like how nobody seems to consider the possibility that the employee(s) involved came on to him.

▲necovek a day ago | parent | next [-]

That's perfectly feasible and does not change the power dynamics at all.

I've seen people attracted to higher-ups ("coming on to them") in University and employment situations, and from outside looking in, the attraction could have been about the "power" the higher up was wielding (not necessarily using for bad; just the stature they had in the local society). TBH, people get attracted to people in power or with fame all the time (without actually knowing the person they are), so there is no reason it would be any different when there is a direct professional relationship.

Yes, this means it's tricky, and puts large demands on the "higher ups" — while they are similarly human with all their faults, it's still not necessarily the right thing to do — even, as a higher up, I'd struggle to differentiate if they are attracted to my "social standing" or to myself (if that can even be decoupled)?

▲dominotw 16 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

exactly. Jensen had no option but to fuck this person. How could he possibly say no. What a unique angle that you came up with. Lets bring jensen back now.

▲CamperBob2 16 hours ago | parent [-]

I'm just suggesting that removing the agency from the woman is probably not the intent of these lofty arguments, even though they have that effect.

▲dominotw 16 hours ago | parent [-]

So you removed Jensen's agency to say no?

Why are ppl doing these mental gymnastics for some billonaire who would scarifice your kids in heartbeat if it increased his bottom like by a dollar.

Can you explain you mindset?

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▲CamperBob2 12 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Can you explain the point you're trying to make? Or did you just want to ramble randomly about billionaires for a while?

▲dominotw 12 hours ago | parent [-]

> So you removed Jensen's agency to say no and made him a victim?

Why according to you does jensen have no agency? ( your original comment has any meaning if that is true, so i am assuming this is what you belive) .

▲threethirtytwo a day ago | parent | prev [-]

I agree, but even so it’s all minor. A manager fucking his direct report(s) is extremely common. It’s all Pennies compared to the value Henson brings to the company.

▲rmunn a day ago | parent | next [-]

The ONLY acceptable reason for a manager to be sleeping with someone who reports directly to him, or any other similar situation (e.g. a professor with a student in his class) is if a romantic relationship of long standing predates the power relationship. E.g. if a man's wife of ten years is assigned to report to him, there's no reason they should stop sleeping together. (I know one guy, the father of a friend of mine, who was promoted to an executive position in his company. That position came with a secretary, and his wife (who already worked for the company) was chosen to work as his secretary. This was the only case I know of where a boss was sleeping with his secretary, yet there were no ethical or moral problems with it).

But anything except a pre-existing relationship is fraught with peril: implied coercion and/or quid pro quos are just some of the problems that can exist. There are darn good reasons why that sort of thing is widely forbidden.

This should be obvious to everyone, but sometimes the obvious needs to be restated, apparently.

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▲atq2119 a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Right. And I'd add that even with a pre-existing relationship, you easily get into situations of favoritism. The case you describe is one of the few situations where it seems like everything could have been above board.

▲rmunn a day ago | parent | next [-]

Yeah, most people only have one personal secretary, and in order to be able to show favoritism to one employee over another it would be necessary for them to be in similar positions. It would be remarkably silly to say "You're giving me the tough coding assignments instead of giving them to your secretary, you're blatantly favoring her" when the secretary was never hired for her coding skills.

Favoritism certainly can happen in other situations, of course. Heck, "the GM's girlfriend" is a (negative) trope in tabletop RPG groups for a reason, or spouses favoring each other in competitive board games. And those are situations where (usually) no money is involved, and it's just for fun. Add money to the situation and it can be a dangerous mix. If someone really must end up being a supervisor over his own spouse plus other people, best to have someone neutral double-checking his decisions. It's easy to be blind to one's own conflicts of interest.

▲watwut a day ago | parent | prev [-]

I would just go ahead and assume people favor own married partners, siblings or kids when they are in these situations. That does not mean executive kids can never be hired, of course.

But like, people favorite their own friends or long time colleagues too, even outside romantic relationships. It is not graded school.

▲kleene_op a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

That is such a presumptuous thing to write.

Surely there are cases around the world where an employee and his/her boss fell in love, married and that was the end of it.

▲whilenot-dev a day ago | parent [-]

> and that was the end of it.

Is it...? I feel like there's a lot more to unpack here. What if the thing a person fell in love with was that somebody just had more power (over them)?

I'd argue that people should fall in love on equal grounds, so the personality of a partner matters more than the perceived status of power.

▲tgma a day ago | parent [-]

It would be super pompous to enact oneself as the arbiter of what kind of love is right or wrong, wouldn't it?

▲whilenot-dev a day ago | parent [-]

Keep in mind that the act of falling in love is usually not the thing that makes people stay in love with each other.

There are wrong kinds of love that should either be discussed openly, or, if unsure, privately in therapy. Why not?

▲calf a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

This is obvious to someone who has internalized the norms of neoliberal capitalism and corporate policy. With a little critical thinking one can easily imagine philosophically that these forbidden transgressions are a kind of socially reproductive circular logic.

▲rmunn a day ago | parent [-]

I've read your comment three times and I still don't know exactly what philosophical position you're staking out. What are you saying, exactly? I suspect I'm going to disagree with your position (I certainly disagree with what I think your position is), but before I start arguing against it, it would be nice to actually understand it.

▲anal_reactor a day ago | parent [-]

Sleeping with your employee is bad because sleeping with your employee is bad. Same shit as "weed is bad because it's illegal, and weed is illegal because it's bad". For someone who doesn't (sleep with employee / smoke weed) the obvious action here is to criticize (sleeping with employee / smoking weed) because otherwise they're painted to be a bad person. Only a person who (sleeps with employees / smokes weed) would ever say otherwise, and those are bad people so their opinion isn't exactly valid in a civilized social discourse.

▲tgma a day ago | parent | next [-]

Precisely.

If there were anything inherently wrong with it, you would have to ban most family businesses. Just because some forms of something are undesirable, and a corporation out of laziness/practicalities enacts a general policy to ban all forms of it; that does not make the entire thing morally reprehensible automatically.

▲rmunn 4 hours ago | parent [-]

You know how this whole conversation thread started with my saying "the only case where a boss should be sleeping with an employee is if they have a pre-existing relationship", such as being married?

Yeah. We're circling back to the original statement. A sure sign that the conversation is no longer productive.

▲rmunn a day ago | parent | prev [-]

Except that the reasons behind those rules against sleeping with employees is the many, many cases of abuse that have actually happened. Bosses who make it quite clear that the price for a favorable performance review is a sexual favor of some kind. There's even a nickname for this kind of thing in Hollywood — "the casting couch" — and when there's a nickname for it, it's common enough behavior that everybody knows it happens. Not that every single person is doing it, but it's an open secret that it happens a lot in Hollywood.

And it's wrong. At its worst it's rape-by-coercion, trying to hide behind a thin layer of plausible deniability. It's not a circular argument at all: the behavior is bad for objective reasons, and that's why it's forbidden. In more favorable cases (where there's no coercion involved) it's still trading something of monetary value for sexual favors, which makes it a form of "prostitution lite". Again, there are objective, non-circular reasons for it to be forbidden.

▲threethirtytwo a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

And I agree. You’re completely right it is totally fucking obvious beyond any reasonable doubt.

What you’re not seeing is that the infractions you describe are just drops in a bucket. This guy created billions of dollars and is responsible for the revolution in ML we see today. It is through his foresight that ML is even possible at the scale we see today. He changed the world. He is one of the core people sitting in the center of a global paradigm shift that will change our lives as we know it. You thought this ai stuff was just chat bots? Now it’s writing our software and dismantling academia piece by piece. It’s obvious what’s coming next.

What should be ALSO fucking obvious is that kind of change makes fucking a couple employees and some random honey pot from China basically NOTHING in comparison. It doesn’t fucking matter if there’s some unfairness or some kind of bullshit conflict of interest or favoritism in the company because that shit is MINOR.

You said sometimes obvious things need to be restated implying that it needs to be restated for me specifically. Let me fucking straight with you. YOU are the one fucking blind to the obvious. Wake up.

I guarantee you the board doesn’t give a fuck about any of this shit. They were just waiting for an opportune time to oust him. It was the same for bill clinton. God ousting him for favoritism when favoritism basically exists for almost every company out there? Seriously?

If you’re a board member and you’re making billions because of Jensens decisions as a ceo, are you gonna give two shits about favoritism or Jensen fucking some employees? Fuck no you wouldn’t.

▲rmunn a day ago | parent | next [-]

Are you saying that because he invented something that changed the world, his misbehavior should be ignored? If that's what you're saying, I wonder where you would draw the line: an affair? Embezzling? Murder? At what point would the misbehavior be so bad that it should not be excused by his past inventions? At what point does the inventor not get to use "But I'm changing the world" as an excuse?

Or perhaps I'm misreading you. You did, after all, open with saying that you agree with my comment that you're replying to. So if your only point is "the board didn't care, that was an excuse to get rid of him" and you're not excusing his behavior, then sure, I agree with that statement. His behavior was an open secret among the company, after all; they had to have known, but were willing to ignore it when it was convenient to them. Which is immoral of them, let me add. I agree with you that that's what they did. I do NOT agree (and I hope you're not saying) that it was ethical or moral of them to ignore it until it became publicly known.

▲adrian_b a day ago | parent | next [-]

Obviously he must be punished, at least for having an affair with a subordinate, which until now is the only thing that is certainly wrong, from the PoV of the company.

However, if he is fired, that is more a punishment for the company than for him, because he is extremely rich and at the age of retirement, so he does not work because he needs to, but just because he enjoys it.

A real punishment for him would be to lose without compensation a part of his NVIDIA shares.

If it is ever proven that he broke any export control law, then a punishment for that is a decision for the judicial system.

▲threethirtytwo 9 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

>Are you saying that because he invented something that changed the world, his misbehavior should be ignored?

Yes or at best give him a slap on the wrist. You are not comprehending the scale of change that he is involved in. He is shifting the course of humanity. People don't go to jail for cheating. Right? Why don't people go to jail? Because it's not that big of a deal. It's wrong. But the punishment fits the crime.

There are ALSO no specific bylaws for firing an executive for an affair. ALSO because it's minor. Most successful executives that are making the company a shitload of value won't fire someone for that.

>Which is immoral of them

Strict morals is a sort of evil in itself. It displays a lack of intelligence and awareness of how morally grey reality is. In changing the world, Jensen could be involved with the lives billions. He could be responsible for immense poverty or immense wealth and greatness for all of humanity. We don't know, but stopping all of this because of an affair is ludicrous.

▲rmunn 4 hours ago | parent | next [-]

> Strict morals is a sort of evil in itself. It displays a lack of intelligence and awareness of how morally grey reality is.

Now I know what kind of person you are. This is the last time I will (if I notice your username) respond to anything you say. I'm not interested in discussing anything with you. Bye.

▲card_zero 4 hours ago | parent | next [-]

It's not the case that doing good makes one's bad deeds less bad.

In isolation, I think that quoted line is (morally) correct, though. Moral conundrums abound, I've got a list of several hundred written down somewhere, so being hardline about everything is just a way to be more aggressively wrong.

(I'll note that the question of whether to punish somebody is separate from the question of whether they did wrong. What's punishment? It evolved alongside payment and vengeance, and now it has extra functions, such as deterrence, and taking power away from people who are statistically likely to do further bad things. It's related to the paradox of tolerance, and it's a desperate measure. It's not rational. The world should not run on punishment! The rational thing to do is talk everything out. But since that doesn't happen, punishment is the suboptimal but practical solution to conflict. When it comes to punishment, we do take people's good deeds into account. Don't ask me how that should apply to Huang, this is just a footnote.)

▲threethirtytwo 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

I could give a shit. You’d do well not to respond to anyone.

▲whoanoway 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

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▲bigstrat2003 a day ago | parent | prev [-]

> This guy created billions of dollars

No, the engineers he employed did. They will continue to do so after his departure.

▲adrian_b a day ago | parent | next [-]

That is true, but even if a good CEO does not create the value of the company, but his employees, bad CEOs prevent their employees from doing effective work.

There are too many bad CEOs, so the CEOs who are not bad, like the CEOs of NVIDIA and AMD, must still be praised, and the success of their companies was conditioned by them not being bad CEOs.

There are a lot of examples when a bad CEO, coming after a not bad CEO, has destroyed a very successful company in a few years.

▲threethirtytwo 9 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

jensen is pretty technical. He's like elon, very involved with the tech and the day to day. His direction shapes the product MORE than any single engineer. But, I agree with you. The engineers as a whole shape the direction of the product more than jenson. But make no mistake, jensen is a critical part of the whole.

▲zarzavat a day ago | parent | prev [-]

When men and women share the same environment, they sleep with each other. Regardless of rules, policies or roles.

There are only two options, either A) to pretend that it doesn't happen, or B) to acknowledge that it does.

The idea that corporate policy could ever control what goes on people's bedrooms is of course absurd, that's just option A.

▲swiftcoder a day ago | parent [-]

The point is not to prevent it, the point is to minimise the resulting liability. Whether by re-org'ing so that the people who are sleeping together are not in a direct reporting relationship, or by letting one party go, and so on...

▲dirck-norman a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Most CEOs and managers lose their jobs for it if it’s undisclosed.

The board can’t trust Huang if he lies repeatedly and breaks company code of conduct.

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▲threethirtytwo a day ago | parent | prev [-]

No they don’t. The president didn’t even lose his job for putting his dick in a secretary’s mouth.

A lot of it is just silently ignored if found out.

▲dirck-norman 19 hours ago | parent | next [-]

A presidential impeachment that votes along partisan lines has little to do with corporate policies.

It seems you have little argument here.

Nestlé, Astronomer, Kohl's, Norfolk Southern, BP, NBCUniversal, McDonald's, HP, CBOE - all have removed CEOs for undisclosed company relationship.

The only ones that survive are owners with majority stakes, which is very obviously a personal conflict.

▲threethirtytwo 9 hours ago | parent [-]

>A presidential impeachment that votes along partisan lines has little to do with corporate policies.

Policies that don't exist. They voted him out, he wasn't terminated because of a no fucking employees policy.

Also Leading groups as a CEO and leading the country as a president is quite similar in many respects. Fucking direct reports in both cases is frowned upon so I don't think you know what you're talking about.

>Nestlé, Astronomer, Kohl's, Norfolk Southern, BP, NBCUniversal, McDonald's, HP, CBOE - all have removed CEOs for undisclosed company relationship.

I bet you all of those were just cover stories. There were alterior motives. And I bet you there's hundreds more stories of CEO's having affairs with employees and NOT getting ousted or caught.

▲Kwpolska a day ago | parent | prev [-]

Firing the president of Trumpistan is much harder than firing the CEO of a public corporation.

▲bigstrat2003 a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> A manager fucking his direct report(s) is extremely common.

It is not remotely common, and is grounds for firing at every single job I've ever held.

▲threethirtytwo 9 hours ago | parent [-]

It is common. Very common. You don't know what you're talking about.

They SAY or pretend it's grounds for firing but again... that's a cover story.

▲seizethecheese a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Executives who have sex with direct reports are showing a blatant disregard for their company in favor of their own desire. People often get fired for this and they should.

▲threethirtytwo a day ago | parent [-]

But they often don’t because of the billions they bring in.

▲alterom a day ago | parent | prev [-]

>It’s all Pennies compared to the value Henson brings to the company

You misspelled "penis".

> A manager fucking his direct report(s) is extremely common

Let's just legalize rape by "valuable" people, it's fiiiiine

Y'know, this is why people don't like techbros. It's shit like this.

EDIT: I hope the downvoters understand they are proving my point.

▲Marha01 a day ago | parent | next [-]

> Let's just legalize rape by "valuable" people, it's fiiiiine

A manager having a relationship with a subordinate is unethical, but let's not call it outright rape, OK? There is a difference.

▲alterom a day ago | parent [-]

>A manager having a relationship with a subordinate is unethical, but let's not call it outright rape, OK? There is a difference.

A manager fucking his subordinate is coercion at the very least due to the power imbalance.

This is not a consensual relationship for the same reason that sex with a "willing" person held at gunpoint isn't (even if there is no explicit verbal threat).

Whether it crosses a criminal threshold of sexual harassment or sexual assault , depends on the jurisdiction and circumstance.

In any case, it is not OK.

It is immaterial whether coercion of this sort is "not outright" rape.

Parent commenter's logic that justifies it because the CEO "has value" applies to "outright" rape as well.

If sexual harassment of a few employees is "pennies" compared to Jensen's value, so is "outright" rape.

This is what I have issue with.

▲zarzavat a day ago | parent [-]

What if someone falls in love with their boss? What if someone instigates a relationship with their boss because they want to get ahead? Is that rape too?

You cannot just assert that a relationship is non-consensual without knowing anything about the relationship concerned.

▲alterom a day ago | parent [-]

>What if someone falls in love with their boss? What if someone instigates a relationship with their boss because they want to get ahead? Is that rape too?

No, because you didn't say anything about what the boss does in this situation.

The ethical thing for the boss to do is to decline having a relationship with a subordinate because of its potential to become coercive.

Same goes for a 13-year-old instigating a relationship with a 30-year-old.

What the 13 year old does is irrelevant. The 30 year old is the person with the power.

▲zarzavat 15 hours ago | parent [-]

To be an adult is to be able to make your own decisions.

The coercive force here is the corporation that seeks to insert itself into its employees personal lives.

I cannot imagine avoiding a relationship in service to a corporation that has no hesitation to dispense with me whenever it is convenient. The relationship between employee and employer is entirely transactional and so has lesser priority than any interpersonal relationships that might develop.

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▲jaredklewis a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

The board probably knows more than us random commenters on the internet, but it seems to me his affair with Alice Huang pretty clearly clouded his judgement. NYT, Bloomberg, and Culper Research all reported that MegaSpeed was illegally diverting chips to China.

If the press knew about it, I'm sure Jensen did. More than enough reason to fire him.

What is the message sent if they don't fire him? It's ok to break company policy and sleep with your subordinates? It's ok to turn a blind eye to people breaking the law?

▲Numerlor a day ago | parent | next [-]

The Alice Huang relationship has been known about for a longer time, seemingly even by his family.

It more feels like someone wanted him gone. The second affair had to be leaked because after the first one it still appeared he still had a good chance of remaining CEO

▲Marazan a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

The board backed him after the Alice Huang news. They emergency "voluntarily resigned" him after news of the second affair broke.

It is pretty clear he lied to the board after the first news broke and that is why he was sacked.

▲well_ackshually 19 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

>MegaSpeed was illegally diverting chips to China.

Last time I looked, the US's laws weren't applied by default to the whole world, and states remain sovereign. Is there a piece of international law that you know of and the rest of the world does not ?

▲macintux 18 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Ok, more accurately, Huang was attempting to prevent the U.S. government from blocking sales to MegaSpeed (and probably violating laws by ignoring the red flags).

▲jaredklewis 10 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Last time you looked the US didn't have export controls that require Nvidia to KYC and not sell its most advanced processors to China? Well, look harder I guess? Checkout the ECRA and the associated executive orders.

▲well_ackshually 8 hours ago | parent [-]

Good news MegaSpeed is a Malaysian company then. Unless you're claiming that Malaysia is chinese territory, in which case that's a nice can of geopolitical worms you're opening.

▲jaredklewis 7 hours ago | parent [-]

I’m saying that there is widespread reporting that megaspeed is diverting chips to China, and if that is the case it’s illegal for Nvidia to sell to them. Nvidia is required by US law to impose restrictions on its customers and to make an effort to ensure their customers are complying with those restrictions.

You seem to think I’m making a novel or wild claim, but this is pretty bog-standard export controls. Just like advanced weapons. You can’t sell missiles to a company in Malaysia if that company is going to resell them North Korea.

Go read about alan hao hsu. Literally smuggled Nvidia chips to china through a Malaysian company and is now heading to prison.

▲rdtsc a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Relations between bosses and workers are likely against company rules. They are in many companies at least. So at least two affairs are against business guidelines and one with a CCP associate.

One affair, shame on him. Three affairs, and wanting him to stay as CEO shame on them.

▲chrisco255 a day ago | parent [-]

There were no company policies against fraternization.

▲rayiner a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Perhaps true, but someone who will lie to the person closest to them won’t hesitate for a second to screw over other people in their orbit.

▲qotgalaxy a day ago | parent [-]

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▲tclancy a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Are you all out of your mind?

▲joshstrange 19 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Yes, HN has lost its, collective, mind on this. It’s disgusting how many people are willing to jump in and defend this behavior or try and make excuses for it.

▲tenuousemphasis 18 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

All these temporarily embarrassed billionaires are just thinking about the affairs they would have if they were in his position

▲tenat10 a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Yes we should care. He could of stepped down at any time.

Because Jensen chose to mix personal and business. Even having an affair with VP of Nvidia itself. If he couldn't even keep a vow and promise to wife and keep his family out of it. Why would you trust any person like this. This is his own fault.

▲ExoticPearTree 21 hours ago | parent [-]

No, we should not care about the man’s private life.

Get off your high horse.

▲tenuousemphasis 18 hours ago | parent [-]

Seems like it's his public life actually.

▲dgacmu a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Please observe the substantial difference between "an affair", "an affair with a spy who may or may not have been part of a plan to illegally sell billions of dollars of GPUs against export controls", and "an affair with one of your direct reports"

One of these things is a mostly private matter between you and your spouse. One of them involves congressional hearings and may land you and your company in serious deep poop. And one of them is widely recognized as an abuse of power in the workplace.

▲keithnz a day ago | parent [-]

only if he knew right? otherwise he's just having an affair.... that the government knew about..... and didn't tell him.... because there's no evidence of anything untoward....

▲ls612 a day ago | parent | next [-]

This is the part people discount. Any actual attempt to go after Jensen will run into the public reporting that the government was suspicious of the maybe spy’s relationship with Jensen, and it chose not to tell him about it. Jensen has ignorance handed to him on a silver platter.

▲verdverm a day ago | parent [-]

perhaps that $25M ballroom donation was part of a package deal

▲ls612 a day ago | parent [-]

This is completely nonsensical. You somehow think Jensen donated to the ballroom to not be given defensive security briefings?

▲verdverm a day ago | parent [-]

to have the DOJ look the other way on a number of things, chip exports and a quashed investigation are the smoking guns

this is not about the affairs or spy, this is about the future of Ai and who gets to decide what that looks like, Jensen is a casualty in other peoples games

there are reports the whitehouse is considering ousting Lutnick over this, sounds like we have a lot more to learn about

▲ls612 a day ago | parent [-]

I’d assume a possible endgame is a lot of the thousands of post economic Nvidia employees threaten to leave and go join whatever venture Jensen does next. That is what did in the OpenAI power game three years ago.

▲m4rtink a day ago | parent [-]

Says something about the morals and ethics of people that would do this - $>humanity, every time for them!

▲soraminazuki a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> only if he knew right

How can he not know he was sleeping with a customer and a direct report?

> he's just having an affair

Interesting use of the word "an" and "just."

> that the government knew about

Because of an investigation into illegal smuggling.

> and didn't tell him

Is that a judgement of whether he's a good steward of a multi-trillion dollar monopoly?

> because there's no evidence of anything untoward

Right, because the current administration only acts upon evidence and definitely not self-enrichment and cronyism.

Wow, how can every single word be such complete bs?

▲BugsJustFindMe a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

He probably knew about two of them being his workplace subordinates.

▲chrisco255 a day ago | parent [-]

Everyone is subordinate to the CEO. That doesn't really make any sense. Unless it can be shown that it was coerced or led to favoritism. I admit it's a dangerous line to walk.

▲rolosa a day ago | parent | next [-]

You're almost there!

▲soraminazuki a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

What everyone? You know it's possible for a CEO to have a romantic relationship with someone they don't have a business relationships with, right? Like say, his wife?

▲chrisco255 7 hours ago | parent [-]

Yes theres lots of possibilities isn't there? For all we know Jensen has an open relationship. And it's very human for coworkers or industry workers to date and hook up. It's not inherently wrong.

▲bluefirebrand a day ago | parent | prev [-]

Yeah, so a CEO shouldn't sleep with literally anyone who works at their company

▲chrisco255 7 hours ago | parent [-]

Why not? If it's a consensual relationship between two adults and creates no claims of coercion or favoritism, why not?

▲brendoelfrendo a day ago | parent | prev [-]

Funnily enough, all of these things are avoidable if you just don't go around having affairs in the first place.

▲karlgkk a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

The problem was not that he was having affairs. The problem wasn’t even that he got got by a spy.

The problem was that he was having affairs with employees who reported to him. That by itself is disqualifying, and then possibly he lied about the board to it?

Anyone who was passed up for promotion now has a credible lawsuit

▲flowerlad a day ago | parent | next [-]

> Anyone who was passed up for promotion now has a credible lawsuit

Do the numbers. Let's say 5 people sue and are awarded 10 million each. Or even 50 million each.

▲diggernet a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

And even more so, anyone who was dismissed for an inappropriate relationship, if he's brought back.

▲selectodude a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

No, the problem was that he was a willing participant in a conspiracy to illegally sell Nvidia Blackwell chips to the Chinese.

▲karlgkk 29 minutes ago | parent [-]

That is still up for debate. And it sounds like he was good with the board in the interim, until the second affair was revealed.

▲keithnz a day ago | parent | prev [-]

So NVIDIA rules are...

  - Avoid actual or potential conflicts between personal interests and their obligations to Nvidia.
  - Remove themselves from decision-making when such conflicts arise.
  - Contact Employment Legal when there is a perceived or actual conflict.


Do you know if these were followed or not? do you know he lied? It feels everything is "maybe this, maybe that" with no actual substance.
▲windexh8er a day ago | parent | next [-]

Reading through your acceptance of the scenario prior to knowing all of the details (he could be in front of a jury in the near future) I, personally, think it's a pretty flippant way to dismiss his actions. Rules are in place for a reason. As others have said Jensen showed extremely poor decision making capabilities in situations where he chose to take advantage. That appears to be fact. Beyond that all of the facts are not fully known... But to pretend like nothing happened and it's OK to "interpret" your way out of this. C'mon... Standards have really fucking flown the coop when you have random Internet personalities trying to defend a billionaire who couldn't keep his dick in his pants and likely broke national security interests because of that. FFS.

▲keithnz a day ago | parent | next [-]

I just care about ACTUAL wrong doing. I don't care about the affairs, people have them at all levels from billionaires to paupers. I think action is only warranted once we move beyond "likely" "maybe" "could have" "possibly". C'mon, where's your standards of evidence flown to?

▲karlgkk 26 minutes ago | parent | next [-]

> about ACTUAL wrong doing. I don't care about the affairs

FWIW having an affair with a direct report is an actual wrong doing, in a civil legal sense, that opens you and you the company to incredible liability.

And especially so at his level.

I’m sure we’ll find out more about why exactly he resigned in the upcoming days. And there likely will be lawsuits that reveal more fine point details, multiple lawsuits most likely.

▲jsiepkes a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

8 November after the first affair came out the board still had his back. Then the second affair came out and they kicked him out. What most likely happens is they asked him if there was more dirt and he probably said no. Then it turned that was a lie.

So this probably isn't about the affairs but a breach of trust with the board.

▲windexh8er a day ago | parent | prev [-]

Most people here can read. You clearly haven't taken any time to do that. You're just, clearly, more concerned you get your NVDA stock back to a comfy price.

To speed run most of what's out there spend a few minutes trying to understand the issue [0]. You think MegaSpeed is on the up and up? Doubtful.

[0] https://youtu.be/SOwUWPtXQ9I

▲keithnz a day ago | parent [-]

so, personal attacks rather than evidence? I'm sure there's a fallacy that covers this...

▲windexh8er 19 hours ago | parent [-]

I love the recent trope of "prove it to me by spoon feeding me evidence and I still won't believe it". There's a couple things here...

1) You don't believe that lying (and lying to the board no less) is a character flaw that could impede someone from a high level position in a multi-billion dollar multi-national company. That, right there, is enough for most people to dismiss your judgement.

2) If you read, any of the articles out there, about how MegaSpeed was formed and how they operate your realize that it's probably a shell company, at minimum. At maximum it's a shell company for CCP.

3) Finally, a mixture of these things were reported in the Culper Research report back in May of this year [0].

I'm sure the response will be "this proves nothing!". Sure, you're 100% right. But if you think all of this was deep state made up psy ops, well then, maybe go touch some grass.

[0] https://culperresearch.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Culper...

▲cunnymcface a day ago | parent | prev [-]

If people could keep their dicks in their pants, we would be over as a species.

But sure, tell me again that everyone needs to have perfect control over all their most powerful urges to keep their jobs?

Guess you’re not fat, never fucked anyone you shouldn’t have, and definitely never drank more you should have at any point?

▲whaleofatw2022 a day ago | parent | prev [-]

I will be glib/shitposty about this...

Given Jensen is one of the two founders that still has stock (the other being Chris Malachowsky) I suppose there could be some room for interpretation.

▲refurb a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I’m sure there are people around me who steal from their employer or abuse their children and I don’t know it.

Does that make theft and child abuse ok too?

▲dominotw a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

>likely knowledge of selling to the rival nation despite the current laws

this is clearly not just an affair. Why are you reducing it to that despite that line in parent comment. you obviously read that.

I see this "just a innocent affair" on twitter. Whats going on. Who are these ppl.

▲feurio a day ago | parent | next [-]

> Who are these ppl.

Temporarily embarrassed serial philanderers.

▲pigpop a day ago | parent | prev [-]

Check their bio, they may be French.

▲well_ackshually 19 hours ago | parent [-]

Are women allowed to show their ankles, or is that too much for your american puritan values too ?

▲verdverm a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

the affairs are a distraction from the corruption

▲bgun a day ago | parent | prev | next [-]

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▲brendoelfrendo a day ago | parent | prev [-]

> do we really care that much about affairs?

Yes. I don't want someone with that lack of moral character leading multi-trillion dollar companies. You can forgive Jensen, maybe even some of the people Jensen harmed will forgive Jensen, but I separate individuals forgiving the man from letting him remain the public face of Nvidia. I wouldn't want to work for him at this point.

> its likely quite a few CEOs are, only difference is you don't know about it

I hope more CEOs get caught so they can be held accountable, too.

▲verdverm a day ago | parent [-]

me too