> and that was the end of it.

Is it...? I feel like there's a lot more to unpack here. What if the thing a person fell in love with was that somebody just had more power (over them)?

I'd argue that people should fall in love on equal grounds, so the personality of a partner matters more than the perceived status of power.

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tgma a day ago | parent [-]

It would be super pompous to enact oneself as the arbiter of what kind of love is right or wrong, wouldn't it?

	▲	whilenot-dev a day ago \| parent [-]
		Keep in mind that the act of falling in love is usually not the thing that makes people stay in love with each other. There are wrong kinds of love that should either be discussed openly, or, if unsure, privately in therapy. Why not?