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▲ Grace Hopper Celebration Cancelled(anitab.org)
196 points by mooreds 12 hours ago | 123 comments
▲cmiles8 5 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Sad to see this canceled and especially at the last minute.

Since DEI imploded most companies won’t touch anything with a 100 ft pole that looks like it might go anywhere near that, and seems like that didn’t help on funding and sponsors.

This always seemed like a good event and only ever heard positive things about it. The controversies and scandals surrounding DEI were not about this, and thus it would appear this may be collateral damage.

▲pluc 13 minutes ago | parent | next [-]

Most US companies. The rest of the world happily doesn't care - and increasingly doesn't do so solely to avoid looking like United Statesmen.

▲pseudosavant 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

For context, the first Grace Hopper Celebration was 1994, and had been held for the last 20 consecutive years. Long before DEI.

But when the powers that be are intent to kill off "DEI", and their definition includes anything related to women, this is what happens. Too many business cowards don't want to have problems with their merger, acquisition, IPO, FCC license, etc for supporting celebrating a great American like this, just because she was a woman.

▲JuniperMesos an hour ago | parent | next [-]

There was definitely gender-based affirmative action benefitting women in 1994 - the term DEI is newer than that (as far as I'm aware), but the concept is definitely not.

According to the Wikipedia article on the event (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grace_Hopper_Celebration_of_Wo...), "In 1994, Anita Borg and Telle Whitney founded the Grace Hopper Celebration of Women in Computing. With the initial idea of creating a conference by and for women computer scientists, Borg and Whitney met over dinner, with a blank sheet of paper, having no idea how to start a conference, and started to plan out their vision. The first Grace Hopper Celebration of Women in Computing was held in Washington, D.C., in June 1994, and brought together 500 technical women.".

Having a specific conference for women in computing is definitely a DEI concern; from the very beginning, the entire point of having a formal celebration of Grace Hopper was to be a locus for this female-specific conference. Grace Hopper's importance to this conference is that she was a woman, not that she invented FLOW-MATIC.

▲carefulfungi a minute ago | parent | next [-]

Grace Hopper graduated from Yale with a PhD in 1933. In 1952, Professor Bessie Lee Gambrill became the first woman at receive tenure at Yale.

Many women mathematicians in computer science worked in the field because they were denied a university career path because of their gender.

As an example of how late gender equality arrived, Olga Taussky-Todd (Caltech) held only a “research associate” title from 1957 until Caltech made her its first female full professor in 1971.

https://mathematics.caltech.edu/about/prizes-awards/olga-tau...

It is not wrong to celebrate a more enlightened world by highlighting its trailblazers and encouraging others to follow their footsteps in breaking barriers.

▲Geezus_42 an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Why do you find it concerning that a conference would focus on women?

▲datsci_est_2015 43 minutes ago | parent | next [-]

I don’t think they were expressing concern, just the fact.

I read it as a damning indictment against anti-“DEI” fanatics that they’re on the wrong side of history when they push the envelope too far in the direction of “merit-based hiring”, as if DEI was something relatively-recently concocted.

Laughably, in the days before “DEI”, “merit-based hiring” usually equated to “good old boys club”. Based on the industries in which I’ve been involved, it’s still very much “good old boys club”, despite best efforts for DEI to try to make things more merit-based.

▲jjgreen an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Huh? Someone saying something is a DEI concern does not mean they find it concerning.

▲a-french-anon an hour ago | parent | prev [-]

Because it undermines claims of equality? Make conferences for everyone, men and women.

And actually, don't give gold stars to people just for being women (as in, would the same person as a man receive even half the attention), this is the worst way to belittle actual achievements coming from them.

▲smolder 36 minutes ago | parent | prev [-]

"where is the conference celebrating white men?" -how you sound

▲pelagicAustral 23 minutes ago | parent [-]

He doesnt sounds like that at all. Whatever is left of your brain, get it checked.

▲peterfirefly an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Isn't the problem here the Anita Borg foundation and not Grace Hopper?

▲monideas 15 minutes ago | parent | prev [-]

> Long before DEI.

This is simply not accurate. It is profoundly inaccurate

▲sdcfgy 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

DEI didn’t implode. It stopped being a valuable marketing exercise for most companies as it wasn’t trending on social media any more.

▲rurjckci384 2 hours ago | parent | next [-]

It became a liability - corporates were legally threatened

▲abcd_f 2 hours ago | parent [-]

Source for _legally_ ?

▲hmry an hour ago | parent | next [-]

(Legally as in, using the legal system)

DOJ sued Deloitte over DEI programs, they ended up settling for $21.5 million: https://www.reuters.com/legal/government/deloitte-pay-215-mi...

Texas Attorney General declared DEI initiatives unconstitutional in a legal opinion: https://www.gibsondunn.com/texas-attorney-general-declares-p...

Several state Attorneys General sent legal threats to 20 major law firms over DEI: https://www.reuters.com/world/us/republican-led-states-deman...

Texas Attorney General warned major banks that DEI programs violate feduciary duty: https://today.westlaw.com/Document/Ibce2fdc5dcec11efb708bbad...

▲Amezarak 42 minutes ago | parent [-]

There's a big difference between suing people for prima facie illegal hiring practices and suing people for holding Grace Hopper celebrations. We probably shouldn't conflate them. Your links, as best as I can tell, are about the former sort of activity - hiring or paying people differently on the basis of protected characteristics.

▲philipallstar 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Don't know about corporates, but Harvard was sued[0] for DEI-esque discrimination.

[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Students_for_Fair_Admissions_v...

▲peterfirefly an hour ago | parent [-]

Harvard lost due to obvious "anti" racist discrimination. It still seems to discriminate against whites and asians and in favour of blacks, but not as heavily as it used to.

Edit: forgot to to write "and asians".

▲throw830373 an hour ago | parent | prev [-]

Every statement from company officials such as "we only employ women" or "toxic males", can be used as evidence at court. It is very difficult to prove bias from vague sanitized corporate language, direct "activist" statements make proving such bias very easy. For example recent lawsuit with IBM!

▲bossyTeacher 27 minutes ago | parent [-]

> "we only employ women"

But I highly doubt most companies were saying that or implying it. There's more to DEI than having minority quotas. Would DEI practices such as campaigns to encourage more men to go into nursing, midwifery or teaching be targeted too?

▲lynx97 an hour ago | parent | prev [-]

While cynical, there is a lot of truth to your statement. I wish the activist type would realize that they are actually being used, but it appears there isn't much chance they will ever listen to the old dogs in this game.

▲JumpCrisscross 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> seems like that didn’t help on funding and sponsors

Do we know any sponsors who pulled out? Even if that was the case, pulling the plug like this at t minus two weeks speaks to problems internally.

▲cmiles8 5 hours ago | parent | next [-]

From what was reported there was a broad reduction of interest from sponsors. Speculation, but the late cancellation very much sounds like there was an effort to find a main sponsor to make up the gap but no corporate was willing to step up and just be the primary sponsor to fund what was needed.

Corporate lawyers now broadly advise their companies against putting any money towards demographic-specific initiatives due to the risks of being sued for discrimination.

Buying a booth at an event would probably be seen as fine but I can only imagine pitches to be a title sponsor were met with “don’t touch this” advice from corporate lawyers.

▲throw830373 an hour ago | parent | next [-]

Post is very clear there is also less interest from individuals to participate. Tech jobs are going through implosion now (for several reasons), and working in tech is not so attractive anymore.

> Unlike past events, this year, both individual registrations

▲Geezus_42 an hour ago | parent [-]

Mainly because the people in power believe they'll be able to replace us all any day now.

▲netsharc 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Profiles of corporate courage...

To Godwin it (with his assumed blessing (1)), I guess this is how BMW, Hugo Boss, Allianz, etc, ended up being involved in the Holocaust.

(1) https://www.alternet.org/godwins-law-trump-hitler/

▲philipallstar 2 hours ago | parent [-]

Reducing funding for something sometimes harmful, which then correspondingly means the funding is not passed on to others, is not the Holocaust.

The utter degrading of the meanings of powerful words might get us there, though.

▲dofm an hour ago | parent [-]

> Reducing funding for something sometimes harmful, which then correspondingly means the funding is not passed on to others, is not the Holocaust.

This is a rather boring straw man characterisation of the claim you are replying to. Don’t do this.

▲philipallstar an hour ago | parent [-]

It might be a good idea to mention what the straw man is, rather than just throw the phrase and see if it sticks.

▲itake 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

yeah, feels like they were hoping something would come through until it didn't

▲oddIdentities 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> This always seemed like a good event and only ever heard positive things about it.

Shocking.

▲foldr an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-]

>The controversies and scandals surrounding DEI were not about this

Oh but they were about this. This is the common trend of people thinking that "the good ones" are implicitly exempted from their general and sweeping attacks on $THING. C.f. the hardline anti-immigration voter who thinks that the guy who mows their lawn obviously won't be included in the crackdowns. If you attack the whole concept of DEI (as many did – not necessarily you), then you are in fact attacking events celebrating the achievements of women in fields where they're poorly represented.

▲oddIdentities 10 minutes ago | parent [-]

>C.f. the hardline anti-immigration voter who thinks that the guy who mows their lawn obviously won't be included in the crackdowns.

huh, that's pretty bizarre, at least here in Australia (where in recent years immigration has exploded to 2x ~ 3x that of the USA), all the anti-immigration voters are sincerely hoping the guy who mows their lawn grew up across town where his wife's sister now lives.

the crackdowns are for the economic migrants just taking a lifestyle arbitrage

ultimately, immigration into large developed nations is an act of altruism, which, like most things in life, cannot scale indefinitely (much to the chagrin of business owners, women, arts students, etc.) - which is not nice, but is true.

▲yawpitch 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

DEI didn’t implode; it’s not an implosion when it’s shot at from the outside by malicious actors intent on destroying something they don’t understand and can only kneejerk react to out of unreasoning fear.

This isn’t collateral, this was the plan, the planners were just too stupid to see the natural consequences of their plan. See also the price of diesel.

▲philipallstar 2 hours ago | parent [-]

It was definitely and constantly imploding. It was just kept alive by a giant amount of taxpayer and corporate money.

▲tempfile 42 minutes ago | parent [-]

What does this even mean? Every initiative is kept alive by money. It was very clearly attacked by the Trump administration, and once they started attacking, DEI initiatives stopped. Why else do you think the "implosions", apparently happening all the time, were finally too much to sustain around 2025?

▲tastyface 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

DEI did not implode; it was heavily and viciously assaulted.

▲cmiles8 2 hours ago | parent | next [-]

The implication here that the DEI movement had done nothing wrong is rather naive… it wasn’t all bad, but there was a lot of bad things happening to answer for.

▲Geezus_42 16 minutes ago | parent | next [-]

I didn't see anyone but you suggest that.

▲tempfile an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Doesn't seem like that's implied at all. There is no implication about whether it is good or bad actually, but if the fact it was attacked is a bad thing, the only inference is that on balance it did more harm than good.

▲deadbunny 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Could you elaborate on some of these "bad things"?

▲cmiles8 an hour ago | parent | next [-]

Many DEI programs were highly discriminatory if not outright racist towards certain minorities that were seen as less worthy. Asians and Jewish individuals were often heavily discriminated against via DEI initiatives. The list goes on.

These programs were, in theory, well intentioned but to suggest they did nothing wrong is simply factually incorrect.

▲krapp 29 minutes ago | parent [-]

The true motivations of the anti-DEI movement were obvious when they attacked DEI as a concept rather than just the corruption they claimed existed within the system, and proceeded to do things like blame plane crashes on the hiring of black pilots. There were already laws on the books against hiring discrimination.

Maybe a few naive people in the movement had good intentions but they were clearly dupes for what was at its core a right-wing white supremacist and incel ideology.

And the proof is in the pudding. Has the anti-DEI movment (and current administration) created a truly fair and equitable society that focuses on merit in the absence of gender and race? No. It has created a society in which the contributions of anyone other than white men are systemically attacked, torn down and even erased from the public record.

▲samlinnfer an hour ago | parent | prev [-]

Racism

▲account42 an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-]

As should all things evil be.

▲tossandthrow 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

You could also say that DEI is easier to defend when human work was more valuable and capital was cheaper.

▲vkou 2 hours ago | parent [-]

You could say that it was easier to practice before the executive (that routinely hires the dumbest troglodytes - whose only qualification is loyalty to the fuhrer - into positions of power) started a witchhunt against anyone practicing it.

Since the only god our corporatations worship goes by power and money, they all started tripping over themselves to kiss the ring.

▲JuniperMesos an hour ago | parent | next [-]

You probably don't actually want corporations that do intrinsically care about being able to violate federal civil rights and anti-discrimination law, and are willing to lose money and give up influence in order to keep doing so.

▲tossandthrow an hour ago | parent | prev [-]

I should be the last one to defend the existing system.

But IMHO DEI answers the wrong question.

Worthwhile lives does not come from equal access to the hamster wheel.

I am much more pro UBI structures og negative taxation - which are inherently difficult to make descriminatory as there is no personal judgement of the people to receive it.

▲grahar64 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Is it because international registrations were down. I know that I am dodging US travel ATM

▲hunta2097 4 hours ago | parent [-]

I've had the option of a free trip to the US twice in the past year.

I've rejected both due toy sentiment right now.

▲badc0ffee an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Interesting perspective that doesn't blame the downfall of DEI initiatives, or reluctance to travel to the US: https://www.reddit.com/r/womenintech/comments/1x4kilp/commen...

It sounds like this conference had been going downhill for a few years.

▲gmerc 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

You don't want to run afoul of Agent Orange by celebrating a woman so close to his coronation

▲Geezus_42 14 minutes ago | parent [-]

No, please don't make that a thing. They're a great band. They don't deserve that association. :D

▲pluc 10 minutes ago | parent [-]

I have bad news for you

▲beej71 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Ugh. A bunch of our students already booked travel and rooms. What a horrible situation all around.

▲CodeCompost 4 hours ago | parent | next [-]

What's stopping those students from holding an impromptu memorial?

▲vineyardmike 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Most students are probably on trips paid for by others. Many of those groups would probably not be keen to fund an itinerary-free trip to Irvine California for a few days. Even if the students were purported to want to impromptu organize.

▲WastedCucumber 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Organizing

▲swyx 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

were there any hints that this might happen at all? so abrupt

▲murderfs 4 hours ago | parent | next [-]

They were advertising tickets three days before they announced everything was cancelled: https://archive.ph/Uimqj

> What happens to my in-person or virtual registration fee?

> Information regarding GHC registration and other financial matters will be communicated to you promptly once we obtain a clearer understanding of AnitaB.org ’s financial condition.

Incredible.

▲beej71 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

We faculty learned about it this evening. :(

▲roughly 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Some of the best hires I ever made came through GHC - truly a sad day.

▲mooreds 12 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Submitted here: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=50070918

▲JumpCrisscross 7 hours ago | parent | next [-]

…you’re calling dupe on your own submission?

▲MajorTakeaway 6 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Is there something wrong with that?

▲db48x 6 hours ago | parent [-]

How will you get your fake internet points now?!

▲froh 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

of course he does. why not?

▲gjvc 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

this is a new low. also needs a (year) /s

▲dolmen 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

That other thread is interesting as it raises issues about how the organization is managed money-wise: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=50082093

▲chasil 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

For as much COBOL as my (former) coworkers use every day, they should bankroll her day.

▲wolfi1 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I have to admit, I suspected the Secretary of War cancelled the funding

▲akoboldfrying 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Who does AnitaB.org actually support or advocate for?

Their "Our Mission" page refers only to the perfectly vague "our community", never once describing what that is. Nor does their landing page. Their "Our History" page says that the organisation started out to support women in the tech industry, but then describes several name changes, eventually dropping all use of the words "woman" or "women" and switching to the user of "individuals" without explanation or elaboration. It reads like a perfectly choreographed PR "product" designed to maximise deniability of... something. But what?

▲bossyTeacher 20 minutes ago | parent [-]

Your comment is a rhetorical question.

▲angry_octet 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I think we can safely assume that all the major sponsors from 2025 pulled out. Any one of them could have carried the whole thing.

https://codewithkate.squarespace.com/blog/the-complete-grace...

Tech Giants & Major Players

Amazon - Booth 751

Google - Booth 1246

Meta - Booth 1010

Nvidia - Booth 1039

Disney - Booth 946

Snap - Booth 447

Roblox - Booth 1209

PlayStation - Booth 433

Nintendo - Booth 429

Finance & Trading Firms

Goldman Sachs - (Location TBD)

Morgan Stanley - Booth 633

Jane Street - Booth 618

Citadel - Booth 62

Two Sigma - Booth 1046

DE Shaw - Booth 410

IMC - Booth 1051

Walleye Capital - Booth 1052

Apollo Global Management - Booth 647

Five Rings - Booth 310

Cboe - Booth 952

Banking & Financial Services Bank of America - Booth 439

Capital One - Booth 831

Bloomberg - Booth 824

Navy Federal - Booth 426

USAA - Booth 614

Vanguard - Booth 819

Insurance & Financial Tech Prudential - Booth 526

CHUBB - Booth 344

Voya Financial - Booth 1226

NEXT Insurance - Booth 1227

Manulife - Booth 1122

Tech & Software Companies Intuit - Booth 422

PayPal - Booth 514

Cloudflare - Booth 533

Wayfair - Booth 342

Xero - Booth 343

Adyen - Booth 605

WEX - Booth 1014

Chewy - Booth 1114

Infoblox - Booth 852

InterSystems - Booth 518

Red Hat - Booth 919

DTCC - Booth 418

Consulting & Professional Services EY - Booth 1228

E-commerce & Entertainment Audible - Booth 1251

Automotive & Manufacturing Rivian - Booth 1022

John Deere - (Location TBD)

Crown Equipment Corporation - Booth 1210

Automotive & Manufacturing Rivian - Booth 1022

John Deere - (Location TBD)

Crown Equipment Corporation - Booth 1210

Real Estate & Corporate Services CBRE - Booth 341

Lumen - Booth 345

Retail & Food Services McDonald's - Booth 339

Healthcare & Medical Technology Tandem Diabetes Care - Booth 313

Northwestern Medicine - Booth 1214

Mortgage & Real Estate Tech Rocket - Booth 1211

▲throw830373 4 hours ago | parent [-]

So they sponsored last year, now you are asking them to pay 50x more?

And if thay paid the whole thing this year, and pulled out next year, th÷pe PR would be 50x worse. Single company cancelled this event in 2027!

Seems like smart move to get out fast!

▲testfrequency 3 hours ago | parent [-]

You clearly do not work in Tech. Grace Hopper has been around for decades, and companies have understood how important it is for furthering their industries.

This is absolutely the US Gov to blame for its DEI attacks and threats.

▲throw830373 2 hours ago | parent [-]

> mportant it is for furthering their industries

This was true 10 years ago, today not so much. After several years of cultural revolution, recent crimes, discrimination lawsuits, the entire "women in tech" subject is toxic.

Now it is in implosion phase, where activists will start eating their own (just see the hit list OP published).

Another problem is AI. Common coders will become obsolete (together with "women in tech"). There is no push for more "women in plumbing jobs". Pushing young people into tech (presumably with expensive student loans) is just cruel. Women are not stupid!

▲Markoff an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-]

for people outside US

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grace_Hopper

Grace Brewster Hopper (née Murray; December 9, 1906 – January 1, 1992) was an American computer scientist, mathematician, and United States Navy rear admiral.[1] She was a pioneer of computer programming. Hopper was the first to devise the theory of machine-independent programming languages, and used this theory to develop the FLOW-MATIC programming language, which was a major influence on COBOL, an early high-level programming language still in use today. She was also one of the first programmers on the Harvard Mark I computer. She is credited with writing the first computer manual, "A Manual of Operation for the Automatic Sequence Controlled Calculator", and is often credited with creating the first compiler.

didn't find anything controversial about her in wikipedia

▲peterfirefly an hour ago | parent [-]

She was the real deal, just massively overhyped for being a woman.

Here is an earlier programming language (never implemented) that was machine independent:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Plankalk%C3%BCl

▲fortran77 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I wonder if people are confused about their repositioning.

An AnitaB.org press release dated April 24, 2025, stated its mission as:

> “to get women in tech skilled, hired, promoted, paid, and funded so that they can thrive, lead, and drive innovation for a more equitable and sustainable future.”

The current mission page instead says:

> “to get our community in tech skilled, hired, promoted, paid, and funded, so they can thrive, lead, and drive innovation for a more impartial and sustainable future.”

It's really hard to tell from their current mission statement who "our community" is.

▲adamors 6 hours ago | parent [-]

Since DEI became a curse word, you cannot say you do anything for women anymore. I think it's pretty clear who the community still is, but with snowflakes running the government, wording suffers.

▲kenjackson 6 hours ago | parent | next [-]

I so hate that trying to help historically disadvantaged groups some extra help is considered bad. Like I get not making a group extra powered, but to help women in tech or research into Black prenatal care just seems absurd.

▲throw830373 4 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Lets not forget about female CEOs, they should be making 20x more.

▲tbrownaw 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Path dependence causes problems, it's better to make sure you can just use current state instead.

▲kenjackson 5 hours ago | parent [-]

Sorry to be dense. What does that mean?

▲ithkuil 5 hours ago | parent [-]

I believe the meaning in plain English is:

Let's not focus too much on the past problems that a group of people had, but let's make sure that the situation is improved for that group right now.

Focusing too much on past and try to tip the scale _because_ the past was so bad may lead to bad outcomes today. It may be perceived as a search for grievances and retribution and not the equalization of outcomes that one claims it should seek.

▲kenjackson 4 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Got it. I agree. If there is no modern negative consequences then no redress is needed.

▲ithkuil 3 hours ago | parent [-]

and conversely, if there are modern negative consequences, let's focus on those and fix them!

▲kenjackson 2 hours ago | parent [-]

100%

▲zombocomvibes 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Look at the current admin's overt tipping of the scales for white heterosexual Christian (in name only) males to see evidence of DEI in action.

They just don't like it when it's other people

▲ithkuil 3 hours ago | parent [-]

Yeah it's horrible and blatant.

But they think they can do it because they can spin it as "you did it first".

This just makes the point that there is nothing to gain by framing the issue as a grievance.

There are real prejudices and real systemic disadvantages to fix and while it's important to understand the history of them, I believe we put too much focus on that and less on what we can do to put that past behind us instead of dwelling in it. I don't think this approach of grievances has done anybody any favour in practice.

▲vkou 2 hours ago | parent [-]

> But they think they can do it because they can spin it as "you did it first".

They are happy to do whatever they want, and they don't worry about needing false-equivalence precedent to do it.

▲ithkuil an hour ago | parent [-]

sure, but this still doesn't mean we should behave like them.

▲rs_rs_rs_rs_rs 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> you cannot say you do anything for women anymore

Boy oh boy let me tell you about some stuff going on in sports in the latest years...

▲ura_yukimitsu an hour ago | parent | next [-]

Can you please say what exactly you're implying here and what that has to do with the situation AnitaB is in?

▲eddythompson80 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I think they mean women as an abstract concept

▲tempfile 38 minutes ago | parent | prev [-]

Corrected: you can't say you do anything for women that actually matters.

▲2muchcoffeeman 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

“Snowflake” used to be a pejorative to describe the political left…

▲Lerc 5 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Snowflake has the weirdest provinance. It was used in Fight Club as a metaphor for individual uniqueness, but because the people who thought Tyler Durden was the coolest thing ever identified with his followers. When Tyler said "You are not snowflakes" they took it to be a positive statement. Snowflake got reinterpreted as a metaphor for fragility.

Ironicly many of those who use the term are not snowflakes in one of those senses and are in the other, but the opposite of what they believe to be true.

▲n4r9 2 hours ago | parent | next [-]

> Palahniuk was hardly the first person to use the metaphor. It's the stuff of self-help books and inspirational posters and elementary school assurances.

> In the 1970s snowflake was a disparaging term for a white man or for a black man who was seen as acting white.

> In Missouri in the early 1860s, a "Snowflake" was a person who was opposed to the abolition of slavery—the implication of the name being that such people valued white people over black people.

https://www.merriam-webster.com/wordplay/the-less-lovely-sid...

▲latexr 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Tyler Durden, Don Drapper, Patrick Bateman, are all characters that you’re not supposed to want to be like but that “blackpilled” men completely miss the point and worship. There must be a name for this type of character influence. It reminds me of the “torrent nexus” trope but for people.

▲Lerc an hour ago | parent | next [-]

>There must be a name for this type of character influence.

Well you can spot them with a Rorschach test, perhaps.

▲nwatson an hour ago | parent | prev [-]

The term is: antihero

▲Lerc 32 minutes ago | parent [-]

That's the term for the character. I think they were seeking a term to describe those who perceive antiheroes to be heroes.

▲latexr 24 minutes ago | parent [-]

Correct. I wouldn’t really call them anti-heroes, however, as those are still meant to be sympathetic.

To put it less ambiguously, I’m looking for a term for a character which is written to be repulsive but a number of people in the real world misinterpret as a role model.

▲JumpCrisscross 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> “Snowflake” used to be a pejorative to describe the political left

Horseshoe theory [1]. Both the far left and right are thin skinned, constantly engrossed in nonsensical semantic debates and accusing their betters of lacking a sense of humor.

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Horseshoe_theory

▲oliculipolicula 4 hours ago | parent [-]

OK. The framing has shifted, though.

These days, Varoufakis talks about "radical centrists".

(It's possisble he doesn't actually have a sense of humour and what we're seeing is pure schadenfreude over, eg, the unsurprising stuff that's happening to the centre-left in Sweden right now. Which happened to Starmer, and has yet to happen to Burnham

But this is maybe only "empirical"--- your wiki link mentions the vulnerability of centrism to elite takeover, and subsequent alienation from the masses. Nod to your "betters")

▲wood_spirit 4 hours ago | parent | next [-]

(What stuff is happening to the center left in Sweden right now?)

▲nyargh 4 hours ago | parent [-]

Sweden has bloc politics, i.e. no single party has the majority to govern.

The red-green bloc (left, center and greens) won a majority but the center party is playing kingmaker and refusing to let the left party into government. The left party has said from well before the election that they, reasonably, will not vote to support a government which they are not part of.

This has been due to decades of bourgeois / social democrat rat-fucking on policies, most notably disability / sick insurance reforms, after they got the left party's support votes. [1]

There is speculation that the center party would instead support the prior right wing government instead (voting with the extreme-right) - as long as the extreme right stays out of government, despite the extreme right getting all of their policies pushed through anyway. Even going so far as to withhold key votes in parliament until their immigration reforms (removing permanent residency and restricting citizenship, in this case) got passed. [2]

The short of it is that "centrist" parties are just right wing parties in disguise, in that they NEVER support leftist reforms but will happily support the right when it suits upper class economic interests.

Democracy being what it is, can be messy and nobody goes home happy. But the left of the left bloc saw the largest electoral gains in this election, so a move to the left is arguably what a growing portion of the electorate wanted. It was still a very close election, so you could frame it in many ways, but that the green-reds did see the biggest gains is fact.

1. https://arbetet.se/2026/09/21/sjukforsakringen-forklarar-var...

2. https://www.thelocal.se/20261012/beer-strike-and-contract-br...

▲cbolton 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

You make it sound like the center party is playing both sides but as I understand it is not part of that block, and they would be OK with social democrats but not far left in government. What's wrong with that?

▲wood_spirit 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Aha ok I was wondering when I asked if you meant the internal politics or either social democrats or greens - what I think of as the two center left parties - had been going through an activist far left internal struggle (as is happening to the very separate Green Party in the UK right now).

I would say the center party is center-right.

▲JumpCrisscross 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

> centrism

I don't think this word has meaning anymore in modern Western politics. We have institutionalists.They aren't that different from the animating essence of Trump 1.0–they want to go back to some good old days. Even though the world has since changed. And the old days weren't that good, they're the reason we're where we are now.

And we have various folks pitching reform. The idiots on the far left and the right agree on the broad structure of reform, namely, nothing thoughtful except getting rid of the other guys. But they aren't the only ones pitching reform.

▲oliculipolicula 4 hours ago | parent [-]

Sure. All instances of "centrist" in the #Modern portion of that wiki could be replaced by "institutionalist".. but it would call for a careful analysis of how institutionalism dominates reform (internally, with respect to general electoral processes)

▲JumpCrisscross 4 hours ago | parent [-]

> it would call for a careful analysis of how institutionalism dominates reform

Why? Status quo is the default in any state.

▲gwd 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Yes, and it's being used ironically here. The people who pointed and laughed at those who wanted "safe spaces" and overly sensitive, are overly sensitive about people not like them getting any help. "You called us snowflakes, but you're the ones who have the fragile ego."

▲slater 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

every accusation, confession, etc.

▲0xbadcafebee 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Why it may have lacked the funding to continue operations:

"Last year, Women Who Code, a nonprofit that got its start in California, closed because of a lack of funding. AnitaB.org, which brings together women in tech at its annual Grace Hopper Celebration, cut its workforce in 2024 and pointed to a downturn in corporate DEI investments." - "Why Big Tech is pulling back [from DEI efforts]" [2025] (https://www.latimes.com/business/story/2025-02-15/google-and...)

"I've seen companies who have rebranded their diversity, equity, inclusion as colleague engagement, as listening and empowerment, or and whatever else, I've seen many different iterations, and I think a lot of organizations... [want] to get to a place where they can hide their activity..." ... "Those organizations want to continue doing the work, but they no longer want attention for that work. And so to try to, like, hide it in some ways, and we're in a very unprecedented time right now, nothing is normal right now." ... "Well, basically, corporations interpreted the ADA to say, like, I don't have to offer any... And then you have this three executive orders around DEI, and companies are falling over themselves to comply in advance without any legal mandate for compliance." ... "I just saw a New York Times article that was published a list of a hundred and ninety-nine words that the Trump administration is targeting, words like diversity and inclusion, but also things like bias, stereotypes, underrepresented, underserved, and many more words. They're flagging these words, they're removing them from websites, they're investigating, delaying, denying grants and funding." - Bo Young Lee, President of Research & Advisory for AnitaB.org [2025] (https://voices.berkeley.edu/podcast/dei-not-doa-part-1 | locally AI extracted transcript: https://pastebin.ca/5Mmy5Q6deu)

▲mihaaly 2 hours ago | parent [-]

What scares me for the future of my children is that people cheer or blend in, hide, give up. All this repression is helped from multitude of directions, actively or passively, but helped. And the intentional confrontation, seeking it, is increasingly the norm while standing up for it, the protective confrontation is disappearing into the shades, under the grass, not to be seen, go dormant or in some instances, die. This will not end well.

▲knorker 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

The first thing I think about when I hear GHC is the gaslighting. For years I was prodded about that I should go. Men are absolutely welcome. Everyone is welcome, etc.

I never felt that I was actually welcome. And I don't have to be. It's not for me, and it doesn't have to be. I answered women inviting me that no, that wasn't made for me, have fun though.

Then mass layoffs happened, and men who lost their jobs, or looking for their first job, went.

Suddenly everything flipped. Keynote was basically "what the fuck are all you men doing here, taking the space of women?".

Oh, the gaslighting. Glad I never went.

▲zkmon 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

There are no isolated phenomena. There are no accidents. It apples to everything. Times are changing. Priorities are changing. The party is coming to an end. People are getting real. It's like the world suddenly progressed past it's childhood or waking from a musical dream.

The courtesy smiles, the pretentive presentations, the sale talk, the polite social customs, the diplomacy, the power due to knowledge, weaponry, currency fixations, - all will face the concrete realities. Water recedes exposing the naked, boisterous economies. The zero-carbon evangelists run to Russia for diesel and to China for minerals or they get extinct, unable to adapt and sitting on their presumptive glory.