| ▲ | timcobb 2 days ago |
| It's telling, IMO, that Western cultures deals with suicidality with hotlines you can call. It's like some joke from gonzo journalism come to fruition. I don't know what the answer is, but as a person who's been suicidal, for me it wasn't a hotline. It's even more fitting, if not kind of perfect, that said hotlines farm your data and sell it. :chef's kiss: what else is there to say. Like just about everything else, callous people make money while vulnerable, sensitive people pay up. Beautiful world we live in ;). Please drink responsibly! |
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| ▲ | throw0101c 2 days ago | parent | next [-] |
| "Young adult suicide rates dropped after U.S. launched 988 hotline": * https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/988-crisis-hotlin... "Suicide deaths dropped 11% from projected rate in the first two years of the revamped lifeline" * https://www.statnews.com/2026/04/22/988-hotline-linked-11-pe... |
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| ▲ | timcobb 2 days ago | parent | next [-] | | Yes, they seem to work for many people. I don't mean to belittle that, I guess that is good. But, I'm not sure how that's interesting because "something works for somebody" is true for just about every category. For example, some people want to work at Palantir and find it interesting that some executive named Steve Cohen runs the AC at 60 degrees and eats ice cubes all day to aid cognition[0]. There's a very wide diversity of people out there, so the fact that some find this appealing is not interesting or surprising. So, the question, in my mind, is less that something works for somebody, and more about the broader meaning of this civilizational function. [0] https://nabeelqu.substack.com/p/reflections-on-palantir (https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41855006) | | |
| ▲ | mden 2 days ago | parent | next [-] | | Can you explain what your point really was then? Belittling the idea of hotlines seemed central in your messaging and the possible exploitation of data more of a secondary thing. It's fine to be cynical but it's also good to remember that there are real people that do care and try to improve the world as well. | | |
| ▲ | some_random 2 days ago | parent | next [-] | | Most people don't believe in incremental progress anymore, either it works 100% of the time and solves everything forever or it's a failure and you probably wanted it to fail because you're evil. | | |
| ▲ | timcobb 2 days ago | parent [-] | | No I believe that what you have with the 11 percent decrease is reflective of diversity among people and what causes crisis. Suicide hotlines work for some people in some cases, that is undeniable. But it's not incremental in that you're not going to then iterate on the hotline and make it more effective and one day we've got 20% and so on. That won't be the case because the hotline is just not appealing for many people. It's good for the people it's good for, but that doesn't mean it's not a civilizational CYA/"not my problem". | | |
| ▲ | voxic11 2 days ago | parent | next [-] | | Are you under the impression that hotlines are the only intervention that is being explored? | | | |
| ▲ | some_random 2 days ago | parent | prev [-] | | You already called suicide hotlines capitalist, I don't have any respect for your opinion on this matter. |
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| ▲ | giantg2 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Not the OP, but I saw it as a bandaid. Creating a hotline vs fixing underlying societal issues is a quick fix but doesn't fix the real drivers of the longterm increases. | | |
| ▲ | IAmBroom 2 days ago | parent [-] | | Do you keep bandaids in your house? Or do you rely purely on the Emergency Room a/o "toughing it out"? Bandaids are useful. And can save measurable numbers of lives. |
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| ▲ | timcobb 2 days ago | parent | prev [-] | | Sure, concretely, my point was that hotlines are a very capitalist feeling thing for me. Probably because of trying to deal with corporiations, from monopolies/utilities to things like airlines. My experience in this realm has been one of alienation. So, taking the hotline and applying it to people in suicidal crisis is like peak alienation in my mind. Personally, I'm not anti-capitalist, but capitalism to me is tied up conceptually with money and expedience. Feelings, in my opinion, are sort of in a different human realm. But yes, for sure, that alienation as I allege it, is probably good for many people in crisis who are uncomfortable with the people around them. However, the question of why it is that such people aren't comfortable with anyone around them is the bigger one in my mind. > Please drink responsibily To me, although they work, suicide hotlines appear to be a naked corporate CYA, just like gambling and other addiction hotlines. Civilization will beat you down, won't give you health insurance except for a few free COVID shots (then, suddenly, people can totally mobilize to administer collective healthcare), but hey when you've just about had it, here's a hotline you can call (and we'll sell your data hahahahaha sucker). | | |
| ▲ | watwut 2 days ago | parent [-] | | They are literally government paid social service you can call without additional charge. What the hell is capitalist about it? Also Dutch give you health insurance beyond covid shot. | | |
| ▲ | timcobb 2 days ago | parent | next [-] | | > What the hell is capitalist about it? The rest, everything else. It's darkly amusing to me we don't get healthcare here in the US but we do get suicide hotlines. EDIT: wouldn't be surprised if Trump defunded/privatized suicide hotlines using companies run by the Trump Org. | | |
| ▲ | yladiz 2 days ago | parent [-] | | > The rest, everything else. What are you specifically talking about? What is “everything else”? | | |
| ▲ | timcobb 2 days ago | parent | next [-] | | Existence, where you're just thrown out there to sink or swim and that's thats. If you're lucky you have parents and/or friends who can help you. If you're not, well... good luck! | | |
| ▲ | watwut 2 days ago | parent [-] | | Is that reaction to Dutch, German or French social support? Cause all three provide serious support and are the west. | | |
| ▲ | timcobb 2 days ago | parent [-] | | I didn't think that in Netherlands, Germany or France you can live like a normal person if you are, say, depressed or addicted to drugs and don't want to or can't work. | | |
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| ▲ | KennyBlanken 2 days ago | parent | prev [-] | | Why are you continuing to argue with someone who from their second response or third response in the thead - is at best disingenuous? | | |
| ▲ | timcobb 2 days ago | parent [-] | | Brutal that you would think I am being disingenuous based on my responses. Sad for me genuinely. |
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| ▲ | some_random 2 days ago | parent | prev [-] | | What's capitalist about it? It works. |
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| ▲ | wat10000 2 days ago | parent | prev [-] | | An 11% drop isn't "something works for somebody," it's "it works for a lot of people, substantially more people than it harms, making for a clear net gain." In individual with odd habits is a completely different thing. That comparison is utterly inapt. If you had an entire population that started running the AC at 60 degrees and eating ice cubes all day, and cognition measurably increased by 11%, that would be incredible news. | | |
| ▲ | timcobb 2 days ago | parent [-] | | To be clear I'm not saying it's not a net gain. It's very clearly a net gain. But, just because it works doesn't mean it's not a capitalism solution using the capitalism hammer of talking to random people behind a phone (which, again, might be a net good thing for some people crisis). So again, I am not against anti-suicide hotlines. I am sincerely happy they help many people. I just think they are very symbolically representative of our capitalist alienated world where everything, down to our very drive to exist, has a corporate CYA hedge hotline. | | |
| ▲ | IAmBroom a day ago | parent [-] | | I think you are very, very confused about the definition of capitalism. |
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| ▲ | hirvi74 2 days ago | parent | prev [-] | | It is interesting because while the hotline might help some, it can also do significant damage to others depending on what happens after the phone call. Of course, nothing in life is every 100% good for everyone or every situation. While not everyone that calls the hotline is involuntarily committed, I wonder how the data matches up with this finding [1]: > "In this meta-analysis of 100 studies of 183 patient samples, the postdischarge suicide rate was approximately 100 times the global suicide rate during the first 3 months after discharge and patients admitted with suicidal thoughts or behaviors had rates near 200 times the global rate. Even many years after discharge, previous psychiatric inpatients have suicide rates that are approximately 30 times higher than typical global rates." [1] https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5710249/ | | |
| ▲ | wat10000 2 days ago | parent | next [-] | | Are they accounting for the fact that people who are admitted with suicidal thoughts will tend to be those much more prone to suicide in the first place? It seems obvious, but it doesn't sound like they are. People who come home from the hospital after being admitted for cancer treatment will have a much higher cancer death rate than the general population, but that doesn't imply that hospital treatment is damaging. | | |
| ▲ | hirvi74 a day ago | parent [-] | | > Are they accounting for the fact that people who are admitted with suicidal thoughts will tend to be those much more prone to suicide in the first place? How certain are you that this is a fact? I agree that is seems like common sense on the surface, but that might not be the case. The closest I could find in the study was this: > However, the findings should curb enthusiasm for restrictive interventions directed at patients labeled as having high risk of suicide by virtue of demographic or clinical variables. Our figures suggest that 0.28% of all discharged patients can be expected to commit suicide during the first 3 months after discharge. The modest statistical strength of suicide risk assessment means that even patients who are classified as having high risk because of their suicide risk factors will have a low absolute probability of suicide over clinically meaningful time frames, whereas patients with a low risk for suicide will still have a probability of suicide that is many times that in the general community. It also seems that largest factor, and perhaps a better determinant of severity, is the number of times one is (re)admitted. > People who come home from the hospital after being admitted for cancer treatment will have a much higher cancer death rate than the general population How much higher? Do you think this statement is comparable to cancer treatment? > Our data suggest that the suicide rates among discharged patients have not decreased in the past 50 years. This is a disturbing finding considering the increase in community psychiatry and the availability of a range of new treatments during this period. I think this is the take away from the study that is also important: > However, the very high suicide rates calculated in this study and the known limitations of suicide risk assessment suggest that a focus on clinical risk assessment might mislead clinicians into thinking that some patients can be regarded as having low risk after discharge. Our findings better support the views of authors who believe in a more universal approach to suicide prevention that might focus on periods of high risk but that extends for periods of years. Also, I need to clarify one thing. I apologize for any confusion. I realized how half-finished my initial comment was. I did not mean to imply the damage from facilities comes from treatments per se, though there are still risks with all treatments. I should have clarified that damage can occur from the systems surrounding the facility. The (incorrect) stigma surrounding admission, the potential police interventions, the medical debt from being admitted, loss of certain rights/job prospects, etc.. Yes, the facilities do help some individuals, that is their purpose, but some people are hesitant to say, call the hotline, out of fear of being committed, which can also be damaging. | | |
| ▲ | wat10000 a day ago | parent [-] | | I'm quite confident that people admitted to institutions for suicidal thoughts are much more prone to suicide. But it doesn't actually matter to my point. It's a very reasonable hypothesis, true or not. It needs to be addressed as a potential confounding factor, either by showing it's not true, or by showing that the size of the observed effect is greater than the effect from the confounding factor. |
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| ▲ | BobaFloutist 2 days ago | parent | prev [-] | | I mean, yeah. Of course. You don't get involuntarily committed if you're not at high risk. What? | | |
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| ▲ | freedomben 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| To me, the hotline is an absolute joke and one of the last things I would do if I were contemplating harming myself. I've often wondered if there is hard data showing it is effective overall, or whether it's just bandwagon group think run amok. I have lost a number of friends to suicide, and as a result I spent a significant amount of time thinking about what could have been done to have helped them before it was too late. In nearly all cases, it was pretty well thought out and not a spur of the moment thing. In some cases, they even took steps to prevent people from discovering their plans. So anecdotally, a suicide hotline would not have helped at all. Based on some searching though, it seems like there is data showing that it helps on the whole. I guess for people who are having a spur of the moment thought, it might be potentially helpful. However I also found some people saying that seeing the prolific messages about calling the hotline when searching for information about things really pushed them away and somewhat backfired. I guess ultimately this is a very complex issue with no one size fits all solution. If I ever get to a point where I no longer have to work, this is a cause I would love to work on for the people that tend to think it through more and less spontaneous. |
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| ▲ | sailfast 2 days ago | parent | next [-] | | Having an option to talk to someone when you're alone and having trouble getting out of your own head is a great option. If you don't know what to do and you only see death as the option, having someone give you options seems like a good thing to have available at a relatively low cost. I don't think anyone is expecting this to "solve suicide" but it sure as hell beats the alternative of... :checks notes: nothing? Calling a therapist is similar to a "hotline" but you need to have a therapist first, which is a pain in the ass. Making that easier would be a good concrete second step (which a hotline can also help with!) | | |
| ▲ | giantg2 2 days ago | parent [-] | | "sure as hell beats the alternative of... :checks notes: nothing?" There seem to be many things that we could do, like addressing suicide as a social contagion including in media portrayal, providing better substance abuse and mental health treatment options, etc. A hotline is like a bandaid - its not going to fix the underlying societal issues like disconnection, lack of community, lack of opportunity/hope, social media, etc. | | |
| ▲ | sailfast 2 days ago | parent | next [-] | | Disconnection, lack of community / opportunity / hope and social media are all major societal issues that (in my opinion) are not going to be solved by any sort of single government or charity. Making progress on that takes shifting norms / moving the overton window on depression and addiction, and overriding a lot of human nature (we like easy, we like saccharine, etc). Definitely open to whatever concrete ideas you have that would fix those things, especially if they don't require a nation's whole GDP. | |
| ▲ | yladiz 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | What’s your point? Okay, the hotline is a bandage, but that’s entirely the point, you use it when you’re feeling suicidal and you need to talk to someone. You don’t use it to fix structural issues in your life that lead to you feeling like that. | |
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| ▲ | Retric 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | There is hard data showing they extended several thousand lives. https://www.pbs.org/newshour/health/988-hotline-linked-to-th... The important thing to remember is the variability of the human condition, stuff that would fall 90% of the time can still move the numbers. | |
| ▲ | mikebonnell 2 days ago | parent | prev [-] | | As mentioned above - there is data that helps. |
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| ▲ | MyelinatedT 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| As another, intermittently suicidal person, I have never received helpful support from a hotline. In fact, I have never managed to speak to another human on the phone at all. Out of four hotline calls in my life, mostly as an older teenager, I waited for >1 hour in every case, listening to pre-recorded “please continue holding, we will get to you” messages and elevator music, before giving up. The only time I contacted a human it was via a text chat, and the interaction was laughably shallow — they hit me repeatedly with condescending, “reflective listening”-style questions and basically offered no depth or consideration to my situation, or me as a person. If these services demonstrably save lives then that’s great, but they did absolutely nothing for me. |
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| ▲ | chaosharmonic 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I saw a LinkedIn thread just the other day that called it the "suicide prevention industrial complex," and that phrase will stick in my head like "orphan crushing machine" or "leopards eating faces" |
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| ▲ | sailfast 2 days ago | parent [-] | | What on earth is the "industrial complex" part about this? Outside of pharma pushing pills I'm not sure what other profit-seeking, recursive elements exist in the "suicide prevention industry". Legitimately curious about this - not sure how these words would apply. | | |
| ▲ | clickety_clack 2 days ago | parent | next [-] | | I would much rather the suicide-prevention people become rich than the infinite-scroll advertising guys. | |
| ▲ | hirvi74 a day ago | parent | prev [-] | | Not entirely sure what the GP meant either, but maybe it's like sports betting? Where some companies are heavily advertising and trying to get people to become "responsible gamblers" (addicted), meanwhile, some of those same companies are investing in mental health treatment facilities on the side. Thus, those gambling companies can make money off gambling addicts and when gambling addicts try to quit. As the saying goes, the house always wins. https://www.barrons.com/articles/sports-betting-problem-gamb... |
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| ▲ | an0malous 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I think many people, not all, who are labeled “mentally ill” are just more attuned to the truth that society is depressing and anxiety inducing. In other words, the so called normal people are the crazy ones. But we define mental illness relative to how well someone can function in society, that’s literally how the DSM is used, even though society is clearly mad and perverse and 10 minutes on Twitter or reading the news is more than enough evidence to draw that conclusion. Every tech CEO or celebrity or successful person could be diagnosed with a multitude of mental illnesses, but because they’re “productive” members of society we glorify them instead. Explain to me how it’s normal and healthy to work 100 hours a week, take ketamine and adderall and other hardcode drugs regularly, post rants on the Internet at 3am, go make a decision that hurts or kills thousands of people, and then hit up the golf club after. Then we take the people who notice all of this madness and tell them they’re crazy, ill, and malfunctioning. We put them in this Kafkaesque nightmare of gaslighting that probably does drive them mad over time. I don’t want to say that if you’re hearing voices telling you to do things that you’re ok, but if you just feel depressed or anxious I think there’s a good chance you’re just awake to the sickness of society that most people are still in denial about and it might make you feel better to know you’re not the broken one. You still need to figure out how to adapt to the world, but just knowing you’re not broken gives you a foundation to build from. |
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| ▲ | lonely_wanderer 2 days ago | parent [-] | | I understand the point you make but I would counter that being happy doesn’t mean you aren’t aware of the world and injustice around you. It doesn’t mean that you condone it, think it’s good, etc. It does mean you probably avoid self-destructive behaviors like excess drug use, poor sleep, etc. Many happy people are also agitators for change. Not to say that happiness is a choice, but you can certainly make choices which make you sick with anxiety. It’s a disordered behavior to purposefully reinforce your sadness and anxiety about the world for no useful reason. For instance, many people feel compelled to expose themselves to the horror of certain ongoing events constantly, via video. There are whole subreddits dedicated to it, on every side of most conflicts. At the end of the day, that is neither healthy nor productive, solely self-traumatizing. One reason this is a pernicious behavior is because it feels like there is righteousness in being a witness, but in reality it’s no different than self-harm. |
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| ▲ | athrowaway3z 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I wasn't going to comment, but this is just too dumb on too many levels. The hotline is not the way to deal with suicidality - suicidality is a longer process and something you can ask your GP about and most help is covered under most western versions of universal health care. The hotline is an idea that intervenes in the last steps of a suicide process. The idea can reach into the moment where people have convinced themselves they're stuck - and they can reach out with extremely low effort or barrier to entry. If you have some better 'idea' we can spread into the culture that does this better, then by all means enlighten us. --- You could have made a case and started a discussion how too many people see the existence of the hotline as _the_ way to deal with suicidality, but you didn't. You just decided to spread some shallow vibe nonsense. |
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| ▲ | dylan604 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| The NYT released an article[0], sorry paywalled, that discusses the effectiveness of the 988 hotline in lowering the number of suicides where it is available. Sadly, because of the joke that is mental health coverage in the US, that's as good of news as I've got for you. Mental health coverage isn't even available on the open market AMA (Obama Care), so 988 is the best we can offer. [0]https://www.nytimes.com/2026/04/22/science/988-youth-suicide... |
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| ▲ | miltonlost 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| What do you advocate for to help people contemplating suicide? WHat do non-Western culture do to "deal with suicidality"? The issue is when the hotline is selling the data and not that the hotline itself exists. |
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| ▲ | gowld 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| The hotline is isn't "selling" the data. The hotline installed analytics software to help them do their job. Do "non-Western culture have a better solution to suicidality? |
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| ▲ | philipwhiuk 2 days ago | parent | next [-] | | They're exchanging the data for a service. That's a sale, a very old form of sale, called bartering. | |
| ▲ | mothballed 2 days ago | parent | prev [-] | | A quick sweep of the lowest 20 countries in suicide and the most obvious thing that can be teased out is they're by vast majority extremely conservative societies where family and religion (mostly Islam) would likely dominate the goals of any person living there (with a couple exceptions). Only about half of the lowest 10 have any sort of functional welfare or state support programs. I wonder if having a pretty rigid, straightforward, and achievable set of life goals lowers suicide. This isn't to say that's the best way to live, but I could understand how it may make people more satisfied with their life. | | |
| ▲ | frereubu 2 days ago | parent | next [-] | | There's a very real risk that data from conservative societies, which often see suicide as shameful, is underreporting the actual level. If a family is going to be looked down on if one of its members kills themselves, there's a strong motivation to attribute the death to another cause if at all possible. | |
| ▲ | graemep 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I think its very hard to draw conclusions. The country with the lowest rate is majority Christian and AFAIK is not extremely conservative: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_suicide_r... A second list on that page gives different numbers: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_suicide_r... In between is a table that shows the suicide rate is much lower in "upper middle income" countries than in either poorer or richer countries. I suspect that is a pointer. Affluent enough not to be constantly struggling, but different in some ways (urbanisation? materialism? isolation?) from the rich countries. You also need to look at other factors. Conservative countries have younger populations, so you need to correct for that. Not all countries have equally accurate statistics. I think conservative countries may have an advantage because of larger families, extended families, fewer people being single (and less isolated if they are) etc. but it needs more data. There are some pretty conservative countries with high rates. | |
| ▲ | TitaRusell 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | What really happens is that nobody counts the suicides and they are reclassified as accidental deaths. When the Netherlands was still Christian we did this too. | |
| ▲ | vanviegen 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Suicide is not an attractive option if you believe that you'll be eternally punished for it in the after life. | |
| ▲ | keybored 2 days ago | parent | prev [-] | | To guess that people in countries with lower suicide are more satisfied is one possibility. | | |
| ▲ | mothballed 2 days ago | parent [-] | | Satisfaction isn't even conditional on most of the rest of what I said, so even if the guess is wrong it doesn't change my statement much. |
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| ▲ | andsoitis 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| > It's telling, IMO, that Western cultures deals with suicidality with hotlines you can call What is it telling? |
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| ▲ | baigy 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Learnt a new word today: suicidality. Sounds like physicality, but with deadly consequences. |
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| ▲ | muvlon 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| The logical next step is to replace the suicide hotline operators with AI. And maybe add a way for other people to gamble on the results. |
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| ▲ | timcobb 2 days ago | parent [-] | | You're getting downvoted but that IS the logical next step and it will totally happen. |
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| ▲ | watwut 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Those hotlines literally drop suicide rates. They wont help everyone, but they do have good track record of helping people. |
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| ▲ | nephihaha a day ago | parent [-] | | Many of these people do want someone to talk to 24/7, and they may well be isolated. They are not the only solution but one of them. One of my friends was turned away from an NHS hospital the year before last and took his own life. |
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| ▲ | mothballed 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I've heard the Dutch one is is a little better. The ones in the USA aren't likely to do much more than call police to put a mental hold on you, during which the hospital will rack up so many bills that it would make anyone suicidal. And then yay, your gun rights gone forever, so if you are suicidal in part because you live in a dangerous impoverished shithole good luck defending yourself afterwards! |
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| ▲ | ceejayoz 2 days ago | parent | next [-] | | https://www.cbsnews.com/news/will-988-call-the-police-data-s... > Many people in mental health crisis fear that if they dial 988, law enforcement might show up or they might be forced to go to the hospital. > But getting sent that kind of "involuntary emergency rescue" happens to around 1% of callers, suggests new data from Vibrant Emotional Health, the administrator of the 988 Lifeline for suicide and mental health crises. | | |
| ▲ | hilariously 2 days ago | parent [-] | | If anything I did had a 1% chance of involuntary committal I would stop doing that thing immediately. | | |
| ▲ | hx8 2 days ago | parent | next [-] | | I don't think that's the right way to consider your odds of involuntary committal. It really depends on what you say in the calls. The more immediate and serious the danger the more likely you are to be involuntary committed. The caller range is quite large. | | |
| ▲ | JohnFen 2 days ago | parent [-] | | So that means you have to watch what you say if you call such a line. That seems risky enough to discourage me from calling if I were in such a state. | | |
| ▲ | hx8 2 days ago | parent [-] | | Would you rather not try to help the people that obviously need help? | | |
| ▲ | randerson 2 days ago | parent [-] | | What if the help they need is just to talk to someone without fear of consequences? If they dispatch you to an institution you could lose your job just when you need money to pay for the bills you'll be sent. With some careers, like being a pilot, you'd never be be to find another job. You'd lose your ability to take out life insurance (even if it was a short temporary depression that you got over, like a side effect of a medication, the life insurance companies won't care.) Or the institution's records could be hacked and you'll live in fear of your friends and family finding out.. which could cause rebound suicidal ideation... There is no way I would ever call these hotlines unless it were 100% anonymous. | | |
| ▲ | hx8 a day ago | parent [-] | | > What if the help they need is just to talk to someone without fear of consequences? Is there actually any consequence free conversations? Even Lawyers can break confidentiality in some situations. I'm not saying that the hotline is perfect, I'm saying that it provides a lot of good. I hope you never feel the need to call the hotline, but it's an option that saves a lot of lives. | | |
| ▲ | mothballed a day ago | parent [-] | | I think that's what strippers are for. Come in, pay in cash, say whatever, no paper trail or telephone logs, then leave. They're not mandatory reporters like doctors or licensed professionals and therapists are. From the ones I've known, this is no-shit what a lot of people use them for. |
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| ▲ | ceejayoz 2 days ago | parent | prev [-] | | Does that include “untreated suicidal ideation”? | | |
| ▲ | hilariously 2 days ago | parent [-] | | Yep, as someone who suffers from depression and suicidal ideation regularly its been made very clear to me on multiple occasions that I would rather be in this state than interface with involuntary committal. I don't know what points you are looking to score here. | | |
| ▲ | ceejayoz 2 days ago | parent [-] | | I have several loved ones in the same situation, including two who've wound up in hospital in this way. I'm glad they did. Fun? No. But better than dying. | | |
| ▲ | hilariously 2 days ago | parent [-] | | I get it, I am not advocating to live unmedicated or anything, but pretty much every emergency medical experience I have had any contact with in the USA has been so universally painful and dehumanizing that it gives me extreme pause, I would not willingly engage with it. | | |
| ▲ | ceejayoz 2 days ago | parent [-] | | I'm fine with someone making that call for themselves with personal experience, although doing it in a sound state of mind can be challenging in crisis. I'd just caution you that it's not a universal experience. As with, say, COVID masking, some people found it abhorrent, and others still voluntarily mask today; some found lockdowns almost fun, others despised even the thought of staying home for a few days. Statistically, police/committment intervention from calling the hotline is rare, and another commenter linked evidence (https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=48122550) of significant benefits to balance it. |
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| ▲ | iepathos 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Gun rights are generally not gone forever. Federal law bars people adjudicated mentally defective or formally committed to a mental institution, neither of which include a temporary mental hold for suicide watch. State laws vary, but none of them have a law where a single temporary hold means "gun rights gone forever." Some states let people go buy a gun the day they are released from suicide watch, despite how irresponsible that sounds. | | |
| ▲ | mothballed 2 days ago | parent [-] | | The temporary can easily turn into an adjudicated one. Happened to one of my friends during a nasty divorce, the high-IQ husband knew all the buttons to press to the state and kept fabricating to the state that the suicidal ideation was ongoing (it never existed in the first place) and then they committed my friend based on that. He was then successful in getting my friend's ability to defend herself removed so that she would be defenseless. |
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| ▲ | wholinator2 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | So from what i understand the only way your gun rights are "gone forever" is if a court ordered you to go to a mental hospital. If it's just a 911 call and a ride to the hospital (every trip to the "grippy sock hotel" I've ever seen), that does not apply and your gun rights are not removed federally. Some states have "red flag" laws but to my understanding those are temporary and end either after a time period or a court petition. I'm curious what laws you're talking about in the US that would take your gun rights for a suicide call. | | |
| ▲ | cj 2 days ago | parent | next [-] | | This heavily depends on the state. E.g. NY is not friendly in this scenario depending on the type of permit and the type of hold. An involuntary hold will impact your right to have a gun. | |
| ▲ | mothballed 2 days ago | parent | prev [-] | | Involuntary commitment. Happened to a good friend of mine during a nasty divorce, the husband made up a suicidal story and my friend was committed without the court appointing her a lawyer to defend herself. She's struggling to get her rights back, it is apparently possible, but they're gone forever until you spend a lot of money on lawyers so it's true it's not strictly the case you can't get them back but they default to staying gone forever. | | |
| ▲ | mx7zysuj4xew 2 days ago | parent [-] | | Just curious, but did this person have a history of emotional lability plus previous (voluntary) outpatient treatment? | | |
| ▲ | aftbit 2 days ago | parent [-] | | This is just another form of stigma. Better to go without getting treated for mental health issues, or that very responsible decision to seek treatment will be used against you later. See also the jump seat pilot who tried to pull the fire handles on a commercial flight. |
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| ▲ | retired 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | In The Netherlands you can be involuntarily committed to a mental hospital due to risk of suicide, still get a weapons license, buy half a dozen guns and then go on a shooting rampage killing 7 and wounding 17 (Alphen a/d Rijn shooting, 2011). | |
| ▲ | sailfast 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | This is not a comment on gun rights, but, IF you are having issues with suicide and depression I would absolutely remove those weapons from your house and access. Talk to a friend you trust. Have them stored. Something. Having them nearby is only going to increase the odds you end up dead. | |
| ▲ | tosti 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | They follow a flowchart. Most of it involves trying to figure out if you know any friends or family nearby. I guess finding someone for comfort might make sense, but the flowchart is too obvious and makes it sound like another typical marketing callcenter. | |
| ▲ | the_af 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | > if you are suicidal in part because you live in a dangerous impoverished shithole good luck defending yourself afterwards! Is realistically "gun ownership" a plus in this scenario? | |
| ▲ | llm_nerd 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Seems like one of those situations where damned if they do, damned if they don't, isn't it? Like if someone is in immediate crisis what do you expect them to do? I feel like if someone is calling a line, they are looking for intervention. If someone cries for help and the response is ensuring that someone doesn't fearmonger on Hacker News, I feel like that would be a problem. "And then yay, your gun rights gone forever" Gun owners are much more likely to kill themself with said gun than to ever defend themselves in any way, and anyone who has ideations should be the last person to want a gun. And suicide mostly afflicts white middle-aged males, most of whom don't live in "dangerous impoverished shitholes". I doubt the correlation is more than random. | | | |
| ▲ | gowld 2 days ago | parent | prev [-] | | You really think that legal prohibition on gun ownership is more a difference in life-and-death due to murder risk than suicide risk? |
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| ▲ | Madmallard 2 days ago | parent | prev [-] |
| when society gets too big, sociopathy and opportunism win out |