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Telaneo 3 hours ago

> If your worth is not determined by your productivity, then what remains of you underneath it all?

Everything else. You are worth so much more than your productivity.

I'm glad I never got sucked into the protestant work ethic, since defining yourself based on your labour and the value you generate from that sounds woefully narrow-minded (this doesn't feel like quite the right word, but close enough).

It's probably helpful to at least expand 'productivity' to something beyond just what is useful for your work. Reading the classics is productive because it's enjoyable, even though it doesn't help with your work. Ditto spending time with friends and whatever else that doesn't have anything to do with work.

I hope we figure out what to do about disabilities, since the current status quo is inhumane in large parts of the world (and even in places with good benefits systems, getting that support isn't trivial).

avalys 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Who produces the food you eat, the clothes you wear, the house you live in, the energy you use, the medicine you consume, etc. while you airily define ‘productivity’ as reading the classics and spending time with friends?

Telaneo 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

We have enough excess in society that we can spare enough of those things to those who are unable to take care of themselves.

theflyingelvis 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

It almost seems as if you are trolling. Surely we can, at least, agree that the excesses you mention exist only because of those who produce.

bestouff 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

A society where just stating this is called trolling is such a sad society. I pity you and you brainwashed siblings.

inigyou 3 hours ago | parent [-]

it's a very common trolling tactic to imply a controversial thing while overtly saying a less controversial thing

daishi55 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

They are not trolling. They are stating the simple, undeniable fact that there is more than enough to go around and if we had a more equitable distribution of resources, we could take care of everyone with disabilities 10x over with plenty to spare.

AlexandrB 2 hours ago | parent [-]

> we could take care of everyone with disabilities 10x over with plenty to spare.

Yes, like the 40%[1] of Stanford undergrads who have disabilities. The greatest long term impediment to what you're suggesting is folks who don't need the help taking advantage of the resource distribution. It both massively increases the costs and sours those who have to pay into the system on the whole thing leading to a backlash.

If we could just solve this quirk of human nature, we'd be all set.

[1] https://fortune.com/article/rise-in-elite-students-seeking-a...

Telaneo 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Have I said anything to the contrary?

throwaway173738 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

You’re missing the point of the article and of the post. Why do you assume that someone who reads and takes breaks is unproductive? Should we get a second job instead? I spend 8 hours sleeping. Would you like me to work those hours as well? I spend some of my day cooking and cleaning and raising my son. Would you rather I keep working instead?

Maybe it’s time that we worked together to gain that time back for you instead of you fighting for us to lose our free time.

kakacik 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Don't expect much sympathy here, as per many comments folks are mostly on purely capitalistic camps to the extreme. Its distillation of US approach to work and society, something I've grown to detest by mere fact of living in much more humane, while vastly more financially efficient system that doesn't use my tax money to kill civilians all over the world (none other than Swiss system and yes it could easily work elsewhere if people reduced their egos significantly, which they won't).

Its everybody for themselves in US, fuck the rest, the more the better. Some 'society' it is. The more miserable and poor others are, the better you can exploit them right. How horrible the world would be if those folks stocking shelves in shops or trimming your hair would also have a shot for a decent life.

Middle class is for mediocre suckers, either your are a star (at least from financial perspective, usually the rest of life is very opposite of it) or a loser. Can't say I can respect that system, but as long as I am not part of it nor bombed by its military industrial complex to death I simply don't care. Folks can stay and be part of that system or leave, that part of freedom is still sorta there.

lostmsu 2 hours ago | parent [-]

Switzerland got its wealth predominantly by shielding money stolen from around the entire world. I'm glad US ended that carnival of happiness to a large degree in 2009.

hackingonempty 19 minutes ago | parent [-]

Whatever the US did in 2009 doesn't seem to have had any long term effect on Swiss GDP. It dipped in 2009, like everyone else, from the "global financial crisis" but recovered the next year.

https://www.bfs.admin.ch/bfs/en/home/statistics/national-eco...

reactordev 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Do you know how tone deaf this is? Some people literally can’t afford their medication and you are saying “meh, we have too much already”

Telaneo 3 hours ago | parent [-]

We have enough medication. People not being able to afford it has little to do with whether or not we have (or could easily make) an excess.

Insulin costs ~3 USD to make per vial. People not being able to afford ~30 USD insulin is not because we have too little medication. It's because there are leeches all over the healthcare system.

And if you genuinely cannot afford it, you should get it for free, as part of a proper healthcare system, which the US famously lacks.

pj_mukh 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

“We have enough excess in society”

How are you measuring this? Hopefully something better than stock prices.

Telaneo 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

The other commentor mentioned food and clothes to you. I'll add that I can get food for free locally (soup kitchen style, although I don't think they actually serve soup) if I really need it.

Around 10% of houses in the US are vacant, although I'm sure a fair amount are that for good reasons (shitty locations, old and worn to high hell). This to me sounds like a resource allocation problem and not a lack-of-resources problem.

Energy could be free close to free if we made the right choices. The sun's right there. Unfortunately, we've been stuck in a political rut for a long while, making long term projects like 'do something about global warming' and 'transition away from fossil fuels' uninteresting.

Many medicines are only expensive due to patents and making up for research costs. Actual production is usually cheap as hell.

I don't have all the answers. People smarter than me might have them. But I do know that we can do better.

pj_mukh 3 hours ago | parent [-]

Yes to all of this, and want to double stress the Housing theory of everything [1]. Most of the "scarcity" people feel today in the North American context is driven by housing. And there simply isn't enough of it. And citing badly measured vacancy stats does a huge disservice to the effort to fix this.

I agree we can do a lot better. And I have no moral qualms about giving the excess away to everyone who needs it. But I need people to admit that it will require a lot of work till we can sufficiently claim we have a real realizable "excess".

And that work requires the current system to work more "efficiently" and with "higher productivity", in the economic definition of the word, not as a personal valuation as OP defines.

[1]: https://worksinprogress.co/issue/the-housing-theory-of-every...

Telaneo 3 hours ago | parent [-]

Housing is clearly the biggest problem, yes, and I doubt you'll find anyone who'll disagree that it's not a big problem. But it's a big problem for political reasons. If we all woke up tomorrow and thought 'we need 10 million new homes', I'm sure it could happen. It's just not in the short-term (and long-term?) interests of the economy as it is now. Maybe we should do something about that?

Or maybe, just maybe, we should do it because it's a thing that raises people's quality of life? I only care about the economy insofar as it helps actual people on the ground, so I'll be happy to ignore it for things like this, assuming that doesn't put us in an even worse rut than we are in now.

pj_mukh 2 hours ago | parent [-]

>If we all woke up tomorrow and thought 'we need 10 million new homes

The cost (no profit) of 1 Million homes where people want to live (where your community is), would be roughly 0.5 Trillion to 1 Trillion USD [1]. So, I don't think this is true :(.

We simply don't have the construction workers and the supply-chains to make it happen. Again, these are fixable problems and I want this to be true. But it is not today.

[1]: https://medium.com/@dtxtransitposts/how-much-does-it-actuall...

Telaneo 2 hours ago | parent | next [-]

> The cost (no profit) of 1 Million homes where people want to live (where your community is), would be roughly 0.5 Trillion to 1 Trillion USD [1].

That sounds worth it to me.

> We simply don't have the construction workers and the supply-chains to make it happen. Again, these are fixable problems and I want this to be true. But it is not today.

Sounds like something we need to fix then.

inigyou 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

What if we let people build their own homes and gave them courses on how to do that?

Also 1 trillion dollars sounds like a single year of national debt interest, the total amount spent and destroyed by the Iran war, or the Pentagon's black budget. I'm sure we can give up one of those for a year to fix every economic problem plaguing the country.

butlike 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

By the fact medicine has an expiration date on the bottle. You can have so much of it you don't have the chance to use it all before it expires.

pharrington 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

In the US, it can be measured by the overstocked food that gets discarded everyday, and by the houses that are vacant nine months a year.

pj_mukh 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Just a note those "vacancies" include dilapidated buildings and housing that is between leases (literally all the housing on craigslist is included in that number).

Vacancies in most major cities is near-zero. As a market-rate renter, when someone says "we have so much excess", I have no idea what you're talking about.

Zababa 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

This assumes production of food is the bottleneck rather than distribution. If distribution is actually the bottleneck, overstocked food is not a measure of excess in society.

AnimalMuppet 3 hours ago | parent [-]

But individual grocery stores throw out a lot of food each day. So the problem isn't distribution, it's that nobody bought it.

XorNot 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

The world produces so much excess food we pay farmers not to grow it and fast fashion brands burn unsold merchandise in the desert.

anovikov 3 hours ago | parent [-]

...and the food part, it's been this way for almost a hundred years now - with agricultural productivity skyrocketing in between. But 100 years ago, chronic food overproduction bankrupting farmers, was already a persistent problem. Since then, lots of bright minds spent their lifetimes to invent new ways to bribe or coerce farmers into growing as little as possible for their own safety.

GeoAtreides 17 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-]

At least for food, we went from 80% 500 years ago to about 1-5% now. Maybe less, soon, when fruit picking robots come online. Work is not destiny.

astral_drama 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> Who produces the food you eat, the clothes you wear, the house you live in, the energy you use, the medicine you consume, etc.

The able do. The disabled would love to work hard and earn a nice paycheck. It's a privilege to be able to work and be in good health. Hopefully you don't have to learn that the hard way.

avalys 2 hours ago | parent [-]

A privilege, really? Who bestows that privilege?

I am certainly sympathetic to people who are genuinely disabled.

That doesn’t mean we have to lie to ourselves that they are being productive by sitting around reading books.

astral_drama an hour ago | parent [-]

> A privilege, really? Who bestows that privilege?

You do

> I am certainly sympathetic to people who are genuinely disabled.

Agreed, and it can be uncomfortable to sort through what's genuine or not. One of my favorite scenes is in the big Lebowski where Walter confronts the other Lebowski claiming he's not a cripple and lifts him out of his wheelchair...Funny and sad all at once.

> That doesn’t mean we have to lie to ourselves that they are being productive by sitting around reading books.

Not asking for anyone to lie to themselves about what they feel is productive, rather giving another perspective to hopefully help people appreciate being able to work.

RobinL an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-]

By that logic someone working in a care home is worth less than someone building a gambling app. There's little relationship between salary and what people deserve, it's mostly just luck to have skills that happen to be in short supply.

Suzuran 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Does it matter? In the US, we send a sizable portion of our paychecks to the government's Social Security program so it can provide for us in this exact scenario. The government dictated the terms and we upheld our end of the contract on pain of incarceration. Now it's time for the government to uphold their end.

chneu 39 minutes ago | parent [-]

Technically, SS provides for the next generation. We pay into it to the next generation can use that, not the current one. It's a pyramid scheme meant to pay out early and then die. The math doesn't work if the individual expects to retire on it. It's a great scam.

Suzuran 18 minutes ago | parent [-]

It's not my problem if the math doesn't work, or if my money doesn't pay for me. The contract as presented to me by the government is "You will pay into this system, it provides Social Security to the aged and disabled. If you do not pay into this system, you will be judged guilty of a criminal offense and sentenced accordingly." The specifics of who pays and for what are the government's problem, not mine. Whether or not the government is guilty of fraud or misrepresentation does not affect the terms. I fail to see why I should consider the government free of the obligations they themselves have mandated.

bjertoref an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Stephen Hawking wouldn't exist in our society if we didn't care for people like him.

jplrssn 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> Who produces the food you eat, the clothes you wear, the house you live in, the energy you use, the medicine you consume, etc

You could say the same thing about software engineers. But someone spending their days just creating JS frameworks is oh-so-productive and paid enough money every month to buy several years’ worth of food and shelter.

avalys 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

If they are JS frameworks that enable other engineers to build applications that support farms, and banks, and taxi services and insurance companies and mines and factories, etc. then obviously that is productive.

If someone is willingly paying money for their labor then I see little point in questioning the worth of that exchange.

When JS engineers start asking for public money to support them writing JS frameworks that no one wants to pay for, we can revisit this topic.

jplrssn 43 minutes ago | parent [-]

My point is that, unless you think that the purpose of human existence is to maximise insurance profitability and mining throughput, lifetime earnings potential is not a good proxy for someone’s value to society.

I think it is sad that many of the people that have the largest positive impact on society — teachers, care assistants and the like — are also some of worst paid.

gus_massa 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

When I was young, to buy a tee shirts for the kids you have to walk like 10 block to visit like 5 shops and compare prices. Let's say 1 or 2 hour and the choices were quite limited and you must keep a mental list of the location and quality of each shop. [The cheap ones may open only at the same time you have to be in the office.]

Now you can go to Mercado Libre (the local version of Amazon) compare prices and see the reviews and buy them in 15 minutes. There are a lot of more choices and the prices are lower (or higher if you like fancy stuff). It arrives home at the afternoon.

Some software engineer has to program it. Does s/he deserve a few bucks for the time s/he saved all of us?

ajsnigrutin 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

I mean, if someone is willing to pay them, why not?

Even hundreds and thousands of years ago, people would put semi transparent rocks onto shiny metal shapes and sell those useless gadgets for a lot of money.

If customers are willing to pay for that, it means that those people made something worth that money.

alexgieg an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Billionaires, evidently. Why else would they deserve a million times what you make in your entire lifetime, weren't for the fact they're a million times more productive than you? In fact, if one were to die tomorrow that'd be like the loss to the world of a million of you, whereas were you to do the same, that'd be a loss of only one of you. This is also why you can be downsized without that impacting anything important, while downsizing a single billionaire would be a global tragedy.

Or at least, that's the logical consequence of that line of reasoning. If that's incorrect, where's the error in the reasoning?

smallmancontrov 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

People who the current system fully agrees should be paid like dirt while others party, that's who.

freehorse 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Is the majority of jobs that are related to this space and most people do here productive, by this definition? I would say it is destructive even.

At least what OP says produces no harm at worst.

germinalphrase 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Increasingly, the answer is a “what”, not a “who”.

ajsnigrutin 3 hours ago | parent [-]

This has been happening for more than a hundred years now... 90%+ of the people have been farming not that long ago, and mechanized farming equipment has replaced 95%+ of those workers.

This doesn't mean 4 hour workweeks or majority of people not needing to work, but it means that some of you can be social media managers, others can integrate AI chatbots in apps that don't need an AI chatbot, some can rewrite existing software in whatever the language of the week is, etc. Without offloading all that farming to machines, we'd never have what we now consider for "normal" and "must have".

Those few farmers left (2-3% of the workforce, depeding on the country) want to earn money too, so they can buy smartphones, watch netflix and have that smart toilet seats that open automatically and wash your butthole. If all those replaced-by-machines workers don't produce all that, where's the point in farming food for them?

germinalphrase 2 hours ago | parent [-]

Let’s assume that all human labor goes through the same transition as agriculture: within a single human lifetime, 98% of all the human work is replaced by highly efficient machines and a small minority of highly productive people. If only 2% of the population have the required skills/talents/ownership to remain productive, on what basis does the remaining 98% participate in the economy? The answer has always been: people will invent new ways to be economically productive, but if the agriculture ladder of labor generalizes across the economy - what is left for the average, unexceptional, run-of-the-mill man on the street?

pjmlp 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Many places around the world, we work for what is needed, not for hitting it big.

But since you ask, also many victims of late stage capitalism explored in modern forms of slavery without work rights, so that richer nations can enjoy cheap electronics and clothing.

ahoka 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

What a tone deaf comment.

neom 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

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beanjuiceII 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

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CursedSilicon 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

This smells a lot of "I'm miserable so everyone else must be as unhappy as I am"

What if we make a better world for everyone, instead of a planetary crab bucket?

Telaneo 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I've considered suicide because I was unable to make ends meet. I don't want others to experience that. Is that too much to ask?

a-french-anon 3 hours ago | parent [-]

Of course nobody sane wants something like this to happen. The problem isn't the people unable to make ends meets, it's the unwilling.

Telaneo 2 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Most people want to work. Most people want to provide value in some form. The author of the article is unable and willing, but is still treated as unwilling by the system. We're better of acting in good faith and treating everybody who says they are unable as that, and give them the support they need.

inigyou 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

How can you even tell the difference?

Most people can't. They just assign everyone to the bucket of unwilling.

a-french-anon 2 hours ago | parent [-]

(Reasonable) Good faith at the individual level is a good thing, but when trying to scale it and build a working socialist system out of it, you're 100% set for failure.

CalRobert 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Sometimes they are forbidden from making the things they’d like for themselves. You used to be able to get your own food, build your own home, etc. But enclosure put a stop to that. And besides, who made the land you live on?

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bko 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> Reading the classics is productive because it's enjoyable, even though it doesn't help with your work

It's productive in that it is hard and a sign of high intelligence. Don't believe me and swap it out with Candy Crush. Is playing Candy Crush productive?

This obsession about people with disabilities is weird. Yes, people with real disabilities exist. But focusing on pathologizing every day life is extremely harmful. This constant focus on "mental health" ironically worsens mental health. For instance, any mild discomfort is "anxiety". Most of these things are pretty normal range of emotions. Roughly 20% of undergraduate students at Ivy Plus institutions (including Harvard, Brown, and Cornell) are registered as disabled and receive accommodations. This figure has surged dramatically over time, rising from fewer than 3% at Harvard and under 6% at Cornell in 2015. This is obviously partly cheating the system, but it's also this harmful over-focus on "mental health"

Hard work is a good in it of itself. People pay lip service to the idea that we shouldn't be productive or measure our "worth" (whatever that is) by productivity but they don't live it. For instance, I don't know any parent that doesn't push or at least hope their children work hard at something. Anything. Do something hard. Play a sport. Learn an instrument. Study math. This is common sense.

https://www.nytimes.com/2026/07/26/opinion/mental-health-exe...

Altern4tiveAcc 2 hours ago | parent | next [-]

> Roughly 20% of undergraduate students at Ivy Plus institutions (including Harvard, Brown, and Cornell) are registered as disabled and receive accommodations. This figure has surged dramatically over time, rising from fewer than 3% at Harvard and under 6% at Cornell in 2015.

That seems to check out with the period people started getting more addicted to social media, pandemic side-effects and increased awareness of mental health issues

I believe the amount of people dealing with crippling anxiety these days is higher than that 20% figure, and we are still under-diagnosing it

> Hard work is a good in it of itself.

Hard disagree tbh but that's more of a personal values discussion

bko 2 hours ago | parent | next [-]

> Hard disagree tbh but that's more of a personal values discussion

I'm curious about this. Do you have children? Do you look at someone who does nothing hard in his life with indifference? Someone chooses to spend their life playing video games in their parent's basement. Do you think that's an equally admirable life than someone that spends his life doing hard things?

AlexandrB 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

> Roughly 20% of undergraduate students at Ivy Plus institutions (including Harvard, Brown, and Cornell) are registered as disabled and receive accommodations. This figure has surged dramatically over time, rising from fewer than 3% at Harvard and under 6% at Cornell in 2015.

I think it's naive to assume that this phenomenon reflects an actual increase in disability rather than a cohort who has been raised to pathologize every human difference as a sign of some disability and then use those diagnoses to secure advantages in systems meant to help people with actual special needs.

There's clearly a lot of pretending going on. On the extreme end look at the numerous DID[1] "influencers". These folks are plainly pretending to have a debilitating mental disorder (which strangely never prevents them from going on podcasts and YouTube interviews) to curry fame.

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dissociative_identity_disorder

bko 2 hours ago | parent [-]

Agree completely. Its hard to tease out what percent is a cheating response due to increasing accommodations and actual pathologizing.

Some personal observations, I would say about 90%+ of "emotional support dogs" are fake. And I can't remember the last time I saw someone that was actually disabled use a disabled parking spot. They always have the proper license plate or mirror tag, but every time I've seen someone enter their vehicle it would appear that they do not need special accommodations afforded by the preferred parking spot.

Telaneo 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

> Is playing Candy Crush productive?

If you enjoy it, then yes.

> Hard work is a good in it of itself. People pay lip service to the idea that we shouldn't be productive or measure our "worth" (whatever that is) by productivity but they don't live it. For instance, I don't know any parent that doesn't push or at least hope their children work hard at something. Anything. Do something hard. Play a sport. Learn an instrument. Study math. This is common sense.

Hard work is good insofar as you enjoy it or it leads you to things that you do enjoy. Do those things if you enjoy them. Hard things are enjoyable too. I stopped doing most of them because I didn't enjoy them.

bko 2 hours ago | parent [-]

If you consider Candy Crush as productive I guess words just don't have meaning anymore so there's no point arguing.

I highly doubt you actually believe this, but I have been wrong before.

Telaneo 2 hours ago | parent [-]

> If you consider Candy Crush as productive I guess words just don't have meaning anymore so there's no point arguing.

I'm using the word differently to you. It's productive insofar as you enjoy doing it.

Just to make a point, have these two definitions from Wiktionary:

> Capable of producing something, especially in abundance; fertile.

Capable of producing enjoyment, yup. I'd call playing Candy Crush productive if enjoyment is your goal.

> Yielding good or useful results

The good result here is, again, the enjoyment of whatever. If you enjoy playing Candy Crush, then playing it gives you a good or useful result, namely the enjoyment of playing it.

> I highly doubt you actually believe this, but I have been wrong before.

If someone truly finds Candy Crush enjoyable to the point they do it everyday or whatever, and we're not talking addiction (so they're not actually enjoying it, but rather feel compelled to do it), then more power to them. I wish my desires were so simple.

senordevnyc 2 hours ago | parent [-]

Oh come on. Parent is right, at this point, words have no meaning. By this logic, everything produces something, therefore everything is productive.

Telaneo an hour ago | parent | next [-]

> By this logic, everything produces something, therefore everything is productive.

Yes. That word is only useful insofar as you say or imply a goal. Candy Crush is not productive in gathering food.

Most people imply the goal to be money. I'd rather imply enjoyment. See my OP.

senordevnyc 17 minutes ago | parent [-]

And yet, you seemed to have been using it the way the rest of us are in this discussion, right here:

You are worth so much more than your productivity.

I think the issue here is that everyone else is having a discussion about economics, how we efficiently allocate scarce resources as a society, and the role that individual productivity plays in that allocation. You're having a discussion about enjoying your life. Which is great, if you want to play Candy Crush all day and call it "productive" because that makes you feel better, go for it.

But I'm not interested in paying your bills so you can.

bko 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

YES I am vegan and YES I eat meat. We exist

swed420 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Relevant:

In Praise of Idleness

https://ia801002.us.archive.org/27/items/in.ernet.dli.2015.4...

trescenzi 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

The thing that sucks is it doesn’t matter if you don’t get sucked in. Society is and as a result even if you the individual feel valued society largely will not value you. Of course it’s better for your mental health to escape the trap of believing your value as a person _is_ you value to capitalism but that won’t put food on the table or get you the care you need.

This is something that needs to change at the cultural level but is incredibly hard to change because in order to do so you need to convince most people that the foundational understanding of their worth as a person needs to come from somewhere else.

giov4 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

could you please summarize in short what you meant here as keypoint?

I'm not sure we are interpreting this right,based also on reactions and troll references in clear contrast to your other comment.

giov4 2 hours ago | parent [-]

also the comment

"I've considered suicide because I was unable to make ends meet. I don't want others to experience that. Is that too much to ask?"

was important and extremely insightful, wanted to ask what you meant with "was unable to nake ends meet" which type of ends?

Telaneo 2 hours ago | parent [-]

> could you please summarize in short what you meant here as keypoint?

> I'm not sure we are interpreting this right,based also on reactions and troll references in clear contrast to your other comment.

I'm not sure what's unclear about my first comment, but I'll try to rephrase with new words.

People are people and deserve to be treated humanely as such. Productivity is but one aspect of people, and not the only one you can ascribe any value to. People are more than their productivity.

Productivity is often just used to mean 'how much money you earn', but I find it useful to expand its meaning to 'how well you're doing what you're enjoying'. If you spend time reading books because you enjoy it, that's productive. If you spend time at work earning money, that's also productive, since money is needed to, ya know, stay alive, and thus let you enjoy life, for what it's worth.

My point about disabilities is probably better expanded by the article in question, unless you have any pointed questions at that.

> also the comment

> "I've considered suicide because I was unable to make ends meet. I don't want others to experience that. Is that too much to ask?"

> was important and extremely insightful, wanted to ask what you meant with "was unable to nake ends meet" which type of ends?

The instance I had in mind was one where I was in danger of not having food to eat at the end of a month. I wasn't in any danger for that matter. I can get free food locally if I'm desperate. I can call a friend and ask for a favour (and friends have asked me!). But getting to that point is well beyond the point where my mind goes 'oh ffs, just end it, it's not worth the bother'. If someone is at that point, they should get help, but ideally, they shouldn't get to that point in the first place. Prevention is better than a cure (although we should work on cures too!).

giov4 2 hours ago | parent [-]

thanks a lot for the clarification and effort for it.

Maybe the other reactions made it generally more unclear, but was unsure about the core message.

This is much more clear and direct, and yes I was believing you meant something in that direction.

Regarding the other comment, thanks also, I understand that feeling the moment of having to ask something like that, but I think that if fought with enough pragmacity I think I would try to overcome the psychological part because the need would overcome the shame, and that would overcome the situation. or that is not feasible in that case?

Telaneo an hour ago | parent [-]

I'm sure it's feasible, but it's treating the symptom rather than the disease. I'd rather people never get to the point of having to call a friend because they can't afford food today than them not feeling shame when it does happen.

roenxi 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

"Your worth" is a bit of a vague and meaningless term (everyone is worth infinite in some sense). But if we want to talk about your general ability to secure more comfortable living conditions then your worth is very much linked to your productivity. The average living conditions are largely determined by how productive the average person is. There are some hard-to-escape balance equations at play there.

Good vibes are nice and all, but affirming each other isn't going to actually make the world more comfortable. Looking after disabled people requires an enormous productive surplus from the rest of us and a recognition that the people creating the enormous surplus are in practice worth quite a bit more than the people who are on the receiving end of charity. Playing pretend on this topic is just going to lead to people being worse off.

Telaneo 2 hours ago | parent [-]

> Looking after disabled people requires an enormous productive surplus from the rest of us and a recognition that the people creating the enormous surplus are in practice worth quite a bit more than the people who are on the receiving end of charity.

We already don't do this with regards to normal people. Being a farmer isn't a particularly high-paying nor high-status job. I don't mind changing this around if we get a more humane world in return, but these issues seems orthogonal to each other.

AnimalMuppet 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Related: "Take care, and be on your guard against all covetousness, for one's life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions." (Jesus, in Luke 12:15).

Life is not about how much you make or how much you're worth. It's about being worth something to someone. It's about having meaningful relationships.

As a typical software nerd, it took me decades to get that.