| ▲ | Why aren't smart people happier? (2022)(experimental-history.com) |
| 95 points by rafaelc 8 hours ago | 151 comments |
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| ▲ | dnlosx 5 hours ago | parent | next [-] |
| I will speak from my experience. When I was younger, I considered myself very smart, and I was pretty unhappy. As I grew, I met people much smarter than me; I stopped seeing myself as "the smart" one, and now I am pretty happy. It's not that I became happier because I became less smart; I became happier when I stopped thinking my value was based on my intelligence, so I stopped trying to be recognized by my intellect and started working on my mental health and building healthy relationships. |
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| ▲ | annzabelle 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | I got labeled "smart but lazy" at a pretty young age (high test scores, didn't do any homework), and I let that label stick with me for far too long. I took some pride in how I could get the top score in a class without studying, and didn't realize that studying itself was a useful skill. I let this whole mindset drag me down through undergrad (especially once I hit the point where I really ought to have studied), and I think it made me miserable. | | |
| ▲ | rootusrootus 2 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | > I got labeled "smart but lazy" at a pretty young age (high test scores, didn't do any homework) Same experience here. I could find just about anything else I wanted to do except homework. Spent all night coding many times. Went to school and aced all the tests, skipped all the homework, did not get good grades as a result. My dad actually arranged a visit with a psychiatrist who did an official IQ test (wooo! I'm a genius! yay!) and then told my dad I was destined to either be a fabulously wealthy entrepreneur, or homeless. LOL The joke's on them, I ended up deciding to succeed in school after all, got my BS & MS in CS, and I've had boring, predictable jobs throughout my whole career. Neither fabulously wealthy nor destitute. Oh well! Real happiness remains elusive. Even though I adore my wife & kids and have what the vast majority of the population would consider a pretty cushy job and lifestyle. | | |
| ▲ | paulpauper 16 minutes ago | parent [-] | | This is consistent with the Terman study. The large majority of subjects had productive careers and lives for the follow-up. |
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| ▲ | whateverboat 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I got labeled smart but lazy because I had dysgraphia. It took me a PhD to get rid of that label. And don't get me wrong, I loved doing the work I did in my PhD and I love the job I have now due to the PhD, but sometimes I wonder if I did a PhD and did a lot of sacrifices for it only to get rid of that label, and I might have probably been not as rich but somehow may be more happier otherwise. (And might have still done a PhD anyway, since I think I was inclined like that.) Now I am still called smart, and due to the sheer effect of having to get rid of the label, also called hard working, and I'm happy or at least quite content. | | |
| ▲ | annzabelle 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | That's interesting. I'm considering going back to get a second bachelor's in biology or biochemistry (my first is in math) and then going to PA school or medical school. I have to wonder a bit if part of that whole plan is that I want to show myself that I can be a good, hardworking student. | | |
| ▲ | brailsafe 42 minutes ago | parent [-] | | I am now and have in the past been in this sort of position, albeit not with an existing completed degree under my belt, just a simple one-year continuing-ed diploma and years of sporadic career experience. I went back to attempt to complete my CS degree on the basis that I figured I already had learnt most of what I would learn anyway and might as well both prove to myself I can do it, as well as get the credential for whatever it was worth. This was when I was ~27, and hadn't been diagnosed with ADHD yet. I discovered that I was absolutely capable in theory, but that the hard part wasn't the material, rather it was doing rote tasks to get the grade regardless of that grade's relevance in the field. I found myself completely capable of doing the homework and understanding, writing various persuasive essays, and intellectually applying myself, but failing horribly when it came to anything my brain identified as less interesting than any other subject matter, and I had effectively no control over that (unmedicated). I also had no ability to be on time, and once I realized that I was effectively wasting time and money trying to pass through the Type A Gen X career gate defined largely by the binary of having a degree/not having a degree, I opted to not continue. It wasn't about learning anything, it was about a checkmark, and I didn't and never have really internally care about checkmarks. It would be the easiest material or courses that I'd bomb the hardest at, forget to do entirely, or simply not be stressed enough to do well; basic trivia, courses where 50% of the grade depended on labs where I'd be required to draw diagrams by hand, exams that required writing Java for 3 hours in pencil. When other students were anxiously scribbling away, I just flatout wasn't worried about it and just kind of spaced out for a while wondering why I was trying to bother. Exams require anxiety in some form or fashion, and in many cases I could not provoke that in myself. In some cases, I indeed didn't do so well on an exam either because I couldn't burn it into working memory well-enough (never having learned a study practice that worked for me) or I overslept... as a 27 year old adult. Now, I'm once again out of work, considering going back to school for... something, but I have all that exposure in the back of my mind. Even now that I'm medicated and otherwise quite happy, I have doubts that I'd be able to succeed in any type of educational institute unless every facet was perfectly aligned for me. Having money on the line or an abstract incentive aren't sufficient rewards to have a functional impact; I need to find it intriguing throughout and believe it's useful, or be fighting my way out of a tangible corner, of which I'm not in and don't naturally panic about being in. | | |
| ▲ | annzabelle 28 minutes ago | parent [-] | | I did take a one off course at a local college a couple years back and was able to do well (had a 95% average all semester) and get all my homework done. It was, however, a subject I found fascinating. On the other hand, my work performance severely suffered that semester and I got my first poor performance review. Over the years, I've come to the conclusion that stimulant ADHD medication isn't for me. It worked well as a child, but as an adult it's just unpleasant and jittery. I took strattera for a couple years and it seemed to help, but we swapped it for wellbutrin to help with seasonal depression, and it just doesn't have the same efficacy. In the end I may need to come to the conclusion that I'm not temperamentally cut out for academic success, and my math bachelor's does seem to have been a decent enough entry point to a career in software. |
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| ▲ | nico 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Sometimes accountability is not enough. Medication and therapy might help, as it can be the case with ADHD. Many people with it fit the pattern of “smart but lazy” | | |
| ▲ | annzabelle 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was 7 and took medication for it until 9th grade when I went off it because I didn't like how it made me feel, and I have really disliked it when I've been back on it as an adult. Strattera was better, though now I'm on Wellbutrin instead. I did a lot of therapy over the years, and never found it helpful, though I never did it with an organization focused coach. I do think a lot of it was the attitude I took towards school. I know a lot of other people with ADHD who were less arrogant and approached school in a better way because of that. | |
| ▲ | rootusrootus 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I won't claim that I've ever suffered real ADHD, but after an experience I had years ago with phentermine, that stuff would have been magic when I was a teenager. Turned me into an unstoppable, focused machine. And phentermine isn't labeled for that effect, which makes me wonder what adderall would be like. | |
| ▲ | throwaway173738 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | In education these kids are termed “twice-exceptional” because they test as gifted but have some kind of disability that makes some things challenging. | | |
| ▲ | frickinLasers 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | I think you might be misreading this person. If the point of homework is to learn the subject, while tests assess your understanding of the subject, why do the homework if you already have a strong grasp on it as soon as the teacher explains it? If the point of doing homework is to keep you busy, there are better things to do with one's childhood. Unless the disability you're referring to is that they never learned how to struggle (because no struggle was offered)... | | |
| ▲ | annzabelle 3 hours ago | parent [-] | | It wasn't necessary to learn the material, but homework counted for 20% of the grade in a lot of my classes, and if I had done more of it, I would've had a higher GPA that would've given me more opportunities later on. And, I would've practiced that skill of sucking it up and doing stuff that you don't feel like you need to do. On the other hand, I had so much free time as a child and I spend a lot of it reading or messing around with computers. |
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| ▲ | annzabelle 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Yeah, I was labeled twice-exceptional and medicated for it, but there was also this general thing where I felt like I was special for not needing to study and that it was something to take pride in, which I don't think is inherent to ADHD. I have some friends who also have ADHD and are decently smart, but they have always taken pride in being hard workers, and have come out much more academically successful than I did. |
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| ▲ | SoftTalker 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Yeah similar here. By the time I needed to really study (3rd year of undergrad) I faced the hard reality that I had never developed the necessary habits. | |
| ▲ | __mharrison__ an hour ago | parent | prev [-] | | Would you have preferred another label? If so, which one? Asking because... | | |
| ▲ | annzabelle 39 minutes ago | parent [-] | | Not really sure. The ADHD/"Gifted"/Twice Exceptional labels were even worse. I really wish my parents had made sure to always praise effort more than they praised me for the exam scores I got without studying. There was more focus from them on the final exam grade than on the process of showing my effort to the school system, and it created a sense of pride in how lazy I was. I guess, don't praise your kids for lucky talents, praise them for the work they put in. I also wish that there had been more focus on participating in sports as a young child and less focus on therapy/psychiatry. As an adult I have found staying active is a much better treatment for my distractible/hyperactive tendencies than meds/therapy ever were. My mom didn't sign me up for sports because my brothers and I had so many shrink appointments, and looking back, I think she had it the wrong way around. |
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| ▲ | PaulRobinson 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | My dad once told me that being smart was a curse in some ways, but he framed it as having a World view that few others had. I think however your take on it is closer: when you're smart, you're told you're smart (both as a positive and as a negative - I was bullied for it), it just becomes part of your self dialogue and identity and it gets in the way. It's taken years of therapy for me to get to the point where I realised none of that really mattered as much as having great relationships with people I liked, and going for long walks in green spaces and not thinking about anything. | | |
| ▲ | mboerwink an hour ago | parent [-] | | RE self dialogue: I think it is also self-reinforcing in a positive way. "I am competent and capable of this" is certainly less distracting internal dialogue than "maybe I'm not smart enough" to children. I believe most adults eventually get better at ignoring this type of thing altogether, since it isn't really useful or productive. |
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| ▲ | ColdStream 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | It was Buddhism Monk Ajhan Brahm, before he started down that path he was going down the university path studying theoretical physics. The one thing that stood out to him was just how miserable so many of the smarter people where, and just how much they clung to their ego's and status. There was a moment when it dawned on him "I don't want to be anything like these people!". Another great one was this by Gen Kelsang Sherab. In his final interview for his music studies they asked something like "How will you pursue this in future?", his response was "I will not, I choose to pursue happiness." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hS_swacFLNU | |
| ▲ | xivzgrev 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | how did you make this transition? i still, deep down, identify as being "smart". i don't like being wrong, and it's my go-to ego lick at work, "well bad thing x may have happened, but at least I'm still valued for being smart". it was my label in high school that i've never quite shed. obviously now i have so many more facets - father, husband, leader, writer/reader. Smartness is just raw horsepower, it's what you do with it that matters. And there's lots of kinds of "smarts". As an example, my wife wasn't the traditional "book smart" but she's emotionally & street smart - knows how to get things done, how to think on her feet, etc. but still despite that increased richness from life experience, I'm still "smart" and hold on to it | | |
| ▲ | dnlosx 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | My process was a multi-year process of recognizing my vulnerabilities. A couple of things that come to mind. Meeting and liking people who were really different from me, with mindsets completely different. The kind of people I would previously judge as "dumb" were suddenly teaching things that improved my life. For example, my beliefs are science-oriented, and I am very skeptical, but now I have close friends who are esotericists, and I really enjoy passing time with them. The book "The Courage To Be Disliked" by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga. Help me a lot to understand myself and my insecurities. | |
| ▲ | stasomatic 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | i still, deep down, identify as being "smart". Is it that you think you are smart, or smarter than the others? Is it about your deeper knowledge about a few specific subjects that interest you but not others? I've been and am in this trap. I think I am not dim. I doubt it's genetic, because I have living relatives, so :) I am smart about USB-C accessories, nobody else cares. They are smart about living their lives to the fullest. | |
| ▲ | christophilus 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | For me, I realized how insufferable my smart friends were, and I looked at people who I admired and whose company I enjoyed, and I realized humility was a key trait among the people I liked best. I’m still insufferable, though, but hopefully less than before! | | |
| ▲ | ColdStream 3 hours ago | parent [-] | | Like the whole meme of "Well actually...". Sometimes you just need to let it go, choose peace over proving something. Occasionally I still get caught up in something but it is very rare nowadays. |
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| ▲ | IshKebab 29 minutes ago | parent | prev [-] | | I think it's pretty frustrating being an outlier in any dimension. Your specific needs are always ignored. Being smart is no different. At least when I was in school they were always like "eh he'll do fine, let's concentrate on the borderline dunces". When you leave school you can find your level a lot easier - go to a university and get a job where other people are at the same skill level. At least that's what made me happier after leaving school - I didn't have to mix with stupid arseholes. It wasn't until I had kids and was suddenly thrown into a roughly random selection of 30 people that I remembered just how few of the general population I have anything remotely in common with. School sucks. |
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| ▲ | xyzelement 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I think being smart universally trumps being less smart - but the definition of smart needs to be more encompassing. For example take the stereotype of a brilliant man or woman who neglected family for career, and are forever single and childless forever -- while someone less brilliant just "ends up" with a family and ultimately more fulfilled in life. Superficially this is an example of an average person being happier than the really smart one but I don't agree with this. I look at this as the non-brilliant person being smarter in the areas that matter. Or vice versa the "brilliant" person neglected a really important area of life - which isn't that smart. With this expanded definition - where smart isn't just a measurement of raw processing power or a spike in one area, but rather the product of "smart about what's important" * "smart about how to go about it" - that kind of person I think is consistently happier than anyone else. One dimension of this is the (in)ability to stick with tradition and culture rather than "smartly" invent everything yourself. In the scenario above, the average person maybe ended up with a family because they were more able to follow family patterns and advice while the "brilliant" person tries to figure out everything from scratch, not able to benefit from the "well troden paths" that are available. |
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| ▲ | bittercynic 2 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | As a single and childless person, I don't like the implication that those are marks of a less fulfilling life. I know some people married with kids who seem very happy and fulfilled, and some profoundly miserable and trapped. I may be missing out on some good things, but I'm also avoiding some extreme misery, and generally do feel content and fulfilled. | | |
| ▲ | xyzelement 32 minutes ago | parent | next [-] | | Thanks for sharing that. Obviously respect your choices on the individual level. The contrast you provided between those who are happy with family and those two seem miserable is in line with what I am saying: it's both 'be smart about what you persue' and 'be smart about how you persue it.' So likely the first group was 'smarter' about who they chose as a spouse and how they set up the life with them than the second group. So maybe we can score the miserable group as a -1, the happy group as a +1 and your avoidance strategy as in-between: 0. So you can look at your strategy as good because it avoids the extreme misery but it also denies a shot at extreme happiness. And then if one were to go that potentially high risk/high reward path, their actual outcome (are they happy or miserable) is a function of how smartly they persue that endeavor. | |
| ▲ | argee 35 minutes ago | parent | prev [-] | | Part of being smart is being able to diagnose certain ideas as dogmatic, which is far more than can be expected from most. "Most people would die sooner than think—in fact, they do so" — Bertrand Russell |
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| ▲ | Nail2680 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Right, there is a problem with even defining "smart", a decent number of mathematicians I have known would not call themselves smart, but persistent. I have known a lot of physicists too, some of whom forget simple integrals all the time, but publish like a monster, and some very smart physicists who know almost any fact you could want off the top of their head who don't publish almost at all. One group is more successful than the other. |
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| ▲ | darth_avocado 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Im not smart (maybe average), but a lot of my unhappiness starts from just having access to information. And then more I process the information, the more unhappy I become. Smarter people than me probably have more information and are able to process it faster, uncovering effects that are not readily perceived by normal folks like myself. |
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| ▲ | boznz 5 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | I stopped viewing all news media companies five years ago. Real news will get to you pretty quickly by other means such as HN which I still frequent a couple of hours a week. Modern news is re-hashing even the trivial in the worst possible way and inviting the extreme idiots on both sides to fight it out in the comment section, I can honestly say I am missing nothing and still find myself informed and happier. | | |
| ▲ | paulpauper 5 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | It is hard to abstain from news completely. The mainstream media is becoming increasingly like social media, feeding on shared sentiment and vague feelings of outrage. | | |
| ▲ | HDBaseT 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | If you watch the news, you'd think the sky is falling. TOOL - Vicarious "Eye on the TV, 'cause tragedy thrills me Whatever flavor it happens to be like Killed by the husband, drowned by the ocean Shot by his own son, she used the poison in his tea Then kissed him goodbye, that's my kind of story It's no fun 'til someone dies Don't look at me like I am a monster Frown out your one face, but with the other Stare like a junkie into the TV Stare like a zombie while the mother holds her child Watches him die, hands to the sky, crying "Why, oh, why?" 'Cause I need to watch things die From a distance Vicariously, I live while the whole world dies" | |
| ▲ | OroPla 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Maybe it's like a drug? I never read/watched news in my entire life and find it pretty easy. It's impossible to completely shield yourself from getting the news at all, which is a bit unfortunate. I feel I would lead a happier life if I didn't get to know who the president of the USA was, for example. It's completely meaningless knowledge anyway. But for some reason most people are really interested and will tell you, even if you never ask. | |
| ▲ | irjustin 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Yes but very possible. I also did it during the latest once the latest election was decided. Removed all news sites but also stopped looking at facebook, news on youtube, and the biggest one was reddit. Reddit really affected me. It was so easy to read -> become angry -> engage. I choose to be less informed to save my mental health, I know I'm way happier. | |
| ▲ | irishcoffee 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | It really isn’t. I haven’t watched the news on tv in probably 20 years, I haven’t had any social media accounts ever, and at this point I use the internet as part of my day job, to do my job. It is absolutely amazing to be so disconnected and I encourage everyone to try it. People at work tell me about interesting things happening in the world, and my role and my spouses role at her job have the (mis) fortune of keeping me informed about the goings on in the wider world. But there is no spin. | | |
| ▲ | basscomm 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | > It really isn’t. I haven’t watched the news on tv in probably 20 years It's frequently beneficial to know what's happening in the world around you, even though possessing a sense of empathy can make knowing what's happening in the world around you unpleasant. | |
| ▲ | paulpauper 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Just visiting this site means you're inundated with a lot of news about AI or tech companies, and politics pertaining to those matters. It's hard to remove politics from issues. I think only the most niche of communities avoid politics completely. |
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| ▲ | ex-aws-dude 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Same, I've learned if something is important enough I'll hear about it anyway | | |
| ▲ | mypalmike 3 hours ago | parent [-] | | The news is virtually never important enough. And my definition of “important enough” is “actionable”. There’s a pervasive idea, mostly among more educated people, that keeping up with political news is civic minded and responsible. I’m not sure if I’m just cynical or small minded but I just don’t see the point. Getting a daily blast of topics to worry about that I have no control over doesn’t seem like a good use of this life journey. |
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| ▲ | ColdStream 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I think a part of happiness is just knowing that you cannot win the game of life. Even if you could process a thousand times more information, would that make you any happier? If anything, your craving for information would only increase. It's not the processing that is the problem but the craving. That said, ignorance is bliss but the consequences are dyer. There is a nice middle ground. | |
| ▲ | Quarrelsome 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | pretty sure if you're commenting on here then you're way above average. It's not a compliment, its just that you're misunderstanding how low the bar is. | | |
| ▲ | HDBaseT 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | That seems like some gatekeeping egoistical hi-ground. I refuse to believe the average person here is any more intelligent than the average person on the street. | |
| ▲ | willismichael 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | > It's not a compliment Thanks, you had me feeling all smug and then you had to add that part. |
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| ▲ | inglor_cz 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | While my intelligence is ~ constant, my levels of happiness fluctuated during my life and now, at 48, I am maybe twice as happy as I was at 24. There is definitely an upward trend with me... During the same period, I also absorbed a lot of information, including some ghastly one. And yet my overall feeling of well-being improved. IDK what happened, I can at best describe it as if "someone slowly changed the lens I am using to view the world for a less cloudy one". Maybe some sort of hormonal development. It seems to be outside my will, though. Just happened. | | |
| ▲ | bsuvc 6 hours ago | parent [-] | | I think what you're describing is wisdom, as described in the Serenity Prayer: "God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference." | | |
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| ▲ | Telaneo 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Horrors beyond your comprehension are mild compared to the horrors you can understand but cannot fix. |
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| ▲ | pixl97 7 hours ago | parent [-] | | When you look into the void, the void looks back into you. When you start empirically testing the void, the void says "Hey, what are you doing, stop touching me there". | | |
| ▲ | shermantanktop 5 hours ago | parent [-] | | And then the void wraps a cold clammy tentacle around your leg, just to show you that two can play that game. |
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| ▲ | mmorriso 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I find it interesting that there's an expectation that smart people would be happier. Being smart is essentially "having a strong brain". Would we expect people with a strong back or legs to be happier? I wouldn't expect someone good a maths or puzzles to be any happier than someone good at carrying heavy things. There's a difference between smart and wise. Some smart people become wise people, and I find them to be happy. |
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| ▲ | bittercynic 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | I kinda would expect a person with a strong back or legs to be happier. I think there's a strong correlation between health and fitness and happiness. |
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| ▲ | gregw2 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Ugh. This analysis starts off a little interesting with its observation that "intelligence", as analyzed historically, tends to be about solving bounded-context problems (with a known right answer) rather than open-ended problems (D&D called this "wisdom", right?) But it is lacking so, so, so much in explaining why smart people aren't happier or evaluating the premises of the question. If my teenager gave me this analysis and question, I'd give them 8 more avenues to explore, none of which the article addresses: 1) Is intelligence Kahneman's "type 1 thinking" or "type 2"? Do people (including you) act on their thinking or their emotions? (Can/do you think smart + act dumb and end up happy?) 2) What does being happy have to do with having autonomy and control and purpose? (Existentialism) 3) What does happiness have to do with contentment and the scope of what one wants to control, ie ambition? Attachment? (Buddhism) 4) What does happiness have to do with one's overall outlook of being pessimistic or optimistic? 5) Is there some deeper insight why a widespread religious tradition such as the Judeo-Christian one has a creation story where where "knowledge of good and evil" is inherently problematic? 6) What does happiness have to do with dopamine and the timing or frequency of solving problems of small vs large size? What degree of problems need to be present for an intelligent problem-solver to be happy vs, say, bored, (example: Marvin the "brain the size of a planet" android in Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, bored and depressed?) 7) What is the connection between happiness and benevolence, giving vs receiving? Relationships? Why? 8) Why does a socio-economic system based on money-maxxing intended to obtain happiness lead to oversupply which leads to demand-generation/creation/marketing which leads to unhappiness? And similarly leads to conflict and resulting unhappiness? Is there an inherent ying/yang dynamic to intelligence and happiness on a personal or socioeconomic systems level? I do agree with the author that it's a question worth re-evaluating in an age of "Artificial Intelligence" promises. |
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| ▲ | intrasight an hour ago | parent | next [-] | | Very thought provoking list. The kind of thing I am glad to find on HN! | |
| ▲ | paulpauper 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | It's a blog post. Unless you're reading Gwern or something, you shouldn't expect a really deep comprehensive take on an issue this ill-defined. I mean what does happiness mean? Its hard enough to get people to agree on that. | | |
| ▲ | fn-mote 4 hours ago | parent [-] | | The point is that not all blog posts are worth reading. This one mixes up enough truths and ideas that it doesn’t go anywhere interesting. |
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| ▲ | spencerflem 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Great list! |
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| ▲ | rationalist 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Because we're depressed at being surrounded by stupidity. Or at least I am; I won't speak for everyone else. |
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| ▲ | Seb-C 2 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | And it doesn't help that we are getting deeper in the idiocracy timeline everyday. | |
| ▲ | pstuart 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Right there with you. There's different flavors of stupidity. There's the "oh damn, why didn't I think of that first" and there's the smug "I did my own research and your evidence doesn't match by beliefs". | |
| ▲ | slowhadoken 7 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Stupidity in the sense of doing nothing good for themselves or anyone else, yeah. People are mostly a collection of local context clues about overly emotional nonsense. |
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| ▲ | cortesoft 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I do think an important part that we leave out when we analyze datapoints like "people who test well in one subject tend to test well in other subjects" is that "test taking" is itself a skill that people can be good or bad at. I was always an expert test taker from a very young age. I loved standardized tests, and excelled every time. I remember thinking many times how I was pretty sure I could do pretty well on a test on any subject, even if I didn't know the subject itself. I had a chance to test (hah) that theory when I took a summer job at a college testing center when I was a college student myself. I would give out these tests in a number of different subjects, but I had time to kill while the students were taking the tests. I decided to try taking some for subjects I had never studied. I scored well above the average scores on these subjects I knew nothing about, I just knew how tests were written. I could pick up context clues in the wording of questions, use my experience on how test questions usually go, and use clues from other parts of the test to figure out how to answer a different question. That doesn't mean I was any good at those subjects, I just was good at that form of test. |
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| ▲ | wakawaka28 3 hours ago | parent [-] | | There may be such a thing as pure test-taking skill, but I think it boils down to two things: General knowledge/literacy, and knowing the specific format of the test. A well-written test should not have question context for one thing that informs the answer to another question, or have logical inconsistencies/redundancies/ambiguity that can be exploited. Questions should also not build off of each other in a way that causes cascading failure if you can't answer one. These things may happen in low-stakes classroom exams but they certainly shouldn't in a standardized test. Practically everyone goes to school in our society, so they have very similar opportunity to learn how to take a test. Some of them never get good at it after many years. Maybe that is a sign that they also wouldn't be good at any academic subjects. You wouldn't have a reliable way to measure that, because test-taking is out. I guess they could try to practice test-taking by taking a ton of random tests and grading themselves, but then they might accidentally become experts in some subjects! |
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| ▲ | aeturnum 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I like this but find the dismissal of multiple intelligences pretty unconvincing. I'm amenable to the idea that IQ (and associated tests) measures some underlying `well-defined` problem solving ability (with each problem having other factors), but the 'poorly-defined' problems sure seem like multiple intelligences by another name. In my experience, different poorly-defined problems have different shapes and how much skill a person can make progress on them depends on a lot of things. For example, it seems like problem of finding ways to make poorly-defined problems fit into a well-defined space ("engineering") and the poorly-defined problems of organizing groups of people into coalitions ("politics") draw on different sorts of intelligence. The author claims that this is often not tested (which is probably true) but the basic observation that unstructured problems are related to each other and different people solve different areas with consistent skill seems true to me. |
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| ▲ | ludston 4 hours ago | parent [-] | | Given that the purpose of a measure is to make predictions: IQ can be used to improve predictions of academic outcomes, whereas the multiple intelligences models are worse at this. Whether or not there are multiple intelligences or not is an implementation detail unless knowledge of this has measurably lead to some better prediction. | | |
| ▲ | Avshalom 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | There's no actual IQ test. Any data you've ever seen using "IQ" to predict academic outcomes is actually just using prior academic scores bent into the shape of a symmetric normal distribution. |
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| ▲ | dang 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Related. Others? Why aren't smart people happier? - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=45824864 - Nov 2025 (622 comments) Why aren't smart people happier? - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32409811 - Aug 2022 (494 comments) (I left out some small threads that were neither smart nor happy) |
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| ▲ | alun 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Obviously a lot of depression is genetic or due to some unfortunate life circumstance. It's got nothing to do with intelligence. But what I've also noticed is that a lot of people with unbalanced lifestyles end up becoming depressed. For example, they might have a habit of going to bed at weird inconsistent times, wake up late, eat junk food, not regularly exercise or go to the gym, etc. Someone with that lifestyle is much more likely to become depressed compared to someone who sleeps 8 hours a night, wakes up at a reasonable time every morning (i.e. 5am - 8am), has a stable job, and exercises regularly. Humans are built for routine. Drifting away from that is unnatural. |
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| ▲ | prmph 5 hours ago | parent [-] | | Have you thought about whether this is kind of backward? It is possible that having a certain genetic predisposition makes it easy or difficult to stick to a good routine. I see this in myself: No matter what I do I find it very difficult to stick to one routine day after day after day. I just kind of get extremely bored with it quickly. I know my life would probably me noticeably better with more routine, but I'm just not wired that way. I do have a lot of creativity and a strong analytical mind, so maybe that's the price I have to pay for that. Long story short: people are wired very differently from each other. |
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| ▲ | tomComb 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Because we are depressed by the realization of how stupid we are. We aren't optimized for smart, for happy, or for truth - we are optimized for getting our genes into the next generation. |
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| ▲ | mjklin 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | “Look at the happy moron, he doesn’t give a damn. I wish I was a moron - my God, perhaps I am!” |
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| ▲ | iagooar 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| My observation is that people who are smart (or think they are) tend to express themselves via trying to be overly correct - on everything. And that gets exhausting. People who try to be too precise and accurate, pay it with their happiness and peace. There is no better therapy than bullshitting with friends, just rolling with it instead of trying to make it all 100% perfectly accurate. |
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| ▲ | ausbah 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| i’m sure everyone replying to this thread has a level headed and unbiased assessment of themselves |
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| ▲ | amatecha 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| When people talk about being happy (or not), I always wonder -- why does it matter? I don't expect to be happy, and I don't strive towards it. I DO strive towards making my life better in terms of engaging in enriching and rewarding experiences, spending time around people I care about, perhaps trying to ensure future stability to the degree I can, and generally growing as a person. Never do I consider the pursuit of "happiness". Interestingly this seems to kind of correlate with the premise of the post, where a lot of commonly-accepted definitions of "intelligence" often recognize only narrowly-defined scopes of intelligence, but not broad/overall multi-tiered general intelligence that translates to "having a good life". |
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| ▲ | wccrawford 4 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | It sounds like you're always in the pursuit of happiness, you just don't frame it that way. You are always trying to make your life better than it is, which either leads to less misery or more happiness. 2 sides of the same coin. | |
| ▲ | porkpieshoe 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | I think your objection may be to a narrower definition of happiness than what was used in the article. The article's measure is a global life evaluation that would be the product of the activities that you "DO strive towards". | | |
| ▲ | amatecha 5 hours ago | parent [-] | | Oh yeah, my initial objection is/was indeed to the seemingly-more-common definition of happiness that people often use, and then I did see that the author uses a broader scope which I agree with a lot more (insert thumbs-up emoji here) :) |
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| ▲ | nreece 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Likely related, what psychologists call "counterfactual thinking", and why a silver medal stings more than bronze for many Olympic medalists. https://theconversation.com/for-many-olympic-medalists-silve... |
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| ▲ | AQuantized 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I think the essay has the implicit assumption that if you're 'better' at doing things, you'll end up happier. Since intelligent people aren't happier, the conclusion becomes that intelligence is mostly only relevant to a subset of well-defined abstract problems that don't represent the real messy problems of life. I think the reality of human happiness is that being in better material circumstances, or being better at solving problems practical or not, doesn't necessarily improve long term happiness. Adaption to circumstances, the 'hedonic treadmill', means most people aren't going to obtain some very high level of happiness and sustain it indefinitely, regardless of station. |
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| ▲ | ngriffiths 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| > Over the last generation, we have solved tons of well-defined problems. We eradicated smallpox and polio. We landed on the moon. We built better cars, refrigerators, and televisions. We even got ~15 IQ points smarter! And how did our incredible success make us feel? One big outcome of this is being alive more, that doesn't really make you any happier. Also consider stuff like a growing global economy that helps with things like, well, not starting as many global-scale wars that decimate whole cities. I also think there is a word for someone who is good at poorly defined problems. "Artist." If you define that very broadly and maybe throw in some religious type roles, community leaders, etc in there too, you have a whole group of people who are dedicating their whole life to this problem. But these are super ancient professions and it's not really surprising that we haven't got amazingly better at them recently. I mean, art from centuries ago is still incredible! |
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| ▲ | wseqyrku an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I suspect it's because they can see through all the bullshit but can't do much about it because being smart is not enough and actually makes you feel helpless and inconsequential. |
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| ▲ | intrasight an hour ago | parent [-] | | Yeah - came to say the same. I've had the good fortune to grow up with several geniuses. But we've lost a few of them to suicide. |
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| ▲ | jwpapi 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| All these studies suggest loneliness makes you unhappy, however I feel happiest most when lonely and doing my thing and not with people. With people I just feel frustrated or weird, because I think so different than the others. |
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| ▲ | Mesmoria 5 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Possibly you are conflating being alone to loneliness? | |
| ▲ | prmph 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Being alone does not equal loneliness. And merely being with people is not an antidote to loneliness. Being alone and being lonely are distinct concepts. | |
| ▲ | HDBaseT 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | solitude =/= loneliness | |
| ▲ | pessimizer 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Scientists Have a Fascinating Hypothesis About Why Smart People Should Spend Less Time With Friends https://www.rathbiotaclan.com/scientists-have-a-fascinating-... I don't believe the evidence that this is based on, but if it is true I have a theory that sometimes applies to me. Your sweet, dumb friends have so many dumb problems that are fairly easy to solve that you run yourself ragged trying to solve all of them, and your success attracts more requests. Friends can start to seem like unpaid work unless you're playing dumb. |
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| ▲ | cmiles8 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I think it’s a combination of: 1. “Smart” people tend to constantly see patterns others are missing. So they’re fretting about problems others are blissfully unaware about. Sometimes these “problems” matter and somethings they don’t. 2. Contrary to popular belief, the smartest people in the room typically despise being the smartest person in the room. They typically are starving for someone to challenge them, to debate them, for them to learn something from others. That lack of stimulation is typically depressing to a “smart” person. |
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| ▲ | dasil003 6 hours ago | parent [-] | | I think these things are true for some people, but I think there's also a sampling bias when it comes to generalizing these things for the broader population of smart people. IMHO even just the phrase "smartest person in the room" already frames the conversation in terms of stack ranking and some form of implicit value judgement on being smart, and this in turn opens to the door to all kinds of squishy emotional bias and self-identity issues that go well beyond any objective measure of smartness. In short, I think someone who even thinks in terms of "being the smartest person in the room" is likely to have their ego tied up in the self-perception of being smart, and thus more likely to feel the lack of intellectual stimulation you describe. Whereas I hypothesize there are many equally smart people who do NOT have their ego tied up in being smart, don't see the world this way, and simply don't show up in the data for smart people and their relative level of unhappiness. | | |
| ▲ | pessimizer 5 hours ago | parent [-] | | > In short, I think someone who even thinks in terms of "being the smartest person in the room" is likely to have their ego tied up in the self-perception of being smart, and thus more likely to feel the lack of intellectual stimulation you describe. Nah. I wouldn't even admit to being smart until I was nearly 40 (no matter what people said, or what I accomplished), and that's only because after taking an IQ test I decided that it was obnoxious and often insulting to other people to deny it. I still don't emotionally accept it, and I think a faithful watcher of "The 1% Club" since it came on would have probably raised their tested IQ a standard deviation. I'm always confused and lost in this world, struggling to understand, and screwing things up, and that's not my mental image of how intelligence should feel. But when you get something, the rest of the people in the room don't, and you say that you're just an idiot, how do you think it makes them feel? I've been told how it makes people feel, in no uncertain terms. It's better just to accept reality, and also not to let people make you feel guilty about your needs. I don't know if that's what you mean to be doing, but you're obviously trying to cast the need for intelligent people to have stimulation as some sort of morally-dubious personality flaw. It's unfair. |
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| ▲ | comcor42 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Because you realize everything is a scam. |
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| ▲ | NishanStepak 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Emotional intelligence and rational intelligence are different things. If you believe in IQ, this is rational intelligence. If you believe in the measure of emotional intelligence, it is considered EQ. They are not the same, the ability to solve problems, is different than social skills. |
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| ▲ | abigdog 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I would rather know who is happy, what is meant by happy and why those cohorts are more happy. Smart may or may not be the primary thing. E.g. if parenthood makes one "happy" (defn. needed) and being smart makes you forgo that for ambition that would be interesting to know. |
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| ▲ | whatsThisBtn4 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Other people call me smart. I think I'm just hard working. I read enough books to spot liars, and when people you built Idealistic trust with break it, you never leave your guard down. No psychologist or psychology book can break it. They are just idiots. Or maybe they believe Plato's Noble lie is good for society. But once you see, you can't unsee. Now everything in my life has ~0 trust but all supervision. From politics to food safety to personal relationships, don't trust. Verify. |
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| ▲ | kwanbix 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I am not the smarter, but I believe that I am smart enough. My problem is that my mind overthinks all the possible scenarios that could happen. For example, now with AI, what happens if the AI replaces all jobs, are we going to all live happy lives doing nothing? or are we going to be all super poor with the top 1% living in closed cities? |
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| ▲ | nemo 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Wisdom is where happiness comes from, not intelligence. |
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| ▲ | clickety_clack 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Maybe happy smart people know better than to spend all their time taking IQ tests and participating in psychological studies? |
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| ▲ | dismalaf 6 hours ago | parent [-] | | Maybe it's a generational thing but in my country we were given (real) IQ tests during grade school. Wanting to take an IQ test as an adult is questionable... |
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| ▲ | a2ff6eeb0 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Because they can see the consequences. |
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| ▲ | ultrarunner 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Intelligence is a slippery term, as plenty of smart folks have made dumb decisions. That said, I’ve noticed that many people who don’t understand why their choices are subpar tend to blame others, i.e. life happens to them. Someone more aware might internalize their failures. Plenty of mutations of this mechanism. |
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| ▲ | opello 6 hours ago | parent [-] | | Along this particular axis I prefer to think of intelligence is to wise as smart is to knowledgeable. It may be simply wordsmithing but it provokes empathy. |
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| ▲ | ta988 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| We know that intelligence tests and tests in general can be impacted by motivation and potential monetary gains (the article brushes on that). Maybe they can also be impacted by the happiness and other emotional states of the test taker. |
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| ▲ | snovymgodym 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Why should being smart make you happy? |
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| ▲ | slowhadoken 7 hours ago | parent [-] | | A high IQ allows for a higher quality of life both superficially and meaningfully. This experience is usually weighted down by bullies and vindictive dysfunctional people. Envy is an intense oppressive force. |
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| ▲ | 1attice 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Speaking only for myself: you can't be tortured by thoughts you're not having, and I, sadly, am having thoughts. |
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| ▲ | konart 7 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Or to put it differently: some people can easily ignore things others can not. | | |
| ▲ | TheOtherHobbes 6 hours ago | parent [-] | | More like some people simply don't notice. Or don't care to. I sometimes wonder what would happen if the population's average IQ was (the current equivalent of) 130 instead of 100. Would things be better? Worse in more complex ways? Both? |
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| ▲ | rationalist 7 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Likewise. There's truth to the saying, "ignorance is bliss." |
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| ▲ | arbirk 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I live by "everything is grey". I am interestingly smart in some niche domains that I have a hard time communicating exists. I also insist on not fitting any template. Pretty dumb, right? |
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| ▲ | nekusar 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Because we see how things fail, and why. And it's usually intentional incompetence and/or greed. Both are fixable, but both require the person or system wants to fix it. So, it's usually not fixed. Things like death "fixes" things. So does leaving the position in simpler ways. Technology can force the issue and force removing incompetence, or equalizing greed. But yeah, it's seeing "intentional incompetence and/or greed" causes stagnation or worse is very disheartening and sorrowful. We could do so much better. |
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| ▲ | BeetleB 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| > Why aren't smart people happier? I think any discussion on this topic should begin with answering "Why would one expect smart people to be happier?" |
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| ▲ | cortesoft 4 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | I think the essay does a really good job of examining that question, and concludes that you shouldn't. It does, however, start off by explaining why people tend to think that it should. | |
| ▲ | jdkoeck 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | It’s even worse, the opposite is actually true (but it’s a slight effect). |
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| ▲ | toephu2 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Generally I believe a person's baseline happiness is determined at birth. Some people are just born happier than others. |
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| ▲ | fn-mote 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I’m interested in a different question: are powerful people happier? Any references? |
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| ▲ | OroPla 4 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Can happiness even be measured? Do we have a unit for happiness? I think that's a big "no" to both questions, so the entire topic is a bit strange. Might as well ask which type of people are luckier. | | |
| ▲ | racl101 3 hours ago | parent [-] | | I feel like happiness is not an absolute nor permanent state. It's ephemeral and relative. You go to a deli shop and your favorite sandwich maker makes your meatball sub just the way you like it. You eat that sub and relish every bite. You're happy and ... reasonably happy .... like Huell. Then later at night you get dumped by your g/f. Now you're sad and you experienced both on the same day. I think the same way about sadness and depression. Not an absolute nor permanent state. You have your moments when you are sad and/or depressed and then you bounce back. I think most people normally experience all these emotions on a cyclical basis. |
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| ▲ | svachalek 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | The way this article defines happiness, as a general success at ill defined problems, would make powerful people happy by definition imo. |
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| ▲ | londons_explore 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Likewise, rich people don't seem to be happier - sampling the few thousand people I have spoken to in my life. |
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| ▲ | sajithdilshan 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Smart doesn’t mean they are necessarily emotionally intelligent or mature. Emotionally intelligent people know how to regulate their emotions and not to lose sleep over factors that are out of their control. Everything happening in and around the world is not your problem or concern most people are just unhappy because they focus on negativity |
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| ▲ | jongjong 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| You understand that everything which you value about yourself is not what other people value you for. Also, what you value in others also probably isn't an accurate reflection of who they are either. Everything feels hollow, performative, lacking in substance. Worst of all, your understanding of reality works against you because it's demotivating. It's harder to perform your role when you don't carry any illusions about its true purpose. It's difficult to be happy when you believe that everything good which happens to you is at someone else's expense and can see a lot of the tricks. |
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| ▲ | newsclues an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Understanding the problems in society and the solutions but also the barriers that are impossible to overcome. |
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| ▲ | allthetime 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| No think, no worry. |
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| ▲ | Razengan 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Because it's hard to be "happy" when you know how shitty this world is for the majority of life on it, even if your own life was perfect |
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| ▲ | kakadu 42 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| What does being smart even mean? |
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| ▲ | tokai 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| This gets posted here often even though its a complete fantasy. The actual relationship between happiness and intelligence is well known to be the opposite. IQ correlates significantly with happiness. https://bpspsychub.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/b... |
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| ▲ | geoka9 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Maybe because they are not that smart? :) |
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| ▲ | gmuslera 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| "Ignorance is bliss" - Cypher |
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| ▲ | t1234s 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Because junk food and soda tastes good but we are smart an know it will make us fat and dead so we drink water and eat carrots. |
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| ▲ | boricj 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Because being smart doesn't mean being wise. Lack of wisdom can fuck up your life far, far worse than lack of intelligence... and I for one am not wise when it comes to people. |
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| ▲ | nonameiguess 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| The first comment on the blog has it. Subjectively, personally, we can all decide for ourselves what purpose we live for, but the purpose of life as a phenomenon in the world is not to enjoy itself. It's to perpetuate itself. Stay alive long enough and win a competition for scarce resources needed to reproduce. Being largely freed from the tyranny of constant threats and true scarcity, humans can aspire for more, but we're still living creatures. When bears come down from the mountains to fight to the death for winner take all access to the pool of twelve available mates, they're not happy when they win. They mate and get back to it, rest a few months, then fatten up again and prepare for another year of fighting to the death, until they finally get old and lose to a younger, stronger competitor. That's the tale of thousands of generations of ancestors spilled into all of us, humanity included. Even just look at specific highly successful humans. Take famously miserable, no friends Michael Jordan. Win every year, enjoy it for twenty seconds, then immediately get back to work, 14 hours in the gym every day, alienating everyone you ever meet, having no friends, only to win again and feel just as hollow. Why? Because genes and behaviors that make an animal that driven, to succeed at any and all cost, including their own wellbeing, is the basis of success at the only thing that actually matters to life itself, as opposed to any individual thinking creature. He may or may not want to be that way. I'm a reasonably smart guy, nowhere near as driven or successful as Michael Jordan, but I still often wish I was less smart and less driven than I am. The logic of life dictates that we always want more. Nothing is ever good enough. It's why we're collectively miserable no matter how much abundance and wealth we collectively create, even among those who have more than 99% of the world. We can tell each other all the stories we want about the fairness of the distribution, convince yourself your misery is especially justified because you believe you'll be the first generation of humans ever to pay more for housing than your parents. It isn't that. You're not special. None of us are. Dissatisfaction and always wanting more are core to what makes life life. Being smart probably makes you better at life, but being better at life is barely correlated with enjoying it, if at all. |
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| ▲ | paulpauper 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Happiness is subjective, so that is the first obvious problem. Thee are probably a lot of smart people are are not as successful as they feel entitled to despite qualifications, and maybe this leads to feeling of inadequacy or resentment. |
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| ▲ | readthenotes1 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Decades ago Gerry Weinberg (and maybe Gauss--i can't recall) went down a similar path and used the word "puzzles" for the ones the author calls "well-defined". Knowing a problem is a puzzle helps a lot to replicate a solution. |
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| ▲ | Finnucane 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Ignorance is bliss. |
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| ▲ | slowhadoken 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Because we’re social animals and 84% of the population can’t do calculus or understand any meaningful statistics. It makes honest discussion and cooperation with the average person nearly impossible. |
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| ▲ | inglor_cz 6 hours ago | parent [-] | | My secretary is absolutely clueless about maths and yet every interaction with her
improves my mood, she is a lovely motherly 50something person who cheers you up every day. Her being my colleague definitely makes me happier. | | |
| ▲ | sixothree 6 hours ago | parent [-] | | For me it's the lack of curiosity that makes me resentful of people. I can understand completely people are clueless about maths. But having no curiosity about anything seems to be so common in this country right now. | | |
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| ▲ | RickJWagner 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Lots of reasons, I suspect. Smart people are smarter than stupid people, but not that much smarter. They are subject to thinking they’ve got it all figured out, when really they don’t. Warren Buffett spoke several times about this, saying that he’d much rather deal with a person of middling IQ and some humility rather than a person with very high IQ but not as smart as they think. Then there are other attributes like discipline. A very smart person with little discipline could easily end up in a worse state than someone with good discipline and less intelligence. Sort of the Forest Gump model, if you like. Superior intelligence is absolutely a gift. But not the only kind of gift, and not necessarily the best one. Ask someone like Stephen Hawking. |
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| ▲ | TheOtherHobbes 6 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | I don't think Warren Buffet is the last word on this. The top of the IQ stratosphere is functionally unusual. Set a room full of 130s on a hard problem. When they get stuck, adding more 130s won't help. Throw a >160 into the room and see what happens. >160s don't necessarily think they have it all figured out. But as long as they're functional - not always easy - their raw ability at certain tasks is qualitatively different to those closer the norm. I've occasionally had dealings with these people. They really do understand things phenomenally quickly, and some of them can turn their insights into gold. | | |
| ▲ | RickJWagner 4 hours ago | parent [-] | | It’s funny you picked 160. Buffett famously said “You don’t need to be a rocket scientist. Investing is not a game where the guy with the 160 IQ beats the guy with a 130 IQ. Rationality is essential” Buffett said it in the book, “Warren Buffett Speaks.” He also said if you do have an IQ of 160, you might as well give away 30 points, they’re not going to help you be a better investor. Maybe he’s wrong, but at this time he’s regarded as one of the most successful investors ever, if not the very best. | | |
| ▲ | fsckboy 16 minutes ago | parent [-] | | >It’s funny you picked 160. no, it's not anything like a coincidence or a quote of Buffet. People always say "160" as the example number because the Stanford-Binet and Wechsler series IQ tests are among the most commonly used and they have a maximum score of 160. That alone is not enough, you also need to know the std dev is 15 or 16. Therefore, 160 is 4 sd's above the mean which, regardless of the thing you are measuring, is very difficult to measure without massive numbers of sample points because the population density becomes very sparse. there are other intelligence tests, some top out at 200, but you have to know the SD for that to be useful. |
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| ▲ | paulpauper 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Warren Buffett spoke several times about this, saying that he’d much rather deal with a person of middling IQ and some humility rather than a person with very high IQ but not as smart as they think. I'm pretty sure he never said that. He has become like Einstein, where people have projected their beliefs onto him. | | |
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| ▲ | bena 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-] |
| Technically, the article isn't about the title. It's about the limits of LLMs/AI. It posits that smart people aren't happier because "living a good life" is a poorly defined problem and smart people aren't any better at figuring out poorly defined problems than anyone else. And that may be fair. And I guess my conjecture is a bit in line with that. Just because you know how the system works, does not mean you would be good at working the system. For instance, let's pretend that the easiest way to live a good life, it required you to do things that you felt were morally repugnant. Well, I'd have an unhappy life, because I won't do those things. Or, let's say that you found out that in order to live a good life, you had to meet some physical requirement. Like, if you wanted to live a good life as a man, you had to be at least 6'0". I'd be fucked. And nothing I could do could fix it. And in all honesty, there are a lot of factors that go into things like success and leading a good life. And while intelligence does help, it's not a guarantee. And I would think that intelligent people would also figure that out. And it's frustrating knowing that even if you do everything right, you could still fail through no fault of your own. |