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ilaksh 6 days ago

The thing that bothers me so much about this post is that it reeks of privilege by treating unemployment as if it were mainly just a bad trigger that you talk to your expensive therapist about once a week.

For most people in the real world, psychological burn out is NOT the problem with unemployment. The problem is becoming homeless.

titanomachy 6 days ago | parent | next [-]

I think "most people in the real world" have at least a few rungs between their current situation and true homelessness. Many people have some sort of family or other community that they could lean on, even in America where family ties are weaker than any other place I know.

I have a couple friends who haven't had steady work in years, and they still eke out a pretty reasonable existence living with friends and family because they are kind and considerate and people don't mind having them around. A lot of street homeless have mental or substance issues that make it hard for them to coexist with other people.

roadside_picnic 6 days ago | parent | next [-]

"Homeless" is not the same as "living on the street". People living in hotels, temporary trailers (in some places even tiny homes count), living with a friend temporarily, etc are all homeless. Plenty of Americans are much closer than this than you might think working in tech. 50-60% of Americans currently live 'paycheck-to-paycheck' which means the second work stops they're on a timer for missing bills to start coming in.

I've had the luxury, working in tech, to have lost a job and had the opportunity to take a few months off before searching. Even this was incredibly stressful in practice, but I never had to worry about losing my place of living.

titanomachy 6 days ago | parent | next [-]

> People living in hotels, temporary trailers (in some places even tiny homes count), living with a friend temporarily, etc are all homeless.

You're right. But is a 30-year-old who moves back in with their parents "homeless"?

And yeah, the paycheck-to-paycheck stat blows my mind. Somehow the standard American experience has become the latest model iPhone (financed), a new car (financed), a rented home, 4-5 meals out weekly, and almost zero money in the bank. And all this in a country with some of the weakest social security in the developed world. I'm sure the half-trillion dollars spent on advertising every year has something to do with this.

bluefirebrand 6 days ago | parent | next [-]

> You're right. But is a 30-year-old who moves back in with their parents "homeless"?

No, but this is also not ideal for many reasons

I have a friend going through this right now, actually. The biggest challenge is that her parents don't live anywhere near a strong job market. So the decision for her is "be homeless in a place where jobs are available" or "have a home but no access to employers"

It's not ideal

selimthegrim 6 days ago | parent [-]

I have been applying since March 2020 out of New Orleans and I have come up with nothing (5-6 first round interviews) so I think that this is a much bigger problem than people think.

lawlessone 6 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

A phone for internet access is basically mandatory now if you want to work, and depending on where you live so is a car.

titanomachy 6 days ago | parent | next [-]

A serviceable refurbished Android can be obtained for $50. A new iPhone costs at least $800, which is 100 hours of work at the federal minimum wage.

nfriedly 6 days ago | parent [-]

And a serviceable refurbished iPhone isn't that much more, e.g. https://swappa.com/listings/apple-iphone-se-2nd-gen?carrier=...

lawlessone 5 days ago | parent [-]

ok, but could that mean many people that are assumed to have new devices could actually be using older devices?

nfriedly 5 days ago | parent [-]

Probably. The iPhone users I know mostly replace their phones once every 3 to 5 years, and they don't all buy brand new replacements even then (although some do.)

ghxst 6 days ago | parent | prev [-]

I'd be surprised if you had no one around you that didn't have an old android laying around collecting dust. I'm still on an old A52s and it works fine.

lawlessone 6 days ago | parent [-]

i might, but i wouldn't want to rely on something i'm uncertain exists.

chaosharmonic 6 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> But is a 30-year-old who moves back in with their parents "homeless"?

Depends -- how safe is their parents' home?

That answer can vary, for a lot of reasons.

lurk2 6 days ago | parent [-]

> Depends

It doesn’t.

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renewiltord 6 days ago | parent | prev [-]

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Avicebron 6 days ago | parent | next [-]

You might need to get out more, I've lived it, I've been around people who live it every day. I met someone for the first time in like 15 years (old school semi-acquaintance), something like the second thing we started talking about was how rough it was just finding and paying for an apartment in the remote super "LCOL" place we found ourselves.

Think about it, I'm guessing the guy welding the beams in your kid's school isn't making a quarter of what you make a year. Yet he has to be reminded every day that he's an economic failure vs what do you do, javascript? Early stage startup ideas? I bet it was pretty good in 2006-8.

renewiltord 6 days ago | parent | next [-]

Getting out more won’t help in this case because I will be walking around SOMA. The fact of the matter is that the stat is made up by a payday loan company and has no bearing on reality.

People like to share it because they are LLM like and just repeat things without looking at the data. “Hallucinations” are the common way that humans experience the world. World models born of pure fiction.

Also wtf I know journeyman ironworkers. They own homes in Oakland. People act like this is some poverty mode existence. Their lives are fine.

titanomachy 6 days ago | parent | next [-]

Thanks for sharing the slowboring blog post. I didn't know that stat came from payday loan companies, which definitely makes it suspect. Encouraging to hear that 55% of Americans have enough cash on hand for 3 months of expenses, and most of them have less liquid resources they could draw on if they needed more.

However, saying that the median American household has ~$200k net worth doesn't necessarily mean that they're doing great. A lot of the burden of funding retirement falls on the individual in the US, meaning if you're 60 and only have $200k of net worth in a M/HCOL city you're still potentially kind of fucked.

8note 6 days ago | parent | prev [-]

whats making the confidence that you are correct, and other people are bots, vs you being the bot?

up until recently, you didnt know the definition of homelessness that is used in the data. how are you making claims about the data? which data? what does it say?

since you know journeymen, you might want to ask them to meet their apprentices. That way, you could visit the apprentices homes that theyve bought, and can definitely pay the mortgage on by themselves.

or, if they dont have any, you could try to meet some CNAs at the local hospital? or the person at the grocery til?

its wild you dont think poor people exist.

renewiltord 6 days ago | parent [-]

I made no claims about homelessness. Only about the paycheck to paycheck thing. Did you use Llama 3.2 1B to make this comment? Next time use a bigger model. Gemma 3n 4B is sort of the limit before it starts talking nonsense about “claims about the [homelessness] data”. Complete non sequitur.

lurk2 6 days ago | parent | prev [-]

> I'm guessing the guy welding the beams in your kid's school isn't making a quarter of what you make a year.

The majority of software engineers aren’t earning anywhere close to 4 times a union welder’s wages.

computably 6 days ago | parent | prev [-]

https://institute.bankofamerica.com/economic-insights/payche...

BoA says 25% are paycheck-to-paycheck based on their internal data, which is still pretty nuts.

Izkata 5 days ago | parent | next [-]

I also remember seeing something a few years ago that this stat has always floated around 20-30%. It was in the context of reporting that living paycheck to paycheck "has reached 30%", but that the reporting never included historical averages, to make the news much more sensational than it actually was.

renewiltord 6 days ago | parent | prev [-]

Yes, it is much lower than the 60% postulated above, even counting those who have massive positive home equity they could access at any time.

Median net worth is almost $200k. People in this country are so wealthy.

SpicyLemonZest 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

The median American has $8000 in transaction accounts and a net worth of $192k. 50-60% of Americans self-report that they’re living paycheck to paycheck, but not everyone understands that to mean “I literally can’t pay the bills if my paycheck doesn’t come on time”.

(Is it deeply uncomfortable to get laid off with $8000 in your account? Without a doubt, especially in an increasingly weak labor market, even if you have home equity or retirement savings you could theoretically dip into to cover what unemployment benefits can’t.)

tbrownaw 6 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> Plenty of Americans are much closer than this than you might think working in tech. 50-60% of Americans currently live 'paycheck-to-paycheck' which means the second work stops they're on a timer for missing bills to start coming in.

How is that actually defined by whoever measured it?

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monkeyelite 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> "Homeless" is not the same as "living on the street"

The word is being used to invoke that image.

antonvs 6 days ago | parent | prev [-]

> People living in hotels … are homeless

Does that include digital nomads who don’t have a permanent residence?

reaperducer 5 days ago | parent | next [-]

Does that include digital nomads who don’t have a permanent residence?

Since they're not even a rounding error, it doesn't matter.

_rm 5 days ago | parent | prev [-]

Yep, they're just winning at homeless

pessimizer 6 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I think you should look this up instead of surveying your guesses about your friends.

A lot of my friends' parents rely on their support. If they lost their jobs their parents would be in trouble, too.

rr808 6 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> I have a couple friends who haven't had steady work in years, and they still eke out a pretty reasonable existence living with friends and family

What about their wife and children? Do they get to stay with them too?

titanomachy 6 days ago | parent [-]

No, the people I'm thinking of are childless. They recognize that their level of stability and functioning is not currently high enough to support a family.

I didn't say that they're thriving and living their dream, just that they're still a couple rungs above homeless.

rr808 4 days ago | parent [-]

Yeah sorry I was just being facetious

alsetmusic 6 days ago | parent | prev [-]

> I think "most people in the real world" have at least a few rungs between their current situation and true homelessness.

This is one of the most out-of-touch HN comments I've seen in a while. Most people are not nearly as privileged as the community on these forums. Not even all the people posting here are fully removed from the risk of being out on their ass. Some have moved from other parts of their home country (think people in the Bay Area who moved for a job and have no family in the same job market). Some have moved from other parts of the world to where they are and have no one upon whom they can impose. Plenty have huge student loans and are so fresh out of school that they're at the edge of the many rounds of layoffs affecting the tech industry in the last few years and lack enough experience on their resumés to land a new position before their finances run out.

I can't believe how tone deaf it is to suggest that most people have multiple rungs upon which to fall back. And I've only been talking about people on these forums, the "fortunate" types.

titanomachy 6 days ago | parent | next [-]

> think people in the Bay Area who moved for a job and have no family in the same job market

If they've failed to find a job for long enough that they're about to be homeless, does it really make sense to remain in the most expensive housing market in the country?

I think it's equally out of touch to imply that if you select a random person from across America (the richest country in the world) you will land on someone who is an inch from homelessness, with no close family or community, massive debt, and living in terror of the next layoff. Certainly there are people in that situation, but to imply that it's somehow the median American experience is to caricature the country.

All I said is that "most people" have rungs to fall back on, not "everyone".

carlosjobim 6 days ago | parent | prev [-]

> I can't believe how tone deaf it is to suggest that most people have multiple rungs upon which to fall back.

There are rungs which are available to the population at large, so all of us have those privileges. For example the armed forces are recruiting. They will put a roof over your head and food in your belly, as well as give you medical coverage.

yoyohello13 6 days ago | parent [-]

Not if you’re over 35 they won’t.

smegma2 6 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

The median household net worth in the US is $193,000. The rate of home ownership is 65%. I don’t think the median American is at risk of becoming homeless during normal unemployment. Maybe you mean that the article isn’t as relevant for a global audience which is fine, but I would think that the median American lives in “the real world”.

https://www.federalreserve.gov/econres/scf/dataviz/scf/table...

https://www.nahb.org/blog/2024/08/lowest-homeownership-rate-...

infecto 6 days ago | parent | next [-]

I am not sure that means what you think it does. That’s not liquid dollars and does not mean those home owners have savings for emergencies.

smegma2 6 days ago | parent [-]

The median American also owns $39,000 in liquid financial assets.

https://www.federalreserve.gov/publications/files/scf23.pdf (page 22, “Financial Assets” section)

Terr_ 5 days ago | parent | next [-]

It doesn't say liquid assets though, it mentions multiple options which vary in how easily you can/should use one to pay an unexpected bill or period of unemployment.

For example, if one is using their life-insurance payouts to pay their rent... well, something has gone very wrong somewhere.

Specifically, this part:

> financial asset—which includes transaction accounts, certificates of deposit, savings bonds, other bonds, stocks, pooled investment funds, retirement accounts, cash value life insurance, and other managed assets

For the highly-liquid "transaction accounts" (checking, savings, money-market) the conditional [0] median is just $8k.

[0] AFAICT "conditional" here means "we don't include $0 data points in the median." That explains why the subcategory of "stocks" has a higher conditional median value than the more-general category of financial assets.

smegma2 5 days ago | parent [-]

Sure, I couldn’t find a better data source than that. If you find a better source that includes liquid assets specifically that would be helpful. I am skeptical that of the 39k in assets listed there, there isn’t a substantial amount that can be used to pay the bills (i.e. who has $39k in their 401k but $0 anywhere else?).

Terr_ 4 days ago | parent [-]

It seems some "Survey Data" files are publicly available [0], but without investing a bit more effort in parsing them (which is definitely not happening on my phone) I'm not sure if they have the kind of household-by-household data that could be used.

https://www.federalreserve.gov/econres/scfindex.htm

infecto 5 days ago | parent | prev [-]

Again I don’t think that means what you think it means. It says “value of all financial assets” which includes banking accounts, cds, stocks, bonds etc. that is not liquid.

The next exact line it calls out those bank accounts and the mean at $8,000. That is not a lot of liquid emergency savings for a household let’s say of 3.

So I don’t think your point stands.

smegma2 5 days ago | parent [-]

Everything you listed is liquid. CDs can be withdrawn early for a small penalty, and most likely without even losing any of your principal.

infecto 5 days ago | parent [-]

Again that number is inclusive of retirement accounts, hard to say much without knowing the breakdown but we do know $8k is the closet cash number. I would suspect the majority of the rest are in retirement accounts. Sure bonds and stocks are liquid but not like cash is. Using Fred is not that useful for these type of exercises as I don’t think those datapoints do a great job on topics like this.

So I don’t see what you are trying to point out. Most surveys I have seen put something like a quarter of Americans without any emergency savings.

throwaway173738 6 days ago | parent | prev [-]

Good luck accessing any of your home equity if you don’t have a job. I guess you could just sell your house of many years and move your family into an apartment.

carlosjobim 6 days ago | parent [-]

Yes, obviously that's what you have to do. And also thank God that you have that asset to sell to give you emergency cash.

autoexec 5 days ago | parent [-]

In may cases that'd be very foolish since mortgage payments are often way lower than rent.

reaperducer 5 days ago | parent [-]

Until you factor in maintenance, utilities, taxes, etc…

Depending on where you live, renting is often cheaper than owning, but real estate agents who make money off selling houses will never tell you the full cost of owning a home.

fujigawa 6 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

This is going to upset some, but the tech industry is full of delusional people that are completely out of touch with reality and the needs and struggles of everyday Americans.

I recently stumbled upon a YouTuber grousing about losing her six-figure tech job. She was in full freakout mode about budgeting etc. but something didn't seem quite right. Then she disclosed she's married, financially stable, husband still has a great job, etc.

It made me stop and think how there's people out there delivering groceries, putting on an apron, all so they don't have to switch to eating cat food by the end of the week.

OTOH ex-Googlers are worried they might be forced to switch to store-brand mineral water within weeks.

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monkeyelite 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Normal functioning adults do not easily become homeless.

There are several drops in lifestyle you have been accustomed to, before that happens.

moralestapia 5 days ago | parent [-]

If you don't have an income and you don't own your place, then you become homeless. That's not hard to see.

If it doesn't happen it's because someone bails you out, this is a privilege not everyone has.

monkeyelite 5 days ago | parent [-]

No. What happens is you accept employment and terms you would not previously consider.

strken 6 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Blog posts are aimed at an audience, HN is an audience, and in both cases the audience in question is a technical one with an above-average number of well-paid professionals. The whole framing that the blog post "reeks of privilege" to "most people" is a bit strange. If I were to read a Yachting Monthly article about The Five Most Attention-Grabbing Mega Yachts For The Conspicuous Consumer Billionaire it would probably reek of privilege to me, too, but that's an entirely self inflicted problem: nobody is making me read a specific article from a yacht magazine.

squigz 6 days ago | parent [-]

I think people would be shocked at HN demographics. I'm quite confident it's more representative of the average population in terms of things like income than some people seem to realize.

strken 6 days ago | parent | next [-]

Sure, but none of us have to read all the way through every article that hits the front page, or take it to heart when the article is about a rich person.

One of my friends has given up on finding a software job and become a handyman to make ends meet. I get that not everyone in tech is loaded. I just don't think holding your nose and gagging at the "reek" when you deliberately read about someone who has six months of savings is a productive or useful reaction.

squigz 6 days ago | parent [-]

> I just don't think holding your nose and gagging at the "reek" when you read about someone who has six months of savings is a productive or useful reaction.

Interesting way to characterize GP's response when all they did was use a word in a very common way.

monkeyelite 5 days ago | parent | prev [-]

I suppose if you are including European and Indian salaries and American students? But upper middle class students are literally temporarily embarrassed millionaires.

squigz 5 days ago | parent [-]

All non-student Americans on HN are making 6 figures or something, I guess?

monkeyelite 5 days ago | parent [-]

In software? Yes - no matter which part of the country. Maybe a few hold outs in the 90k.

astura 5 days ago | parent | next [-]

The jr's in my company are making $60-$70k.

Anyway, the government actually compiles this information

https://www.bls.gov/ooh/computer-and-information-technology/...

>The median annual wage for software developers was $133,080 in May 2024. The median wage is the wage at which half the workers in an occupation earned more than that amount and half earned less. The lowest 10 percent earned less than $79,850, and the highest 10 percent earned more than $211,450.

monkeyelite 4 days ago | parent [-]

Yep, those numbers agree with my comment. Note that also includes QA in those numbers and roles which are not software engineer.

squigz 5 days ago | parent | prev [-]

That's laughable.

Anyway I'm not American, Indian, or European. I guess I don't exist!

monkeyelite 5 days ago | parent [-]

You’re telling me you don’t live in America. But also you know better about salaries and standards of living in America.

squigz 5 days ago | parent [-]

I don't think one has to live in a country to be able to look up and read statistics, or talk to people who work there, or read job postings from there, or have worked for companies in that country, or...

Anyway I'm not really sure why you're so insistent on this focus of America. HN (and the Internet in general) is a pretty diverse crowd... which was sort of my point

monkeyelite 5 days ago | parent [-]

My claim is about US salaries for software engineering roles.

Please share your stats.

squigz 5 days ago | parent [-]

Your claim is that all non-student Americans on HN are paid 6 figure salaries.

Please share your stats.

dennis_jeeves2 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

>psychological burn out is NOT the problem with unemployment. The problem is becoming homeless.

Thanks. You hit the nail on the head.

eleveriven 5 days ago | parent | prev [-]

Burnout is real, and it’s worth talking about, but it’s a luxury to be able to even think about rest when your bank account is at zero and you're juggling survival