| ▲ | iamalizard an hour ago |
| No such mandates should take place at all. |
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| ▲ | burnte 19 minutes ago | parent | next [-] |
| This is correct. It is not the government's job to raise our children. The more we ask the gov't to do that we should do, the less power we actually have. Some will say this ship has sailed, well, I say it's not too late to sink it. |
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| ▲ | throwawayqqq11 a minute ago | parent [-] | | I am sick of these "government bad" takes. They lack constructive suggestions, like your "sink it" nugget, they lack decent problem descriptions, as if anything after the sinking (likely private governance, aka feudalism) is immune to the ills of big-gov, and on top perpetuate reductivist arguments as if any kind of restrictions of freedom is by definition bad. This broad rejection without good reasons is borderline sociopathic. |
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| ▲ | harshreality 33 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| A lot of us who grew up pre-social-media agree in principle. What it fails to account for is that today's internet is qualitatively different from the pre-social-media, pre-smartphone internet. The vast majority of the internet audience, too, is qualitatively different. Incentives are misaligned for an average parent who might want to keep a tight leash on smartphone internet access for their kids, when attempting to do so will generate fierce opposition from their kids and leave them socially out of the loop. |
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| ▲ | reddalo 24 minutes ago | parent [-] | | People also wanted to smoke cigarettes but they got fierce opposition from their parents. That's what parents should do. Maybe we should teach parents how to be parents instead of imposing draconian age checks (read: mass surveillance). | | |
| ▲ | infinitezest 12 minutes ago | parent | next [-] | | Aren't there laws against selling tobacco to minors? And advertising to them? Your analogy is supporting the opposite conclusion. | | |
| ▲ | iamalizard a few seconds ago | parent [-] | | In some countries they scan you ID and likely keep it some database when you buy drugs or enter bars or clubs. In others they just look at your ID card if you don't look old enough. The first example is bad, the second is tolerable. But the reason most kids don't smoke is that the parents and the teachers instilled in them that it was bad. If a kid wants to smoke or drink, they can surely get an older friend or a friend of a friend to sell them the cigarettes or alcohol. Anyone can buy 20 bottles of hard liquor and 50 packs of cigarettes, sell them to a 15 year old who can then sell them to their friends. That doesn't happen often not because a surprise police raid will show up and bust the seller but because there isn't enough demand. If there is demand from the kids and the parents don't care, kids will get their hands on drugs. Maybe not 9 year olds but certainly the teens. |
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| ▲ | RHSeeger 11 minutes ago | parent | prev [-] | | This seems like a poor example, because we _also_ made it illegal for minors to buy (and smoke?) cigarettes. |
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| ▲ | Bender an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I agree fundamentally and ideologically but we are past that point. The toothpaste is already out of the tube as they say. There will be restrictions so all I can do is suggest more sensible restrictions that keep the control on the client side and do not share data. Any data shared can and will be abused, leaked, sold, stolen without consequence. |
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| ▲ | shevy-java 5 minutes ago | parent | next [-] | | We are not past the point at all. Any democracy can ultimately decide on laws and regulation. Why would you wish to insinuate otherwise here? California could easily decide to not implement such laws, for instance. That data leaks out is always a given. So, gather less data. Ideally none. But this is not a discussion about data. This is a discussion as to what state actors think they are allowed to do. It is an attack on private life of people. See the combined strike against VPNs. | |
| ▲ | AdrianB1 an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I heard that lie about "sensible restrictions" so many times, now I am waiting for "sensible violence", "sensible beating to death" and so on. It is a false argument that "there will be restrictions so all I can do is suggest more sensible restrictions", what you can do is recognize that "no restrictions is an option". It is like negotiating with a terrorist that wants to kill you and this is his starting position and then he wants to agree on some compromise, like seriously beating you. There is no negotiation. | | |
| ▲ | Bender an hour ago | parent [-] | | No harm in pushing for no restrictions at all. I support this idea. |
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| ▲ | yetta an hour ago | parent | prev [-] | | No we aren't. Also you can put toothpaste in tubes or it wouldn't be in there. Hope that helps! |
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| ▲ | mikestorrent an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I agree with you, as a longtime free speech believe. but... I would also like to keep my kids from seeing the very worst of the internet before they're ready to handle it. I tried using a PiHole but Firefox DNS-over-HTTPS nullifies that now. It's not realistic for me to be watching over their shoulders 24/7; what can I do to keep them away from stuff 99% of people agree isn't for children to see, without something like this? |
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| ▲ | Bender an hour ago | parent | next [-] | | Unbound DNS if compiled with --with-libnghttp2 can listen for DoH and your Unbound/Pihole can forward to any destination you desire. This is what it looks like on my firewall: # https://doh-int.mydomain.net/dns-query
interface: [ip of lan port]@443
interface: [ip of wifi port]@443
https-port: 443
http-max-streams: 220
tls-service-key: "/etc/unbound/keys.d/unbound_server.key"
tls-service-pem: "/etc/unbound/keys.d/unbound_server.pem"
Null routing the open DoH resolvers is just having a startup script that reads a list of all their IP addresses and ip route add blackhole "${IP}" 2>/dev/null
People will argue that DoH can run on anything which is true but all the major resolvers will always use dedicated IP addresses as to not risk blocking CDN end points.If the childs account is not able to gain admin privs then their ability to change settings can be disabled. | | |
| ▲ | anigbrowl an hour ago | parent [-] | | 99% of people have no idea what this means, but they do understand voting. | | |
| ▲ | Bender 40 minutes ago | parent [-] | | Yup I was just replying to the .001% that was discussing it. Please do reach out to your congress people. | | |
| ▲ | anigbrowl 22 minutes ago | parent [-] | | OK but we're talking about a general social problem (parents understandably don't want their kids corupte dby adult stuff, and some adult services vendors are unscrupulous but the internet makes it easy for them to hide. I personally think this current version of the legislation is a good compromise. Tech workarounds are fine for the few of us that understand the relevant technology (though I have never bothered to compile DNS in my life and have no plans to do so in the future), but they are simply not practical for most people. Every time I hear someone suggesting this sort of thing I find myself tempted to say 'why worry about legislation? If you don't like what it mandates you can just write your own operating system.' Of course this would not be helpful because writing your own OS is extremely hard beyond classroom/toy examples. And likewise, tech workarounds and even parental controls are hard for most consumers - partly by design. I have an xbox console and have been trying to figure out why it keeps freezing on certain apps for months now. I suspect a telemetry problem but it's just a guess, there isn't really any way to look at logs so it's a trial and error process because most consumer hardware/application vendors want their products to be black boxes. | | |
| ▲ | shevy-java a few seconds ago | parent [-] | | > I personally think this current version of the legislation is a good compromise. I don't think it is a good compromise. It seems to cover the wrong use cases. My use cases have nothing to do with children on any level. Why would I want to submit to government restrictions? That makes zero sense. It's as if the right-to-repair-movement would suddenly be undermined by a lobbyist advocating how restrictions are great. Or Jackie Chan suddenly praising the sinomarxist mono-party. |
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| ▲ | shevy-java 3 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | You describe a use case for you. That's fine. Here we talk about use cases for EVERYONE. I don't see how your use case is fine for me, because I personally do not agree with it on any level at all whatsoever. You believe in restriction. I don't. There is no common ground here. > It's not realistic for me to be watching over their shoulders 24/7 Is this your job? At which age will you stop monitoring them? > what can I do to keep them away from stuff 99% of people agree isn't for children to see 99%? Where do you get those numbers from? Besides, what stuff anyway? Even then the issue isn't about your kids. It is about laws for EVERYONE. | |
| ▲ | grim_io an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Well, you can't. Like no past generation could stop their kids. | | |
| ▲ | JumpCrisscross an hour ago | parent | next [-] | | > no past generation could stop their kids Past generations absolutely protected their kids from cigarettes and alcohol. A gate doesn’t have to be 100% effective to have net benefits. | | |
| ▲ | kelseyfrog 14 minutes ago | parent [-] | | If one kid is able to bypass the system it means it's zero percent effective. Same thing with alcohol, and cigarettes. Especially if it means I have to show my ID to buy those things. |
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| ▲ | dylan604 an hour ago | parent | prev [-] | | Just like no past generation had so much information so readily available. One quick quip can always be rebutted by another quick quip, but it doesn't really move the conversation along in any meaningful manner. |
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| ▲ | fhn 26 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | You but them smartphones, tables, laptops, and internet access and then complain there is too much access? | | |
| ▲ | ObscureScience 20 minutes ago | parent [-] | | Yeah, why should it not be desireble to give them access to the good properties of such devices and the internet? | | |
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| ▲ | catlikesshrimp an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | If your kids are in the smart 1% who can bypass your authority, they will. Be proud. For the rest, we don't need a police atate | |
| ▲ | malicka an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | You could block the default DoH services for Firefox, I reckon. | |
| ▲ | cyberax an hour ago | parent | prev [-] | | > what can I do to keep them away from stuff 99% of people agree isn't for children to see, without something like this? Nothing. VPNs exist (including free ones), some of classmates will have unlocked devices, etc. Next question? | | |
| ▲ | Bender 30 minutes ago | parent | next [-] | | Teens for sure bypass all restrictions. Teens are young adults. My suggestions are for small children. Once a small child evolves and adapts to their surroundings, they too will one day bypass things. Reward them when they do this, it means they're smart and you did a good job. | |
| ▲ | fhn 25 minutes ago | parent | prev [-] | | block all VPNs? |
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| ▲ | jrmg 34 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Are you also against age limits for the purchase of alcohol, cigarettes, pornography etc? |
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| ▲ | JumpCrisscross an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| > No such mandates should take place at all How do you propose doing age restrictions for social media? These are broadly popular. (And the evidence supports them.) They are happening. So the question is how to do it best. The project for reversing the consensus isn’t worthless. But it’s a long-term project that will have to bear fruit after these restrictions go into effect, if ever. |
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| ▲ | bijowo1676 35 minutes ago | parent | prev [-] | | only parents can decide for their own children, so you can do whatever you want for your own children | | |
| ▲ | JumpCrisscross 33 minutes ago | parent [-] | | > only parents can decide for their own children Voters are collectively deciding for all of our children. And there are absolutely group dynamics that require cooperation. It’s why rich communities ban phones in classrooms while in poor communities, the one family that tries doing it alone is probably going to be less successful. Again, I’m not saying you’re fundamentally wrong. Just that this debate has been had and the polling is massively in favor of bans for under-14 year olds and strongly in favor for under-18s. (And to the degree I’ve connected with electeds, the folks calling in and writing were almost 100% one way. The civically-engaged electorate is practically at consensus.) |
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| ▲ | anigbrowl an hour ago | parent | prev [-] |
| Filed with nobody should be bad and essential services should be free |