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| ▲ | atleastoptimal a day ago | parent | next [-] | | many people seem to care about the infidelity | | |
| ▲ | f6v a day ago | parent | next [-] | | Which baffles me. Is it an American thing? Religious? I generally don’t care about people’s private lives. | | |
| ▲ | retsibsi a day ago | parent | next [-] | | It doesn't require a very strange chain of reasoning. Lots of people would agree that: - promising monogamy to someone who loves you, and then breaking that promise, is bad and provides negative evidence about your character and - if you're the leader of a very powerful entity, your character is relevant even to people who don't know you personally. There's also just the fact that when someone is famous, and it emerges publicly that they've broken some norm, there's not really a fully neutral option available to us. We can condemn their behaviour (reinforcing the norm), defend it (weakening the norm), or ignore it (also somewhat weakening the norm, especially if we make a point of ignoring it and suggest that others are silly for caring). | | |
| ▲ | ryanbrunner a day ago | parent [-] | | I'm certainly not making a statement about Huang here, more of a general one, but generally speaking, when you're making judgements about infidelity as someone not part of that relationship you're working off very limited information, doubly so for a public figure that you don't know personally. Obviously it's somewhat complicated when subordinates and Chinese spies are involved, and I'm not condoning infidelity, but IMO infidelity is a reason for a spouse to be justifiably outraged, not the public at large. |
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| ▲ | bluegatty a day ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | "Is it an American thing?" It's 'baffling' that someone would think that this is not a social concern. It transcends cultures and faiths. We can understand surely that some care less, but the only people who can't understand why this is bad have never been in a relationship. | | |
| ▲ | f6v 19 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Suppose they were non-exclusive in their marriage. It’s not something you and I know (and it’s not our business unless they told us). You don’t know if they’re, but you’re making a judgment. I don’t care what you think about it, it’s just disgusting to think someone’s sexual relationships are of your concern. I’ve been thinking about it for a while. Western societies are more accepting of queer people now, on average. But the desire to judge people based on who they sleep with hasn’t gone anywhere. 30 years ago someone would say it’s of “social concern” or a CEO visits gay bathhouses. Repeat after me: people’s sexual lives are not anyone’s business. | |
| ▲ | robinhood a day ago | parent | prev [-] | | It's a concern, but this concern has no place in business. What's happening in a marriage is not our problem. So yes, it's definitely more a north american thing (and I'm in a long term, married relationship, so you last sentence definitely shows how immature your views are). | | |
| ▲ | evgen a day ago | parent [-] | | "Yes, he has a long string of theft convictions, cheats at cards, and beats his wife, but I am totally surprised that he defrauded our company for millions of dollars..." It is not a north american thing, it is a character thing. | | |
| ▲ | fg137 21 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | I am pretty sure that "beating his wife" is criminal in most countries while "sleeping with someone that is not his wife" is not. That is material difference right there. You words are doing a lot of work blurring the difference here. | | |
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| ▲ | wat10000 18 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | It’s not that long ago when the legalities would have been reversed. I don’t think that’s a very good guide. | | |
| ▲ | victorhooi 16 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | I think you're drawing a bit of a straw-man fallacy there. We're talking about current events - and hence current social norms and mores (although I do concede there's a spectrum there - and that American culture still does have a bit of Puritan culture embedded in it). Slavery is illegal in most places in 20206 - but sure - it wasn't illegal 100 years ago. Just like homosexuality was illegal some 50 years ago - but isn't illegal today (in most places). But in 2026 - if Jensen Huang (or anybody else) has multiple consensual relationships with lots of adult women (or men) - that's their business. We might have our own personal views on whether we would have relationships with lots of women (or men) - but that's a different thing. This isn't the Handmaid's Tale. | |
| ▲ | fg137 18 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Citation needed. | | |
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| ▲ | ryanbrunner 21 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | You're substituting different actions. There's no reasonable justification for "beats his wife". "Sleeping with someone who isn't their wife" could have justifications - you don't know anything about their marriage. | |
| ▲ | f6v 19 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | It’s an absurd argument but I’m not surprised someone would say something like that. | |
| ▲ | victorhooi 16 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | It's very much a North American thing - likely related to the Puritans sects that founded the colonies. I'm not saying it's good or bad - simply pointing out the obvious. It's also this incredible dichotomy - American culture is filled wit hyper-sexualised imagery in fashion, movies, TV shows - yet they still have an incredible stigma about public discussions on sexuality, public breastfeeding, or people showing open same-sex affection. Quite frankly, what Jensen Huang, or Elon Musk, or Miley Cyrus or Donald Trump, or Jerome Powell or anybody else chooses to do about their sex life behind closed doors is their problem. Unless they come to you for relationship advice - you probably also don't know half the story. I can also say with almost biblical certainty that none of the aforementioned people have come to any HN-ers for relationship advice.... Yet the sheer level of public discourse about Jenson Huang's marriage is insane. Now, the GPU and export controls - that's a different matter entirely - and I can see how that might be pertinent to business discussions, and I can see why analysts would be interested in that. But we have barely any information on that. Nobody seems to comment on that? Also to use your language "it's a character thing" - I should point out that it wasn't too long ago that a male being affectionate with another male was a "character" thing - see Alan Turing? Or Oscar Wilde? Or Tchaikovsky? Yet if you saw another man holding hands with another man - would you say "it's a character thing"? Unless I knew them personally, it's none of my business - I'm certainly not going to walk up to a stranger and go "Oi mate, you can't be doing that, it's a character thing!" Likewise if I saw people in open or polyamorous relationships (which I hear are a thing) - unless they were my friends and had asked for my counsel or wisdom - I'll let them walk their own walk. It's not my place to judge them - stick, eye, plank and all that. And relationships are incredibly complex things, and we often don't know the half of it. |
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| ▲ | ModernMech a day ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | It’s very simple: billionaires and politicians spend a lot of time trying to control our lives. This is often done through a moral lens: “you can’t do this thing because it’s immoral” where thing can range from making a personal medical decision, marrying the person you love, singing to children, playing on a sports team, or going to the bathroom. So when one of these representatives of the elite turns out to be not quite so moral, we take special interest in pointing it out until the end of time. If Huang managed a department store you wouldn’t hear much about it. | |
| ▲ | ImJamal 20 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | If somebody promises to be with one person and only one person and they violate such trust that causes me to doubt their integrity. Couple that with it not just being random women but a spy and people below him in the company (a clear me too situation) and I lose all trust in him. Before you or somebody says they may have had an open relationship then why did he apologize for hurting his wife? Was he lying? If so, then he has betrayed our trust. | |
| ▲ | atmosx a day ago | parent | prev [-] | | I think this is all staged: media acts like average Joe cars, I doubt it. He obviously hurt the wrong ppl, the Chinese spy thing has too many red flags … they say “alleged” and the proceed talking for 25 minutes as if it’s true. Supposedly the secret service the CIA and who knows who else is looking at this for over a year, but they can’t decide which way is it… so yeah timing and all… the board of NVIDIA apparently is the only who cares with who he sleeps so much, but the other theory is that someone via blackmailing them? Anyway, they made their decision, now they have to live with the consequences. In terms of facts we have someone who was effectively fired no apparent reason, in 48 hours. Scary. |
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| ▲ | canu7 a day ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Assuming what we perceive about the society from the sources we see theses days as the reality, is rather naive/dangerous. | |
| ▲ | deadbabe a day ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Only in the sense of how they can use it to further their own personal gain: clickbait, ragebait, pushing agendas, buying cheap stock, etc. The actual infidelity they really do not care about. To be honest, I think Jensen's wife herself probably knew about it and just didn't care either. A don't ask, don't tell scenario. | |
| ▲ | arthurofbabylon a day ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Which is odd, considering that JH is under suspicion of smuggling sanctioned military-related equipment to his country’s prime foreign adversary. | | |
| ▲ | bluegatty a day ago | parent | next [-] | | No he is not! Where do you people get this tabloid stuff? He's not being investigated for anything. The government did not even sanction the company and woman he was sleeping with, although there are allegations that she was selling GPU cycles to China, that's not him doing it. | |
| ▲ | celtain a day ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Two things can both be bad. | |
| ▲ | Markoff a day ago | parent | prev [-] | | > JH is under suspicion of smuggling sanctioned military-related equipment to his country’s prime foreign adversary. by "his country" you mean Taiwan/China or US? not sure ethnic Chinese born in Taiwan (China) holding Taiwanese/Chinese citizenship, see foreign adversaries as clearly as you see it | | |
| ▲ | ahartmetz a day ago | parent [-] | | Taiwan is opposed to mainland China at least as much as the US. Sure they are closer, but mainland China is also threatening to annex Taiwan. | | |
| ▲ | Markoff a day ago | parent [-] | | I think it's little bit more complicated for people with Chinese ethnicity (no matter whether from China or Taiwan) than you paint it, seems he had zero problems to have affair with mainland Chinese woman rather than Taiwanese (and he certainly knew she is not Singaporean unless he is very stupid), world ain't black and white as some US politicians trying to make it. | | |
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| ▲ | hnlmorg a day ago | parent | prev [-] | | People are enjoying the drama because Joe Public love watching a train wreck when it’s rich guys being immoral. But I’m not sure people actually care about it. However the Democrats definitely care about the illegal distribution and potential national security issue. Which is why the Chinese affair was only an issue after the midterms despite being known long before then. |
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| ▲ | FartyMcFarter a day ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | > One of the affairs has been public knowledge for months. Which one? I think you're exaggerating. There may have been unconfirmed rumours and gossip in some circles but that's about it. | |
| ▲ | bluegatty a day ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | People care about the infidelity somewhat. The 'asset' thing what drew scrutiny, its not why he is being fired. | |
| ▲ | jimbob45 a day ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Americans will also balk at sexual relations with a professional underling where it’s difficult to establish whether truly unconditional consent was given. | |
| ▲ | ctmlr a day ago | parent | prev [-] | | Closer but you have to read in between the lines :) |
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