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▲ landl0rd 4 hours ago

Yes, I can. The normalcy of a thing doesn't make it right. But this isn't really about whether absolute cultural relativism is appropriate or not. It's about a man who broke his word. Huang wed an American woman in America, not a French woman in France. Nothing about this situation indicates Huang's wife was remotely aware of nor alright with his philandery.

▲gwbas1c 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

> Huang wed an American woman in America

Please don't make the mistake of assuming that American culture is homogeneous: It's not.

▲landl0rd 3 hours ago | parent [-]

There's no major American subculture in which stepping out on your wife is "a good thing" or even "an okay thing". A vast majority of Americans poll consistently against adultery and it's often the most universally condemned action in surveys. Here's one example: https://news.gallup.com/poll/692801/adultery-cloning-seen-im...

▲cunnymcface 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Wait till you hear about what wives get up to at “board game night” in San Jose.

▲landl0rd 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

My mother had gotten "two wrongs don't make a right" through my head by about age four. It's still true. I don't know nor care what they're doing in San Jose.

▲cunnymcface 3 hours ago | parent [-]

Seems like what they’re doing in North America kind of undercuts your assumptions.

Perhaps it’s you that is out of touch?

Both partners in this case know and/or participate, you don’t want drama at your games night after all. There is no wrong here, it turns out that many partners like seeing their partner have a great time.

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