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▲ articulatepang 5 days ago

This argument ignores sexual selection and people's desire for status (the two are closely related). In many respects, many of us already have superabundance, in that our basic physical needs are taken care of. Yet we convince ourselves that's not enough and continue to work.

What is the object of that work, usually? The respect of others, exclusive limited resources like land, and to have highly desirable mates. These three are closely related, and that's probably not an accident. Sexual selection has likely been a powerful force in shaping our psychology.

Spending all day alone watching TikTok is low-status and doesn't get anyone's respect, so I predict that it won't actually be the thing that most people end up doing.

▲somesortofthing 5 days ago | parent | next [-]

People at the bottom of the status hierarchy will drop out to live in simulations that give them what they wanted but couldn't get from life. After a while, they'd likely choose to suppress their memories of ever having existed outside the simulation - there's nobody in the experience machine that'll judge you for doing it. With those people gone, the people immediately above them now occupy that bottom level, and the cycle repeats.

Whoever is in charge could try to drag those people back into the real world by force, but it's hard to imagine GPT 12.2 Polaris or Claude 9 Cinematic Universe giving that the green light. The Status Game will end with a single, final winner.

▲SpicyLemonZest 5 days ago | parent | next [-]

Why do you need to drop to some kind of simulation and memory suppressing? It seems like it would be sufficient to do what many subcultures do today - come up with reasons why my hobbies are the coolest and it’s actually the normies playing their status games who are missing out.

▲lurk2 5 days ago | parent | next [-]

This was Nietzsche’s chief criticism of Christianity. It is also a good summary of Reddit morality where social rejects build an inverted status pyramid. It’s amazing how Google made a few bad decisions on Search and it led to some of the most maladjusted people on earth becoming the internet’s point of reference for what is normal.

▲andai 5 days ago | parent [-]

Wait, how does Google fit in with it?

Also, Nietzsche's Last Man

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Last_man

> The last man is the archetypal passive nihilist. He is tired of life, takes no risks, and seeks only comfort and security. Therefore, the last man is unable to build and act upon a self-actualized ethos.

▲lurk2 5 days ago | parent [-]

> Wait, how does Google fit in with it?

A lot of people ended up on Reddit because they learned that they could append site:Reddit.com to their searches to get better results. Reddit was never exceptionally well-managed or technically impressive, it was just accessible in search results in a way that platforms like Facebook and Twitter became increasingly hostile to in the mid-2010s.

▲andai 5 days ago | parent [-]

What are the bad decisions that Google made then, in this context?

▲lurk2 3 days ago | parent [-]

You didn’t used to have to append the operator to find what you were looking for. People only started doing it because the relevance of Google search results declined.

▲zmgsabst 5 days ago | parent | prev [-]

There’s a less cynical take:

We create new hobbies and niches because human scale arenas are important for us psychologically — so we branch culture to accommodate the necessary number of role performance arenas.

Everybody is playing status games, but we’re avoiding Calhoun-style behavioral sinks by not all playing the same game at the same table.

▲oceanplexian 2 days ago | parent | next [-]

What nobody understands is people will move on to bigger and badder hobbies, like 100 years ago your hobbies might have been playing cards or maybe woodworking. 100 years from now your hobby won’t be debugging Python exceptions, it will be working on a fusion reactor in a friend’s garage over a couple beers.

▲SpicyLemonZest 5 days ago | parent | prev [-]

That's fair, I meant it in a more loving way than it came across. One of the great things about human culture is that we're happy to form impromptu hierarchies like that. You even have friend groups where people are happy to win an n=1 status game by being "the jeans guy", and everyone happily tells them how cool it is that they're so into selvedge denim.

▲0x1ch 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

To a lesser extent, myself and others already are in the 'simulation'. I go to work, go home, play some games or muck around in my lab, repeat. I don't really have aspirations or an outside presence, just focused on ignoring every manmade horror that has been shown to us over the past four years.

▲OrangeDelonge 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I feel (and not saying it to upset people) that this perfectly describes playing time-sink MMOs like WoW or Runescape.

▲trashface 5 days ago | parent [-]

As someone already essentially living the simulated life, I believe the problem with MMOs is they aren't built to withstand the amount of time a person with nothing else to do can throw at them. So then they get boring, and I end up reading hacker news and making dumb comments, and asking claude inane questions, or generally trying to find other simulation-friendly way to spend my time (not interacting with people though, that is hard mode).

▲harvey9 5 days ago | parent | next [-]

Slightly tangential: I get bored with most games very quickly but I am happy to sink time into messing around in code. I wanted to make a simulation of a real place and make it more interesting to a general audience than just showing stats and plots. in researching this I found there's quite a few people making city builder games for themselves and chronicling their projects on YouTube.

▲FreePalestine1 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Why do you consider yourself living in a simulation? Not to sound snarky but why don't you go outside and meet people, exercise, play sports, explore nature?

▲dopehare 2 days ago | parent | next [-]

>Not to sound snarky but why don't you go outside and meet people, exercise, play sports, and explore nature?

Lots of people don't find it worth it anymore. Most members of the public are the same and aren't free-thinkers, whatever that means to you. That's one reason-excuse I feel.

▲creata 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> Not to sound snarky but why don't you go outside and meet people, exercise, play sports, explore nature?

For many people it's shame. Feeling like you're mentally a child while everyone around you is an adult can't be a good feeling.

▲ro_sharp 5 days ago | parent | prev [-]

The average person in the developed world already spends the majority of their free time in front of a screen, and the share increases the younger they are.

Who’s not in the simulation at this point?

▲anthonypasq 4 days ago | parent | prev [-]

Serious question, why do people feel motivated to grind gold in video games, but not money in real life?

▲benlivengood 4 days ago | parent | next [-]

Instant gratification on rails, essentially.

On one hand you have slots/roulette/craps gambling where payout or loss is immediate. Next come candy crush style games where time invested per session is minimal but extant, but reward continues to stream with flashy graphics for accomplishing subgoals. Next come longer-term games like 4x or tower defence where there's progression or some sort (often available to skill or how much time you have to spend) where payoff is delayed to the end but there are still progress rewards like new technology or beating a wave of enemies. Finally RPGs and MMOs where there is (often) no final payout but leveling up, completing quests, acquiring special items, etc. happens at a pace that rewards time spent. At no time is the next step mysterious; there's a journal with next steps which will each provide their own rewards.

Contrast that with real life where reward is on a fixed schedule (N paychecks a month) with no short-term feedback on performance. At best a short "good work" reward fairly rarely from management. There are subtler rewards people get like socialization or status, but they aren't on a quest journal and they arrive less frequently for most people.

I think for extroverts in high social contact jobs it may actually be as rewarding as gaming, e.g. direct sales.

Contractors and spot workers (day laborers, etc.) also get a bit more frequent reward feedback, but far fewer rails unless it's a very canned pipeline of clients.

Contrast with the ancestral environment where hunting or gathering had minutes or hours between reward feedback and our natural senses and instincts provided a lot of the rails (hunger, visual attention to animals and edible plants, potential mates).

▲anthonypasq 4 days ago | parent [-]

this sounds really dumb, but it seems that if people are that motivated by progress bars and blinking lights and flashy animations, we should really be developing video game HUDs into AR headsets to get people to grind in real life instead of video games.

▲sjducb 3 days ago | parent [-]

I sort of did that. In October 2019 I started calculating my net worth every month. I have lots of graphs and charts.

Now I’m a FI millionaire who works because it’s the best way to meet interesting people my age. I look forward to when AI frees everyone from work and they have time to do fun stuff during the day too.

▲dTal 4 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Games are designed to incentivize you to stay in them. Real life has you as a captive audience, and to the extent that it's "designed", it is designed by people also playing the game, against you who have no incentive to encourage you to try harder to beat them.

▲opan 4 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I like that I can hop on at any time of day, make some progress, hop off any time. I don't have to wake with an alarm and stay out gold farming for 8 hours with 2 or 3 short breaks. I don't have to leave the house. I don't have to talk to anyone. I grew up with MMOs like Graal Online, RuneScape, MapleStory, etc. I have been extremely disappointed by the real world's version of jobs and money. Gold in a game often feels more useful as well. I have actual needs for it. Real life by contrast is vaguely like "work forever and keep making money because that's just what you're supposed to do".

▲superxpro12 4 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

in the game, the success is guaranteed. Time in = gold out.

IRL, success is NOT guaranteed. time in does not necessarily yield additional income.

in the former case, the reward pathway in the brain is satisfied, so why risk it?

▲anthonypasq 4 days ago | parent [-]

how does an hourly wage not satisfy what you are talking about

▲Der_Einzige 4 days ago | parent | prev [-]

These are the same thing often times. Venezuelans made more money bottling GP in RuneScape than they did in their home country working real jobs.

▲digitalsquare 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

The movie The Congress explores the ideas of control through society-scale simulation and the loss of one's real identity when immersed in that setting, much like what you suggest. It's a visual trip, thoroughly thought provoking, and I highly recommend it

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1821641/

▲sidewndr46 5 days ago | parent [-]

Isn't the whole concept of 'real identity' phony anyways? Just something we tell ourselves to rationalize our current circumstance?

▲digitalsquare 4 days ago | parent [-]

I suppose it's as real as the circumstances around it, and that's one's own perspective. That's not to say that identity can't be malleable in a sense

▲Apocryphon 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I don’t fully agree with your thesis, but good prospective future model version names.

▲creata 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> Whoever is in charge could try to drag those people back into the real world by force

But why would you even want that? They like it in the simulation, and nobody really wants to deal with them outside the simulation.

▲archimedes237 5 days ago | parent [-]

Because if they check out into the simulation then the people formerly above them are now the lowest on the totem pole and maybe they dont want that.

▲creata 5 days ago | parent [-]

They've already "checked out" in reality (NEETs, etc.) but they're still "lowest on the totem pole". The people who feel superior to them seem content to do so from afar, to belittle them from the comfort of social media.

▲articulatepang 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

My math brain is immediately broken by your irrefutably correct induction argument!

▲Der_Einzige 4 days ago | parent | prev [-]

I unironically want this world as soon as possible.

▲notabee 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

The objects of status are quite flexible culturally, though. Cultural anthropology shows us a huge variety of ways that different cultures handle status competition. People will definitely still compete for status but what that entails could look very different from our current toxic grindset culture. Much like sports often serve as a substitute outlet for the same instincts that lead to fighting or war, that social selection will find different outlets that don't have to be literal survival battles for much of the population if we can create different material and cultural conditions.

▲bluefirebrand 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> In many respects, many of us already have superabundance, in that our basic physical needs are taken care of.

They might be right now, but for most of us they aren't next month. Or next year. Or for the years after retirement

"We convince ourselves it's not enough" completely misses the fact that for most of us it isn't, past the very short term!

▲FreePalestine1 5 days ago | parent [-]

You're on hackernews. There's quite a few millionaires on here. I think they'll be okay.

Just go look at any successful millionaire/founder/whatever on LinkedIn. They're still working hard on something. Elon Musk has a freaking trillion dollars yet he still "works".

Why? I actually don't know. I'll let you know once I'm there.

▲bluefirebrand 3 days ago | parent [-]

I mean.. yeah, I know this is hacker news and there are some very wealthy people here, but I suspect the majority of users here could not possibly retire tomorrow if they wanted to

Or maybe I'm an outlier for being solidly working class, idk

▲bambax 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> and to have highly desirable mates

The younger generation doesn't seem to date much, and this appears to be true in most countries.

▲anyrat 5 days ago | parent | next [-]

As part of mentioned younger generation aka 16 and German I can tell you its true that classic dating is close to dead at least for most people in my age group here but friend groups and friends becoming partners slowly is the way we build relationships. And that erases the need for classic dating becouse simply hanging around with the group is more exposure than any date. But I'm the kind of 16 year old reading HN so I'm probably not the normal 16 year old German even though I think in this aspect I am like the rest of my generation.

▲watwut 5 days ago | parent | next [-]

As someone much older, "friend groups and friends becoming partners slowly" was the way we build relationships too.

I dont know what you mean by "classic dating", but what you describe spunds "normal and healthy" to me.

▲wryoak 5 days ago | parent | prev [-]

That’s part of the classic way of dating. Going out with people who aren’t your friends is what happens when you’ve fucked your way through your entire friend group and want to meet someone new.

▲Der_Einzige 4 days ago | parent [-]

Unfortunately most of these Gen Z’s (well, the men) are actual incels. As such, the only thing they get to fuck is their hands

▲boogieknite 5 days ago | parent | prev [-]

personally i think pursuit of highly desireable mates has changed culturally. i feel like several generations of children of divorce driving media makes it so many young people know to second guess their instinct to pursue "trophy" mates

▲dominotw 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> In many respects, many of us already have superabundance, in that our basic physical needs are taken care of. Yet we convince ourselves that's not enough and continue to work.

Almost no one is usa has 'enough' to pay for healthcare. My daughter's nicu bill was 750k, which would've easily bankrupted me.

▲articulatepang 5 days ago | parent [-]

Hey, sorry to hear about that crazy bill and hope your daughter is doing well. I agree that your example is a basic need that I ignored. Many of us work to make sure we’re able to pay for healthcare if things go badly wrong.

However, even in countries with socialized healthcare, or even among people who easily have enough wealth to pay for healthcare, we see that they continue to work, beyond what can be explained by a desire to take care of basic needs.

So I think my original argument still stands: it appears that humans have a desire to accumulate status and exclusive goods, even when their basic needs are satisfied. Let me know if you disagree!

▲mrguyorama 5 days ago | parent [-]

No, your understanding isn't correct. The vast majority of "average" people cannot stop working and cannot survive off their income.

The cost of somewhere to live has gone up so much that even people like me, with an absurd amount of cash in the bank account, can't leave work and try to survive because it would be wiped out by 3 years of rent.

How many average laborers in a country with fully socialized medicine can afford a decade of rent off their current savings? How many could do that even if they magically found a way to cut other expenses in half?

I could eliminate my electric bill, my internet bill, my grocery bill, all my bills other than rent, and the money saved per year would pay for an extra month or so of rent. That is the entire problem. No amount of frugality can paper over this systemic problem.

When my mother raised us in poverty, it was necessary to play games with utilities, which ones you cancelled which months, to make ends meet. This was actually worth doing, because skipping the $20 cable payment one month was about 1/10th of the monthly house payment. A year of skipping cable could pay for a month of rent. If I skipped a year of much more expensive cable internet, I could not use that to pay even a single month of rent. There's a lot of dumb money being spent, with my personal pet peeve being cell phones, but if a person "doesn't need" the newest iPhone and went without to be frugal, often they haven't even gotten back a single month's rent. What the fuck is the point of living in serious poverty just so that you can extend your rent runway by less than 10%?

The only people in current society who can actually afford to survive off the wealth they have accumulated are called capital owners and you will find that indeed, they are rarely doing things they don't "want" to do, and no, the time they spend really shouldn't be considered "work" since they sign their own paychecks most of the time.

Running a business is work, but if I get to decide what my business does, I don't get to then insist that my side hobbies that I've started doing under the name of my business are also work.

▲andai 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

The last part reminded me of this story. "Screen time is a lower class problem."

Covered in the first 2 minutes of this video:

https://youtube.com/watch?v=e9wUam96eH0

▲fasterik 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

What about working on things for the intrinsic value of learning, challenging oneself, creating something useful or beautiful, or the satisfaction of a job well done? Sure, social status is one motivator among many, but I find this genre of evolutionary psychology extremely reductive and empirically dubious.

▲abraxas 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

But in the absence of any human driven task that meaningfully improves well being the way to signal status will likely devolve into some form of fighting. The display of status might be narrowed to demonstrating who can kill more. Either literally kill or at best partake in some arbitrarily conceived games or intrigues designed (by AI?) to flag status.

▲zmgsabst 5 days ago | parent | next [-]

Humans still successfully compete in chess status because other humans like watching humans compete.

I suspect it will be similar.

▲dugidugout 4 days ago | parent [-]

Finally my idealized living can be achieved and I can play mahjong until I sleep!

▲jjk7 5 days ago | parent | prev [-]

Hunger games vs. MeowMeowBeenz

▲DeluluDon 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I spend most of my day alone at work reading HN comments while women at work want to talk to me.

Nah, I'd rather read comments like yours.

▲pjerem 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

This argument also seems totally american lifestyle centered where even your hobbies needs to be productive.

My brother installed Bazzite just for the fun and he is learning things about the computer and he just seems to be curious. That's totally improductive for him : he is actually trying to launch a business around flowers delivery, and not your typical uber-like startup. He is buying a truck and will work for its previous clients. But still, he is learning linux because that looks cool. He is also trying to learn piano.

Me ? If I didnt have to work in an AI utopia, I'd go on the skatepark everyday doing rollerblading tricks, socializing and learning from other rollerbladers. There is nothing less productive than rollerblading, it's not even a practical mean of transportation. It's just fun and humans love to socialize around fun things.

I don't think we'll ever get to this AI utopia. I think we are either going full cyberpunk or extinct by our own. But would it happen, I'm not sure I'd be on tiktok watching AI slop all the day.

I'd even go as far as saying that without work, the humans would be able to remove the social mask that working involves and that it would make use more human.

▲jon128 4 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

The status thing really got turned on it head around late 2015 when more GetThingsDone oriented groups detected that Facebook was actively engineering social consensus through orchestrated shadowbanning.

The prigs are oh so high status .. to other prigs.

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▲nirui 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> exclusive limited resources like land

I think you almost hit something more important there. Desires like mating, respect, status etc can only exists with the entities that needs it, but what if the existence of those entities is fundamentally no longer needed? Why then should "the society" maintain it? It's known that a society less burden advances faster, and it's also known that countries need to move fast to stay competitive.

I believe future is much grimmer for people currently living, because if productivity can increase without the import of human labors, then eventually the humans will simply not be kept alive. Meaning, shrink in human population, and even more intense competition for fewer still competitiable resources etc. Of course you'll are not hanging out, you're too busy doing hard labor the robots still can't yet do.

All of this is easy to see if you understand that human societies are not built to advance and provide, instead they are fundamentally built to fairly distribute resources from ones who's non-productive, to ones are. And most type of societies that is alive and well today is very good at that.

Also, off-topic here: most people confused the word "productivity" with something like "hard work", it's not that. I'll give you the readers some examples: Elon Musk can build and launch rockets that carries actual people to space safely, but you can't (so far) no matter how hard you work, and thus Elon Musk is more productive than you; Jeff Bezos (so far) deliver goods to millions of people or more each year, but you can't no matter how hard you try, and thus Jeff Bezos is more productive than you. That's what "productivity" actually mean, not "I work my ass off everyday so I deserve to get paid more". And that's the real reason why these guys are rich and you're not, not because rich people are evil, but because they found their way to be productive and thus they get rich.

▲autoexec 5 days ago | parent [-]

> Elon Musk can build and launch rockets that carries actual people to space safely, but you can't no matter how hard you work, and thus Elon Musk is more productive than you

Elon Musk can't build shit. All he can do is pay people to do it for him while he sits on his ass and takes a cut from all of the worker's knowledge and labor. He just makes sure he gets the credit (https://sciencesensei.com/heres-who-really-invents-the-amazi...). Jeff Bezos doesn't deliver goods to anybody at all. He underpays low wage drivers who actually deliver goods and he makes them piss in water bottles so that he can stuff his pockets with the pennies it would cost if they could take bathroom breaks and have a shred of human dignity. The companies they own aren't run by them either. They pay a bunch of people better skilled and qualified to manage the operations.

The special skill that the people with the most have is exploitation. Most of them were born into money, a few of them lucked into it, but they took that money and they found ways to take as much as possible from the people who actually have the skills and put in the work to make things happen, and they do it while claiming all the credit for labor they didn't spend a minute of their lives actually doing. What you call "productive" is literally just exploitation and self-marketing. Marketing that you fell for hook line and sinker.

▲nirui 5 days ago | parent [-]

> The special skill that the people with the most have is exploitation

If you're non-exploiting, then you should start a company to compete with the people who do. This is how the world actually work, don't just demanding, compete too. And if it worked, it could show that you don't need to be exploitative to remain competitive, it'll be a much greater world if everyone sees that.

▲autoexec 5 days ago | parent [-]

> it could show that you don't need to be exploitative to remain competitive

You can't be "competitive" by not fucking over others when that's the entire game being played. You'll never get to be #1 at "who sits on largest pile of money" by paying people an honest wage while your opponents are using slaves. The best you can hope for is that government steps in to change the game, and act as referee in order to keep everyone playing fairly. At that point the winner won't be the person with the most money, it will be the person who does the most good.

The game right now rewards whoever puts out the cheapest garbage at the highest price. Companies who make a good product enshitify it so they can make more money. They move production into countries that use slaves to build products that poison consumers with heavy metals and are designed to fail so they have to be replaced. They remotely disable features you paid for and turn them into subscriptions. They buy up or bankrupt competition so that consumers have less choice and they become increasingly unavoidable. They drive down wages and costs at every opportunity and their wealth grows at unprecedented rates.

The game we should be playing would reward the person whose company produces the best products at the lowest prices. It should reward the workers who do the most work. The craftsmen who create works of art. The companies who rise to the top should be the ones who have earned the most trust and loyalty from consumers. You should never hear another person say "I feel horrible about buying anything from that company, but I don't know what else do to!" There should be no products made using slaves. There should be no companies hiding the fact that their products are poisoning consumers. There should be no employee working 40 hours a week who still needs welfare to meet their basic needs, and no one being forced to piss in bottles. No need for suicide nets.

We don't need robber barons and parasites to have nice things, and what we're still allowed to own will only get worse until we rid ourselves of them, but until they are finally gone they will do everything in their power to make certain that no one who is wiling to do it without exploitation can threaten their ability to take more and more and more from everyone else.

▲bor3dnrd 2 days ago | parent | prev [-]

In the US 85%ish live <100 miles from their childhood home

Fewer people than you want to believe from staring into a filter bubble of HN approved tech startup/disrupt! psychosis generator care about impressing a billionaire investor

People out there have fucked animals for sexual release

Don't anthropomorphize the humans; they don't have a reliable track record of being worth the respect. They’re animals and care more about enslavement of each others minds and agency to the benefit of a toxic minority of codependent losers who are too lazy to learn how to rotate a tire or flip a burger on their own