| ▲ | resters an hour ago | ||||||||||||||||
There are some of us (late generation-X / early millennial) who saw this coming and still maintain a variety of separate identities across many domains. I don't know why someone would want to have the same identity in the workplace as on internet forums, for example. Social media appears to have given many people the idea that they ought to cultivate their public identity from an early age as preparation for internet fame / personal branding. | |||||||||||||||||
| ▲ | pluralmonad 38 minutes ago | parent | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||
I think this is one reason online anonymity is so important for some of us. It is the thing that let's us tamp down the great unification, at least a little. | |||||||||||||||||
| ▲ | ekabod 39 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||
The article explains the distinction between identity and character. You are talking about character. | |||||||||||||||||
| ▲ | giraffe_lady an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||
If you keep them distinct unification is a weapon to be used against you. You're writing your own blackmail someone just has to call you on it. With prose fingerprinting, sophisticated tracking, now your identities are only separate by rapidly eroding social convention. Intentionally merging them allows you to have control over the process, and helps you maintain discipline about what you reveal where. If you don't do it it will be done to you. | |||||||||||||||||
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| ▲ | MithrilTuxedo 32 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||
I'm not a neurotypical xenial, but I wasn't any good at compartmentalizing, or when I tried maintaining different identities it didn't feel honest, like I was pretending. I didn't like the thought of anyone ever seeing sides of me that were inconsistent with each other. | |||||||||||||||||
| ▲ | thomastjeffery an hour ago | parent | prev [-] | ||||||||||||||||
Unfortunately that isn't a solution. When you keep separate identities, the only thing that can exist across platforms is your own participation. Everything you say and do is isolated to whichever identity and platform you are using in that moment. You still don't have the opportunity to exist completely, because your self has been fragmented. Even if you did manage to create a cross-platform identity, the product of your participation is fragmented, and every story you tell is objective to that platform's context. Even if you tell a story that links across platforms, you are still isolated to that specific cross-platform context. | |||||||||||||||||
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