The problem isn't time. Most men never learned to maintain friendships without a shared context like school or work holding it together. When that scaffolding disappears, so do the friendships.

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vincnetas 2 hours ago | parent [-]

any suggestions how to do that?

	▲	interloxia 23 minutes ago \| parent \| next [-]
		Selfless effort. Be willing to ask for help with something, anything, even if you don't need it. I can cut down a tree. But it's fun with friends. I can do bad home renno but it's an in to keeping up with friends with a quick photo of the latest win/fail on signal /whatever floats your boat. Because they're friends they might just say yes. It's OK to ask them how they're going. Sometimes they will reply sometimes not and that's OK too.
	▲	jareklupinski 2 hours ago \| parent \| prev \| next [-]
		i try to keep tabs on restaurants opening around me, and if one has something interesting, i text pretty much every friend i have if they want to check it out with me only a few respond each time, and only about half the time one or two can make it out, but over time eventually all of them do
	▲	nickthegreek an hour ago \| parent \| prev [-]
		d&d, bowling league, discord.