or how to get labeled as a creep by every women

joke or not (actually not) but read some women spaces and it's obviously a lot of people, especially women, just want to be let alone. Don't start talking with random people unless they start talking to you and it's consensual, simple as that.

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latexr an hour ago | parent | next [-]

> or how to get labeled as a creep by every women

If you’re a man and go into it with the mindset of only talking to women, especially attractive ones, then of course that would get you labeled as a creep because it is creep behaviour. That’s not striking up a conversation with strangers, it’s hitting on women. You have to approach anyone equally. Address the attractive woman the same way you approach the old man on the bus stop.

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tbossanova 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Yeah but if everyone follows that then nobody ever talks to anyone “random” ever. The key is to just not be creepy. Some little low stakes thing that can just end easily if they don’t want to chat. “Such a long wait for this bus. Should have brought a book.” If you get a brief response, fine, end of conversation. Otherwise, then you can chat.

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jaapz 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> Don't start talking with random people unless they start talking to you

Nobody would talk with anybody if both sides thought like that

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medi8r 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Common sense applies. If someone is on a run, dont bother them. If you are in a queue I think make a comment is OK if theh respond keep talking.

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hresvelgr 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

It's only creepy if you are a creep.

	▲	fuzzfactor 33 minutes ago \| parent [-]
		That's exactly right, you've got to be an unmistakable gentleman, which is just the opposite. As everybody knows that's still often not enough, but why shoot yourself in the foot when you're trying to put your best foot forward? I'll never forget the day some sophisticated gentlemen came to my school and introduced one of their big hit songs that night. How there's 5 little words so many single women love to hear, "Hey Girl, What's Your Name?" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=09w6_q0Chxk If you look at the lyrics it is a bit straightforward for the 21st century, I think the best approach now is to compress it to only 4 words, "Hi, What's Your Name?". Even that can be a bit much in the wrong situation, so it can be good to seek out the opposite type of situation :) You might keep that on your mind but from there let things try to imply the rest of the lyrics, especially the part that goes "Can I Be Your Friend?"