| ▲ | MontyCarloHall 7 hours ago |
| >I know it seems hard, but just stop using Google, Amazon, Meta products. I noticed your own app's website [0] hosts videos on YouTube [1] and uses Stripe as a payment processor [2], which is hosted on AWS. You also mentioned that your app is vibe coded [3]; the AI labs that facilitated your vibecoding likely built and run their models using Meta's PyTorch or Google's TensorFlow. "Just stop using" makes for a catchy manifesto in HackerNews comments, but the reality is a lot more complicated than that. [0] https://wordsunite.us/ [1] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AbCM99cz9W8 [2] https://wordsunite.us/terms [3] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=45644698 |
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| ▲ | oceansky 7 hours ago | parent | next [-] |
| Someone commented on a HN threads on just de-googling and he couldn't even pick up his kids without a gmail or apple account. Just not using it is really unrealistic for the average person at this moment |
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| ▲ | devsda 6 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | I know it is probably not the American way but the only way to address this problem is to make laws that prevent a duopoly, penalize anti-competitive behavior and push open-source standards for software/hardware. Unfortunately, the status quo also means the US (and its tech giants) has real power and control over other countries' technology sector. So, no party in America will make or enforce laws that will change the status quo within the country or overseas. | | |
| ▲ | Quothling 6 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Even in the EU we can't use a lot of "society important" smartphone apps without Google Play or the Apple Store. I can get a physical key thing for my national digital ID, but I can't get anything for my bank, my healthcare (which is a public service in Denmark) or any of our national digital post services. You can apply to get exempt from the digital post services, and they do have a website sollution, but still. Don't get me wrong. I appreachiate all the work being done to get Europe out of the claws of US tech companies, but I think having an official EU app store alternative would be a good start. | | |
| ▲ | drnick1 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | > Even in the EU we can't use a lot of "society important" smartphone apps without Google Play or the Apple Store. Install GrapheneOS on a Pixel. Most Android apps just work, and unlike the stock OS, it does not spy on you. | | |
| ▲ | coffe2mug an hour ago | parent | next [-] | | This doesn't help. Your contact number is shared by 50 parents' phone..are you sure of their security measures. Even if I keep everything safe many govts are using Microsoft cloudfor day2day operations. Recently my employer lost tons of data. Every CV you send to a company or recruitment is kept often unencrypted. Every other country is fingerprinting/face ID upon arrival. Are you sure about their security? Things that I have dumped into my email are far less consequential compared to those. The game is lost. Very few people can have privacy. | |
| ▲ | brnt 41 minutes ago | parent | prev [-] | | A Pixel is depending on Google. | | |
| ▲ | drnick1 24 minutes ago | parent [-] | | Parent mentioned not using the Play Store or the Apple Store. The hardware Graphene runs on is kind of irrelevant for that. I don't see a problem with paying Google for hardware that I am free to use as I like; unlike other manufacturers the bootloader is unlockable, which means the stock OS can be replaced. |
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| ▲ | throwawayqqq11 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | I have little hope, since the EU is lobbyist-infested like the US, but there is a chance the EU will fund FOSS platforms over centralized solutions. There are already several EU wide or national funds for that and it would help immensly when that money would go to burning out solo devs and maybe even to orgs like mozilla. https://eu-stf.openforumeurope.org/ | |
| ▲ | shevy-java 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | In my opinion there is a too strong connection now between these private corporations and "politicians". Everyone can be bribed. The only way I see a change possibility is for people to think about how to change this collectively. Pushing for open source everywhere would be one partial strategy that could work in certain areas. | | |
| ▲ | joquarky 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | How do we accomplish such abstract goals when 54% of U.S. adults aged 16–74 read below a sixth-grade level? |
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| ▲ | JumpCrisscross 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | > it is probably not the American way but the only way to address this problem is to make laws Regulation and liberty mongering are very American. We do it constantly at multiple levels of government. What kills privacy regulation is this weird strain of political nihilism that seems to strongly intersect with those who care about the issue. I've personally worked on a few bills in my time. The worst, by far, were anything to do with privacy. If you assume you're defeated by forces that be, you're never going to probe that hypothesis. | |
| ▲ | Henchman21 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | You are incorrect. There is another way to address this problem and I suspect it will come to this: average people will begin attempting to destroy data centers and their interconnection points. Your trillion dollar investment to control the populace ain't worth shit when its on fire and the monkeys are hurling flaming shit at you. | |
| ▲ | brookst 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | What law would you propose, and have you thought through unintended consequences? | |
| ▲ | this_user 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | > make laws that prevent a duopoly, penalize anti-competitive behavior and push open-source standards for software/hardware. None of this is legally easy to implement or enforce, and any attempt of doing it is virtually guaranteed to create an unbelievable amount of unintended consequences as people figure out ways to game this new set of rules. | | |
| ▲ | devsda 6 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | We need something similar to FIPS for interoperable software and standards. Organizations will fall in line when money is at stake. Say for example your local/state/federal agency publishes (or accepts) documents exclusively in ods/odf instead of proprietary formats, that will automatically drive adoption of software and prevent lock-in. | | |
| ▲ | rzerowan 5 hours ago | parent [-] | | Agressive interoperability at the protpcol and exchange format - its why email mostly works even forcing Google to back off when they tried to change email to be rendered by their cdn (i forget the name of the offering - but was similar to what news pages were being pushed for speedup).
Bad actors will always abound - like Microsoft spiking the documnt standards by pushing through ooxml when odt/odf was gaining traction.
Or basically just coercing the decision makers like in Berlin(?) where they moved their offices into hte city to get them to drop Linux/Openoffice. | | |
| ▲ | IcyWindows 26 minutes ago | parent [-] | | Re: ooxml vs odt/odf I've heard that both have parts of the spec that are hard to implement if you don't have the software to verify. How is it a bad thing that both major office software are now documented? |
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| ▲ | kahrl 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | [flagged] |
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| ▲ | shevy-java 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | While that may be true, people need to start somewhere. Otherwise the future will just be even more sniffing done by private entities. Do we want a sneaky Skynet that looks more like 1984? | | |
| ▲ | joquarky 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | The guy who is obsessed with using Lord of the Rings to name his companies certainly does want that. |
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| ▲ | bad_haircut72 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Everything counts, this attitude is very defeatist. Stop using it the easy ways at first, and then make conscious steps to get off these services going forward. | | |
| ▲ | prophesi 4 hours ago | parent [-] | | It's probably at the same scale as gas/oil companies and recycling at this point. I'd like to believe my individual efforts will make a dent in the surveillance state, but at this volume legislation is truly the only meaningful effort to defang these multi-billion dollar companies. |
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| ▲ | trinsic2 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Yea I noticed many of these sevices won't allow an email address not hosted with a provider that wasn't Google,Microsoft, or apple where they can collect other details. I think i tried to sign up for VanceAI, it would only accept gmail or discord connected account as a sign in. | | |
| ▲ | rsync 3 hours ago | parent [-] | | "... tried to sign up for VanceAI, it would only accept gmail or discord connected account as a sign in ..." I don't know what "VanceAI" is but I am confused ... why would they not want corporate (as in, Fortune 500) users to sign up ? |
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| ▲ | prmoustache 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | > [...] and he couldn't even pick up his kids without a gmail or apple account. How so? | | |
| ▲ | jasonjayr 6 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | A lot of schools use apps like 'ParentSquare' to interact and manage the student/teacher/parent relationship, and do not offer the same level of communication through traditional channels anymore. | | |
| ▲ | SoftTalker 6 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | This is because social media has trained today's young parents to be completely entitled assholes and teachers can only take so much of their abuse. What teacher is going to want to sit down for a conference with a parent who whips out a phone to record the meeting and then posts selectively edited excerpts online in order to get a few upvotes on a social platform. | |
| ▲ | prmoustache 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | And these apps require a google account? | | |
| ▲ | jasonjayr 5 hours ago | parent [-] | | They require a phone that can log into an App store, so unless parents can work around that, then yes? | | |
| ▲ | jjulius 3 hours ago | parent [-] | | Nonsense. My kid just started kindergarten this past year - I've never been required to log into ParentSquare through a GMail address and I have only ever accessed it through a browser on a laptop. (Damn, I failed at my attempt to stop posting.) | | |
| ▲ | joquarky 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | The web is no better than phone apps when it comes to data gathering. Maybe the data is a little fuzzier, but you can be assured it's being gathered all the same as it is in phone apps. |
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| ▲ | devsda 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | In our part of the world that's Meta/WhatsApp. All school and class related information is shared exclusively via WhatsApp communities. | |
| ▲ | oceansky 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | He needed to verify his identity via an app at pick up time, and needed an gmail/apple account as part of the process. I don't remember which app. | | |
| ▲ | rolph 4 hours ago | parent [-] | | bring my kids now or i will call the police and you will be charged with abduction. | | |
| ▲ | mvanbaak 17 minutes ago | parent | next [-] | | and how are you going to prove your ID? you might as well be the one abducting them, and especially if you refuse to use an app to identify yourself... (playing devils advocate here) | |
| ▲ | joquarky 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | You must have a complexion on the lighter side if you think calling the police is the best solution to something like this. | | |
| ▲ | rolph an hour ago | parent [-] | | thats about as calm as it gets, if my kids were abducted because im not using an app. |
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| ▲ | iugtmkbdfil834 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Oh well, I guess there is nothing to be done. Pack it up everyone. It is over. You can't do anything. No one can learn anything. No. You heard the guy above. It is over. Go home. Do nothing. | |
| ▲ | Schiendelman 7 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Apple isn't on the evil list, aside from the kowtowing every powerful leader must do not to have their business attacked. | | |
| ▲ | embedding-shape 6 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | > Apple isn't on the evil list Yeah, Tim Apple handing over a 24-karat gold plaque to the sitting president is completely normal behavior for CEOs to engage in, and not at all about just making as much money as possible. He had to do that, otherwise Apple as a company would disappear tomorrow. They're just trying to survive. | | |
| ▲ | ambicapter 6 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Unless you're going to demonstrate that handing over a golden plaque implies handing over privacy data to government agencies, I'm going to prefer the former over the latter. | | |
| ▲ | somenameforme 5 hours ago | parent [-] | | Apple has already been outed as one of the participating companies in PRISM. [1] So that privacy boat has long since sailed. The public legal wrangling is likely just a mutually beneficial facade. PRISM is almost certainly illegal, but nobody can legally challenge it because the data provided from it is never directly used. Law enforcement engage in parallel construction [2] where they obtain the same evidence in a different way. So nobody can prove they were harmed by PRISM, and thus all challenges against it get tossed for lack of standing. It's very dumb. But in any case the legal battles work as nice PR for Apple (see how much we care about privacy) and also as a great scenario for the government because any battles they win are domains where they can now legally use information directly to the courts and sidestep the parallel construction. That also takes the burden off of Apple PR in giving that information up because it can be framed as the courts and government forcing them, rather than them collaborating in mass data collection. [1] - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PRISM [2] - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parallel_construction |
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| ▲ | brookst 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | I don’t like that we’ve gotten to a place where presumably serious people think that giving a token prize to a narcissist is the same thing as engaging in massive surveillance of the entire population. | | |
| ▲ | wredcoll 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | If you or I had complete knowledge of all of apple's activities, this would be a more relevant point. Instead we have to make judgements based on what limited information we possess and sucking up to trump is a real bad sign for things like caring about privacy/liberty/safety | |
| ▲ | embedding-shape 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | > presumably serious people think that giving a token prize to a narcissist Unfortunately, I think reality is much worse than you seem to be under the impression of. Voter suppression and military violence against your own population isn't "narcissism", it's the introduction of authoritarianism. The flagrant narcissism is a symptom of that, not the actual issue. |
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| ▲ | anonym29 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Apple was a PRISM partner. They share just as much with the NSA as Microsoft and Google. | | |
| ▲ | gruez 6 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | >They share just as much with the NSA as Microsoft and Google. For something like icloud vs gmail/gdrive, they're approximately the same, but that doesn't mean "they share just as much [...] as Microsoft and Google. If they never collected data in the first place, they don't have to share with NSA. The most obvious would be for location data, which apple keeps on-device and google did not (although they did switch to on device a few years ago). | |
| ▲ | mrcwinn 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Remember when Apple PR spent a bunch of time putting Tim Cook alongside images of RFK? Civil rights hero! That campaign wouldn’t land these days. | | |
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| ▲ | jbstack 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| It doesn't have to be a binary choice between "don't use it ever" and "continue using it as much as you are now". If people stopped using these services 50% of the time, it would have a huge impact. |
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| ▲ | random2021 4 hours ago | parent [-] | | In concept what you say is correct but reality is complex. There are very few providers that implement friction free login/password and importantly security. A large number of email providers didn't implement 2FA until very recently. Even those that have terrible apps, ad infested, no app password or oAuth etc. so many governments use MS hosted services. It is akin to Visa/MasterCard duopoly. It is hard to escape but even if one does it then it resulted only inconvenience. I still don't have my cards in phone - neither will google change path nor will govts force a change. | | |
| ▲ | jbstack 35 minutes ago | parent [-] | | I don't see any contradiction here with what I said. If you feel that using Google for email is unavoidable, that can be the part that you keep using. You can still easily ditch a lot of other things. E.g. Pixel phone, Google Docs, Google Drive, AWS. Each of those has plenty of, arguably better, alternatives. |
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| ▲ | nxpnsv 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| But you can still reduce your exposure. Giving in to hopelessness seems suboptimal. |
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| ▲ | wordsunite 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| The comments are fair. My post was quick and lacked details as I was frustrated in the ever increasing enshitification of the web. What I meant to convey, from my personal experience, is that it seemed hard to get off of platforms like X, Facebook, Instagram, Amazon Prime, Alexa, Ring, Google Photos, etc. but then I did it and didn’t miss them. These small moves by a lot of people, I believe, can still make a difference. It’s not perfect, but it’s something. Do I still use some services? Of course, I have Gmail and WhatsApp, and use a lot of Apple products. When I can, I choose intentionally what I use since there’s no perfect companies out there, but there are “better” ones (whatever that may be in one’s opinion). I chose cloudflare for hosting and Anthropic for vibe coding. Allowing people to use existing login info versus exposing them to more risk with self managed auth was a choice I made. There are tons of choices we make every day so trying to be more intentional is a good start. Nobody is perfect, but we can try to improve each day in these choices we make. |
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| ▲ | ironsmoke 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Perfect is the enemy of good. |
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| ▲ | miyuru 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| his app has also Google, Apple logins and for first time I have seen, login with meta button. https://app.wordsunite.us/ |
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| ▲ | iririririr 7 hours ago | parent | prev [-] |
| Talking about anti-tech-monopolies and using Stripe-paypal is extra ironic. I can understand aws, youtube, being on google index, and other things as they sometimes are the most cost efficient or vendors don't offer alternatives... but stripe-paypal is more expensive and worse than the less-bad alternatives. jeez. |