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bflesch 4 hours ago

Can you name some people who are working there and who you look up to? I need some new idols after the old idols all went up in MAGA and Epstein files .

shimman 4 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Well one, don't look up to people you personally don't know. Parasocial relationships are not healthy. Look into your local community for people to be mentors or help you.

That said I like Bryan Cantrill as an engineer and leader, but I would never put him on a pedestal.

oconnor663 3 hours ago | parent [-]

On the other hand, it's normal to have heroes, and to need to have them.

Eldt 2 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Heroes like Spiderman and Batman? Or strangers that put on a mask, and whose public image is maintained by PR firms?

kortilla an hour ago | parent | prev [-]

Not really, that’s what leads to parasocial relationships.

Nobody is flawless and part of becoming an adult is learning to admire specific qualities rather than obsess over individuals.

surajrmal 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

It's best to avoid idolizing folks. It can give you a skewed set of expectations and lead you to resent them when inevitably they cannot live up those those expectations (which is unfair to them), and possibly lower your own self esteem if you cannot meet those same standards yourself.

embedding-shape 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Tip that will work forever, even when the ones you replace your old idols with get replaced: Don't have any idols.

Listen to the words, don't follow "personalities", don't listen to specific individuals just because of their status. Not a single time have I been disappointed by an idol, because I've made the conscious choice of not having following any. Bunch of smart people say smart stuff all the time, until they don't. I read everything as if I don't know the author, I think more people should do this and less celebrity worship would make the entire ecosystem better. We need less of it, not more.

dylanowen 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I've seen Bryan Cantrill present at a few conferences and his talks are always the best.

throw0101a 3 hours ago | parent [-]

A recent one (2025q4) he gave at Jane Street, "Andreessen’s Folly - The False Dichotomy of Software and Hardware":

* https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v0JjG0Qfwi8

Graziano_M 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Is Jessie Frazelle still there? She is very impressive.

robszumski 4 hours ago | parent [-]

no, but still being super impressive. CEO of a company rebuilding a CAD rendering engine because they put an LLM on top of it. So you describe the mechanical specs of the part you want and it models it. Takes all the tedium out of modeling stuff. Super cool and many applications.

pcl 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Oh cool! That looks like a super interesting product.

https://zoo.dev

panick21_ 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

They had to do CAD while working on Oxide and realized that it sucked. So she went off to solve that.

throwaw12 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Bryan Cantrill