Not just this. I'm linux/macos user since early 2000's and still sometimes hate macos because they have very annoying bugs that are never fixed, and annoying corpo decisions.

E.g. it keeps opening Music app whenever I connect bluetooth earbuds. I can't delete Music app, it just keeps popping up with imbecile message about "user is not logged in" or something. I run a script that monitors that Music.app is running and kills-9 it.

Or blinking desktop background issue, that's been there for years, accumulated many support threads, and still not fixed.

Random services like coreaudiod that suddenly start consuming 100% CPU for no apparent reason.

Macbook throttling (thanks God, gone with M cpu's)

I can keep going but my point is macos has legit problems that can't be simply shrugged off with "they just hold it the wrong way".

Like any other mass product tbh, except rare ideal products like Factorio game or sqlite.

I haven't had that Bluetooth issue (but I haven't tried connecting my non-airpods to my mac).

Have you tried this? I saw it as a fix over on Reddit.

Privacy & Security > Bluetooth > Click the + > Add Music from Applications > Toggle to disabled

(This is insane to have to do, but better than running a script to monitor for it and kill it)