| ▲ | Taek 3 hours ago | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Childhood is only half of subjective life if you stagnate as an adult. If you keep changing your routine, you'll find each year has just as much subjective experience as the previous. Start a company in an industry where you have no experience. Move to a country where nobody speaks a language you understand. Find a new sport and commit to being a top 0.1% participant (for most sports that don't air regularly on national television, this can be done in a year). If subjective life is speeding up, throw yourself some curve balls. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| ▲ | Loughla 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
You also don't have to do anything extreme. . . If life is moving too fast, then make specific choices to slow down. Take up hiking or camping. Do things with your family if that's a valid option for you. Turn your phone off. Be mindful of your body and emotions. Lots of small things that can help you slow down a little. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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| ▲ | steveBK123 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Right its a weird take for me too. Childhood was fun sure, but you were stuck in a time/place not of your choosing, with others making many/most decisions for you. As an adult, especially a well paid SWE like many on HN.. you can create the life, make the decisions and have the experiences that you want. Your life is as vibrant as you choose it to be. Much of the stuff I used to read about or watch on TV as a precocious child.. I can just go buy/see/do with the agency & money I have as an adult. Sure you have a 9-5 (or 8-6, or 7-7) job but you used to go to school and after school activities all day as a kid probably too. It’s your choice to do something or nothing with your hours of free time after work and weekends. Small children in the picture adds additional time constraints, but should also bring additional vividness/subjective time experience to your life. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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| ▲ | bombcar 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Amusingly enough, one of the easiest way to serve yourself curveballs is to have children of your own. You then are no longer in control of your house, schedule, or really much. And you have someone to cheer on. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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