| ▲ | foogazi a day ago | |
What if it’s an article for self-determined people ? Or meant to plant a seed of thought in someone’s mind ? > I can’t lose ten extra hours every week away from seeing my family I hope you find the time to make it work for you. And , I don’t want to assume but so have found “I can’t” attitudes don’t work for effecting change in life. Maybe work on that aspect of your personality. | ||
| ▲ | mathgeek a day ago | parent | next [-] | |
> And , I don’t want to assume but so have found “I can’t” attitudes don’t work for effecting change in life. I personally subscribe to framing “I can’t” as “I will not”. Then you can view such things as the conscious choices they are. You can also avoid feeling forced to do things just because they are expected of you. E.g. “I can’t give up time with my kids” vs “I will not give up time with my kids”. | ||
| ▲ | snozolli a day ago | parent | prev [-] | |
"Here, drink this Flavor Aid. If you don't like it, it's a personality defect in you." | ||