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▲ andsoitis 2 hours ago

> Even 1:1 conversations between direct managers and colleagues.

You can ask someone to turn it off.

▲boredatoms an hour ago | parent | next [-]

Its often seen as an imposition to do so, so it depends on how the power structure runs if someone is comfortable asking

▲andsoitis 20 minutes ago | parent [-]

You can still ask. If you're too afraid to even do that, then the alternative is to be guarded during the conversation. But you can choose which path to take.

▲maxrmk an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Yes I do this constantly? It has never been an issue.

▲MichaelZuo 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Yeah, if they refuse then that is also a signal about how much they truly value you (and not an insignificant one either).

▲andsoitis 2 hours ago | parent [-]

If someone refuses, then you can frame that it limits candor and vulnerability. If they still prefer to have it on, then you can simply be less open with them.