NVIDIA has been terrible to countless groups over the years(even more than you listed). They survived by being really good. You know who else have been jerks? Every other leading successful tech company (NVIDIA is nothing compared to Microsoft's misdeeds for example). Microsoft still going after 51 years. And now a new generation having never remembered the browser wars have fully embraced Microsoft products like VSCode. Your trip down memory lane reminded me about the numerous 'gamer boycotts' that all failed. There used to be a meme about how people signing a pledge boycotting a title would then be seen 'online' on Steam playing said game. At the end of the day most consumers didn't care. They wanted the best products and NVIDIA more often than not delivered. A company that is super polite to all their customers and partners is a company that will still be dropped the second their products stop delivering the value that customers expect.

Google used to be not jerks, Valve still are. HP - often considered the company that started Silicon Valley - were somewhat famously not jerks for a long time, but that ended decades ago when Hewlett and Packard left.

True. As much as we hate on companies like Microsoft and Nividia, or people like Bill Gates and Elon Musk, it has to be acknowledged that above a certain level, it's a eat-or-be-eaten world, and I'll never reach that level.