Jensen named his wife and family as victims in his apology letter. I see no reason not to believe him. Under what circumstances might a person's spouse not be a victim of the person's extramarital affairs??

If they knew and condoned it, for one. A public apology letter is a face-saving exercise and does not necessarily express the truth.

She might be a victim following the publicity. Or many other reasons, really. I am not saying she is, but in some relationships, what you’re allowed to do and what you’re allowed to let the world know are different things.

He might also feel he needed to do it for many reasons, some more self-serving than others.