I'm sorry but this sounds like nonsense or word salad. If you have a point, state it clearly.

> I think this all boils down to mortality. Other people change slower than you have time for, so on some level you do have to either compromise or make your own changes at the pace you prefer. You can't spend life looking at the rear view mirror and a horizon that never comes.

I strongly suspect this is the part you don't like (especially the last sentence?). I probably should have made this its own paragraph.

People only see what's immediately in front of them, lament what has already happened, or pine for what is basically never going to happen in their lifetime and that's a shame.

With regard to your own situation, I don't know what compelled you to reply if you're not single. It sounds like you're trying to tell us you have it all figured out (and most importantly that whatever I have to say is worth dismissing). It doesn't sound like you're happy about it though.