If *you* have the option, don't be remote fully. The rest will judge for ourselves.

I see this over and over again. Those who want to work from office don't just want that for themselves, they want to force it on the rest of us.

And the explanations are always: "I have ADHD so I need someone to force discipline on me" or "My coworkers are the only ones I have to socialise with".

I really really want to treat these people with compassion and empathy but let's face it: these people force long commutes and a workplace that's full of distractions on the rest of us who don't have trouble being self-disciplined at home with a quiet place to do focused work.

Seriously! I don’t like being in office more than 1-2 days a week and even then, I’d rather 3-4 days a month. WFH is superior (for my work and temperament) in every way.