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▲ ionwake 3 hours ago

I feel uncomfortable asking in a thread like this but why would a CEO talk about his private life publically?

I know others have said this is a carefully written statement, but in my culture I would feel it would be rude not to keep it private? Sorry if this sounds autistic.

▲ethanj8011 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Mainly because the person he was having the affair with was a customer of the company and because they are reported to have possibly been a spy for the Chinese government. All of these things have a direct impact on the confidence of employees.

▲nonfamous 3 hours ago | parent [-]

I’d imagine as with most big companies having a relationship with a customer is a big HR violation. So at least that aspect would have to be addressed.

▲antonymoose 2 hours ago | parent [-]

I’ve seen founders fired and their equity forefeit for such conduct. This being a 20M / ARR firm.

Perhaps this is a too big to fail scenario?

▲golly_ned an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-]

No one here is getting it right.

It's because the woman is a member of the PRC, and it's being made into a national security issue, regardless of whether he announces it or not.

The strategic thing is for him to come forward first.

▲peeters 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

There are some things shareholders have to legitimately reckon with, that warrant a statement:

- Is this person susceptible to blackmail from the secrets they're keeping?

- Has this person performed a notable breach of trust?

- Has this person displayed a notable lack of judgement?

Even when the alleged misconduct is private, #1 is of particular concern. Airing it out is an obvious way to lessen that specific concern. The allegations here raise the other concerns too, however.

▲hoppp 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I agree that cheating or not their private life is theirs, I'm not interested in their family drama.

However if he cheated with a chinese spy then he was targeted by China and that raises this to a national security risk.

▲elorant 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

So that no one can extort him in private. Same happened with Bezos when his phone was hacked. He was the one who came forward to speak about what was shared by his phone.

▲ChrisMarshallNY 3 hours ago | parent [-]

If I remember, the perpetrators were determined to be the Saudis. I don't remember the reason, but they had an axe to grind.

I never got to (or wanted to) see the images, but, by all reports, he ... er ... had nothing to be ashamed of.

▲peri-cl 2 hours ago | parent [-]

> "I don't remember the reason, but they had an axe to grind."

Technically, it was a saw. The Saudi King was mad at Bezos because of a column in the Washington Post (which Bezos had purchased).

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2020/jan/21/amazon-bo...

> "Saudi experts – dissidents and analysts – told the Guardian they believed Bezos was probably targeted because of his ownership of the Post and its coverage of Saudi Arabia. Khashoggi’s critical columns about Mohammed bin Salman and his campaign of repression against activists and intellectuals rankled the crown prince and his inner circle."

▲ChrisMarshallNY 2 hours ago | parent [-]

That's right. Khashoggi wrote for the WP.

▲m10i 20 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> why would a CEO talk about his private life publically?

Because it's already public. This is called "getting ahead of/seizing the narrative"

▲yeeetz 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

it's a public company, he's ceo, large implications for stock movements, corporate strategy, volatility if it goes to us govt intervention, divorce court, etc

▲barbacoa 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

It's being reported that the girl he was involved with was spying for China and this was some kind of honey pot operation.

▲vigilantpuma 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

*woman

▲Conscat 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

To be clear, she is an adult woman.

▲m10i 17 minutes ago | parent [-]

That should already be clear. Otherwise "was involved with" would not be an appropriate/applicable term.

▲jacquesm an hour ago | parent | prev [-]

Unlike some other Americans Huang seems to at least have a preference for people who are no longer minors, also, using 'girl' robs the woman of agency.

▲wrexx0r 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

It seems to be a combination of things First off, hhe person he was having an affair with has ties to Chinese Spy agencies (not sure the ties, but either way, not a great look for someone trying to be deeply involved with America's government)

It also sounds like it was known something was going on with foreign agencies and Jensen, do this puts it out in the open and clears the air.

Lastly, if anyone was trying to use the affair as leverage over him, the best way to break the leverage is to just come out and spill the tea yourself (so to speak)

▲urams 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Because he got honey potted by a CCP spy which specifically puts himself and Nvidia at risk.

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▲bluegatty 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

He's forced to - he would not make the statement unless he had to come clean with it.

▲Brybry 2 hours ago | parent [-]

Indeed, he lied and said he only had a normal business relationship until further media and government scrutiny forced him to admit it.

> “Our relationship, our interactions, have been related to Megaspeed, and it was all completely normal and not unusual,” [1]

[1] https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2026-10-29/nvidia-ce... => https://archive.li/ljGPF#selection-1731.0-1731.119

▲vigilantpuma 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I could see how it’s rude for a CEO to be bringing up his affairs, but how is it rude to address public revelations?

▲hackernud3s 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

He's kicking off a redemption tour. The world will now decide if his tone is sincere enough, and how long it should take to forgive him.

Not long I suspect, we don't expect much from tech CEOs. Nobody even remembers when Bezos cheated on his wife.

▲pimeys 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

We'll get a kind of a "Gone Girl" moment but with geopolitics.

▲ahartmetz 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

I guess no one noticed because they all looked the same. I imagine Bezos in the wife store like "Oh yeah, I like exactly that look. Gimme another one of these!"

Everyone has some preferred types, but same body, different person is pretty creepy.

▲glitchbot 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Because the purpose was to get leverage, and Intel. Once she couldn't gather passive Intel, they would use the affair as blackmail, ole school is the best school.

▲TheAlchemist 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Generally speaking, it's normal to keep it private.

Unless the CEO happens to be the CEO of what is considered one of the most important company for national security and future, and his private life involves somebody who appears to be a spy for the biggest competitor for world hegemony. Then it's kind of big deal for everybody.

▲xhevahir 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Because there's a question whether this woman is working covertly for a country that's known to do a lot of industrial espionage.

▲Keyframe 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I wrote in another thread here, this is extremely serious:

Bedding an adversarial entity's agent in a regulated field is a serious matter (for the company) with potentially serious consequences. It can lead to executive decapitation, it can even lead to / criminal investigations if the operative bypassed export controls using executive proximity.. the fallout can be great and widespread.

It can also be a nothingburger and an amusing page six divorce story in the end where we all read how rich cry as well. Time will tell. What's telling of where this might lead and how serious it is, is that it was US federal government that warned about this.

▲octoberfranklin an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-]

To cut off the possibility of blackmail. At personal great cost, of course.

That's the real reason that this affair is a problem. It made him blackmailable.

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▲butternet 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

In this instance the two have become linked due to his choices, hence the need to explain.

▲bradlys 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

When we give individuals the same power as people in highest legal positions of power - they deserve immense scrutiny.

Jensen is as powerful as any politician, if not more so. Same with Elon, etc.

If you don't want that then get rid of the ability for such individuals to amass so much power.

▲umeshunni 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

The person he has an affair with turned out to be a Chinese spy and he's being investigated by the government for this.

▲RetardedBastard 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

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▲gfrttttttq 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

I swear this is a bot. I refuse to believe it's not a bot. It has to be a bot.