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▲ wkjagt 18 hours ago

Not sure if I'd call it narcissism, but whenever I hear about friends of mine (mostly friends of friends to be fair) going to Japan after they'd just gone on a cruise to Antarctica, and the trek through the Alps is also already planned, it makes me feel uneasy, but I can't quite put my finger on why. I've always felt uneasy around people that spend so much money on themselves and their own pleasures.

▲jebarker 16 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Would you be less uneasy if those people earned less money or gave more money away?

▲wkjagt 15 hours ago | parent [-]

I'm unsure why I feel uneasy, but I guess I'd be less uneasy when someone has a lot of money and they spend it on things that others can enjoy too. That's just me though, I'm not trying to influence what people do with their money.

▲Symbiote 16 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

What do you, or friends you are not uneasy around, spend your money on?

▲wkjagt 15 hours ago | parent [-]

I give away a lot, or buy people things I know they'd enjoy. I feel bad spending a lot on myself if I know other people need it more. Or maybe it's a selfish thing to make me feel less bad when I do spend on myself.