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▲ tombert a day ago

Man this is antithetical to how I live my life. I complain all the time and over-explain everything.

▲chistev a day ago | parent | next [-]

Do you think it has affected your life negatively, the complaining?

▲tombert 10 hours ago | parent [-]

Probably. I have been trying to be at least a bit more discriminating about what I complain about now. Even if the quantity of complaints is roughly the same, I at least try and direct it more towards things that deserve the complaints more.

I do think there's value in saying things that are bothering you early on, so I'm not going to say that complaining is inherently "bad", but I will acknowledge that frequent complaining (especially to the wrong people) can lead to a lot of unhappiness and dissatisfaction with your life.

I don't think over-explaining everything has negatively affected my life though.

▲robotuprising a day ago | parent | prev [-]

Let me guess, you are a german ?

▲tombert 10 hours ago | parent [-]

I guess that's my ethnic group, but I don't really consider myself "German", given that I've only ever lived in the United States. I just consider myself "American".