> I don't know how to fix this.

(imo)

1. Small social like Discord, WhatsApp / facebook groups, Bandcamp (I was recently invited to a topical group there).

I have some designs for something like ATProto by fully permissioned and focused on small social modalities. I'm not interested in platforms with globalness, reposts/quotes, or blocking (fence sitting this one tbh)

2. Spending more time offline, with people in real life, then taking those social dynamics and interaction patterns back to online ones. We are currently doing the opposite as a society.

s/Bandcamp/Basecamp/