> Your new hairdo comes into question because we trusted you to look good, which is why we wanted to be around you, and you violated that trust.

No, you're not describing the problem @nyeah explained in their comment.

If you really want to torture your hairdo analogy into describing the problem, here's what it would look like:

You cut hair for people, take photographs of their hairdos, and put them up in the newspaper ads for your salon. Now your ads are suddenly showing photos of people who used to go to your salon, with Photoshopped hairdos and forged haircut dates. Your ex-customers are upset.