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▲ kleiba2 5 hours ago

It's kind of strange that our existence has come down to working in an often unfulfilling job almost all of our waking time, and only finding fulfillment when you're out of a job.

▲jareklupinski 4 hours ago | parent | next [-]

> Took a month off with my friends to feel a normal life again. Wild how you need to make the time to spend all the time that you need.

Anamanaguchi - "Buckwild"

▲zabriel_goss 4 hours ago | parent [-]

Great group, great new direction for their music

▲vconnor 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

But I keep being told that all jobs suck and I'm being silly seeking fulfilment at the place I spend 70% of my waking hours.

EDIT: in fact these days, people make fun of me because I sought fulfilment in my career as a whole, and it’s my fault now that I’m depressed that it’s gone. I’ve come across this snarky comment more than a couple times on this forum.

▲zoeysmithe 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Isnt this the human condition and fundamental to our species and everything about us? People in the past weren't fulfilled doing back-breaking farm labor or out hunting all day hoping to catch a meal and knowing if you don't catch a meal a few days in a row you'll be too weak to catch anymore.

Ignoring art with patrons which is a tiny percent of all art made, people just did things at home quietly. They painted, drew, told stories, knit, crocheted, etc. Even patron-led artists just made what their patrons wanted, namely all the famous religious art, which I imagine felt like unfulfilling work anyway.

What we like, that is to say gets things like our dopamine flowing, tends to tie in well with the idea of not being compelled to do it. Someone writing copy at work to further enrich the capital owning class and to pay their bills is very different than someone writing short stories in the evening after work.

▲LargeKakapo 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

I would say that past “jobs” had more of a sense of accomplishment and agency. Personally I have never felt the same level of accomplishment from building things that directly improved the quality of my house, hunting with my father when it was required to help maintain ecological balance (too many deer or elk can actually be bad for an ecosystem), or directly contribute to my family/community in some way.

Now my days largely consist of navigating a “game of thrones” political landscape where work means less than it ever has. The sense of agency I once coveted now feels like a distant memory in some ways.

But to be fair this is probably something that people experienced in many different ages of humanity.

▲mcmcmc an hour ago | parent [-]

> I have never felt the same level of accomplishment from building things that directly improved the quality of my house, hunting with my father when it was required to help maintain ecological balance (too many deer or elk can actually be bad for an ecosystem), or directly contribute to my family/community in some way.

This is because you were already meeting the base of your pyramid of needs. If you were building shelter because you had none, or hunting for subsistence, it’s considerably less enjoyable. Success means you live another day, failure means suffering. Self actualization is not a concern in those scenarios.

▲yoyohello13 26 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-]

You don't think spending the days with your family, hunting/growing food to feed that family would be fulfilling?

Obviously I don't know the answers, and there were obviously tons of day-to-day stressors that sucked, but I'm not so sure it's a given that people of the past did not find life fulfilling/meaningful.

▲Vaushite 25 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-]

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▲10111001 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

>> It's kind of strange that our existence has come down to working in an often unfulfilling job almost all of our waking time, and only finding fulfillment when you're out of a job.

> Isnt this the human condition and fundamental to our species and everything about us? People in the past weren't fulfilled doing back-breaking farm labor or out hunting all day hoping to catch a meal and knowing if you don't catch a meal a few days in a row you'll be too weak to catch anymore.

No. I think if you go far enough into the past, the "jobs" were fun and enjoyable. As technology has progressed, many jobs have gotten farther and farther from what we were meant to do.

And AI isn't going to help. The best case scenario is it replaces work with purposeless entertainments and ennui. The more likely case it that it removes fulfilling work from human hands, leaving more space for unfulfilling work and poverty (because capitalist logic CANNOT be questioned, or you're a heretic who should be burned at the stake).

▲jryle70 2 hours ago | parent | next [-]

> I think if you go far enough into the past, the "jobs" were fun and enjoyable

Which jobs specifically were fun and enjoyable and during which period? What is the evidence for that?

▲almost_usual 2 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Maybe the jobs themselves were not enjoyable physically but the satisfaction of a day’s work was.

Many jobs also improved your fitness unless you were injured. Anything manual required more aerobic capacity and strength hence making you more fit.

Modern people are sleep deprived, weak, and aerobically deficient unless they spend time outside of work focusing on these things. We simply aren’t meant to sit around all day staring at a screen only to then sit and drive a car.

I’d argue modern life is much more comfortable but counterintuitively there is a constant discomfort that is chronic because of it.

Another way to think about this is that humans are meant to suffer everyday. If you are not forcing it through physical exertion it slowly leaks and if it is not exhausted it is constant.

▲10111001 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

> Which jobs specifically were fun and enjoyable and during which period? What is the evidence for that?

If you go back to hunter-gather times, I'm sure human physiology and motivation was much better suited to the kinds of jobs people had to do to survive. A lot of those things (hunting, gathering (e.g. mushrooms), gardening) are still things people do for fun now.

And it just makes logical sense to evolve to like to do the things you need to do to survive, and we had evolutionary-long timescales to do that (unlike things like code-reviewing LLM PRs).

▲arjie 2 hours ago | parent [-]

This life is still available in the least civilized parts of the world. And unfortunately it comes with all the other problems of that time: your children will die, other tribes will occasionally kill you, and you need to stay on the move to escape enemies as well as seek food.

For my part, there is a huge price I’m willing to pay to be able to drink water out of my tap. I didn’t have this always and I really value it.

▲Vaushite 24 minutes ago | parent [-]

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▲zoeysmithe 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

People look at Athens and Rome as some ideal. Labor there was mostly slaves. I don't think we fully appreciate how burdensome labor is and how that's the main motivation for people to offload it to the working class and make themselves the capital owning class. The American dream is being the boss or independently wealthy investor, not the best math teacher in your town.

▲derektank 44 minutes ago | parent [-]

Owning capital means off-loading my labor to capital investments i.e. machines. I don’t see how that is any less noble than seeking to be a math teacher. In fact, once I’ve accrued enough capital (save enough in my 401k and retire), I have some plans to go into teaching, just as my 7th grade science teacher did after he retired as a chemical engineer.

▲christkv 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I mean is this not most of human existence through history though? A very small part of the world has the luxury of enjoying their job.

▲zkry 2 hours ago | parent | next [-]

I think one could make the case that the human life lived during pre-agriculture was one which matched the evolution of our biological organism.

So this is kind of a pedantic point, but 95% of our history is us doing things exactly as we evolved to do. I don't doubt either that hunting must have been a very engaging activity, especially when done as a clan or tribe.

▲rglover 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

> I mean is this not most of human existence through history though?

That's not a good thing. It means we're failing to progress as a species. If we keep repeating history (with now, unfettered access to it), we're devolving, not evolving.

▲christkv an hour ago | parent [-]

I don't know if someone is able to "enjoy" their work in general that is on top of a pyramide of people who probably don't enjoy their job.

▲bijowo1676 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

its a sign that we the people, are being severely exploited of our labor, and extractive institutions are sucking out everything out of our life.

next time when its uprising, there shall be no mercy whatsoever to the exploiter class

▲whynotminot an hour ago | parent | next [-]

Every once in a while I feel this -- "yeah we're being exploited!"

And then I remember that basic living has always had a cost to be paid. I doubt the first hunter gatherers sat around wondering if they were fulfilled. They just had a more immediate sight-line from their labor to their actual living costs.

Most of us here work well-paid jobs that allow us to pay our requirements and still have disposable income to enjoy our lives. But work we must; homes aren't free and neither is food and much of the entertainment we enjoy.

I don't feel particularly exploited. I fear if you do whatever menacing thing you're insinuating you want to do to the "exploiter class" then my job will go away and much of my lifestyle with it. Not sure that's a good outcome for anyone, really.

▲taurath 34 minutes ago | parent | next [-]

Homes aren't free, but many people here have parents for which one of them worked a single job out of high school and were able to provide food and shelter, buy a home, take vacations, etc for an entire family and they weren't in the top 5% of income. They weren't expected to be always online and available out of work hours either.

A little bit of historical knowledge, a little bit of reading statistics of wealth inequality currently being about the same level as France before the French revolution. A little bit of looking around and doing the math for what a schoolteacher, or someone earning the median income has to do to survive right now, and maybe you can develop a bit of empathy.

We are at a historical apex of economic exploitation in the US, where we have a trillionaire preaching about the dangers of empathy while giving billions to politicians to ensure he is never taxed or his companies regulated. We are the sons and daughters with far less security, working harder for longer and for less than our parents. We have more gadgets but far less peace or leisure or time to take care of our neighbors.

▲whynotminot 13 minutes ago | parent [-]

I think I have plenty of empathy. I just don't yearn for the guillotine for anyone, even our most wealthy, though I do support reforms to make them pay more, and allow the average working person to better afford life's necessities.

My point was that this all feels a bit rich on a forum with mostly well todo software engineers. You are not an exploited victim if you are making a high income working a white collar job in a comfortable glass tower, and the worst thing that ever happens to you is the occasional off-hour page.

▲soulofmischief 42 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Do you realize how much money some people are making out of this racket while spending billions to convince you that socialized healthcare is the devil's work?

▲whynotminot 22 minutes ago | parent [-]

You're right, my full-throated endorsement of the US healthcare system went too far.

Wait a second-- I didn't do that at all.

▲soulofmischief 18 minutes ago | parent [-]

I didn't claim that you did, reread my comment.

▲Vaushite 22 minutes ago | parent | prev [-]

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▲mcmcmc an hour ago | parent | prev [-]

Or is it a sign that life has an inherent cost that must be paid, and without the extractive institutions we’d spend our time scrabbling in the dirt attempting to grow our own food and sewing clothes together with dried grass and hides

▲bijowo1676 34 minutes ago | parent [-]

paid to whom? we can always kill our way out of unjust institutions, like it always happened in the past

▲mcmcmc 19 minutes ago | parent | next [-]

Literally your body, it needs calories to burn. TINSTAFL

▲lurk2 19 minutes ago | parent | prev [-]

> we can always kill our way out of unjust institutions

lol

lmao