I am concerned for my self hosted servers, well only hope is tailscale should be entirely secure, and egress is filtered heavily... If that doesn't work my home lab is fucked.

Any suggestions folks, not even my terminally online self can handle all of these.

Yup just going through the anxiety here. I even self-host my personal e-mail! This is not going to end well.

I recently jammed all my stuff behind Tailscale. I sure hope that doesn't burn me.

But it's a lot better than having things live on the open internet!

Also looking at those old C++ services a whole lot differently now.

as a fellow self-hoster, this is a rough time to be us