> Yes, we talked about it, I explained to her what I was going to do, and she said she didn't mind. She doesn't work in tech, but we talk quite a lot about it, and she understands the implications.

Respectfully, that is how one talks about their pet or their kid but not their partner.

But this is not my beer, but by god this platform.

I don't see anything wrong at all with how OP approached this with their spouse.

What?