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▲ coldtea an hour ago

What's the qualifier for "so" (in "so emotionally invested")? Did someone measure it and it's beyond the healthy range?

Parent is just passionate about the quality, or decline, of the tools he spend a good chunk of money of, and spends hours each day doing professional work with.

▲andsoitis an hour ago | parent [-]

> Did someone measure it and it's beyond the healthy range?

The person I responded to self-identified as an "Apple fanbitch". Now they categorically say "Screw Apple."

That seems like a pretty emotional attachment swinging from one extreme to another. Attachment will cause you pain.

▲Haunt1000 35 minutes ago | parent | next [-]

Everyone is different and we shouldn't judge them.

▲andsoitis 12 minutes ago | parent [-]

Offering advice to reduce pain != judging.

▲Razengan 42 minutes ago | parent | prev [-]

Not having any attachment or inability to feel pain ain't good either.

And it's not a swing: it happens over years. Discontent built up by a thousand small cuts.

Things failing when you need them the most, so often that it makes you reflexively afraid the next time you think about trying it.

▲andsoitis 20 minutes ago | parent [-]

To calibrate, we're talking about an OpenGL bug in pre-release software.