No there's no complexity behind monads except laziness and anti math circle jerk.

It's really basic concepts, much easier than the analysis you do in high school.

But people would rather sit through monad as boxes or burritos cringe tutorials.

Your math explanation starts with a math concept that the vast, vast, vast majority of people will have never even heard of, even in math-adjacent fields. It's not anti-math reasoning. It's a lack of self-awareness that your background is very math heavy, which makes that particular explanation make sense to you. I've gone my entire schooling, as a student who was always one of the few who were "good at math", all the the way through my CS education, without ever having heard of a functor until I came across the Haskell monad explanation meme.

Your next step could be to blame the school systems if you want, but that doesn't help the situation at hand.

FWIW I dropped out of high school to pursue programming more directly. I regret it now because of the job market crash, but it's also too late for me to go back.