> Who said metrics?

Their parent comment did¹, as did the parent to that one² (i.e. you, who used the word “metric” twice), which is the top of the chain. So, in essence, everyone in the immediate conversation “said metrics”.

> Implying that anyone who disagrees with you is empty

That’s not what they did at all. You’re choosing that interpretation, you can choose a kinder one.

¹ https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=50108576

² https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=50108489

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karahime 3 hours ago | parent [-]

Fine, I said metric in the original comment when I could have said basis or notion or perspective. But I don't think my interpretation is the unkind one, here. They wrote "it's impossible for them to fathom anything spiritually richer", and I don't think it's unfair to characterize that as accusing others of being empty.

	▲	latexr 2 hours ago \| parent [-]
		> I don't think it's unfair to characterize that as accusing others of But you initially said: > Implying that anyone who disagrees with you That’s what I think is incorrect about your interpretation. “The majority of people in this field” and “anyone who disagrees with me” are wildly different statements. When they say “most tech people”, that could even include themselves¹ or close friends and family². Because crucially, none of us is one single thing, and we’re not a single thing all the time. Like, you can have an uncle who you feel is unimaginative and old-fashioned and crude but that you still believe tries to be a good person even if you disagree with them on how to go about it. That’s what I mean when I say you could choose a kinder interpretation. And hey, I’m not perfect either, I have had my fair share of misinterpretations. But that’s exactly why I’m saying this to you right now, in the end we should help each other to come back to kindness. Maybe the person you responded to was trying to be rude, but I think there’s enough leeway to believe they were not, and that you can be happier if you take the comment in the best way. Have a nice weekend. Genuinely. ¹ Sure, unlikely, though not impossible. ² Not that unlikely anymore.