| ▲ | roncesvalles 9 hours ago | |||||||
I love being asked "what made you go into that line of work?" because I can answer with "mostly the money" (which is a very honest answer yet socially somewhat inappropriate), and their reaction to my answer immediately gives me a signal into whether we're going to be close or not. Some people act so shocked when you tell them you did something because it would make you richer and not because an angel came to you in a dream and whispered in your ear to save the disenfranchised underclass (and all the cats) by writing code, or whatever's the current faux na pas reason to pursue a vocation these days. | ||||||||
| ▲ | ZenoArrows 5 hours ago | parent | next [-] | |||||||
I think the reason they act that way is because you're signaling to them that you dislike your job. Which is fine, but ideally you'd find some gratification in it that isn't just monetary, since it's what you spend most of your time doing. Money can only compensate so much for a shitty job. | ||||||||
| ▲ | dimaaan 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |||||||
I respect the honesty. Curious, though: would you say that in a job interview too? | ||||||||
| ||||||||
| ▲ | gn_200826 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | |||||||
One of the best signals I found for whether I will enjoy my conversation with someone is if they commit a small social faux pas | ||||||||