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| ▲ | criddell an hour ago | parent | next [-] |
| > Their story may be interesting, but their person is not. What do you mean by that? What's the difference between a person and their story? |
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| ▲ | master-lincoln 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| that's subjective and not worth discussing much if you do not specify what makes a person interesting for you |
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| ▲ | t-3 an hour ago | parent [-] | | I don't really know. Why do we get along with some people but not others? There's probably a definable reason but it's not usually a conciously-reasoned thing that can be easily specified or classified. |
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| ▲ | weatherlite 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| > Most people are completely and utterly uninteresting How do we even define interesting ? Like interesting opinions/hobbies? Good storyteller ? Who cares about that. I do need to like you and you need to be an agreeable person imo, but no having a real unique life or opinions is really not that necessary imo. Having a sense of humor is a big plus to me though. |
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| ▲ | inSumErgoCogito 42 minutes ago | parent | prev [-] |
| Because people expect another person to be a amusement park- a show. They are not. They are a information processing system- often not even fully self-aware of the information their subconcious weaves into complex ideas. Surveilance and reflection does not improve that performance or allows to reproduce it. It instead produces distraction. This is why you can not "interview" innovative or creative people- and only get a flat "imposter" image of the creative person. The observation hinders the process and all you get is basically the "house keeping" routines- weaving together some plausible stories, on how a "idea" came to be. The true process is a walk in the mountains. Some scribbled notes. Glued together during some conversation on a similar topic with friends. I always found it fascinating, how the "iterrators" can dismiss something/someone that clearly works- just because they can not dissect and reproduce it. |