A lot of people are convinced of things without ever trying, which they then use to justify not trying.

"I mildly attempted doing this once and it didn't work, so I won't bother trying again" describes a shocking amount of people's experiences.

I sometimes think people fail on purpose to justify apathy or giving up.

Then if anyone says anything they scream about how their experience is valid and nobody can tell them otherwise. It's wild.

There's something important about being outside our comfort zones. We need entropy in our lives and the best way to accomplish that is being in new environments with different people/creatures. What I've found is over time my comfort zone expands as I become familiar with more stuff.

The flip side to this is thinking everyone is on equal footing and that your trying is the same as their trying. They're just doing it wrong.

Most people in this post's comments that are "not trying" seem to also be depressed in some way. If you've never experienced it, depression can make trying impossible not just a minor inconvenience. Going to therapy can help, or not. Taking anti-depressants can help, or not.

Also a "mild attempt at doing this once" that ends very poorly can cause a depressed or anxious person to spiral into a self-hatred looping hellscape. It's not a rational decision they're making it just happens. After you've experienced that you're very cautious and try to never feel it again.

And then the kicker is when you're paralyzed like this everyone just thinks you're lazy or unmotivated and pretty much tells you "don't be depressed stupid" which further sends you into having a poor outlook of yourself and it spirals from there. I've been in and out of this several times in my life, it's not pleasant. I've also tried every single remedy known to man and sometimes nothing works.

To put it simply: their experience is probably valid and nobody should tell them otherwise.