> First, an upper bound would be more useful to understand BB.

you can't have upper bound without breaking Turing and solving halting problem

> But second, out of all large numbers, does this one give any information? The fact in itself is useless.

yes, it gives info of "OMG BIG NUMBER I KNOW ABOUT, THAT'S SO COOL" quality, like all the rest of recreational mathematics :)

Graham's number is simply a nice checkpoint that invites everyone to learn more about function hierarchies

> you can't have upper bound without breaking Turing and solving halting problem

Not in general, no. But for a fixed n, you can. For example, people have settled the exact value of BB(5).