Remix.run Logo
▲ CoastalCoder an hour ago

> staying up late rocks. its the funnest. why would i give that up? just to pay attention better at work? no thanks.

You may eventually find yourself in a situation where the tradeoff is worth it.

E.g., you have a family to feed, and your ability hold a well-paying job hinges on your performance.

▲theshackleford an hour ago | parent | next [-]

> E.g., you have a family to feed, and your ability hold a well-paying job hinges on your performance.

I can do all of these things anyway. Of course, this does present the potential reality that were I able to sleep like people, I could be even more successful, but after a near death experience, then disability, I've learned to be happy with where I am.

▲alterom an hour ago | parent | prev [-]

There's only one little problem with that reasoning, my friend...

sigh

ADHD PEOPLE ARE NOT MOTIVATED BY REWARD[1]

We literally can't do the things we want and need to do [2].

We know full well the trade-off is worth it. It's just that we can't have it.

Sincerely,

--an AuDHDer

[1] https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3010326/

[2] https://add.org/demand-avoidance/