To be crystal clear in case there is confusion, we should also not confuse "everything is a shade of gray," with "all grays are the same shade."

We can still have moral good and bad, even subjective good and bad, without reducing everything to one or the other or placing everything in a non-existent moral center. Far too often a sliver of good is given equal weight to a enormous lot of bad. We should be ready to cut the cord far sooner than we do in practice.