Agreed agreed.

During my time in the space, my pithy saying about the system I worked on [1] was that we could scale up or down. If you wanted to do streaming packet filtering with microsecond latency, we could do that. If you wanted to do complex analytics on structured data, we could do that. We did have deployments that "scaled down" and were more stream processing rather than streaming analytics. But analytics is by far the dominant use case, and SQL and relational databases are the better abstraction there. And for the stream processing cases, folks tend to stick to their existing lower-level stacks.

[1] I worked on IBM Streams, https://www.ibm.com/docs/en/streams/4.3.0?topic=welcome-intr..., which had its own language, compiler and runtime system. IBM sold this technology in 2023: https://21cs.com/en/resources/articles/2023/10/10/21cs-acqui....