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Aurornis 4 hours ago

> I have in essence deleted the vast majority of my social media accounts years ago, but stayed a passive and rather anonymous consumer on Reddit, X and YouTube

Most of the people I’ve known who struggled with doomscrolling had established a similar set of social media sites at their worst point.

I think we’ve seen so many articles about how social media is bad that reference mainstream sites like Facebook and Instagram that it feels safer to retreat to sites like Reddit

Yet the most doomer, anxious, and cynical people I’ve known who got stuck in social media doom spirals were getting it primarily from Reddit, often with a helping of YouTube, X, or Twitch streamers on the side.

They would be convinced that they were “off of social media” because they didn’t consider those sites among the bad ones, but they’d open their phones or laptops and feed streams of doom straight into their brains for hours every day.

Cutting the cord on those sites was a good move if you realized you were having problems with social media. They’re not typically grouped into “social media” by people who create narrow definitions of what that means (profile picture, real names, etc) but those distinctions mean nothing for doom scrolling. When it comes to the doom part of doom scrolling, Reddit especially can be even worse than traditional social media. The content popular on that site is almost designed to fill you with dread and doom and depression.

dd8601fn 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

I have a predisposition for that, and Reddit is indeed poison for some of us. I blocked it with pihole, along with most other social media sites, years ago.

Just the friction of a dns record (that yes, I can easily override) was enough to keep myself away from all of it.

And when I need the rare bit of practical information from one of them, I can hit the 5m override from a widget on the phone.

It’s ultimately self control, but that’s easy for me when there’s just a tiny bit of hassle in the loop.

mrweasel an hour ago | parent [-]

PiHole was my solution as well, and then Reddit decided to help. The "new" Reddit interface is still horrible and unusable, so old.reddit.com was always my go to. I don't have or want a Reddit account, I just wanted to follow a few sub-reddits. Now old.reddit.com is blocked for users without an account and they appear to be rolling out something similar to the site in general. You can see a few posts, and the a pop-up appears and requires you to sign in.

Maybe I'm just getting old, but I used to enjoy Imgur and Reddit, but both "communities" have become increasingly hostile and less inclusive. So now I avoid both and I mentally feel much more positive about people in general.

Seattle3503 32 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I'm a frequent Reddit user. Recently they have been bringing some of the more poisonous elements of social media over to their platform. Pushing a "for you" feed, and prioritizing a "Best" sorting algorithm over "new" or "hot".

weird-eye-issue 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

X is honestly among the worst of the worst. People give purposefully bad takes just for the engagement and it's overall super toxic

Reddit is awful too, completely accurate things can get downvoted to oblivion because of the hive mind

YouTube is still overall decent but mostly brainrot I habitually watch/listen to in the background to such a high degree it's hard to even imagine completely cutting it out of my life

esskay 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

I'm mostly passive on reddit these days but really struggle to leave it as I do enjoy seeing things like cool projects people are making on /r/selfhosting and such. Every time I think of leaving it I just think well I cant because where will i find out about cool new projects now.

dd8601fn 3 hours ago | parent [-]

I know it’s not the same but I watch stuff like hackaday and others with an rss reader, now. Old school approach. It helps jail the types of content I passively consume. I blocked reddit and most other social media with the pihole I was using anyway.

After having been away from Reddit for a couple years now, I think it was a good trade. But obviously that’s a very personal thing.

tmikaeld 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I’m on X for tech interest, new hardware, robotics, coding. If X didn’t allow blocking words/phrases, I could not use it! And yes, my blocklist is huge..

wartywhoa23 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

X also actively mocks you. I'm strongly anti-AI, and it would fill my whole feed with AI evangelist crap and viral AI PR ragebait.

But it's good, it made me quit the motherfucker.

Still hanging on to HN, its weaker doppelganger, though :)

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KoftaBob 14 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> downvoted to oblivion because of the hive mind

Not just the hivemind, Reddit has been thoroughly astroturfed for a long time now. The vast majority of large subreddits have at least 1-2 mods who stifle/amplify discourse in the service of companies, think tanks, and certain Levantine pariah nations.

techpression 3 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

LinkedIn is up there too, the reality distortion and appearance of everyone being a self made trillionaire can make the strongest of minds feel like they’re utter failures. It’s of course not true and 90% seem to be pure bullshit, but who has time to investigate ever thought leader post they get shoved in their face

Lagoon3384_SWE 35 minutes ago | parent | prev [-]

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