I agree with this.

My ever optimistic self would fail and fail and fail, create a system, fail, create another system, fail, .... at seemingly easy things.

As soon as I had a rational reason for otherwise inexplicable challenges, enormous amounts of stress evaporated.

Now I know what things are a lost cause: So I get help, delegate, find another way. Being bad at something, and recognizing it, is not the same as failing.