| ▲ | asdfman123 a day ago | |||||||||||||
If you're interested in what helped me overcome the worst aspects of my internet addiction, I learned to reframe it. I wasn't overcome with addiction, but I was CHOOSING to take a break. There are good reasons to read the news, there are good reasons to take breaks. End the war against yourself and take more wholesome breaks, so your subconscious doesn't take over and force them. It may involve forcing yourself to be more realistic about what you can do in a given time period, but that's a good thing ultimately. I know it sounds like a minor change but the whole game is putting your life back in your own control. When you find yourself binging, say "I am choosing to do this," even if you don't immediately log off. Just observe your own choices as a first step. Another tip: when you're craving a hit of the internet, ask yourself "can I wait 5 minutes before checking my phone?" If you can't, no big deal. But if you do this enough time you build up the self discipline muscle. | ||||||||||||||
| ▲ | foobarbecue a day ago | parent | next [-] | |||||||||||||
Forcing a short delay is such a powerful technique. I use this when I'm at risk of binging a show. If I'm tempted to let Netflix continue into the next episode, I say "ok maybe, but let's get up and do something else for a few minutes first and see if I still want to" and before I know it I'm building a robot instead. | ||||||||||||||
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| ▲ | Loquebantur 21 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |||||||||||||
Not bad, but leaves out crucial steps? "I chose to do this" puts the blame at your own feet without telling you how to deal with it constructively. That can lead to learned helplessness. Contemplation has the goal of a reassessment of evaluation. The choice needs to be re-evaluated as inferior to better alternatives. Those need to be explicitly identified. In order to do this, you need to know what led to your choice emotionally. The other side of the coin is the intentional design of many internet sites to exploit human psychology. News for example are "infotainment", "fear-porn" and "rage-bait", etc. by design and override many "self-discipline" mechanisms. The internet isolates people while feeding them a simulacra of social interaction without actual social functionality. Objective truth in particular isn't reliably established by "watching the news", that's merely top-down conditioning by whoever owns your "news". Finding objective truth is an active process, not a passive event. | ||||||||||||||
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| ▲ | Biologist123 20 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |||||||||||||
Thanks - useful to think about as I try and wean myself off the novel information highs. I’ve been consciously aware of the problematic aspect of my behavior since about the pandemic - but struggle to make much change. | ||||||||||||||
| ▲ | JustinJoshi a day ago | parent | prev [-] | |||||||||||||
Super hard agree with this | ||||||||||||||