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otterley 21 hours ago

The language is clear and unambiguous, and is intended to set a floor for the caliber and quality of discussion here. If 30% of comments here are equally bad, that means it’s not enforced as well as it could be. It doesn’t mean we’re intentionally lowering the standards.

My intent when I made that statement was not how you interpreted it. Its people genuinely impress me. And besides, what if I could work for them? Wouldn’t you be happy for me? Why the sour grapes?

As the Guidelines also state (paraphrasing): use the most charitable interpretation of a fellow member’s contributions.

margalabargala 19 hours ago | parent [-]

Well, you certainly didn't use the "most charitable interpretation" of my comment, now did you? Why not assume that I too am as competent as you see yourself and simply also don't want to move to Chicago where Jane Street definitely is? It's a weak person who hides behind rules they don't themselves follow.

Lots of companies manage to impress lots of incompetent, arrogant people. Your initial comment sounded like such a person and mothing you've said since has done anything to disabuse the reader of that. "The rules say you're not supposed to reply with sarcasm! Flagging your comment!" says the person that Jane Street would totally love to hire.

Like I said, you're just annoyed someone is criticizing your arrogance. If you weren't being arrogant, then my initial reply is utterly unobjectionable; it's only unkind or sarcastic in response to the arrogant interpretation of your initial comment, and is inert to the "best possible" interpretation by the rules you don't follow but want others to.

otterley 18 hours ago | parent [-]

facepalm

Way to double down on being a dick, dude.

margalabargala 12 hours ago | parent [-]

Just trying to help you have some self awareness...

Calling me a dick seems to violate the kindness rule you are about so much. Don't the guidelines say you should not comment and move on?

otterley 9 hours ago | parent [-]

> Just trying to help you have some self awareness...

Doctor, heal thyself.

margalabargala 9 hours ago | parent [-]

Sir, one of us has repeatedly brought up the other's alleged violations of guidelines, while repeatedly violating them himself. You are an arrogant hypocrite.

As a sometimes arrogant non-hypocrite who has that self awareness, I feel I am well positioned to help you notice yourself in the mirror.

otterley 9 hours ago | parent [-]

facepalm

https://thenib.com/mister-gotcha/

margalabargala 8 hours ago | parent [-]

Egads, you got me! A half-relevant comic that, when posted, excuses and justifies all hypocrisy by the poster...I want you to know, I'm devastated right now. Just devastated. Gosh, I never would have pointed out your arrogance and rudeness if I knew you possessed such a powerful tool.

otterley 8 hours ago | parent [-]

facepalm

Look, dude. At this point two of your most aggressive comments have been downvoted and killed. That is additional community feedback you should be paying heed to, and it’s clear that you’re just not getting the message. Instead you just keep doubling down.

Take the L and move on. If you think you’re still in the right, show this thread to your spouse (if you have one), parents, manager, and trusted friends who will give you unvarnished feedback, and see what they say.

Consider also that of all the replies to my original comment, yours is the only one that responded with indignity out of a misplaced belief that I was humblebragging.

I’m through with this discussion.

margalabargala 7 hours ago | parent [-]

Right, yes, you immediately flagged and downvoted my first two comments. Well done. If you thought my initial comment was remotely aggressive, I feel sorry for how much stress you must go through each day.

I've encountered an asshole. It doesn't happen often, but it does sometimes happen. I'm sure I'm just one of many assholes you meet