How is it a punishment to that first group? If you like the status quo, there's no impact to you if you just set the DOB to 1/1/1999.

Or are you waiting for some science-fiction proposal that will be completely perfect, which you know will never happen.

> The uninvolved parents won't even be in the room when the age question comes up.

We agree that idiot parents (and therefore their kids) can't be helped. So let's just not even consider them in deciding what to do.